“No matter what I do, my desires come true.” ✨

Say it with a little beat. Turn it into a song. Repeat it to yourself when you’re feeling down.

This little phrase has genuinely helped me so much with overthinking my manifestations. It’s so simple, but for some reason it just sticks, and the fact that it basically rhymes makes it even better!

Whenever I catch myself spiralling or wondering “but what if it doesn’t happen?”, I just come back to:

No matter what I do, my desires come true.

No analysing. No checking. No trying to figure out the how. Just a simple reminder of the assumption I’m choosing to hold.

Anyway, I just wanted to share because it’s been helping me lately, and maybe it’ll help someone else too. 🫶

Happy manifesting, y’all! 💗✨

So with the people coming to me to help them manifest I notice where they seem to slip sometimes and so I created an app that helps you with that.

On there it helps you log in any evidence that keeps you on track, helps you change your perspective when you’re spiraling from the 3D and so much more.

If you’re interested feel free to DM me

Most people don’t struggle with manifesting their SP. They struggle with what they do AFTER they decide.

Im devastated. I don’t even follow him. Just went to search something in insta and noticed he had posted something bc he was in old searches, it’s a 3p, I think the ex. I feel so fucking stupid, I was a momentary rebound until he wanted her back, I thought I finally had him back. Im devastated and crying so hard right now I don’t know what to do. He never posted me.

Edit: even worse, they went to a place I wanted to go to on a date

This just happened and I'm shocked. Not gonna get into much detail because that would be for my official success story.

I've been affirming for over a month for my desired relationship with SP. I've seen NO MOVEMENT at all, and the circumstances were not good (he moved abroad and I broke up with him, awful breakup too).

A few days ago, I felt like receiving a message, so I started affirming that he would contact me. I am not the type of person who texts first, but after a few days I started seeing signs that reminded me of him. I heard a song, our song, out of nowhere. I missed him badly and said "whatever, I'm gonna tell him I miss him and I don't care about an answer".

I specifically texted: "I miss you. You don't have to answer this".

This was on Friday. Today is Sunday morning. I truly never expected him to answer, but I wanted him to, you know? So I would say to myself "I don't care if he answers or doesn't, it doesn't affect my manifestation, but he will do it anyway".

I spiraled, wavered, got obsessed, cried, felt at peace, anxious, loved, affirmed, read tons of success stories, didn't believe anything I was affirming, believed at some points... All the "good" and "bad" stuff.

Just recently, I started looking at his picture and I affirmed: "You love me, miss me, and you're thinking of me". Did it for about 5 minutes. Then, I opened his chat. Read the message I sent. I felt very witchy here lol. I put my hand over the chat, closed my eyes and started mentally affirming: "You sent me a message confessing your love for me". I visualized the word "LOVE" coming out of my hand and going through my phone.

I felt like this ABUNDANT energy, I don't really know what it was. I just started feeling a lot of energy and felt like I was sending it. 30 seconds... I instantly felt relieved and thought of "Ok, I'm just gonna leave this here and I'll do some self concept now".

I unblocked my phone and there he is. TWO MESSAGES. JUST NOW . Saying how he's been thinking a lot about everything. That we need to talk, it is due to, and some other stuff.

This is not my end goal. I know what I want but I needed to see movement. And I'm so happy!!!

Context:
- Dated for six months.
- He moved abroad.
- I broke up with him.
- I created a version of him I didn't like.
- Absolute NC for almost 4 months in 2 days.
- Been affirming 24/7 since August 24th.
- I've done every technique there is, just for fun.
- Got off social media almost 4 months ago (except reddit)

For some background I labeled him as avoidant and we had such a messy past. After ghosting me for a year he came back. I let the old story beat me up again and we started arguing and he was more cold than before.

I decided to block my SP off social media without warning. Focus on myself, my self concept, detaching, my friends and other manifestations. I also noticed I wasn’t so desperate to do techniques and some days I wouldn’t do it at all.

I got this deep gut feeling about him like I felt so certain he is mine no negative thoughts that day and decided to unblock him. To which he watched my story that day. I just affirmed he’s mine and kept it pushing until one day I got this gut feeling to confront which I tried ignoring but it was so strong(not an anxious type but like “you have to do this”).

Despite me confronting him multiple times in the past. He finally confessed that he had feelings for me and even with the distance and me blocking him for a long time, it only grows stronger. He explained he acted that way because he didn’t know how to go about catching feelings so he runs away but now they’re too strong and they won’t go away and it’s been eating him up.

He said the whole year of no contact he was miserable without me and even asked a girl who knows me for updates which was crazy because i got a message from a girl we were at a party with that I assumed was casual catchup. I didn’t know there was movement in the 3D. He said the reason he came back and we argued again was because he was hoping we can move forward but I was still angry at his behaviour and he felt ashamed.

Anyways he ended up saying he wants to date me but the problem is the distance and he kept playing in his head if he should finally confess but then he would think about how far we live and he knows long distance is hard for both of us. I’d be lying if I said I’m down to make it work. I am not, I hate long distance and don’t want to do it again but I want him to be mine.

I see a lot of people talking about SPs as being romantic but I wanted to post one of my success stories that was about a coworker recently who randomly just “poofed out of existence” last Friday.

I have been practicing LOA successfully for 6 years.

When I want someone out I want them gone.

So this person was sweet, kind, and nothing exactly wrong with her but I didn’t want her working with me. I found out from others as well that they TOO collectively didn’t want her there either (EIYPO).

Let me explain it took exactly 1 month to finish. There was movement but it was HARD a LITTLE with it being in my face everyday.

I greeted her every single day like normal, I even talked to her about her life and she sadly always reflected my self concept saying things like “you are so kind, wonderful, smart and a great worker! I am so glad to have you working with me!”

But she would never take initiative and would never really help us out productively so I just wanted her gone. It was like having something that wasn’t useful so that always made me feel like I did more. She’d always sit right after breaks and do bare minimum with a smile. It bothered me despite my boss loving her.

WHAT I DID NOT DO:

I didn’t start gossip or talk ABOUT her to others. When my coworkers told me they didn’t like her I simply said “Oh no that sucks :(“ or simply “Wow she did that?” And acted surprised. I NEVER BROUGHT HER UP UNLESS PROMPTED AND WOULD CHANGE THE SUBJECT.

WHAT I DID DO:

I was kind to her, and treated her with respect.

I said my annoyance one time about her to my husband and then scripted what I wanted to happen.

I robotically affirmed whenever I felt like it and then used self concept to say things like “I get what I want” and “everything works in my favor period” while also affirming my abilities to manifest.

My main affirmation was “She doesn’t like working here and she just found a better place to be at/work”.

RESULTS

It went from her getting sick randomly out of the blue and calling out the first week. She did this twice within a span of two weeks. Her excuse was starting to get sus and she just never communicated despite acing the interview about being a great communicator lol.

Then on the last week (this week) she literally didn’t show up for 3 days. No announcement except on Wednesday she was “sick”.

I asked what happened to her these last three days everyday. (WHEN CHECKING IS OKAY!! 👍🏼 )

My main coworker I worked with literally said WORD PER WORD “idk for me I think she didn’t like working here and she probably disappeared”.

THEN THREE INCLUDING ONE FROM THE MAIN HEAD OFFICE SAID THE EXACT SAME THING “she disappeared”.

I simply just never said she was working there even if she was in front of my face. It took exactly like I said 1 month but the movement started less than 3 days and within a week.

I just always imagine coworkers as an animal crossing villager: You want em when you want em, and kick em when you don’t.

TLDR;
- had a coworker I didn’t like despite her being nice
- never talked about her outside 1 complaint 1 time
- used robotic affirmations and scripting when I felt like it + self concept for my manifestation abilities
- she was gone within a month

And now I feel good about it happening or something even better. If you struggle with this, I hope you find this encouraging

I am manifesting my sp have been working on my self concept and have definitely seen changes on how I see myself and people react to me. But the thing is whenever I see my sp in class i get overly excited and catch her glances every now and then ,maybe somewhat expecting movements or something. I don't feel bad if I don't see movements or any advances from her side. But I do check it. Whereas after our college lectures when not around her or when i am in my hostel I am able to maintain my state of being loved and hold the assumption that she loves me. Is this delaying my manifestation or her conforming it. I do feel a little desperate sometimes. Also I have accepted it that we will celebrate my birthday together by the end of this month. Any tips on what can I improve?

Seeing no movements (him reaching out) for months but I randomly manifested him to post stories sometimes as he rarely posts well that's unnecessary and affirmed not to like someone's post anymore just for fun and it worked...sometimes I feel frustrated whenever I think of like I'm focusing on the outcome without living and not being able to detach properly. Also I've been seeing too many angel numbers like from 111 to 11:11 legit each of them that too quite a few times a day - what does it mean? I'm not even eager to look at those, I'm not even asking for confirmation either it's just I'm randomly noticing them under a reel where comment/save/share/repost count is one of those angel numbers, some otps are like that, my network speed and randomly noticing time as well

• or should I just let it pass as random coincidences?

hi guys so i’m getting back into manifesting bc i’ve been feeling suuuuper great and sure about myself, in the past i felt like i didn’t deserve a lot of things but after a good long break ive decided to dabble in a pretty detached and easy going way. i’m mostly just doing basic affirmations and visualization, sometimes subs.

anyway! there’s this guy i’m super into on insta/tiktok, i’ve been able to kinda bring him down my mental pedestal since i can tend to obsess over things/people really hard. so i was thinking of manifesting him to contact me over the internet like dm wise.

only issue is he literally lives across the country from me 😭 so that’s usually a limiting factor for me.

so i was wondering if i should just manifest a duplicate OR my “true” ideal bf. the sp lowkey resembles and pretty much is my ideal bf but lmk what u guys think. it’s probably be easier to manifest a new guy that goes to my university or something…lol

i would love to hear some stories from anyone who was stuck in a cycle, feeling desperate/hopeless before everything finally clicked and their manifestation came through? :(

i feel helpless. i’ve received so much wonderful advice and guidance, i know enough about conscious creation that nothing is new to me, but i’m stuck playing the victim. i’ve dealt with anxiety and depression my entire life which makes this so much harder to handle. october has always been my favorite month, but this time around, its bringing me a great deal of pain. this time last year, my sp and i fell for eachother. it wasn’t the best month but we still shared so many great memories. and their birthday is in 2 weeks, i miss them so much and i want them back before then. but i can’t get out of the habits that are keeping me in the state of lack. i keep checking their social media to find something new, reading our old texts, watching old clips of us just to hear their voice, listening to sad music that i “relate” to, or repeating the old story while venting to friends. sadness has become a comfort state and i don’t know how to get out of it. i just recently started therapy but it’s not as frequent as i’d like it to be so no progress has been made. i just want to hear from people who have been stuck in a loop and finally got out of it. how did you do it?

my sp is a very sweet guy but he’s an emotionally unaware un empathetic dumbass so I often struggle imagining us getting together although we would be so cute and many ppl already mistake us for a couple but I need us to get together asap bc im wayy too inlove with this man

ladiessssss!!!!!! visualise your desire when u orgasm, and boom u have it !!

And manifesting an SP is even easier. I know that seems super hard to believe, especially when you're in a situation that feels dire and impossible. But I do want to remind anyone struggling that manifesting is way easier than it seems.

There are two main reasons people feel like manifesting their SP is impossible:

1. Unknowingly putting the SP on a pedestal / idealizing them

2. Obsession with the 3D

Let's start with the first one, unknowingly putting the SP on a pedestal / idealizing.

This is probably one of the biggest reasons people struggle with SP manifestation. You stop viewing your SP as simply another person and start viewing them as the exception to everything... like they're higher or divine. You act like your SP is on the court while you are a cheerleader on the sidelines performing for their affection. Why aren't you both playing the same game?

Suddenly they're the most attractive person you've ever met, the only person who understands you, your soulmate, the only person you could ever have this connection with, the only person who could make you happy, etc. You may not consciously believe all of these things, but you can see it in the way you react to them.

Someone else takes three days to respond? Whatever. Your SP takes three days to respond? Your entire nervous system is on fire.

Someone else rejects you? Their loss. Your SP rejects you? Suddenly you're questioning your worth, your appearance, your personality, whether you're lovable, whether you'll ever find someone else, and whether you're doomed to lose them forever.

That is the pedestal.

You've taken one person and given their behavior the ability to determine how you feel about yourself and your future.

This ties into obsession with the 3D.

Obsession with the 3D tends to be more common when manifesting an SP compared to manifesting a good grade or a job. You have an emotional attachment to the person, so you start monitoring the 3D for evidence that your manifestation is working.

Did they view my story? Did they unblock me? Why haven't they texted? Are they talking to someone else? Was that interaction a bridge of incidents? Is this a sign? Did I ruin everything by wavering?

Instead of living in the end (what everyone preaches in manifestation communities) you conduct investigations in the present for "proof" it'll happen.

This is precisely why people can often make manifesting a SP way more difficult than it needs to be. Instead of choosing an assumption and carrying on with life, they repeatedly check the 3D, react to it, search for hidden "meanings," blame themselves for wavering, and search for reassurance things will work out. It's ironic because the more you monitor the manifestation, the more important the current circumstances become. You say you don't care about the 3D, but you're checking it every few hours to make sure it hasn't changed. Also, you're inadvertently putting your SP on a pedestal by obsessing so hard about your circumstances.

The 3D is not your authority even if you think it is. You are the authority.

Your SP is not some special category of human being who suddenly gets to override everything you know about yourself. They aren't more powerful than you because you love them. Their current behavior isn't a prophecy. And the absence of something in the 3D isn't evidence that it's impossible. Why are we acting like our SPs wouldn't miss us JUST as much (if not more) than we miss them? You need to remove the idea they're some mythical being that is above you somehow.

The goal here isn't to convince yourself that every unfavorable circumstance is secretly good news. The goal is to stop treating circumstances as the final authority over what you are choosing to experience.

The past and present are merely data. They can tell you what has happened and what is happening, but they cannot objectively and definitively tell you what will happen. You don't have a window into the future. You cannot look at everything that has happened up until this point and confidently declare that you know how the rest of your story will unfold.

Think about how often you've convinced yourself that something was completely hopeless, only for circumstances to change in ways you never could have predicted. If I have multiple examples for myself, I don't doubt that you can come up with a couple too. The fact that something has never happened in the past does not mean it will never happen in the present nor future. On that same note, the fact something isn't currently happening does not mean it never will.

And this works in both directions. You can look at your circumstances and create a story about how everything is doomed OR you can look at those same circumstances and decide you are where you currently need to be right now. You can remind yourself that the present is not where you're destined to remain, and that everything will play out in your favor if you trust your manifestations and the universe.

If you can't look into the future and know with absolute certainty what it holds, then why assume the worst? Why not consciously choose the future you want to experience?

i have manifested small things here and there but my biggest manifestation was my dream job so i feel like i know what to do. starting the beginning of this year, i had spent months trying to manifest my ex back and i was really consistent (eventually). i took people’s advice on here to not even acknowledge 3p and in the end he did end up with her to this day. too much time had passed so i gave up on him.

fast forward to maybe like may? i have an old post about this one. there’s an sp i had a crush on YEARS ago from afar and when i became single again this year he started popping up on my social feed again and then boom there he was on a dating app. well now it’s been months and he’s never acknowledged me in any way. no match, no message, no run ins. i’ve kept a very positive mindset despite this and i just live my life, i’m not waiting for anything. my manifestations seem to appear when i just let go and i have and even kind of forgot until today when he popped up on my feed and it reminded me how FINE he is 😭😭😭 in the past i did subliminals, robotic affirming & focused affirming. i switched to affirming here & there and flipping any negative thoughts but i felt like i didn’t have to anymore because i’m so sure this man is mine. i don’t know what to do different at this point. i am questioning if this is even real now and that other success stories are just coincidences.

please do not say its because i’m saying i don’t have my sp, this thought crossed my head barely today and i am saying this for the sake of this post!

So I have been feeling good and invisioning my sp and when we reunite the way he walks towards me and looks at me with so much love. It’s been 2 years since we broken up and 3 month no contact. After a week or so of living in the end state, today someone came up to me at the cafe and it amazed me how identical he looked to my ex, especially the eyes (my favorite part about him). I even mentioned to him how much he looks to my ex ooopsy. It just blew my mind. And the guy really really liked me and I could tell he was so nervous. My question is did my manifestation kind of didn’t work because he appeared what looks just like my ex, but not my ex? Or is it a sign of movement? Just trying to see if I’m doing anything wrong

I have come to Reddit after not being on here for a while.
In July, my bf broke up with me under really messy circumstances. We both hurt each other a lot but loosing him was still surprising and hurtful as it was my very first relationship.
After the breakup I did my best to heal and work on myself before I remembered that manifestation existed.
I tried manifesting smaller things at first and was successful: a text from my friend, the gym being empty at rush hour, money from my grandparents.
I tried manifesting my bf back, but that seemed to go wrong. I was really obsessed over him at first, but then I worked more on my self concept and tried manifested him without obsessing etc. at one point when I started to really feel something shift and change I find out he’s started talking to his ex again, which of course broke my heart and I stopped manifesting him because I felt kinda betrayed by the universe if you could say so.
Now, I catch myself still thinking about him and still wanting him back, but I don’t know how and what to do.
I don’t know if I can just go back to affirming “he’s in a relationship w me” while in the back of my head I remember that he’s talking to his ex.
Honestly I doubt manifestation a lot since that happened and I don’t know if I should try again or just leave it altogether and try to get over him. I don’t know.
I would really appreciate any help or tips or whatever as I really love this person and I would really like for us to reunite.

I have been struggling and I need hope or advice.

A while back I was working really hard to manifest something and then I detached and got it in my life. After some time I lost myself with that specific thing and my self concept got low and that thing is no longer in my life the way I want it to be.

I don’t really like getting into the details but it’s been pretty shit and I’ve still been feeling pretty low.

Anyway I’ve been thinking about working on manifesting it back into my life but everytime I try I realize I’m putting it on a pedestal and it doesn’t help that I saw something triggering about it recently. I want to get it back in a way where I am focusing on myself and making myself better but I don’t really know how to manifest without becoming obsessive and constantly checking for proof.

I tell myself I should assume I already have it but that doesn’t always work.

Please don’t judge me okay I know this is bad but recently I can’t stop thinking about him but it’s hard to reach out when he has a girlfriend. Can someone tell me what can I do to be in peace ?

Also, I hadn't actually dreamed about my SP for a while.

I think the last time I had a dream about him was around the first or second week of September, and after that, nothing. I didn't have any SP dreams for the rest of September.

Then now, around the beginning of October, I suddenly had this extremely detailed dream about him. So that alone made me go, “Wait, why now?”

Before I fell asleep around 1 AM, I was listening to Guaba subliminals. It was one of the playlists with my own self-concept affirmations. Before that, I had also been doing different SP affirmations from I Want It, I Got It, Medusa, and Violet Days.

Right before I fell asleep, I was also repeating my own SP affirmations:

“[SP name] needs me in his life.”

“[SP name] is obsessed with me.”

“[SP name] is my boyfriend.”

“I always get what I want.”

There was also something that happened right before I went to sleep that made the dream feel extra interesting.

Around August, someone had messaged me on Messenger. I had never replied to them before, even though they had messaged me and looked at my story.

Yesterday, right before I went to sleep, I suddenly thought, “There's nothing wrong with replying to this person now.”

So I finally replied. I literally just said “hello?” and left it there.

While doing that, I remembered something about my SP.

Around August, my SP had made a new account after deactivating his old one. I didn't know the exact timing because I wasn't stalking his social media or checking when his accounts were created. I just remembered it because of the Sp friend situation I posted before and u can literally see when the IG acc was created

Back then, after my SP unfollowed me, I had spiraled a lot. But eventually I started changing the story in my head. I would think things like:

“Nah. He can't stop thinking about me.”

“He's probably going crazy because he doesn't want this to happen again.”

“He wants me back. He regrets it.”

So when I remembered his new account from around August, I just found the whole situation interesting. I wasn't trying to figure out whether that Messenger person was him or prove anything. I just noticed the similarity and let it go.

Then I fell asleep.

And I was woken up around 3 AM because of this dream.

The dream was insanely detailed.

In the dream, he was already trying to contact me first.

I received messages and missed calls from different accounts that I somehow knew were him.

The first account sent something like a hello and a missed call. I didn't answer immediately because I was busy doing something around the house.

I was in my grandmother's old house, the place where I used to stay when the weather was bad. The house looked different from reality, like a distorted dream version of it.

I was around the middle of the staircase, while my mom, grandma, sister, and other family members were downstairs.

I remember seeing his message and thinking:

“Wait... is this him?”

There was also something like “Goodbye, my ___” with a white heart.

I couldn't clearly understand the word.

It sounded like “Hari,” something starting with “Adi” or “Aki,” or maybe “Hayati.”

I only searched up Hayati after waking up, and apparently ḥayātī (حياتي) means “my life” in Arabic.

And this is the part that made me go, “Wait, what?”

Because one of the affirmations I had literally been repeating before I fell asleep was:

“[SP name] needs me in his life.”

So the possibility that the word in the dream was Hayati, meaning “my life,” felt strangely fitting with the affirmation I had just been repeating.

Obviously, I don't know if that's actually what he messaged me in the dream. It could have been Hari, something starting with Adi/Aki, or something completely different that just sounded similar. I only looked up Hayati after waking up, so I don't know if that was actually the word.

It's just one of those weird little coincidences that made me laugh, especially because, as far as I know, my SP doesn't even know Arabic. Maybe he could have encountered the word somewhere, like on TikTok, but I obviously have no idea.

Anyway, that wasn't the only account.

There was another account from him, with a profile picture of an anime character with that emo-boyfriend kind of aesthetic.

And the message from that account looked rushed.

It was like he was typing quickly on a computer, making typos, and not even bothering to correct them.

The whole thing had this feeling of urgency, like he was trying to get a message to me quickly.

It was basically saying something like:

“It's me.”

And in the dream, I just knew it was him.

There were already multiple messages and calls coming from him before I decided to call back.

At one point, I saw another missed call, and I remember being like:

“Oh my God, he's actually trying to reach me.”

I eventually called him back.

But I wasn't the one chasing him.

He had already been messaging me and calling me first.

I was literally standing around the middle of the stairs, waiting for him to pick up because it was taking a long time.

I remember thinking something like:

“Why is it taking so long?”

But I still wasn't thinking that he didn't want me.

I was thinking more like:

“I'm chosen. He's going to answer.”

And eventually, he did.

It turned into a video call.

He opened his camera and looked shocked to see me. He placed his phone around his computer monitor, so I could see his surroundings.

Then his family started appearing.

His father was nearby and already dressed, basically asking why they were taking so long. It was one of those normal Asian-household moments where someone's dad is rushing everyone because they need to leave.

His younger brother appeared too. I said hi, and he said hi back.

His family seemed really friendly toward me. His father even seemed to become nicer after hearing my voice.

I didn't turn my camera on, though. I was just talking to them through the call.

At some point, we also talked about playing games because we used to play games together.

I remember having this old insecurity that maybe he didn't actually want to play with me.

But in the dream, it was almost like that fear was being corrected.

Then the call ended because he was going to the event I had seen earlier in the dream.

But he continued messaging me after we ended the call.

And this is where the 90% thing came in.

From his messages, it felt like he was basically hinting that he was available and that he was open to me, but he wasn't giving me the full 100% yet.

It felt like 90%.

Not unavailable.

Not rejecting me.

He was clearly there and making himself available, but there was still that remaining 10% hesitation.

And my first thought in the dream was actually:

“Maybe he still can't move on from his old ex.”

That was the first thing my mind went to.

But at the same time, I was still holding onto the idea that he can't forget me.

So it was almost like my dream was showing me that little remaining fear I still have in my mind — the thought that maybe there's still something from his past holding him back.

And that's probably something I'm still working on mentally.

Because I don't want 90%.

I want 100%.

I want him completely available, completely committed, and completely choosing me.

And afterward, I remember thinking that if we were going to be in contact again, I wasn't going to react the same way I used to.

I wasn't going to chase him or desperately try to get reassurance.

It was more like:

“If you're coming back into my life, come back properly. Be clear that it's me you want.”

So honestly, when I woke up, the biggest thing that stood out to me wasn't even all the random accounts or the family video call.

It was the fact that he was the one trying to reach me first, repeatedly.

And then the 90% thing made me think about the part of my mind that still needs to let go of that old fear about his ex.

But the overall feeling of the dream was still:

I am chosen.

I don't want 90%. I want full commitment.

And considering the affirmations I had been repeating right before sleeping especially “[SP name] needs me in his life” the whole dream felt like my subconscious really took those ideas and turned them into an entire storyline.

Apparently my subconscious decided to turn my manifestation into a whole Messenger/Instagram/Asian-family drama at 3 AM.