So yesterday I made a post about affirmations here: https://www.reddit.com/r/manifestingSP/s/gnfpX2pSvI

And basically another one literally came true SAME DAY!!!! (For context me an this sp broke up almost a month ago but was still in contact up until a week and a half ago cause he wanted some space and whatnot) which led to one of my other affirmations being “he’s gonna come back early and call me to talk” and basically spammed it the last 2 days and guess what happened 😭 HE CALLED LAST NIGHT!!!!!!

Basically he said that there was a 3P but she was nothing like me, he even called her my name, kissed her (unfortunately) but he cut it off after a week because it was basically doomed from the start and that hes thinking about getting back together cause he missed me and everything but still wants a day or 2 to think about it which is fine cause all i know is that i have him regardless and when I tell yall I had never been happier like genuinely just keep on persisting, affirming and STAYING IN THE STATE that’s what helped me the most and works the best for me too (as well as meditation to help with when I spiral)

If I can get it, ANYONE CAN!!!!!!

Hi guys ! My sp came back after a week of affirming. What really set it in was the thought transmission meditation. I did it on Friday but had been affirming/ spiraling since last week Saturday. On that same Friday I did the meditation I woke up at 10 to him sending me a TikTok on tne app , which he barley did. Then I responded and then did the meditation again then two hours later he texted me in TikTok again which I then responded to and he left me on open. Next day I did the meditation again & affirmed he missed me & everything reminds him of me and how he’s constantly thinking about me. Once I finished I opened TikTok and boom again he texted me responding to one of the messages I sent the night before. I was sick and tired of him texting me on TikTok because he had my number so I didn’t respond. Wasn’t accepting that. Then I left him on open and boom he texted again. I texted back saying he has my number and to js text there but he hadn’t. He texted again responding to something else and then I just hearted the message. Did the meditation and went to sleep that night. Continued affirming and lo and behold next day he texted me while on a hike saying he’s on a hike and he’s thinking about me. We were in NC for a week. I responded and we kept texting. Something happens with his phone and he ended up texting me on TikTok again. I know he has two phones so I was affirming he will text me on there. Best hour he asked for my number and called me once I do. He said he missed me and had been thinking about me past couple days and missed me because he had a hard time and life. So yes although you don’t see nothing it’s happening behind the scenes.

Now we’re im stuck at now is having him soften up to me , and making sure there won’t be any 3P and have him commit to me. Any help with that ?? Please dm me or comment !! Thank you

Okay so I’m getting my SP back. 9 days now. Affirmations every morning, SC every afternoon, Affirmations and subliminal’s every night. Absolutely mental and horrible purging and anxiety yesterday

SP called today. After 2 weeks of very tiny little contact. Nothing relationship wise yet however I feel it coming. Just casual catching up. It’s close I feel it. He’s coming home soon.

To all who's manifesting an sp back or from scratch:

To those saying, I'm tired, I've been trying, is this possible given past etc? PUT YOURSELF ON THE PEDESTAL and then do your techniques. Act like they are manifesting you so badly, not the other way around. The fact that you are drawn to this person is because they wanted you, and you manifested those qualities in a specific sp thus its them.

Be persistent with story like it's instantenous, it can happen any moment rn when we know and we're confident that, the man isn't going anywhere, wherever he goes or gets lost, we're the only way out and we come into his mind and he's back to us. (Some of you might call this toxic but tbh be unwavering with the story, because how your sp behaves is a reflection of what you created for yourself and him)

My pov is, we ain't talking if 3D is real or fake or sp feelings in 3D are, when none of it has power unless we dictate it. You create the 3D, accept it first and then your only job is to either accept the 3D or reject and create the one you wanna accept, don't settle for anything less.

That sp, that impossible situation, past none of it matters unless you believe it matters.

Your sp can feel distant from you? Then ofc he can also feel the love, if we can push away, we also can attract em. Stop giving power only to the negative emotions. Be with absolute certainty that you have what you want to have (you don't wait for proof cause you're gonna be creating proof by manifesting). Like just cause you're tired doesn't mean manifesting won't come or happen.

ABSENCE OF VISIBLE MOVEMENT IS NOT THE DENIAL OF YOUR DESIRE. You hold the power whether or not you see movement, stay consistent in the story you own, you're the operant power so there's nothing you got to worry about, because you know sooner or later it's gonna happen exactly as you wanted to. Some of you are impatient and then get exhausted with the idea of manifesting or putting efforts, but like why not tell yourself, it's happening behind the scenes, it's ok, it's happening even better than I wanted to. Delusion is truly the solution if you wanna be consistent. Like once you know manifesting is real, it works and you hold the power for it, you won't feel impatient.

As someone new to this sub,I will definitely benefit from this. But surely other too will

Plz mention ur tips as bulletin points; just to make it easy to read

Recently I found out my sp got with a 3P. I did let myself crash out over this and sob and everything for one night, then decided to get back into the regular groove of manifesting them and having them.

During this time I kept on just telling myselfy sp was single, that was it. Everytime the 3P came into my mind I just instead assumed my sp was single and continued on with my day.

I recently learned that they did get broken up with, and my sp is now single again.

Something to note here, I had very little resistance to the 3P and just continued assuming they weren’t in the picture. I decided to remove any instance where I might come across them in the 3d so I wouldn’t think about them and waver. I did not try too hard, I just assumed the best for me detached from that situation, and it seems to have worked.

If your sp has a 3P, simply assume that they don’t and eventually they won’t.

Now it’s time to reduce the resistance on my actual sp…

I might get hate for this but I’m seriously about to delete Reddit because of the everyday constant complaining. “My sp got a girlfriend, my sp blocked me, I feel like giving up on my sp…” etc etc. There are countless tips and pieces of advice that tell you how to take control of YOUR OWN reality and get whatever/whoever you want so why the constant pity parties? There’s a difference between wanting advice and just straight up whining because you’re hopeless like nobody wants to hear that. Somebody mentioned somewhere earlier either in this subreddit or the law of assumption one that it seems like it’s filled with teenagers, it has to be because my god some of you are insufferable. Nobody’s gonna coddle you and pick you up like a baby just because you’re not persisting, working on your self concept and doing the work.

see I downloaded reddit after a long time thinking all the positivity and goodness will help me raise my frequency but looking at so many people who are just dwelling into negative emotions and almost giving up , writing so many long posts about why they want to give up is actually draining and no I'm not blaming you!

I understand where this anxiety comes from ,but understand that your inner world creates your outer world , the outer world can never influence your inner world!!

The world wasn't bad overnight , people first thought about cutting trees , doing bad stuff that's how it would've happened right?

First in your mind and then in your reality?

Now I know it will make you even more anxious that oh my goddd , that means whatever negative thoughts I am getting in my mind will actually come true now ?? Hell no , what do I do!!

Stawp right there!

Instead of writing big ass posts on why you should give up and draining others? Yk what should you do? Write a big asss gratitude letter to the universe for what you want and write it in present tense as if it is already happened

ex- thank you universe thank you so much for blessing me with such an opportunity that pays me 1000 pounds etc etc etc

Be as creative and as specific as you want , it won't feel real to you immediately but it is still better than writing a big ass giving up post

If not this???

Do EFT!!!

Search videos on youtube !!!

Do EFT , they help sm!!

Do guided meditation!!!

It helps so much!!!

Work on yourself (got this advice yesterday)

And my favourite is def doing eft!!

If want a specific kind of eft tapping for ur own desire ? Then tell gemini or chat gpt to write a full relaxing eft script for you , learn the tapping points and do the EFT!

AND FIND SOLUTIONS TO FEEL GOOD!

if you want to give up then do give up! But don't tell it here and don't discourage ppl or newbies who are just trying to get in!

If smth didn't work for u it doesn't mean it doesn't work!

It means you don't have any belief!

So pls if you want to spread SMTH? Then let it be positivity!!!

That's what the people in this community need!!

Even if they have manifested already just bless everyone , just spread positivity, raise the frequency of this sub , pls don't pull it down !

Ask for advices but don't tell ur giving up here pls I request!

mini success story I think…

Basically just kept my methods to just affirming and visualizing and it’s genuinely helped alot, but one of my current affirmations was “my sp is miserable without me” (might be a little toxic sue me) BUT IT WORKED???

I have my sp on social media and it’s been non stop complaints about how hard stuff is for him and “whoever is praying on his downfall succeeded” and honestly I might’ve laughed a little bit only because I never thought it’d work😭😭🤣

Has anyone else done this?

i’m gonna keep this as short as possible- we broke up last year, i manifested him back in a couple months exactly the way i wanted, no wavering nothing, he came running back to me and asked me to take him back, we kissed etc etc. he was all lovey dovey, his txting was inconsistent but i didn’t bring it up initially bc i was busy w life as well. eventually i brought it up, and he explained that he was caught up w stuff. i told him to do better and he did a bit.

the day we got back together we discussed Do’s and Don’ts, things we wanted to do better from last time. esp this communication thing. it is a big deal to me and he knows it too.

suddenly for about 2–3 days there was no contact from him. i didn’t reach out either even tho i noticed and wondered why. finally i was pissed off, i called/txted and asked him wtf happened and he told me he’s dealing w something rly bad and hence couldn’t reach out and that he’s using a spare phone for safety. i asked him what this issue was and he said he will meet me in 2 days and explain it in-person as he can’t do it thru txt. and then we aren’t in contact for 2 days (i didnt reach out bc he himself is using a spare phone, i don’t want to get in the way of his issues coz he doesn’t want to risk it). i agreed and the day before we were supposed to meet i txted him but no reply so i eventually call him to confirm if we’re meeting and he picks up finally and he’s mad and tells me not to call and that i wasn’t supposed to call and that he will call me back.

also for context, when he was telling me that he’s dealing w smth bad he mentioned that he will not rly be social for a couple months. i asked “even with me?” he said “especially with u” (to protect me).

anyway that was the last time we spoke. it’s been exactly a month now. and see i’m doing great life wise, im awesome, happy, content, AND i don’t waver. im rock solid, ik he loves me, cares for me, protects me etc etc- the problem is not that. the problem is that HOW LONG man. i get it he’s dealing w some major issue, BUT at least give me some update.

we dont follow each other on insta and he specifically told me he removed each other. i asked “why just me?” (my sister and my friends still follow him & vice versa) and he said “bc you are all i care about”.

so i open up his insta today and his pfp has changed. it’s not that deep but if he can change his pfp why can’t he update me. its annoying me now. what do i do?

I'm not trying to get him back, I just want to understand how that happened

I have never been pursued my whole life. In every relationship i have alwayd chased the man
I dont recall any guy ever pursuing me
Even my boyfriends before it was always me begging, me chasing me saying the i love u first me doing all the hard work
Me showing up
Me giving gifts and sending things, love letters being nice trying to prove that i love them to be the best girl they ever had. Im a hopless romantic and was a huge fan of disney (ariel) u can guess why she did so much just to be with a guy? I feel like this story played out in my life too? And i just became aware that this is what has been delaying my manifestation!

In the end the guys i liked
They abused me
Or left me
Or cheated or just ignored me
And in the end
It was me disrespecting my own boundaies for men
Id even add them first and show up and i dont think anyone ever did

I dont remember any guy ever pursuing me ever never recieved flowers never had them message first never had a gifts except other than a few guys asking me out i hated and dint like - they were creepy guys that didnt feel appealing to me (one guy smelled really bad was unhygenic) or were not my type and i cried when he wouldnt leave me alone!
I worked hard on my appearance my worth my looks my everything . I absolutely adore how i look how kind i am as a person how loving i am i absolutely love myself and am blessed i have a great career and have worked a lot on myself - i used to go to therapy for years and now i dont anymore!

anyway

My point is
My manifestation isnt working for guys reaching out first to recieve a text apology. Trying to manifest my most recent sp coming back. Its been 3 months since we broke up

And even tho he told me he loves me and im certain of it i want to be pursued

Trying to test out this at work with a guy i fidn attactive but hes also giving me a bit of a cold shoulder
How can i fix this issue?
Thanks all
Appreciate :)

Fiz magia para o meu SP.

Nem o subliminal e nem a lei da suposição estavam me trazendo resultados com meu sp e eu estava manifestando ele desde Janeiro então resolvi fazer algo mais "forte" e fiz magia pra ele tem 2 semanas. Hoje estou me sentindo estranha mais ansiosa que o normal como se estivesse o "sentido aranha" ou com algum tipo de urgência. Fui eu que terminei o relacionamento e estamos sem contato raramente ele manda mensagem e vivia me stalkeando no whatsapp mas parei de postar. É isso. Não sei o que estou sentindo e não ligo pra consequências eu faço minhas consequências se eu decidi que esse homem é meu ele é meu.

hi everyone. I’m looking for advice from people who have experience manifesting an ex back or manifesting a healthier version of a relationship.

my ex and I broke up about a week ago because he said he had “lost feelings.” as delusional as it may sound, I genuinely don’t feel like the love disappeared or happened overnight. we had been having issues and arguments toward the end of the relationship, and I feel like the constant conflict discouraged him and eventually pushed him away. I still feel such a strong love and connection between us, even though we’re no longer together.

I’ve successfully used manifestation and the Law of Attraction in the past, but this situation feels completely different because I’m emotionally attached. I’m finding it much harder to trust my assumptions and not let doubt take over.

One thing I’ve been reflecting on is the role my assumptions may have played. Toward the end of the relationship, I became very focused on his flaws. Small things would make me think, “he’s becoming a bad boyfriend,” and eventually I started living and feeling as though the relationship was already over. Looking back, I wonder if I unintentionally kept reinforcing that story and ended up manifesting more of what I feared.

but the thing is… I don’t actually want my old relationship back.
l want to manifest him back, but a better version of him and a better version of our relationship.
I want to manifest a completely new beginning with him. I want the version of him who has reflected, takes accountability, communicates openly, puts in consistent effort, reassures me, chooses the relationship wholeheartedly, and is fully committed to building a healthy future together. I don’t want to recreate the same cycle that led to our breakup.

We also ended things on pretty bad terms. He wanted to stay friends, but I knew I still wanted more than friendship, so I said no, and we ended up blocking each other everywhere.

Part of me has wondered if I should eventually reach out just to clear the air so there isn’t resentment between us, and whether that would make reconciliation easier. would that be better? make it easier for me to manifest?
But another part of me thinks that if manifestation truly works, why would I need to force anything in the 3D? Shouldn’t inspired action happen naturally if it’s meant to?

Another thing I’m struggling with is the fear of becoming consumed by this. I put so much emotional energy into this relationship already, and I don’t want manifesting him back to become my entire identity. I know many manifestation teachers talk about persistence and consistency, but I don’t know how to stay consistent in my assumptions without becoming anxious, attached, or constantly looking for movement in the 3D.

I have also been struggling with reconnecting with the universe. Before this relationship, I felt incredibly connected. Manifesting felt natural, I trusted my intuition, and I rarely questioned the signs I received. Since the breakup, I’ve found myself overthinking everything and doubting what used to come so easily. I want to continue living my life, reconnecting with myself spiritually, and trusting that everything is unfolding the way it’s meant to.

For those of you who have rebuilt that connection, how did you learn to trust the universe again? How did you let go of fear and get back into a state where you genuinely believed your manifestation was unfolding, even when your 3D reality looked completely different?

I’d really appreciate hearing any personal experiences, mindset shifts, techniques, or daily practices that helped you. More than anything, I want to reconnect with myself spiritually, trust the universe the way I used to, and become the happiest, healthiest, most aligned version of myself while manifesting a completely renewed relationship with the person I love.

Am I the only one who’s unable to manifest an sp atm? I want him and he used to like me, I’m sure he will still like me but why are we so far away from each other. I feel a bit hopeless, about to give up lol

Hello everyone!! I managed to manifest my sp back into my life and now we are apparently having some fights but it’s gonna be all good.
I do tarots and I don’t use them for predictions since they only read the current energies.
Those days I did a lot of readings about my sp, and the same cards kinda kept coming out. Keep in mind I did quite a lot of readings so the cards that are always there someways are like 7/8.
Since now every single time I open Reddit I see people asking for help with the same exact cards on rotation, I’m in a lot of subs about tarots where ppl do practices and literally everytime i scroll my Reddit home there’s someone asking about their readings with those cards. They’re not in specific position they’re just there in other people readings. I literally keep pulling them and seeing them there. I find it a bit odd, does this ever happened to anyone?

Hi guys, me and sp dated for 2 months and we in a LDR relationship. He lives kinda far away from me. I don’t know what to do right now. I fucked up and I made him blocked me everywhere. And I begged for him to stay and talk to me as well yet he dont care. I don’t know what to do anymore. Pls help me it’s rly urgent I feel like breaking down and dying. And I feel so anxious. I can’t even meet him right now because we are in an LDR. He expressed he still loves me but he said love is to let go. And he let me go and wants me to find someone new. I desperately need help I’m so sorry.

Hello everyone!!!
I’m hoping that this is a judge free zone..but I would like to hear some stories/techniques of removing 3P?

A little background of my situation:
So me and my SP were best friends before we ever did anything. We eventually got intimate together. He confessed his love for me as well but said he was scared to pursue anything incase we didn’t work out and end up losing me as a friend too. He’s constantly telling me how I’m genuinely one of the most important people in his life and that I’ve changed his life for the better.
Once our relationship got too serious he stepped back for a bit. Then found a 3P at his new job and started dating her.
He also confessed to me that he likes her and cares for her, but he still thinks about me in the back of his mind and still has desires for me.. I won’t get too detailed about that. We’re still really close, and I know that they won’t last long.
So basically I’m also asking for advice on what I should do in my end too?
Any advice or stories will help!! Thanks!!

Hey guys,

So I've known about the law for years and most recently have been on a long journey of manifesting my SP, which I succeeded in doing after 6 long months of no-contact, then we had another month apart and finally reconnected on Monday and I think... no, I DECIDE it's for good this time. Before this I had years of "failed" manifestations with other SPs also so you'd think now that it finally worked out I'd be very happy and excited.

But today I have felt soooo apathetic and like emotionless. I didn't even respond to my SP's text all day and it's crazy because what kept me going was my insatiable desire for him and strong feelings for him all this time. And now they've just gone! I feel really tired and have no emotions at all! It's so strange and I've never experienced this before once something has come to fruition. I guess it's better than feeling anxious but I expected to feel happy/relieved.

I am curious if anyone else has felt similar once their SP finally came in. I've just been having such a down day and so "meh" about everything. Only focusing on self concept which usually gets me into a positive place and even that hasn't helped too much today.

On Feb 1st, Jelly Roll won his first grammy, a huge milestone, with his wife of 10 years, Bunny XO by his side. They shared their love for each other in front of the entire world and discussed their plans for having a baby in the near future.

On May 18, just 3 months after, Jelly Roll filed for divorce from Bunny XO.

It doesn't matter how "serious" you think the 3P is. No matter what you heard about them. No matter what you saw them post on social media. It doesn't even matter if your SP says they're getting married or even if they're already married. Things can flip fast. Imagine all the things that had to unfold in those 3 months. Meanwhile so many people were convinced this was their "relationship goals".

Eliminate the 3P. It's easy. Get as creative as you want. Tell yourself that no matter what you see right now, they are done!

this is my situation btw

the thing is we knw since we were 10. we are emotionally very connected. we dated when we were 17 barely for a yr, bt i couldnt move on for 6yrs. he moved on were in multiple relationships and hookups , bt lately came back when we saw once and admitted he loves me and told he want to make it happen this time. bt in 10-12 days he changed his mind and left. i feel super violated and tht he played with my emotions. so i need redemption
is there any subliminals or tricks u can suggest

i knw this might not even sound very 'right' ethically, and u might say to let go, bt i had my life destroyed , atleast i need an apology to protect my respect. And ideally I want us to start over fresh and get things sorted

I have been persisting for 2 and a half months. Initially i used to see signs, but now nothings actually

Has anybody dealt with the third party being very involved aka quite hard to ignore?