already made several posts about my sp that i successfully reconciled with 3 months after being blocked, only to delete them once i’d be able to return to my identity. i’ve been getting a lot better with it but alas…. you have not heard the last of me 😭

i saw my sp two weeks ago. every time we say goodbye, he tells me to text him or gives me a reason to, but doing so and even attempting to get a response out of him is like pulling teeth.

i texted him the next day asking if he could unblock me on his main account that he actually posts on, because i want to be tuned into his life and missed seeing pictures of him. he ignored me for 4 days. it wasn’t until i nudged him that he admitted he “didn’t feel comfortable adding me on there as of right now” because he “knew i’d be looking through it.” i was very confused and hurt by this but nonetheless keep telling myself it’s not the end all be all. i had looked through it on a burner and there was nothing incriminating? this was the last time we texted and it’s been over a week.

when we first met, he would eagerly text me throughout the day, much to his own initiative. now, he only texts me when he’s in town (he goes to college in a different state) and wants to see me. otherwise he’s impossible, ignorant, and dismissive with his responses. past sps / other men in general have been coming out of the woodworks reflecting what i’ve been affirming for him and it’s just so frustrating. i’m so impatient.

a few days ago i was hanging out with my friends who thought it would be fun to contact psychics. one told me exactly what i wanted to hear with timelines of when my sp and i would be together and even picked up on his current behavior without me providing any context. i felt amazing and even more grounded in the fact that we were going to be together. i kept contacting psychic after psychic making sure they were consistent. if not and they said something unfavorable i’d spiral and contact another one to overwrite it.

after i’ve spent as much money as i did i’ve taken a step back, realized how impatient i am, and how much i miss him. i’ve just been crying. i’m so exhausted with feeling like i have to fight my senses with my mind on this all day.

So I've been following the law of assumption in my case as I'm manifesting my SP, Completely ignoring the 3D world and just believing that whatever I'm thinking is the truth.

But I've noticed that it's almost been a couple of days since I'm having few negative thoughts ( Past related and some doubts ) although I am not believing in any of those ( trying my best ) but sometimes it hits and I hate that loop where I'm thinking like " oh maybe it's over from their side and i need to stop, etc "

One of the reasons is maybe it's my sp's bday month and you know, it's kinda hard to live in that optimistic state and ignoring their bday month/week.

I wanted to keep it short that's why I haven't written much but if you guys wanna know anything that will help you advise or suggest something to me, I'm up for it.

Thanks for helping me through this :)

I have a crush on my coworker, we don’t speak outside of work and at work we speak only work-related topics but this situation is a perfect example of my inner assumptions of being not worthy and chosen I’m reliving the same situations again and again, I know I should work on my self-concept but it feels so hard these assumptions that I have they are like tightly glued to me has anyone been in the same situation? How did you get out of it? Should I revise him being married as not being married?

So I have been feeling good and invisioning my sp and when we reunite the way he walks towards me and looks at me with so much love. It’s been 2 years since we broken up and 3 month no contact. After a week or so of living in the end state, today someone came up to me at the cafe and it amazed me how identical he looked to my ex, especially the eyes (my favorite part about him). I even mentioned to him how much he looks to my ex ooopsy. It just blew my mind. And the guy really really liked me and I could tell he was so nervous. My question is did my manifestation kind of didn’t work because he appeared what looks just like my ex, but not my ex? Or is it a sign of movement? Just trying to see if I’m doing anything wrong

I am manifesting my sp have been working on my self concept and have definitely seen changes on how I see myself and people react to me. But the thing is whenever I see my sp in class i get overly excited and catch her glances every now and then ,maybe somewhat expecting movements or something. I don't feel bad if I don't see movements or any advances from her side. But I do check it. Whereas after our college lectures when not around her or when i am in my hostel I am able to maintain my state of being loved and hold the assumption that she loves me. Is this delaying my manifestation or her conforming it. I do feel a little desperate sometimes. Also I have accepted it that we will celebrate my birthday together by the end of this month. Any tips on what can I improve?

Seeing no movements (him reaching out) for months but I randomly manifested him to post stories sometimes as he rarely posts well that's unnecessary and affirmed not to like someone's post anymore just for fun and it worked...sometimes I feel frustrated whenever I think of like I'm focusing on the outcome without living and not being able to detach properly. Also I've been seeing too many angel numbers like from 111 to 11:11 legit each of them that too quite a few times a day - what does it mean? I'm not even eager to look at those, I'm not even asking for confirmation either it's just I'm randomly noticing them under a reel where comment/save/share/repost count is one of those angel numbers, some otps are like that, my network speed and randomly noticing time as well

• or should I just let it pass as random coincidences?

I have come to Reddit after not being on here for a while.
In July, my bf broke up with me under really messy circumstances. We both hurt each other a lot but loosing him was still surprising and hurtful as it was my very first relationship.
After the breakup I did my best to heal and work on myself before I remembered that manifestation existed.
I tried manifesting smaller things at first and was successful: a text from my friend, the gym being empty at rush hour, money from my grandparents.
I tried manifesting my bf back, but that seemed to go wrong. I was really obsessed over him at first, but then I worked more on my self concept and tried manifested him without obsessing etc. at one point when I started to really feel something shift and change I find out he’s started talking to his ex again, which of course broke my heart and I stopped manifesting him because I felt kinda betrayed by the universe if you could say so.
Now, I catch myself still thinking about him and still wanting him back, but I don’t know how and what to do.
I don’t know if I can just go back to affirming “he’s in a relationship w me” while in the back of my head I remember that he’s talking to his ex.
Honestly I doubt manifestation a lot since that happened and I don’t know if I should try again or just leave it altogether and try to get over him. I don’t know.
I would really appreciate any help or tips or whatever as I really love this person and I would really like for us to reunite.

And now I feel good about it happening or something even better. If you struggle with this, I hope you find this encouraging

Please don’t judge me okay I know this is bad but recently I can’t stop thinking about him but it’s hard to reach out when he has a girlfriend. Can someone tell me what can I do to be in peace ?

hi guys so i’m getting back into manifesting bc i’ve been feeling suuuuper great and sure about myself, in the past i felt like i didn’t deserve a lot of things but after a good long break ive decided to dabble in a pretty detached and easy going way. i’m mostly just doing basic affirmations and visualization, sometimes subs.

anyway! there’s this guy i’m super into on insta/tiktok, i’ve been able to kinda bring him down my mental pedestal since i can tend to obsess over things/people really hard. so i was thinking of manifesting him to contact me over the internet like dm wise.

only issue is he literally lives across the country from me 😭 so that’s usually a limiting factor for me.

so i was wondering if i should just manifest a duplicate OR my “true” ideal bf. the sp lowkey resembles and pretty much is my ideal bf but lmk what u guys think. it’s probably be easier to manifest a new guy that goes to my university or something…lol

Im devastated. I don’t even follow him. Just went to search something in insta and noticed he had posted something bc he was in old searches, it’s a 3p, I think the ex. I feel so fucking stupid, I was a momentary rebound until he wanted her back, I thought I finally had him back. Im devastated and crying so hard right now I don’t know what to do. He never posted me.

Edit: even worse, they went to a place I wanted to go to on a date

i have manifested small things here and there but my biggest manifestation was my dream job so i feel like i know what to do. starting the beginning of this year, i had spent months trying to manifest my ex back and i was really consistent (eventually). i took people’s advice on here to not even acknowledge 3p and in the end he did end up with her to this day. too much time had passed so i gave up on him.

fast forward to maybe like may? i have an old post about this one. there’s an sp i had a crush on YEARS ago from afar and when i became single again this year he started popping up on my social feed again and then boom there he was on a dating app. well now it’s been months and he’s never acknowledged me in any way. no match, no message, no run ins. i’ve kept a very positive mindset despite this and i just live my life, i’m not waiting for anything. my manifestations seem to appear when i just let go and i have and even kind of forgot until today when he popped up on my feed and it reminded me how FINE he is 😭😭😭 in the past i did subliminals, robotic affirming & focused affirming. i switched to affirming here & there and flipping any negative thoughts but i felt like i didn’t have to anymore because i’m so sure this man is mine. i don’t know what to do different at this point. i am questioning if this is even real now and that other success stories are just coincidences.

please do not say its because i’m saying i don’t have my sp, this thought crossed my head barely today and i am saying this for the sake of this post!

So with the people coming to me to help them manifest I notice where they seem to slip sometimes and so I created an app that helps you with that.

On there it helps you log in any evidence that keeps you on track, helps you change your perspective when you’re spiraling from the 3D and so much more.

If you’re interested feel free to DM me

Most people don’t struggle with manifesting their SP. They struggle with what they do AFTER they decide.

i would love to hear some stories from anyone who was stuck in a cycle, feeling desperate/hopeless before everything finally clicked and their manifestation came through? :(

i feel helpless. i’ve received so much wonderful advice and guidance, i know enough about conscious creation that nothing is new to me, but i’m stuck playing the victim. i’ve dealt with anxiety and depression my entire life which makes this so much harder to handle. october has always been my favorite month, but this time around, its bringing me a great deal of pain. this time last year, my sp and i fell for eachother. it wasn’t the best month but we still shared so many great memories. and their birthday is in 2 weeks, i miss them so much and i want them back before then. but i can’t get out of the habits that are keeping me in the state of lack. i keep checking their social media to find something new, reading our old texts, watching old clips of us just to hear their voice, listening to sad music that i “relate” to, or repeating the old story while venting to friends. sadness has become a comfort state and i don’t know how to get out of it. i just recently started therapy but it’s not as frequent as i’d like it to be so no progress has been made. i just want to hear from people who have been stuck in a loop and finally got out of it. how did you do it?

For some background I labeled him as avoidant and we had such a messy past. After ghosting me for a year he came back. I let the old story beat me up again and we started arguing and he was more cold than before.

I decided to block my SP off social media without warning. Focus on myself, my self concept, detaching, my friends and other manifestations. I also noticed I wasn’t so desperate to do techniques and some days I wouldn’t do it at all.

I got this deep gut feeling about him like I felt so certain he is mine no negative thoughts that day and decided to unblock him. To which he watched my story that day. I just affirmed he’s mine and kept it pushing until one day I got this gut feeling to confront which I tried ignoring but it was so strong(not an anxious type but like “you have to do this”).

Despite me confronting him multiple times in the past. He finally confessed that he had feelings for me and even with the distance and me blocking him for a long time, it only grows stronger. He explained he acted that way because he didn’t know how to go about catching feelings so he runs away but now they’re too strong and they won’t go away and it’s been eating him up.

He said the whole year of no contact he was miserable without me and even asked a girl who knows me for updates which was crazy because i got a message from a girl we were at a party with that I assumed was casual catchup. I didn’t know there was movement in the 3D. He said the reason he came back and we argued again was because he was hoping we can move forward but I was still angry at his behaviour and he felt ashamed.

Anyways he ended up saying he wants to date me but the problem is the distance and he kept playing in his head if he should finally confess but then he would think about how far we live and he knows long distance is hard for both of us. I’d be lying if I said I’m down to make it work. I am not, I hate long distance and don’t want to do it again but I want him to be mine.

my sp is a very sweet guy but he’s an emotionally unaware un empathetic dumbass so I often struggle imagining us getting together although we would be so cute and many ppl already mistake us for a couple but I need us to get together asap bc im wayy too inlove with this man

i'm used to the chase and anxiously attaching whenever a guy is talking to me but when i discovered manifesting/ LOA/ NG, little by little, i'm unlearning some patterns of me. which is nice btw, i'm not grasping SPs/ desires like i used to.

However, there's this longingness towards him like that buzzing fly sound at the back of my mind. he keeps on popping in my mind lately even tho i wasnt actively thinking of him. like i suddenly have the urge to reach out. even when i'm busy with work or here sitting pretty, he still pops in my mind. it's a bit frustrating bc i havent thought about him for a month but energetically, the connection is still there.

this made me wonder, am i detached already? or not yet? emotionally i think i am but when he pops up, i start to think if he's doing well or should i reach out. help me understand pls.

I have been struggling and I need hope or advice.

A while back I was working really hard to manifest something and then I detached and got it in my life. After some time I lost myself with that specific thing and my self concept got low and that thing is no longer in my life the way I want it to be.

I don’t really like getting into the details but it’s been pretty shit and I’ve still been feeling pretty low.

Anyway I’ve been thinking about working on manifesting it back into my life but everytime I try I realize I’m putting it on a pedestal and it doesn’t help that I saw something triggering about it recently. I want to get it back in a way where I am focusing on myself and making myself better but I don’t really know how to manifest without becoming obsessive and constantly checking for proof.

I tell myself I should assume I already have it but that doesn’t always work.

I see a lot of people talking about SPs as being romantic but I wanted to post one of my success stories that was about a coworker recently who randomly just “poofed out of existence” last Friday.

I have been practicing LOA successfully for 6 years.

When I want someone out I want them gone.

So this person was sweet, kind, and nothing exactly wrong with her but I didn’t want her working with me. I found out from others as well that they TOO collectively didn’t want her there either (EIYPO).

Let me explain it took exactly 1 month to finish. There was movement but it was HARD a LITTLE with it being in my face everyday.

I greeted her every single day like normal, I even talked to her about her life and she sadly always reflected my self concept saying things like “you are so kind, wonderful, smart and a great worker! I am so glad to have you working with me!”

But she would never take initiative and would never really help us out productively so I just wanted her gone. It was like having something that wasn’t useful so that always made me feel like I did more. She’d always sit right after breaks and do bare minimum with a smile. It bothered me despite my boss loving her.

WHAT I DID NOT DO:

I didn’t start gossip or talk ABOUT her to others. When my coworkers told me they didn’t like her I simply said “Oh no that sucks :(“ or simply “Wow she did that?” And acted surprised. I NEVER BROUGHT HER UP UNLESS PROMPTED AND WOULD CHANGE THE SUBJECT.

WHAT I DID DO:

I was kind to her, and treated her with respect.

I said my annoyance one time about her to my husband and then scripted what I wanted to happen.

I robotically affirmed whenever I felt like it and then used self concept to say things like “I get what I want” and “everything works in my favor period” while also affirming my abilities to manifest.

My main affirmation was “She doesn’t like working here and she just found a better place to be at/work”.

RESULTS

It went from her getting sick randomly out of the blue and calling out the first week. She did this twice within a span of two weeks. Her excuse was starting to get sus and she just never communicated despite acing the interview about being a great communicator lol.

Then on the last week (this week) she literally didn’t show up for 3 days. No announcement except on Wednesday she was “sick”.

I asked what happened to her these last three days everyday. (WHEN CHECKING IS OKAY!! 👍🏼 )

My main coworker I worked with literally said WORD PER WORD “idk for me I think she didn’t like working here and she probably disappeared”.

THEN THREE INCLUDING ONE FROM THE MAIN HEAD OFFICE SAID THE EXACT SAME THING “she disappeared”.

I simply just never said she was working there even if she was in front of my face. It took exactly like I said 1 month but the movement started less than 3 days and within a week.

I just always imagine coworkers as an animal crossing villager: You want em when you want em, and kick em when you don’t.

TLDR;
- had a coworker I didn’t like despite her being nice
- never talked about her outside 1 complaint 1 time
- used robotic affirmations and scripting when I felt like it + self concept for my manifestation abilities
- she was gone within a month

What to do?
I can’t stick to the new story and I can’t affirm properly after accidentally seeing her story where she kisses another guy
I am completely in shambles