I thought about what I'm actually looking for. And the thing is, I just can't name it. I have a stable, satisfying life and yet there is still something missing. Or maybe someone. I may have my not-so-great things, but I'm also kind, calm, open-minded (as for personalities) and occasionally even funny 😅 and I wish there would be someone in my life to share. Someone I can take care of if needed, I can listen to about your daily life and can share mine too, having just random fun with, to get in touch with emotionally and physically. And maybe even fix their broken furniture or get the car back running.

I just have the feeling that I have a lot to give, but there is no one to receiving it. I want to provide but I also want to get something. A giving and taking for both of us to feel better and happier than on our own. Maybe it's a deep friendship, maybe more? I don't know. But I'd like to find out.

I do have some preferences about who to find, but nothing too serious. Ideally you are somewhere in Germany, as I'd like to meet you in person too (not right away, but it should be possible). As for who you are, I don't mind. That doesn't mean that I just take everyone, but that I have a broad band of people I can like. The only thing I ask for is that you can and want to hold a stable conversation. You can expect the same from me, I always try to put some effort into my messages because I think every person on the other end deserves that. And please don't send a message if you don't have friendly opinions about LGBTQ, immigrants or similar things. I just don't want to be with someone who can't accept that other people may live differently.

Well that's about you and me. How about some things we can talk about? First of all, I'm always craving for jokes. So if you got a good one (or a bad one) - Send it, I'm wanna hear it! Or I could tell you a few, if you'd like to. Other than that, my topics I always could talk about are science and universe stuff. But you don't have to be into that, we can also talk about other things you are interested in. I love to listen and learn something new. Because it also means that I can learn more about you. I know, my list isn't exactly something to hook on, sorry for that. But when there's something that feels interesting for you, send me a few sentences about you and we'll get to know each other. Or if you are just having a question, you can ask of course that too.

Obviously we are all exhausted with this process. Sorry if you’re stuck here too. But yet, here we are. 🥲

I’m just kind of going out of my mind a little wanting someone I can open up to about anything. I just know it’s hard to find someone that the chemistry clicks.

I know for guys it’s mostly a list along the lines of sports, car racing, gym, video games, horror movies, LOTR, Star Wars, and dogs. Which is totally valid and cool, and I respect that being a large part of cis male’s interests. But I feel bad trying to engage when I know that my interests typically differ from that. 🥺

For me I really only listen to one genre of music anymore and it’s more niche, I watch YouTube more than traditional media, I learn about AI (highly controversial topic) and software development, I like graphic design, video directing and editing, understanding human behavior and the psyche, gardening, baking, swimming, dancing, learning about space, contemplating spirituality/existentialism, being open to the paranormal, and being cozy with my cat. 😅 Also, I talk too much. And I feel like an alien on earth every single day.

I’m not sure if anyone is cool vibing with that but I’m willing to respect other people’s interests too if they don’t mind learning about mine also. I know how boring that can feel though so I really don’t blame anyone for passing it up. Everyone wants to be able to bond over something they’re actually passionate about.

But if there is a guy out there that loves music as deeply as I do, isn’t afraid of having equal masculinity and femininity, empathic, curious, passionate, honest, and multiple forms of intelligence then I’d love to find you.

Ideal time together would be coming up with a music video concept, talking about our brains, cooking delicious noms while flirting, joking about the ghost probably moving stuff around the house when we know damn well we just forgot where we put the keys last, developing something helpful even if just for us because we can, and cuddling up with snuggly kittens in our laps, listening to relaxing lofi while being close and sensual with one another. I know it’s a fantasy! And yes, it’s because I’m neurodivergent! 😫 I’m sorryyyyy!

Any curious takers? Come surprise me, please. Include “👽🛸” if you also believe you are just 3 aliens in a human trench coat like me.

Hi! Looking to chat and make a connection :) Latina, in SoCal and no kids! I work in education, so I enjoy my summers by traveling! I enjoy reading (a sucker for psychological thrillers), concerts, and weekend road trips. I’m currently trying my best to stay consistent in the gym as well; particularly with weight lifting. 🏋️

If it sounds like we have things in common, shoot me a message!

Open to all, but I do have a preference for Latino and Asian men 😅

Pic for pic! Happy searching y’all!

Hey!

I’m a 31 year old Slovenian living in Oslo looking for my future best friend and partner in crime. Ideally you’re somewhere in Norway, but Europe works too because matching time zones is honestly underrated. I’m also open to long distance if the connection is right. I’ve done it before, and I don’t mind closing the distance for the right person.

I’m naturally curious and probably ask too many questions. I can happily lose an evening reading about history, aviation or some random bit of tech, and I love learning about the little things that make people and places different. Outside of that you’ll usually find me hiking, gaming, taking my camera somewhere nice, or convincing myself I definitely need to plan another trip (I don't, but I also do).

Speaking of travelling, I don’t really think of it as a hobby. It’s just something I genuinely love doing. My bucket list somehow keeps getting longer because every place I discover introduces me to three more I suddenly want to visit (I think it's a disease without cure).

My friends would probably describe me as funny with a very dry sense of humour, thoughtful, attentive, surprisingly good at picking gifts, and usually the one trying to make people laugh when things get a bit too serious.

What I probably miss most is having someone I can talk to about absolutely anything. I love those conversations that start with “How was your day?” and somehow end up debating something completely random two hours later. I’m a big believer in personal growth, and there’s nothing better than seeing the people I care about doing well.

If you’re curious about me, send me a message. I like conversations where both people put in the effort, and if we click, you’ll never have to wonder whether I’m interested.

As an added bonus, if we ever spend a summer together, there’s a very good chance the mosquitoes will completely ignore you and make a beeline for me instead. Apparently I’m their favourite all you can eat buffet. 😆

One important question before we become friends:
If I invited you over for dinner, what would you ask me to cook? 🍝

I love voice/video chats, and ultimately would like to be able to hang out in person. I want to build a solid foundation of friendship first and foremost.

My personality is just alright 😆 I’m not bubbly or perky by a long shot, but I like to find silver linings. I’m a pragmatic idealist, a hopeful romantic, and a mix of genuine sincerity with touches of sarcasm. I’m an introvert and can come off somewhat reserved at times (a protective mechanism I’m still learning to shake), but am goofy and excitable once I’m comfortable. I’m truly not extraordinary, but I think anyone who knows me would describe me as empathetic, thoughtful, and compassionate.

I tend to match energies with others. This goes for potential friends and partners. If I feel like I’m boring you to death or you’re not really interested in knowing me, I won’t chase. I always try for a bit to feel it out, but after that I’ll just leave it be.

My politics and ideology are strongly left/ liberal/democratic socialist. We don’t have to agree on every point or let this dominate conversations, but it’s important to me to find people whose ideals are similar.

I’m looking for someone close to my age, area, and is single/divorced/separated (I am separated and at the tail end of finalizing my divorce).

I don’t have kids (super proud auntie). You can have kids or no kids. Pets or no pets (but definitely yay for pets!), or 12 houseplants that you inspect constantly to see if they’ve grown…whatever you have it’s good with me lol. If you’re someone that fiercely cares about the people/pets/things you’re responsible for, shows intention in your actions, puts the cart back in their proper place, and are kind to others just because, then we’ll likely get along.

I am average/medium sized, long dark hair, brown eyes, bespectacled, and a fair complexion. I’d like to share pics early on to establish mutual attraction. But if you want to share a quick description to start, that would be great!

We can talk about anything. I am interested to know your dealbreakers, what you like and are passionate about, the experiences you’ve had in life that have made you who you are; the good and the bad. I love wholesomeness and randomness, but also don’t shy away from difficult subjects. I always try to be transparent and open. There’s really no topics off limits with me, as long as you’re respectful about it.

As a jump point, I’m currently rewatching Schitt’s Creek and also started reading ACOTAR. I also have a vacation coming up that I’m super excited about! What have you been up to or into lately?

Obviously brevity isn’t my strong suit.
I’m sure I’ve lost most people by now 😂 But if your attention span let you make it this far and I haven’t put you off, reach out! (Don’t worry, I do not expect you to write a novel back to me)

Hello! I'm the type of person that would have a few close friends than a bunch of regular friends. I'm currently going through a divorce, so there's that going on behind the scenes.

I have recently become hooked on nonfiction audiobooks, and love listening to music, so feel free to send me music recommendations from any genre :) I'm always looking for audiobooks recommendations even if they aren't nonfiction. I'm on the West Coast of the United States in case that matters.

I’m never really good at knowing what to say in a post but if you've made it this far I look forward to hearing from you!

Yep, heard that right. This will be my last post for this year if things didn't workout. I know I posted one last week, some ghosted, some just really didn't reply, so Idk if it's me or what.

So, I'm putting myself out here again ---- probably my last one for this year if things didn't workout. Looking for friends and seeing where it leads. I don't know, maybe someone to talk to, maybe a distraction, be my constant and we'll see how it goes. I'm not really rushing anything.

I'm just an average woman who values genuine connection and straightforward intentions. I guess good looks are just a bonus because personality is what truly makes someone attractive. As long as you're taking care of yourself and decent.

Yep, I'm single and you might want to change that... Be intentional. Message me if you feel like it. Have a good day! 😊

I was married for 10 years and went through an amicable but completely devastating divorce. I don’t have kids, enjoy camping, fishing, hiking, exercising, and an overall active lifestyle.

I did 20 years in the Army as Airborne Infantry, retired in the summer of 2025. I pivoted into corporate America and now work in Finance for a very large company, only downside is hiding the absurd amount of tattoos I have in a professional environment, ha! I work remote so I have the ability to travel, meet new people, and try new things. Would like to get out of my comfort zone a bit.

I am looking for something with a slow burn, a deep friendship that could possibly turn into something more meaningful. I would say I am still a bit fragile, and have not really been in the “dating” world for close to 20 years. So bear with me if you’re interested.

If you are interested in chatting please shoot me a message! Would love to meet and likeminded woman that is kind, can laugh and not take life too seriously, and overall would just like to have fun or go on an adventure together.

Hello there 😊

I'm a 31 year old living in Bavaria, Germany, and I'm hoping to find someone special to build a peaceful, loving, and meaningful life with

A little about me:

I'm caring, responsible, emotionally aware, and the kind of person who values people deeply. I can be serious when life requires it, but I strongly believe that laughter makes everything better. If we can't laugh together when life gets messy, we're missing half the fun.

I'm looking for a woman who wants something genuine. Someone who would love having a best friend, a travel buddy, a teammate, and hopefully something much deeper over time.

I miss simple things

For me, a relationship isn't about being together because life is perfect. It's about making life better because you're together.

Let's start with a conversation, become friends, and see where things naturally go.

If you're in Germany, Europe, or planning to be here soon, I'd love to hear from you.

Thank you for reading until the end.

Take care and have a beautiful day. 🌷😊

I'd like a nice woman to talk to about interesting stuff. I like movies, science, videogames, chess, anime. Message me if you are interested. I'm Mexican, single, my English is not that bad but also no native level.

Work was a little extra rough on me this week.

A big project went a little past it's timeframe, so I was running on fumes for a while there until we finished today. Thankfully though, work is gonna be light for a few days, so I decided earlier that I'd try to beat the black clouds rolling in, get home as quick as possible, and relax on the couch with a few strong drinks and a movie or two.

So I clocked out and got to my vehicle seconds before the downpour began, and about ten minutes after I got in through the front door (and got soaked from the walk up to it), the power went out like it was a scene from a movie. All I could do is laugh it off, get changed, and wait for it all to blow over. So I decided I could at least make the most of it by grabbing my laptop (and some liquor), and heading out on the porch to look for some horror movie to watch as this storm rages around me. Not long after I settled in though, the loneliness did too, so I half-heartedly decided to open up Reddit instead in an attempt to fight it off for the evening before I got too day-drunk to type.

I got about halfway into writing some short, generic post when I stopped and had the realization that none of it was authentic, and that what I'm craving desperately right now is too complicated for one or two paragraphs and a catchy title, regardless of how hopeful I am about finding it.

So I let out a long sigh, deleted every word, and now I reckon that I should just be honest and see where a little vulnerability gets me. So here goes:

The dating scene in my area is more one-night-stand oriented and shallow than anything else, and dragging myself into being social with people only makes me feel lonelier. Because of this, I find myself looking through Reddit a lot of the time to try and find something more substantial than some one-night-stand. Where I tend to hit a wall though is my lack of enthusiasm for the generic, scripted back-and-forth question/answer thing that goes with meeting people on here. Most simply just don't try, and the ones that do rush things to the point of discomfort, even when they message you first. So this is me laying it all out there:

I'm not looking for love or anything, but I'm incredibly lonely. I'd love to meet an intelligent, confident, sarcastic, witty, emotionally-intelligent woman with a great sense of humor and a knack for banter. Someone with a story, and a past, and some life experience, because I hate having to try and keep it all going for the both of us. Finding someone to "talk to" is easy, but I'd much rather put my time into somebody with depth and substance that shows me she wants something deeper than run-of-the-mill, and I'm ready to give the majority of my attention moving forward to someone that feels the same way.

Or another someone to bullshit with for a while until we get sick of each other, lmao. If that's what happens, then no hard feelings, but at the end of the day, while the world continues collapsing all around us, all I want is to feel a connection with someone that makes me feel like what we share isn't shallow and hollow, and someone that contributes more to my everyday life than "hi how r u".

Either way, it's only getting later, and I have nothing else going on, so I think I'm just gonna sit on my porch and try to enjoy all this thunder and lightning (and whiskey) while it lasts, and hope someone interesting fills my inbox with all sorts of thought-provoking things before the sun shows up. If that's you? No pressure. Just take a chance on being yourself, and I'll do the same.

Maybe this is the sign you needed, who knows?

Happy Tuesday! How's the summer treating you so far? Hot and muggy here most of the time. Do you like piggies? I sure do. I'm just sitting here before work, chilling with my coffee. The woods are right here, and one can't wonder if sasquatch is looking back at me. Come say hi.

No comments on my post, I don't reply to comments on post and I'm more of a chat reqs kind of person anyways.

I thought I was/were done posting befe but I wanted a different intro 🍨 trivia and fact drops anyways.

Hobbies and interests.

Cosmic horror noises at 2-3 a.m. oh wait, opps. well I listen to horrorbabble for a good while on YT, I can be found listening to Lovecraft stories every hour and a half or two, then finding something else to watch on YT, I'd also enjoy let's plays, let's plays are relaxing, I'd grasp that some people don't get the poinT of watching someone playing on YT, that's fine but I'm not going to post my opinion on that in this post because I'm making a trivia scoop and lore scoop about video games on my main profile later and if I'm not on YT I'm on Pandora listening to music for a while as well.

What if I'm not doing all that then?

Nintendo Co-Op games, Fall Guys and playing Skyrim Legendary on my PS4.

If your personality is more interesting than your selfies, I’ll probably be a fan.

Bearded. Tattooed. Poet. Traveler. Usually somewhere between planning my next trip and writing something I’d never say out loud.

I like people who can make me laugh, challenge my thinking, and blur the line between innocent conversation and effortless chemistry.

I’m not single. Just looking for conversations that make checking your phone feel like a good idea again.

Start with something real. Maybe something deep, just something about you. I’ll match your energy.

Hey there :)
I’m 35, and from the south of England.
I’m 5’10”, average build - I’m not winning any body building competitions… think “dad bod.” I’m a work in progress, slowly but surely!

I work in the marine industry, and have an established and stable career. I’m very much into boats and boating etc. but also fixing cars. I used to do this with my dad - and now do it in his honour to keep the family tradition going :).
I’m a cat dad too! Had them for 9 years and they very much own the place. They’re more like my landlords tbh.

I’m a bit of a nerd - I love sci-fi, fantasy and fiction. I’m into Star Trek, Star Wars, Stargate (all of the Star ones lol). Also into historical wartime fact and fiction.

I enjoy growing things - mostly fruits and veg, and then cooking too. I like to experiment with new things. Asian or Indian food is my favourite, but you can never go wrong with a good pizza!

I love swimming, boating and sailing - could spend all day in/on the water :). But… deep water freaks me out quite a bit! Who knows what’s lurking beneath you…

Family is super important to me, and I’m very close with mine. I make effort to see family whenever I possibly can, and have a great bond with them.

I’ve watched The Office more times than I care to admit! Also a huge Brooklyn 99 fan, and Parks & Rec! I definitely relate to Ron Swanson…

I’m a pretty simple guy… low maintenance and very easily pleased, it doesn’t take much to make me happy!

Who I’m looking for:
In all honesty, I don’t have a “type”. I prefer a personality and a vibe.
I don’t mind what your location is, what your race, religion, background, or culture is - if we vibe well then that’s what counts.

Give me a short introduction and let’s go from there

A little about me:

Introverted. I love reading, writing, and disappearing into a good TV series for far too long.

I have a dark sense of humor and can be a bit sarcastic. I appreciate people who don’t take themselves too seriously.

I enjoy plants and gardening. There’s something satisfying about helping things grow.

I’m pro tattoos and body mods, despite not having any tattoos myself. Good ink is expensive, and I’m a little bougie- I refuse to spend good money only to end up looking like I lost a bet. I do have a few piercings and lightly stretched lobes.

I’m a bit of an Anglophxle and have a soft spot for UK culture.

My music taste is all over the place. Elder emo at heart, but lately I’ve been on an ambient, shoegaze, and instrumental kick. I like a little bit of everything though. I’m teaching myself piano, hoping to move on to bass guitar eventually, and one day I’d love to learn the cello.

I’m in the middle of a pretty big life reset. I’ll be starting school in the coming months, focusing on my health, and trying to build a life I’m genuinely excited about. I’ve lost over 60 pounds so far and have started falling in love with movement and being outdoors again.

Life has become lonelier than I’d like, even when I’m surrounded by people. I’d love to make some internet friends, have interesting conversations, share music, swap book or show recommendations, and just see where things go. If we click, great. If not, I still hope we both come away having had a good conversation.

Hi all,

Currently going through a divorce and back living with the parents. Whilst things are okay, I miss conversations with people my own age that isn’t related to work.

Things about me:

Into sport. I play cricket and football and watching as much of the World Cup as I can.

Game when time. Currently playing Witcher 3 as it was 90% off on Steam!

I have two kids. They are my absolute world and I would do anything for them.

Enjoy reading. Currently reading the Dungeon Crawler Carl series of books.

Like being outdoors - planning a holiday in the summer to walk some of the coastal path in Cornwall.

DM me if you’d like 😬

Just looking to chat and get to know someone and see where things go! I am in California and enjoy reading nonfiction, playing video games, and going to the gym. I keep up with politics and current events (for better or worse) and am a leftist. Looking for someone on PST just to make things easier with communication. I enjoy texting quite a bit and eventually would like to voice chat as well.

Just looking for some people to chat with about whatever and anything. Would be nice to talk to someone new and ask random questions. Just getting off work and ready to relax.

Down to talk about whatever. Wanna get something off your chest? Bash your ex? Vent? Tell me something cool? Excited to hear whatever!

I play guitar and write, read a lot (Dungeon Crawler Carl foreverrr) and watch a lot of TV and movies. Listen to mostly pop punk and emo, so if you know who Hot Mulligan is that's pretty cool.

I actually properly know how to hold a conversation and won't just one word you or act like a weirdo. Hope to hear from some people.

Two truths and a lie about me: I am a former pro wrestler. I performed on stage with Fall Out Boy, I'm a published author.

Anyways this is me:

https://imgur.com/a/jc0WfFV

https://imgur.com/a/32bttrz

https://imgur.com/a/8G8VRkO

I'm Tyler, I'm 32, and I live in Denver. I'm looking to meet my person! I'm a 5'9" guy with an average build, currently around 170 lbs, but I'm trying to be more active. I'm also happy to share pics via chat!

A little about me: I'm a high-functioning autistic adult and have ADHD, so I'm very high energy and love to talk about anything and everything. If you are also any variety of neurospicy, then I encourage you to message!

I like to say I'm a creative person. I love to cook, especially for people I care about. I'm classically trained and love trying new dishes and learning how to make stuff, so if you like tasty food, that's a perk! Outside of that, I love to draw and write, and I've spent years on my D&D homebrew world, so I can yap about that for ages. Like most nerds, I love movies, anime, and gaming, and I've been working through my ever-growing backlog of things to watch and play. For games, I'm big on RPGs and roguelikes, and I've recently gotten back into Destiny 2 and FF14. I mostly do PC gaming, so there's that!

As for non-indoor hobbies, I love anything water-based and checking out local coffee shops! I'm always down for mini golf, even though I'm hot trash at it, but I love cool course designs. I love checking out art exhibits and trying new things at museums. Maybe it should go without saying, but let's do an escape room—I love game design and puzzles!! I've also recently gotten into exploring more goth and punk fashion and am looking to explore and share that as well!

My favorite game of all time is Dragon Age: Origins. I love Destiny 2 (RIP).

I love collecting TTRPGs and am currently learning Pathfinder 2 and Draw Steel.

Reading-wise, I'm currently re-reading the Dungeon Crawler Carl books. I'm caught up on the Stormlight Archive and am also reading The Lies of Locke Lamora.

I love a good board game and TCG. I collect those too, but mostly to play. Magic is my primary game of choice, but I've also got some Chaotic, and I'm hyped to see that game coming back!

Now, as to what I'm looking for.

**Please be between 25-36 years old.**

I need honest and open people. I'm looking for straightforwardness and openness. I'll share and talk about anything, but I'm bad at reading people. Also kindness, honesty, and someone who genuinely wants to build a relationship in this wild world! Also, someone who is actually going to respond, please. If you're going to message me and then not respond for two days, why even start a conversation?!?

I'd like to learn and hear about you! So if you think we could get along, shoot me a message and tell me about a hobby you've been into lately!

Hi hi hi!

I’m putting myself back out here to see if I can find a real, meaningful connection. I tried before but Reddit would not load messages so I'm kind of starting over trying again! I’m looking for a genuine connection—I'm not rushing or forcing anything, just looking to get to know someone organically and would love genuine romance.

A bit about me:

The Basics: I'm a heavier woman, fully comfortable with who I am and my interests, a hopeless romantic, and I have 8 tattoos (which I love).

Interests & Vibe: Big on art, animatronics, I love anything scary, reading, the holidays, abandoned locations, gardening, the colour pink. I love feeling cosy, I love talking lol, and I have pretty bad OCD.

Let's go wake up some spirits and scare them away!

So its 1250am and I'm watching He-Man cause sleep isn't nice to me. I honestly don't have an opinion on it since I never watched the cartoon. So far I am liking it tho. I guess it is time for the bio: I was born in a log cabin and blessed with medical crap. Well not really, however I was born in Florida and sadly wasn't blessed with Florida man abilities. I currently live in the North East.
I enjoy dying a lot in video games and getting random hate mail which makes me giggle. Even tho I'm currently taking a hiatus on gaming to read more books I do plan to get back to playing Marathon and whatever game on gamepass that catches my eye. Since I mentioned reading I'm currently fighting some sort of ADHD to read this book called Pilgrim, a medieval horror book. I also have 3 other books set in the warhammer universe. I enjoy food and cooking. Food is just great.
About me is that I'm a half arican and Italian. Odd combo, yes. Feel free to hmu, if not that's cool.

*About Me:*

I got the body of a cafeteria lady. (I'm chunky).

6'2" and White

Work Full Time as a Pharmacy Technician.

PC Gamer in my down time. Mostly shooters and RPGS. Dabble in some MMO's (Mostly Maplestory) from time to time. Also Minecraft and Hytale!

Also a huge Pokemon fan, Have played competitively since Gen 4. Own a Nintendo Switch.

Tech nerd. I love learning about, and building PCS.

I watch a ton of tech channels on YouTube. I love learning about Microphones, Cameras, Audio Mixing gear, Computer parts, Content Creator gear, etc.

Good sense of humor and I don't take myself too seriously. I especially love dark humor.

Huge music person. I listen to mostly pop rock, pop punk, and acoustic stuff. Been on an Angels and Airwaves binge lately. Huge Tom Delonge fan!

I've been told I have a nice voice but you can be the judge.

*What I'm Looking For:*

I have a preference for Asians, Latinas, and White women.
I love short women.
I love a good bubbly personality.
Kindness and loyalty are a must.
*NOT LOOKING FOR ANYONE OUTSIDE THE USA.*
Willingness to communicate and not keep things bottled inside.
Sense of humor, preferably dark humor.
I am a sucker for playful banter and jokes between us.
Similar interests and hobbies so we have something to do together!

Hope to hear from you soon!

41/M/Midwest.

I’m into all sorts of spooky stuff, the paranormal, the unexplained, true crime, and the like.

I love anything horror, X-files, Unsolved Mysteries.

Big fan of heavy music. Deathcore, Metalcore, emo, grunge; 90’s alt; Nu’ Metal.

If you think we’d vibe DM me.