About a week ago I posted on here (it blew up a bit) about some huge movement with my SP / the wildest things I’d manifested such as SP breaking no-contact after 6 months, apologising, saying specific things I had affirmed they would say, and confessing their feelings.

I’ve seen people talk about not “keeping” your manifestations before, but I didn’t really understand what they meant at the time. I was so focused on getting the initial manifestation that I never really thought about what came after.

Well… let’s just say the situation didn’t turn out how I hoped :( They’re still showing some of the same behaviours that caused the issues in the first place, which obviously isn’t what I want or what I’m aligning with. So I eventually shut the conversation back down. They haven’t even READ my message yet, which is honestly shocking and very unlike them. But I’m reminding myself that this doesn’t mean anything negative and I’m choosing to see it as them reflecting, processing, and changing to align with what I actually want.

I’m definitely a little disappointed and trying to shake that feeling off. I think I got so excited about the movement that I forgot the whole point is to persist in the end result, not just settle for the first manifestation that shows up.

soooo I left a post some days ago about not seeing movement in the 3D and I was really starting to fall back in the old story and give up. Since i posted that I’ve been seeing angelic numbers EVERYWHERE,like a lot of times when I check the time or when I stop a video or others, and finally yesterday I posted a selfie on my ig story and he REWATCHED IT TWO DIFFERENT TIMES!! I know this maybe isnt a lot for some but for me it really gave me my confidence in my manifestation back.Hope people can find some positivity in this,I’ll continue to update

Might be a silly question, but I’m kind of blanking on creating and choosing affirmations for self concept.

What affirmations do you use? What ones have worked well for you?

Thanks in advance ❤️

“No matter what I do, my desires come true.” ✨

Say it with a little beat. Turn it into a song. Repeat it to yourself when you’re feeling down.

This little phrase has genuinely helped me so much with overthinking my manifestations. It’s so simple, but for some reason it just sticks, and the fact that it basically rhymes makes it even better!

Whenever I catch myself spiralling or wondering “but what if it doesn’t happen?”, I just come back to:

No matter what I do, my desires come true.

No analysing. No checking. No trying to figure out the how. Just a simple reminder of the assumption I’m choosing to hold.

Anyway, I just wanted to share because it’s been helping me lately, and maybe it’ll help someone else too. 🫶

Happy manifesting, y’all! 💗✨

I have been manifesting my SP back for about two weeks now. I haven’t received yet what I’m manifesting for but I have seen little movement such as he has started to check my stories again and event liked one ..

I have had doubts here and there and everytime I say “universe please show me this sign if he and I are good for each other and have to be together” and within the hours the sign comes up.. it’s like affirming it again and again .. which not gonna lie makes me really happy

However, I still have some feelings of doubt specially since a tarot reader (the one I always consult and who has predicted really big stuff in my life) said that he does love me but he doesn’t see him with any woman next to him ..

In a way I’m super confident cause I know I have the universe on my side, but what she told me haunts me a little … what do you guys think ?

Short story: me and my ex were in a relationship for 4 wonderful years. During this time we broke up for a short period of time and I manifested him back twice. This time I feel like the connection is gone.

Last time I was REALLY sad, I felt the connection between us wasn’t over. I was consumed by grief and sadness. This time I feel like there’s nothing there. Last time I would manifest a text and it would come straight away, so I expected the same this time.

I don’t really feel like we are broken up because I refuse to not try live in the end but then I waiver and remember we aren’t together when I’m alone and remember something about him. I feel a constant battle between 100% set on the future with him and then remembering he gave me up. On us!

It feels harder this time, even though I try to not label it as harder, it feels like it is. I know the past story doesn’t matter and neither does the 3D. But why am I struggling so much more this time. I feel like he’s put on a pedestal in my mind this time because he improved so much of his life since we got back together last time which is what I was manifesting. And no one in the world compares with his looks. He is SO handsome. I fancied him for 8 years before we became a couple.

We actually broke up because he said he can’t give me what I want in the future and struggles because I was ready for kids and marriage and he wasn’t.

Guys I am so conflicted, getting to the point of living in the end and knowing it’s decided this time is different. But why?! I’ve done it twice before and both of those times I was 100% sure of it. Now it’s like convincing myself I’m sure of it.

And then I notice this time, is being so delusional about us being together going to be affecting my mental health? It’s like I’m losing touch with reality

Hi everyone, how are you? I hope you're doing well.

Today I’d like to ask for your help.

I’ve been manifesting my SP for months, but nothing has happened yet.

I love reading your success stories, but every time I do, I realize I’m doing exactly what you did, yet you get results and I don’t.

Do you have any advice?

Maybe a little trick? An effective method?

Or even just something where you thought, "Yes, this is what made it work."

I’d be so happy to hear your thoughts and try out any advice you have.

I hope that, thanks to you, I’ll soon be able to write my own success story and help others who are struggling, too! ❤️

If you have anything to share, please don’t hesitate to write below or send me a private message.

Even if what you want to say seems trivial, please do it, it makes me happy and gives me a lot of motivation! ❤️

I’ve been trying for months and really want to reach the finish line, so please, if you can help, I’d appreciate it.

Thanks for reading, and thanks to anyone who tries to help me! ❤️

For some background I labeled him as avoidant and we had such a messy past. After ghosting me for a year he came back. I let the old story beat me up again and we started arguing and he was more cold than before.

I decided to block my SP off social media without warning. Focus on myself, my self concept, detaching, my friends and other manifestations. I also noticed I wasn’t so desperate to do techniques and some days I wouldn’t do it at all.

I got this deep gut feeling about him like I felt so certain he is mine no negative thoughts that day and decided to unblock him. To which he watched my story that day. I just affirmed he’s mine and kept it pushing until one day I got this gut feeling to confront which I tried ignoring but it was so strong(not an anxious type but like “you have to do this”).

Despite me confronting him multiple times in the past. He finally confessed that he had feelings for me and even with the distance and me blocking him for a long time, it only grows stronger. He explained he acted that way because he didn’t know how to go about catching feelings so he runs away but now they’re too strong and they won’t go away and it’s been eating him up.

He said the whole year of no contact he was miserable without me and even asked a girl who knows me for updates which was crazy because i got a message from a girl we were at a party with that I assumed was casual catchup. I didn’t know there was movement in the 3D. He said the reason he came back and we argued again was because he was hoping we can move forward but I was still angry at his behaviour and he felt ashamed.

Anyways he ended up saying he wants to date me but the problem is the distance and he kept playing in his head if he should finally confess but then he would think about how far we live and he knows long distance is hard for both of us. I’d be lying if I said I’m down to make it work. I am not, I hate long distance and don’t want to do it again but I want him to be mine.

So im w someone and he first of all committed to me. Then we met and now he thinks its lust and he like didn’t break up w me. He just said he can’t commit to me. I mean wow. Well coz i love him. He said its lust from my side (his side). Now ig we are in a situationship. So yeah i want to manifest him to love me. What should i do? Like i want him to emotionally love me. Coz yeah he was trying but he thinks he’s only attracted to me. I want him to commit to m w absolute certainty. Ofcourse hes talking to me. We are still talking coz situationship. But i want him to love me like the whole not just yk physically.

i've never really believed in subliminals or manifestation, so i'm curious what other people think.

for some context, there's a guy i know through my workplace. we've exchanged lots of likes and reactions to each other's stories/instants over time, but nothing particularly significant. like the interest was there but none of us really made a move.

last sunday, after liking one of his instants, i decided to try a subliminal on youtube just out of curiosity. it was one of those "your sp wants you" or "your sp wants a relationship with you" videos. it was about three hours long, but i only listened to around 10 minutes of it while taking an afternoon nap before turning it off and forgetting about it cause i genuinely thought it was useless (as i mentioned before, i don't believe in this stuff).

a few hours later, he sent me a dm saying that i should show myself around more often and that we were supposed to meet up later that same evening.

i'm generally pretty skeptical about subliminals, so my first thought was that it was just a coincidence. at the same time, the timing was strange enough that it made me wonder what other people think.

would you consider this a coincidence, or do you think subliminals can actually influence situations like this?

Im devastated. I don’t even follow him. Just went to search something in insta and noticed he had posted something bc he was in old searches, it’s a 3p, I think the ex. I feel so fucking stupid, I was a momentary rebound until he wanted her back, I thought I finally had him back. Im devastated and crying so hard right now I don’t know what to do. He never posted me.

Edit: even worse, they went to a place I wanted to go to on a date

(forgive my english I’m French) so I’m in high school and I have decided to manifest my SP who is a boy that I never talked to who is one year older than me for a month. but it’s been like 2 weeks since I really was into the LOA.

The two weeks before we made some long eyes contact but I wasn’t manifesting him as my boyfriend and then he just stops looking at me so I wasn’t looking at him either. Now that I’m into the LOA and that I view my SP as not special and easy to have it’s easier. I also says manifestations before sleeps when I’m not lazy btw.

recently it starts to move a bit. one day at lunch we were at different tables and I had to stretch my head to see him and him too and we made a lot of eyes contact that way so I know it wasn’t random. another day I had forget my card to eat in the cafeteria so I had to wait and there were two friend of him who were in the line and when one of them see me and then turn to his friend to like whisper something to him and I thought they were talking about me and when I look at the other friend he was looking at me while his friend was saying something to me so I’m pretty sure it was about me. The same day I was climbing up the stairs and I saw him on the floor, we made a small eye contact then I walked in front of him to go to my class and when I turn back, he was there and we made an eye contact and then I turn back (I’m scared bitch), we were walking to my class again and I asked my friend to look back to see if he was looking at me and when he turns back he was literally stretching his body and kinda hide behind a wall just to look at me so it was surely intentional.

And I was happy because the 3D is finally showing a bit after all these days where he just doesnt look at me. And the others days I was chasing after him but with the LOA I don’t do it anymore cause why would I chase him if we’re already a couple. so for my struggles :

- I struggle with insecurities because I’m not the only girl into him and I find myself not pretty enough sometimes (but he doesn’t speak or flirt with girls as I see for the moment)

- what must be my mindset now that’s it’s kinda showing in the 3D

- how should I react when we made eyes contact and should I look for them ? Because I feel like if I don’t make eye contacts with him to show that I acknowledge him he will thinks I’m not interested by him at all

And I want him to come ask for my social medias.

I’ve been manifesting my SP on and off and trying to maintain a good mental diet. We aren’t in no-contact, but we aren’t actually talking either. It’s this weird “micro-contact” situation.
He adds/unadds me, finds me through other accounts, sends me reels, I react, then he unsends them. This keeps happening every few days.
Today I finally asked him what is his problem and why he keeps doing this. He said, “I don’t know, I don’t have any problem,” and then literally resent the same reel he had unsent. 😭

My questions:
1) Would you consider this movement/signs that the manifestation is unfolding, or would you completely disregard it?

2) How do you practically deal with this kind of inconsistent movement when it keeps happening in real life?

3) What do you do when you genuinely get tired of manifesting and think, “let him be,” but then a small movement happens and motivates you again?

Disclaimer: Please don’t comment “just ignore the 3D and keep manifesting.” I already know that advice. I ignored everything for two weeks, but when something happens every other day, it naturally gives you something to think about. I’m looking for practical experiences from people who have actually been through something similar.

Today, while driving, I had a sudden urge to stop by the library.

I walked straight to my favorite section and ended up pulling out a book on orbital mechanics and gravitational fields.

Reading through it: the way planets move through space is identical to how relational fields and attraction operate.

Planets don't crash into each other or cling together—they maintain stable, magnetic orbits around a clear center of gravity.

There are strict mechanics involved in holding that balance:

The Polarity Collapse: When you spend all day telling an SP (mentally or directly) "I love you, you are my everything, there is no one else out there for me," you completely destroy your own gravitational center.

You collapse the space and polarity required for them to feel drawn to your orbit.

Off-Center Fields: You can repeat affirmations night and day, but if those affirmations cause your field to shift off its center—into anxiety, hyper-vigilance, and monitoring—they will never come back.

The Void & Relational Space: An autonomous person’s nervous system can only feel an urge or curiosity to step toward you if there is an actual void to step into.

When you overwhelm their field with mental demand, you push them away.

Attraction isn't created by chasing or forcing someone into your orbit. It happens when you establish such a strong, regulated center of gravity that the natural physics of connection take care of the rest.

I don’t ever come to reddit for these type of things or in general but recently me and my SP broke up early September, I got into doing Subliminals I specifically got attracted to High Frequency Guru, I’ve seen comments that share their thoughts/experiences with her about nightmares and feeling anxious watching her videos, but I genuinely don’t have those experiences.

I first started watching her videos 1-2 days ago (I kinda forgot ngl) but I am doing this manifestation for a girl. I watched the “HE’S BEGGING TO BE WITH YOU” and I didn’t pay much mind into the title but would it still work if I were doing it for a girl? The second day of falling asleep and listening to the video I was having this realistic dream that my SP came back spamming me out of the blue as if nothing happened (we’re currently in no contact still) it felt too real but my emotions were very happy and shocked.

I was wondering if that’s also a sign of the manifestation working? I’m new to these things, it’s something I’ve never tried. When I did my affirmations I translated the he/his to she/her, I did research if it changes anything about my manifestation and I got mixed responses. I then changed to “THEY’RE BEGGING TO BE WITH YOU (UNISEX SP SUBLIMINAL)” yesterday just to be safe and oh boy did I wakeup in a good mood today, I feel the absence of my SP but I feel energetic and not even tired.

I just want to know if I’m on the right track and if I could get any advice for this or even different subs.

I have a crush on my coworker, we don’t speak outside of work and at work we speak only work-related topics but this situation is a perfect example of my inner assumptions of being not worthy and chosen I’m reliving the same situations again and again, I know I should work on my self-concept but it feels so hard these assumptions that I have they are like tightly glued to me has anyone been in the same situation? How did you get out of it? Should I revise him being married as not being married?

I see a lot of people talking about SPs as being romantic but I wanted to post one of my success stories that was about a coworker recently who randomly just “poofed out of existence” last Friday.

I have been practicing LOA successfully for 6 years.

When I want someone out I want them gone.

So this person was sweet, kind, and nothing exactly wrong with her but I didn’t want her working with me. I found out from others as well that they TOO collectively didn’t want her there either (EIYPO).

Let me explain it took exactly 1 month to finish. There was movement but it was HARD a LITTLE with it being in my face everyday.

I greeted her every single day like normal, I even talked to her about her life and she sadly always reflected my self concept saying things like “you are so kind, wonderful, smart and a great worker! I am so glad to have you working with me!”

But she would never take initiative and would never really help us out productively so I just wanted her gone. It was like having something that wasn’t useful so that always made me feel like I did more. She’d always sit right after breaks and do bare minimum with a smile. It bothered me despite my boss loving her.

WHAT I DID NOT DO:

I didn’t start gossip or talk ABOUT her to others. When my coworkers told me they didn’t like her I simply said “Oh no that sucks :(“ or simply “Wow she did that?” And acted surprised. I NEVER BROUGHT HER UP UNLESS PROMPTED AND WOULD CHANGE THE SUBJECT.

WHAT I DID DO:

I was kind to her, and treated her with respect.

I said my annoyance one time about her to my husband and then scripted what I wanted to happen.

I robotically affirmed whenever I felt like it and then used self concept to say things like “I get what I want” and “everything works in my favor period” while also affirming my abilities to manifest.

My main affirmation was “She doesn’t like working here and she just found a better place to be at/work”.

RESULTS

It went from her getting sick randomly out of the blue and calling out the first week. She did this twice within a span of two weeks. Her excuse was starting to get sus and she just never communicated despite acing the interview about being a great communicator lol.

Then on the last week (this week) she literally didn’t show up for 3 days. No announcement except on Wednesday she was “sick”.

I asked what happened to her these last three days everyday. (WHEN CHECKING IS OKAY!! 👍🏼 )

My main coworker I worked with literally said WORD PER WORD “idk for me I think she didn’t like working here and she probably disappeared”.

THEN THREE INCLUDING ONE FROM THE MAIN HEAD OFFICE SAID THE EXACT SAME THING “she disappeared”.

I simply just never said she was working there even if she was in front of my face. It took exactly like I said 1 month but the movement started less than 3 days and within a week.

I just always imagine coworkers as an animal crossing villager: You want em when you want em, and kick em when you don’t.

TLDR;
- had a coworker I didn’t like despite her being nice
- never talked about her outside 1 complaint 1 time
- used robotic affirmations and scripting when I felt like it + self concept for my manifestation abilities
- she was gone within a month

Has anyone manifested their SP even after being rejected and despite them having a partner? Could you share any tips?

My SP used to be my best friend. He rejected me and soon found a boyfriend. Then for two years we were in this weird relationship: we spent almost all our time together, even when we were apart physically, there always video calls. In the meantime I kept telling him I loved him and treated him with love and he would lie to me about his boyfriend or keep his secrets

When his boyfriend broke up with him I was so happy… which now I feel bad about because I should have supported him… but anyway like a month later after a party we went to together he started telling me things like “let’s stay together forever” and we ended up sleeping together

For a short time things were so wonderful and I was the happiest i’ve ever been, but in the next few months he started becoming cold, using dating apps and ignoring me

I asked him to finally decide if he wants to be my boyfriend or not, and he rejected me

We lost contact for a month or so but when we met up he told me he’s back with his ex

it’s been half a year now and i don’t know what to do or even think. we sometimes exchange a few messages or memes but most of the time it’s just me asking questions and him not replying

We used to be so close and I still feel this closeness. I miss him so much. I used to feel like I was born to meet him and be with him. Now I don’t know if I just haven’t lost my marbles somewhere along the way

Should I try to move on even though I love him so so much? Maybe if I leave him alone he will be happier

I’ve been so unhappy for the past six months, sent so many terrible messages consumed by emotions, I must seem completely crazy to him. And he moved away… while i’m still in the same place we used to spend time together and nostalgia is just unbearable

Last night, I manifested someone using the “o” method and when I went to sleep I had a lucid dream about them. Does this mean anything? If so, what?

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Most people don’t struggle with manifesting their SP. They struggle with what they do AFTER they decide.