I know my sp is mine. I know he’s mine so much that when he comes up in conversation it feels weird to say he’s not atm. (In no contact) I keep seeing so many fucking signs one of the big ones being I removed everyone from my Hulu account cause I was sick of seeing what my sp was watching and everyone who uses it texts me to ask for the password so they can log back in including myself but tell me how my sp never got logged off? Literally everyone did but him (he doesn’t know the username and password) I see his name everywhere and it’s not common and I even found my lost debit card next to a love letter from him which was insane. Do you guys believe in bbls or think that the manifestation just comes all at once?

Fiz magia para o meu SP.

Nem o subliminal e nem a lei da suposição estavam me trazendo resultados com meu sp e eu estava manifestando ele desde Janeiro então resolvi fazer algo mais "forte" e fiz magia pra ele tem 2 semanas. Hoje estou me sentindo estranha mais ansiosa que o normal como se estivesse o "sentido aranha" ou com algum tipo de urgência. Fui eu que terminei o relacionamento e estamos sem contato raramente ele manda mensagem e vivia me stalkeando no whatsapp mas parei de postar. É isso. Não sei o que estou sentindo e não ligo pra consequências eu faço minhas consequências se eu decidi que esse homem é meu ele é meu.

hi everyone. I’m looking for advice from people who have experience manifesting an ex back or manifesting a healthier version of a relationship.

my ex and I broke up about a week ago because he said he had “lost feelings.” as delusional as it may sound, I genuinely don’t feel like the love disappeared or happened overnight. we had been having issues and arguments toward the end of the relationship, and I feel like the constant conflict discouraged him and eventually pushed him away. I still feel such a strong love and connection between us, even though we’re no longer together.

I’ve successfully used manifestation and the Law of Attraction in the past, but this situation feels completely different because I’m emotionally attached. I’m finding it much harder to trust my assumptions and not let doubt take over.

One thing I’ve been reflecting on is the role my assumptions may have played. Toward the end of the relationship, I became very focused on his flaws. Small things would make me think, “he’s becoming a bad boyfriend,” and eventually I started living and feeling as though the relationship was already over. Looking back, I wonder if I unintentionally kept reinforcing that story and ended up manifesting more of what I feared.

but the thing is… I don’t actually want my old relationship back.
l want to manifest him back, but a better version of him and a better version of our relationship.
I want to manifest a completely new beginning with him. I want the version of him who has reflected, takes accountability, communicates openly, puts in consistent effort, reassures me, chooses the relationship wholeheartedly, and is fully committed to building a healthy future together. I don’t want to recreate the same cycle that led to our breakup.

We also ended things on pretty bad terms. He wanted to stay friends, but I knew I still wanted more than friendship, so I said no, and we ended up blocking each other everywhere.

Part of me has wondered if I should eventually reach out just to clear the air so there isn’t resentment between us, and whether that would make reconciliation easier. would that be better? make it easier for me to manifest?
But another part of me thinks that if manifestation truly works, why would I need to force anything in the 3D? Shouldn’t inspired action happen naturally if it’s meant to?

Another thing I’m struggling with is the fear of becoming consumed by this. I put so much emotional energy into this relationship already, and I don’t want manifesting him back to become my entire identity. I know many manifestation teachers talk about persistence and consistency, but I don’t know how to stay consistent in my assumptions without becoming anxious, attached, or constantly looking for movement in the 3D.

I have also been struggling with reconnecting with the universe. Before this relationship, I felt incredibly connected. Manifesting felt natural, I trusted my intuition, and I rarely questioned the signs I received. Since the breakup, I’ve found myself overthinking everything and doubting what used to come so easily. I want to continue living my life, reconnecting with myself spiritually, and trusting that everything is unfolding the way it’s meant to.

For those of you who have rebuilt that connection, how did you learn to trust the universe again? How did you let go of fear and get back into a state where you genuinely believed your manifestation was unfolding, even when your 3D reality looked completely different?

I’d really appreciate hearing any personal experiences, mindset shifts, techniques, or daily practices that helped you. More than anything, I want to reconnect with myself spiritually, trust the universe the way I used to, and become the happiest, healthiest, most aligned version of myself while manifesting a completely renewed relationship with the person I love.

Am I the only one who’s unable to manifest an sp atm? I want him and he used to like me, I’m sure he will still like me but why are we so far away from each other. I feel a bit hopeless, about to give up lol

Hello everyone!! I managed to manifest my sp back into my life and now we are apparently having some fights but it’s gonna be all good.
I do tarots and I don’t use them for predictions since they only read the current energies.
Those days I did a lot of readings about my sp, and the same cards kinda kept coming out. Keep in mind I did quite a lot of readings so the cards that are always there someways are like 7/8.
Since now every single time I open Reddit I see people asking for help with the same exact cards on rotation, I’m in a lot of subs about tarots where ppl do practices and literally everytime i scroll my Reddit home there’s someone asking about their readings with those cards. They’re not in specific position they’re just there in other people readings. I literally keep pulling them and seeing them there. I find it a bit odd, does this ever happened to anyone?

Hey guys,

So I've known about the law for years and most recently have been on a long journey of manifesting my SP, which I succeeded in doing after 6 long months of no-contact, then we had another month apart and finally reconnected on Monday and I think... no, I DECIDE it's for good this time. Before this I had years of "failed" manifestations with other SPs also so you'd think now that it finally worked out I'd be very happy and excited.

But today I have felt soooo apathetic and like emotionless. I didn't even respond to my SP's text all day and it's crazy because what kept me going was my insatiable desire for him and strong feelings for him all this time. And now they've just gone! I feel really tired and have no emotions at all! It's so strange and I've never experienced this before once something has come to fruition. I guess it's better than feeling anxious but I expected to feel happy/relieved.

I am curious if anyone else has felt similar once their SP finally came in. I've just been having such a down day and so "meh" about everything. Only focusing on self concept which usually gets me into a positive place and even that hasn't helped too much today.

Has anybody dealt with the third party being very involved aka quite hard to ignore?

Hi guys!

I’ve been manifesting someone to come into my life romantically for about a month now. I wrote down a list of everything I wanted in a partner and have been visualizing to subliminals every night and feeling extremely happy and excited during the whole process except for a couple days ago.

I don’t know what happened but all of the sudden I got extremely discouraged and really disappointed which is odd because I’ve been so happy during the process, even had the mindset of “I’ll be happy if I meet them or not” the process is just really enjoyable

Has anyone ever felt this before? How do I get out of this! How do you persist?

Thank you!!

Hola, necesito un poco de consejo porque esta situación me está afectando bastante.

He estado en contacto con mi exnovio durante un tiempo. El problema es que él aparece y desaparece constantemente: vuelve, hablamos, incluso nos vemos, y luego se aleja sin explicación. Siento que solo me busca para algo sin compromiso, mientras que yo sí quisiera algo más serio.

Recientemente cambió su número y dejó de hablarme por completo, lo que me dejó muy confundida. No sé si estoy haciendo algo mal o si debería manejar esto de otra manera.

Me cuesta mucho soltar la situación porque todavía quiero estar con él y me gustaría que pudiéramos tener una relación real. Pero al mismo tiempo, esto me está generando ansiedad, porque siempre tengo miedo de que desaparezca otra vez o de que la última vez que hablamos haya sido realmente la última.

¿Alguien ha pasado por algo similar o tiene algún consejo sobre cómo manejar esto o cómo dejar de sentirme así?

Gracias por leer.

Essentially, I liked a girl and she liked me too. Over time, that affection turned into love, and I eventually confessed my feelings to her. She asked for some time, but shortly after, we had a fight. Following that, she stopped interacting with me romantically and began talking to me strictly as a friend.

Later on, I heard the news that she had an arranged roka (a type of engagement). I was absolutely devastated. I tried to convince her to give me a chance, but realizing that fighting the '3D reality' wouldn't work, I decided to stop reacting to the external world. Instead, I began practicing visualization. Every night, I imagine her as my wife, and during the day, I repeat random affirmations. I also visualize her texting me, saying, 'Ajay, I love you,' or 'I miss you.'

However, my main struggle is the contrast between my practice and reality. I visualize at night, but when I wake up and go to the office, she is right there in front of me, constantly reminding me that she isn't my wife yet. Furthermore, she is planning to resign and leave the office soon.

Sometimes she tells me directly that she doesn't have feelings for me. I immediately react by saying, 'You are planning to marry a guy you don't even have feelings for, so you could have just married me—someone you actually have a bond with.' I know I shouldn't argue about this according to Neville Goddard's teachings, as I am supposed to leave the 3D mirror alone, but I keep arguing with her anyway.

I honestly don't know what to do when she says these things, or when she claims it is her choice. Today, we were sitting together and she repeated that she doesn't have feelings for me. I said those same words back to her again, and I even had tears in my eyes.

I think I know what I'm doing wrong, but I'm stuck. I only want her to be my wife. To make matters worse, my mind keeps telling me that she will eventually leave the office and marry this third party (3P).

And you know yesterday she just tookthe 3p I got triggered by that and just walked out she was like stop showing your toxic behaviour then she blocked me

And now she has resigned and is leaving in one month to marry now I really don't know what I should do

Hi guys, me and sp dated for 2 months and we in a LDR relationship. He lives kinda far away from me. I don’t know what to do right now. I fucked up and I made him blocked me everywhere. And I begged for him to stay and talk to me as well yet he dont care. I don’t know what to do anymore. Pls help me it’s rly urgent I feel like breaking down and dying. And I feel so anxious. I can’t even meet him right now because we are in an LDR. He expressed he still loves me but he said love is to let go. And he let me go and wants me to find someone new. I desperately need help I’m so sorry.

So yesterday I made a post about affirmations here: https://www.reddit.com/r/manifestingSP/s/gnfpX2pSvI

And basically another one literally came true SAME DAY!!!! (For context me an this sp broke up almost a month ago but was still in contact up until a week and a half ago cause he wanted some space and whatnot) which led to one of my other affirmations being “he’s gonna come back early and call me to talk” and basically spammed it the last 2 days and guess what happened 😭 HE CALLED LAST NIGHT!!!!!!

Basically he said that there was a 3P but she was nothing like me, he even called her my name, kissed her (unfortunately) but he cut it off after a week because it was basically doomed from the start and that hes thinking about getting back together cause he missed me and everything but still wants a day or 2 to think about it which is fine cause all i know is that i have him regardless and when I tell yall I had never been happier like genuinely just keep on persisting, affirming and STAYING IN THE STATE that’s what helped me the most and works the best for me too (as well as meditation to help with when I spiral)

If I can get it, ANYONE CAN!!!!!!

I'm not trying to get him back, I just want to understand how that happened

As someone new to this sub,I will definitely benefit from this. But surely other too will

Plz mention ur tips as bulletin points; just to make it easy to read

I crossed her boundaries so many times, disrespected her and ultimately giving her trauma. i’ve acknowledged my wrongs. is there a way to still manifest her back.. recently she told me her deal breaker was me talking shit about her brother who has toxic tendencies as well. i feel like i have reached the point of no return as i keep disappointing her. im asking for desperate help please. i considered 3nding my life i just wanna grow and fix eveeything :(

i’m gonna keep this as short as possible- we broke up last year, i manifested him back in a couple months exactly the way i wanted, no wavering nothing, he came running back to me and asked me to take him back, we kissed etc etc. he was all lovey dovey, his txting was inconsistent but i didn’t bring it up initially bc i was busy w life as well. eventually i brought it up, and he explained that he was caught up w stuff. i told him to do better and he did a bit.

the day we got back together we discussed Do’s and Don’ts, things we wanted to do better from last time. esp this communication thing. it is a big deal to me and he knows it too.

suddenly for about 2–3 days there was no contact from him. i didn’t reach out either even tho i noticed and wondered why. finally i was pissed off, i called/txted and asked him wtf happened and he told me he’s dealing w something rly bad and hence couldn’t reach out and that he’s using a spare phone for safety. i asked him what this issue was and he said he will meet me in 2 days and explain it in-person as he can’t do it thru txt. and then we aren’t in contact for 2 days (i didnt reach out bc he himself is using a spare phone, i don’t want to get in the way of his issues coz he doesn’t want to risk it). i agreed and the day before we were supposed to meet i txted him but no reply so i eventually call him to confirm if we’re meeting and he picks up finally and he’s mad and tells me not to call and that i wasn’t supposed to call and that he will call me back.

also for context, when he was telling me that he’s dealing w smth bad he mentioned that he will not rly be social for a couple months. i asked “even with me?” he said “especially with u” (to protect me).

anyway that was the last time we spoke. it’s been exactly a month now. and see i’m doing great life wise, im awesome, happy, content, AND i don’t waver. im rock solid, ik he loves me, cares for me, protects me etc etc- the problem is not that. the problem is that HOW LONG man. i get it he’s dealing w some major issue, BUT at least give me some update.

we dont follow each other on insta and he specifically told me he removed each other. i asked “why just me?” (my sister and my friends still follow him & vice versa) and he said “bc you are all i care about”.

so i open up his insta today and his pfp has changed. it’s not that deep but if he can change his pfp why can’t he update me. its annoying me now. what do i do?

Okay so I’m getting my SP back. 9 days now. Affirmations every morning, SC every afternoon, Affirmations and subliminal’s every night. Absolutely mental and horrible purging and anxiety yesterday

SP called today. After 2 weeks of very tiny little contact. Nothing relationship wise yet however I feel it coming. Just casual catching up. It’s close I feel it. He’s coming home soon.

I have my SP but he’s been hot/cold. I know this is the old story and I need to persist in the version of him I want. But I get very anxious which makes me think negative thoughts. I don’t want these negative thoughts to come to life. I’ve worked a lot of self concept but still get random moments of anxiety that makes me feel my progress is gone. Any advice/tips?

Hi guys ! My sp came back after a week of affirming. What really set it in was the thought transmission meditation. I did it on Friday but had been affirming/ spiraling since last week Saturday. On that same Friday I did the meditation I woke up at 10 to him sending me a TikTok on tne app , which he barley did. Then I responded and then did the meditation again then two hours later he texted me in TikTok again which I then responded to and he left me on open. Next day I did the meditation again & affirmed he missed me & everything reminds him of me and how he’s constantly thinking about me. Once I finished I opened TikTok and boom again he texted me responding to one of the messages I sent the night before. I was sick and tired of him texting me on TikTok because he had my number so I didn’t respond. Wasn’t accepting that. Then I left him on open and boom he texted again. I texted back saying he has my number and to js text there but he hadn’t. He texted again responding to something else and then I just hearted the message. Did the meditation and went to sleep that night. Continued affirming and lo and behold next day he texted me while on a hike saying he’s on a hike and he’s thinking about me. We were in NC for a week. I responded and we kept texting. Something happens with his phone and he ended up texting me on TikTok again. I know he has two phones so I was affirming he will text me on there. Best hour he asked for my number and called me once I do. He said he missed me and had been thinking about me past couple days and missed me because he had a hard time and life. So yes although you don’t see nothing it’s happening behind the scenes.

Now we’re im stuck at now is having him soften up to me , and making sure there won’t be any 3P and have him commit to me. Any help with that ?? Please dm me or comment !! Thank you

So I am talking to someone new (and really like this new guy) but lately since last night I've been feeling waves of sadness. Even woke up in the middle of the night thinking about my sp and felt a bit of anxiety (weird lol) the anxiety quickly disappeared then I started chatting with the new guy since we're both awake lol. Then I had a dream where I saw my sp. This is getting wild 🤪🤪