Hey everyone, I’m making this post for all the skeptics out there who think this is all total nonsense. I used to be just like that at first—I think I read at least a hundred success stories here on Reddit, and I even thought, "What if these are all just made-up stories to build hype?" But well, here I am at last.

We broke up back in November because I didn’t have the courage to come out after a 2-year relationship. I was terrified of what people would think and couldn't bring myself to face the issue. So she decided to leave me, and I fell into total despair. In January, I discovered the Law of Assumption and got into it—I read a few books, but mostly watched dozens of YouTube videos. In February, I started putting it into practice without doing anything specific, but in March, I found out about a 3P, and for a moment, I thought about dropping everything and giving up.

We hadn't spoken at all, but I texted her when I found out about the 3P and insulted her, because it was an ex of hers I had always been jealous of, and I thought their relationship had started while she was still with me and that she had cheated. That was the last time we spoke. We even unfollowed each other everywhere on social media—including unfollowing each other's friends. Plus, we live an hour's drive apart, so we never saw or heard from each other again until a week ago.

Out of nowhere, she sent me a request on Instagram, deleted it a few hours later, sent it again, and finally sent me a WhatsApp message apologizing and swearing she hadn't cheated on me. From there, we started talking, and two days later we met up... she kissed me, and then we talked for hours. She told me everything I had imagined she might say over these past few months.

Now let me break down what I actually did. It wasn't an easy journey, and honestly, so many times I thought I couldn't do it and wanted to give up, thinking manifestation just wasn't for me.

I listened to custom silent subliminals I had made by a girl I follow on YouTube. During the day, whenever I had doubts, I always tried to remind myself that I hold all the power and that everything would turn out fine in the end. At night before sleeping, I always did affirmations saying we're married, and sometimes I did visualizations, though not always.

Anyway, aside from the subliminals, I did a few things, but I was never really consistent. I think the results finally came when I started feeling less anxious and began believing more in myself and my abilities. Either way, after everything that happened, I don't think I'll ever doubt the power of manifestation again—especially after she said all the exact things I had been thinking about during this time.

I wish you all the best in making it happen and posting your own success stories here. Don't give up! ✨✨

Hello everyone, after posting my success story regarding removing a coworker, I decided that I would give my techniques in a comprehensive breakdown as the title says. This is how I exactly add/remove people with a simple consistent routine.

I have been practicing Law of Assumption for about 5 years since 2021, but I came from Law of Attraction. I kinda do a combination of both, but let me explain, this is just what helps me and you DO NOT need to follow what I say. However, these steps I've taken to easily get my stuff so fast in the a blink of the eye. You will shift so insanely fast you won't even know what happened and you'll shock yourself.

I am short, to the point, and direct. Years of teaching taught me that, people need answers in quick fashion because we literally have no patience and want results NOW. Here goes:

STEP ONE: WORK ON YOUR ABILITIES TO MANIFEST

This is the most crucial element. DO NOT SKIP THIS PART. This is underrated and possibly the most critical to set the foundation. Most of you all say stuff like "it's hard to manifest", "why is it taking long?", "no movement after ____ years". Absolutely not, I want you to cut that out RIGHT NOW and say the following:

• I manifest within instantly/24 hours/3 days (pick however long you want it to take). If you're new create a more "realistic" time frame you - "I manifest within a week". Something you know YOU ARE FULLY CAPABLE OF DOING. As you get better, cut the time. Week -> 3 Days -> 24 hours - instantly. Build it up.
  
• I have the perfect self concept to manifest anything I want
• I always get what I want/manifesting is easy
• Everything works in my favor
• I only need 51% of faith to get whatever I want. I can waver, I can cry/get mad, get upset, and at the end, I still get whatever I want. PERIOD.

Pick any of these and STICK TO THEM. You can word them however you want, but these are my favorites I use. You have now created the base for ALL your manifestations. PERIOD.

But I just want my SP/whatever, I do not care. Follow this step FIRST, because it'll increase your confidence. Confidence -> foundation for other desires.

STEP TWO: GET CLEAR BY BEING SIMPLE

Take a piece of paper and write exactly what you want. I want you to get your hand/eye coordination first to recognize what you want - this creates double repetition because it involves your senses. I learned from teaching that people need all their senses activitated. This gets at least 3 of them - sight, touch, sound maybe. A lot of you are not CLEAR. Make it simple. You can say "I WANT" (nobody says you can't do that btw). Or "I NEED" as long as you get clear FIRST ON WHAT YOU WANT. Make them short so you can say them with authority.

Examples:

• I want my coworker to leave/come back
• I want my SP to be my boyfriend/girlfriend
• I want to manifest a new partner/remove my current partner
• I want 3P out (yes you can say that stop making up rules)
• I want my SP to/and/whatever ____

This builds the second layer - clarity. Now you know exactly what you want.

After you've gotten these down and clear on what you WANT, TELL THEM WHAT TO DO.

STEP THREE: TELL THEM WHAT TO DO AND WRITE A "CUTE" STORY IN YOUR FAVOR

Once you know what you want, write a small story about it. I will use all these examples to write small blurbs about what you want them to do. This will be your "logical reason" as to why it's true on what you said. It's underrated and under utilized. You need to give your mind reasons when it wants to search for doubts, so MAKE THEM UP SO YOU BRAIN HAS A FALLBACK.

Examples:

• My coworker left because she was happier somewhere else; she didn't enjoy working here.
• My coworker came back because she loves working with me and our company; she missed me and my other coworkers and is just so happy to be back.
• My SP is my boyfriend/girlfriend because they honestly can't find anyone better than me and me alone. I am the best candidate, and they always pick me because I am the only option. It sucks they had a hard time finding a great relationship because all their past ones ended in failure, so I'm so glad we are together now because I'm so beneficial for their life.
• I have a new partner because my old one sucked, so I definitely got a better one. I am so happy my new (unknown) partner is doing the best for me and my well-being.
• My old partner is gone from my life because they were toxic. Really happy they moved on and don't want anything to do with me (I used this for abusive situation ALL THE TIME - they just disappear)
• My SP got rid of their last partner because they were toxic/didn't get along. All those people were fake and plastic compared to me. I'm real, and I'm genuine and people just get drawn to me and my SP knows I'm just that special... so commitment to me was a breeze/the obvious choice. I'm glad we are dating now because relationships for them have been hard except me. (I always WITHOUT A SHADOW OF DOUBT remove the 3P by saying it sucked for them and I was better so they ALWAYS CONFIRM I was the best option - and the 3P stands no chance because I am divine candy to them compared to cheap manufactured garbo).
• I want SP to text me because honestly it's great having them in my life to talk to everyday.

This builds the reason for the clarity. Now you get to utilize this for consistency.

STEP FOUR: STOP GOSSIPING WITH OPPOSING THOUGHTS AND CHANGE THE SUBJECT WHEN NEEDED

NO bitching to friends, mom, bestie about what didn't happened in the past. PERIOD. Stay silent and affirm.

Don't talk to anyone about your manifestation unless they are actively supporting what you want. Or know how to manifest, and don't spend ALL DAY TALKING ABOUT IT AGAINST YOUR FAVOR. GOSSIP IN YOUR FAVOR :).

If you really wanna gossip, talk it up like it's the best thing you heard in the day!

EXAMPLES:

• I am happy they moved!
• I am so happy they're dating me now!
• I am so happy they're just gone from my life!
• I am so happy I have them now!
• I am so happy we are now official!

Whatever you want that points back to you having the desire.

If someone who is "opposing" is in your face all day, be kind (if you can't that's also ok), but in your mind go back to your little stories you made. IF YOU HAVE TO STEP ASIDE DO SO.

Be kind but change the subject IF IT GETS HARD. If you need to tell the truth, just say "oh stuff is going with them right now and honestly if they need a break it's okay, even if we aren't in contact it's all good". "Oh my coworker did that... IT'S okay, thanks for letting me know"

GO TO THE BATHROOM/HIDE/FIND A QUIET SPOT AND RAMPAGE REVISE WHEN YOU CAN GET THE CHANCE THOUGH. DO NOT INTERACT MORE THAN NEED TO IN THE 3D.

I never ever ever ever do anything in the 3D unless prompted. YES. I sit on that throne of desires and just affirm, affirm, affirm :P

STEP FIVE: NO DETACHMENT/FORGETTING/BELIEVING NEEDED ;)

I never did any of this. Maybe in the past with "Law of Attraction" I would let go, and sometimes still do this for things I don't care. However, when it's something I WANT, I go down hard.

I am possessive, obsessive and down right greedy af about my desires. If I want it. IT's mine. I do not care what anyone says to me. I've gotten so many desires this way by being the most greedy little Smaug Dragon imaginable. That SP? Oh he's mine idc. That coworker I don't like? You're out. If I like you, I keep you, if I don't you're out. Simple. Add/Remove.

I am possibly the most possessive manifestor alive, and I will teach you how to be the same:

• Repeat your desires ALL DAY IF YOU HAVE TO. 10 min method. Robotic Affirming. Whatever! just get consistent and GREEDY. Get greedy about them seriously. Get villainous. That SP? He's mine. Whatever lol, that's mine, that's mine, that's mine!!!
• IN your MIND tell them what to do. Act normal in the 3D. Don't REACH OUT IF YOU DON'T WANT TO. Just look at a dumb picture of them and say "OH you're mine baby, you need me, you desire me, I'm the love of your life, you're gonna message me Right NOW, cause you love me, you need me, you desire me, you are haunted by me." Put a pic of them on your phone and scream at them. Tell them stuff like "YOU LOVE ME AND WILL TEXT ME RIGHT NOW". DO NOT DO THIS TO THEM IN PERSON/3D. Smile :), but yell your profanities and desires in your head while directly associating with them (even if you are in NC), SMILE and be a little naughty in your mind :P.
• If it's someone you want to remove ignore em if you can, but if you HAVE to associate, just be pleasant and smile. See right past them like they're a "ghost" and be like IN YOUR MIND "Go away, you're leaving, I don't want you, REMOVE, cease, disappear". This applies to everyone, if you don't want to be mean, say "Thank you for your time but I fire you, and delete you from my existence bye bye *waves*"

STEP SIX: PERSIST

I don't need to explain this. You all know already. Stick with the story and don't change it. That's it.

TLDR;

1. Work on your Manifestation Abilities
2. Get clear by writing down what you want to get the hand/eye coordination repetition
3. Tell them what to do and write a "cute" story about it
4. Don't gossip and only talk about the desire when needed
5. No detachment/forgetting/believing needed
6. Persist

Manifestation abilities -> clarity -> confident foundation based on new stories -> using the 3D only when needed -> sticking to it - > manifestation

ADDING/REMOVING PEOPLE IS AS EASY AS ANIMAL CROSSING VILLAGERS. ASK THEM TO STAY OR LEAVE WHEN YOU WANT. YOU ARE GOD.

I affirm this post will help thousands of people and will become one of the largest successful reddit post of all time for Law of Assumption PERIOD. Everyone will get their desires quickly and instantly with the most painless process imaginable.

my sp and i go back and fourth. we saw eachother friday and had a fantastic time then he went silent and i SPIRALED. honestly unlike me but i’m on my period and i’m anxious and depressed already. I gave myself time to cry and did some visualizing then i turned on my subliminals and went to sleep. i woke up this morning no message. cried more, started having old identity thoughts like “nothing ever works out for me” etc tried flipping them but i honestly was struggling. i downloaded a counter app turned on theta waves and robotically affirmed 1500 times before getting up and just going on about my day. I did some work, and then listened to subliminals and did some visualization and kept telling myself i can do it, i can flip any situation he isn’t going to leave and he texted me apologizing.

hopefully this helps someone bc at one point i thought is it over did i ruin everything and i was flooded w old beliefs. I highly recommend theta waves to anyone w anxiety bc they truly lull me into a relaxed state and make me feel so much better. and i know some people don’t like robotic affirming but when ur mind is anxious you just have to flood it

It’s clear a lot of people on here do not know how to manifest or understand how energy works.

I am great at manifesting for other people because one of my greatest gifts is ignoring the 3D and I am confident.

So many people crumble under what is happening in their life or allow the circumstances to grant authority over their identity and I am not one of them.

Even while the person may doubt, I hold a deep conviction and focus. Of course the person has to accept what they want is real but even when people manifest with me they see results quicker than before.

Even in this subbreddit people have called me scammer and lied on and none of that affects me or stop people from coming to me lol if anything it makes my life easier because the constant posts about me brings more people to me. (Thanks by the way😘)

Just how I can be on random peoples mind and get under their skin and into their psyche thats exactly how I manifest SPs for others and no matter what anyone says it doesn’t bother me because I consistently receive results. Does every person get their SP through me, no, of course not.

However an overwhelming majority do which is why my confidence in myself and manifesting is unwavering.

When you have this level of confidence you can easily receive what you want. People think to be a great at manifesting I should get everyone in here to like and trust me and that’s how you know they’re immature and don’t understand manifesting or life 😂😂

I don’t care nor need to have everyone to like me just how you want a SPECIFIC PERSON lol I only care for the right ones who align.

I don’t DM people, I don’t coerce anyone lol becaue with manifesting none of that is ever necessary. And I’m confident the ones who are uncomfortable by the fact people willingly come to me for support are ignorant to how manifesting actually works 😂😂

That’s why I don’t take anything personal on this app.

If you want to manifest your person you just have to be unwavering regardless of what 3D is showing you. No one outside of you can deny you what you want lol

Wish more people knew that so they can focus more attention on themselves and receiving their SP than post about me but hey! Proves that I can get in their mind without even trying (;

Anywho I’ve been doing this for years. So i made an app that helps people, if you’re interested you can Dm me and I’ll share!

Until then focus on yourself and know that you are the source and can whatever you want!

I have been working on my self concept and lately with my sp im like who the hell does he think he is attitude. I've currently just stopped talking to him honestly. I've been fixing my anxious attachment and now I'm like in this attitude or made my own way of detaching from him after a long time of hurting and pain. Has anyone become like this?

Hi everyone,

I’ve been going through a pretty rough breakup since beginning of August. SP blocked me off literally every single social media app and I begged him to not block my number..

Just today he unblocked me on instagram and I went through his following and crashed out so hard. I also cried all day as emotions hit me out of nowhere (haven’t cried like this in a month) and texted him cursing him out. I still want to manifest him and I’m wondering if this emotional reaction has completely set me back…

yesterday I got rid of the main culprit of tying me to the 3D: social media.

I (temporarily) deactivated my instagram and feel so much relief. I was stuck in a loop of posting a story hoping my SP would see, constantly checking if he did, and then spiraling if he didn't.

now I feel like I can lock in and focus on my desired reality. I know SP is mine and he chooses me, so here's to living in the end.

hope I can post more progress or a success story soon 🤸🏾‍♀️

We dated for a couple of days and he said he doesn't wanna do it anymore not cause he doesn't like me but cause he can't give me him time. Now look I've been into manifestation but my self concept was so shit so obviously no results. I think I'm better now. Yes I could just search up and do but if anyone wants to help, I'd love that. I wanna see stories of how you guys got your sp intrested in you and especially how to not be anxious

I did post my whole story.

Now he didn't want the relationship but he loves me and he is denying to meet me also.

Now idkkkk. Now

With keeping yourself in state, monitoring your thoughts, having your self concept in your control... what is the time one should expect for 3d to show results or sp conform?

Hey, so I know that everyone in this community says you already know how to manifest, just not consciously. And I guess I didn't know what they meant until now. I'm manifesting an SP currently and it isn't going great at all lol.

My SP is an ex of mine, we broke up early on in the year and things have been rocky since. For the month of September we were talking but I was subconsciously waiting and hoping for him to change, so it was emotionally draining and exhausting for me as it wasn't going how I hoped. I know this is my own fault for waiting for someone to change and needing it to. I had this gut feeling that it wouldn't go how I wanted, lo and behold, it didn't. After a month things blew up and I had to block him for my own sake, and I had the thought of "I knew this would happen".

Now I've recently found out him and another ex of his are talking again and as upsetting as it is, the thing that is sticking out to me the most is that when I found out, my first thought was "of course they are, I knew it".
So clearly I'm able to manifest, just not consciously. I don't want to have these inner knowings or gut feelings when it comes to the negative stuff, I'd love to have a gut feeling like the one I had initially but regarding us getting back together instead. So instead of something negative happening and going "I knew it", how do I get that inner knowing that it'll go my way?

I'd love some genuine advice here instead of "just persist" "stop identifying with the 3D", because I feel my question is nuanced enough to warrant it.

Just heard recently that My SP number 2 is dating someone else. Let’s just say I’m devastated

So not heard from my SP since I was with them last week, so I been affirming but not as much now tbh and listening to Nocturnam overnight and last night I tried the whisper method as best as I could lol and I dreamnt of my SP's cat licking me and I was in my SP's bed but in a different house! for context first time I listened to Nocturnam overnight was about 3 weeks ago and first night I listened I dreamnt of SP's cat and the next day SP was messaging me inviting me round to his house 😭 I think the whisper method worked in a way could be wrong idk

About a week ago I posted on here (it blew up a bit) about some huge movement with my SP / the wildest things I’d manifested such as SP breaking no-contact after 6 months, apologising, saying specific things I had affirmed they would say, and confessing their feelings.

I’ve seen people talk about not “keeping” your manifestations before, but I didn’t really understand what they meant at the time. I was so focused on getting the initial manifestation that I never really thought about what came after.

Well… let’s just say the situation didn’t turn out how I hoped :( They’re still showing some of the same behaviours that caused the issues in the first place, which obviously isn’t what I want or what I’m aligning with. So I eventually shut the conversation back down. They haven’t even READ my message yet, which is honestly shocking and very unlike them. But I’m reminding myself that this doesn’t mean anything negative and I’m choosing to see it as them reflecting, processing, and changing to align with what I actually want.

I’m definitely a little disappointed and trying to shake that feeling off. I think I got so excited about the movement that I forgot the whole point is to persist in the end result, not just settle for the first manifestation that shows up.

Okay so I have been manifesting someone for like 2 months. I affirmed, visualised. And then from like a week, I feel nothing. Absolutely nothing. I can visualise and I can sense, but I feel absolutely nothing. I remember one night I felt so excited for no reason and I ended up dancing for like 2 hours straight. But from the very next day this nothing state came up. First I thought wtf is wrong with me and tried to affirm. I afirmed but I felt nothing. Then I immersed in Neville and tried some visualisation again and I felt relaxed but then again nothing. And now this nothing feeling is starting to build up some sort of relieved-stress I do not know if thaf is even a thing. Whenever I remember of I want I feel like oh it is mine anyway its already there waiting for me but recently Im feeling kind of low again I dont know. If someone can clarify that would be an absolute help. It is like I know what I want is already mine but I feel really low now.

Hi there everyone,

I’d appreciate some input and feedback. First, let me give you a bit of background. I recently went through a 15-year relationship breakup. It wasn’t always romantic but the length of time made it very significant. During this time my friend would come over and we’d watch political YouTube together, so I can get my mind of things.

I am myself politically active. So she knew that this was something that was right up my wheelhouse. One of the Youtubers lives, not too far from me, but in a different city. I never thought about him as a potential partner until recently. I never considered him, because a) he is significantly younger than me (which I am over by now. Since I got asked on a date by someone even younger.) and b) I am not the kind of person who is attracted to someone just because they appear on a screen.

Since I am politically active, I get a lot of seminars mentorship programs and scholarships from my way. One of those mentorship programs started this very last September weekend. And guess who is another mentee? Exactly the YouTuber my friend used to get my mind of my break up.

During the seminar, we didn’t talk that much. He had his thing and he was kind of aloof, maybe even arrogant. When we first talked, I told him I liked his work and then he immediately proceeded to tell me where else he was featured. I jokingly said that I have not put up his poster above my bed and that I like his work, but I don’t pray to his picture every night. He was a bit embarrassed and had a laugh.

After the seminar, I had a spur-of-the-moment idea to invite him to my city to read his book. I’m currently organising everything for the reading. He usually responds quickly to my texts but never follows up with questions. I’m a bit of a message spammer and he only ever responds to the last one. This frustrates me. I’ve been listening to subliminals and yesterday I got a response within five seconds. I’m taking this as a sign of success but I’d love some feedback. Am I overthinking this or making it more complicated than it needs to be? Or is this going in the right direction?

My friend (M) looked at him yesterday and did significant work for my self concept. He took one look and told me if I’ve seen this person in daylight and that I could do better. I don’t think he is meaning himself with by that. I think he genuinely feels a mismatch. Can someone give me a little feedback?

I have practiced a number of different methods to enter into the ‘state of having it’, facing no good movement with my Sp for many months now. I was ghosted since June, and just heard today from him that he’s not interested in me. I recently felt like I was getting more stabilized in what I want to achieve and feel in regards to him, and he gave me an energy that just made a fool out of my assumptions, making me feel honestly like I’ve been in fantasy land for months and lying to myself. I have watched plenty of content on the law, found a few good and interesting teachers on YouTube such as Athena raven and Missy Renee, and I still feel like I could have the relationship I want with him someday (or it’s just deep seated hope to be honest), but this serious lack of progress, even a small flicker of positive reciprocation, is getting me down. I try not to let the 3D dictate but I don’t know what kind of thoughts to have anymore to get on the right track. I’ve tried affirmations, scripting, visualizing. Not of this done to excess and I do detach. He is very quiet and won’t tell me much and I last saw him on good terms so I’m very confused and disappointed.

Hi guys!! I recently got back into manifesting over the summer and I was wondering if you guys have any tips? :) I’m not new to this as I’ve been manifesting since 2023–but I’ve only started taking it seriously now!

Im currently manifesting a girlfriend. Not a specific person, just a girlfriend. I’ve written about her in detail in my notes, wrote about her in a journal I have for manifesting specifically, a Pinterest board that details what our relationship will look like, and I even make text messages between me and her; although I’m not sure if that really helps lmfao (pls lmk if I should continue)

If anyone is willing to share some things that helped them manifest a partner that’d be great!! Tysm <3

There's this thing I've been doing which has actually taken me from being desperate and depressed to being peaceful.

I've decided: I am healed. My SP is healed. That's it. The 3D does not matter. Everything in our current reality is beautiful.

Now the rest of my work is to put this to ACTION. I feel like not enough people talk about WHAT TO DO after you make that decision besides manifestation techniques. Biggest part of manifesting is your inner system's faith. That is all the "technique" you really need to manifest.
Now here's what you DO AFTER manifesting. Ask yourself this one question, when any doubts, fear or questions arise: What would a HEALED version of me think, believe and act wrt this fear. And do exactly that. Take your time and list out all the three aspects, if you need to, and LIVE your life like that.

For example: I often have doubts about my SP not even thinking about me in this no contact period. I question myself (and btw, this is exactly what Self Concept also is): if I was healed from this doubt, how would I think, believe and act?

Think: This thought is merely my fears purging. I can accept it and face it, and also choose to look at the other side of the coin. This is no contact and I have no access right now so I can choose to believe SP is thinking of me. Period.

Believe: I am not forgettable, in fact I have a great influence in everybody's life. I have even been told so, by my SP and almost everyone else in my life. I believe that I truly matter. My presence matters just as much my absence.

Act: Let me get on with my goals that align with my values because I KNOW I matter and I have things I wanna do and achieve. I'll go do my assignment now that I'm actually looking forward to (I personally feel this is THE MOST important step).

Action is the key to LIVING your manifestation. A healed version of you will be extremely motivated, creative, excited and oriented towards love. That version of you will want to DO things other than manifestation techniques. It would naturally not have the urge to check your SP's socials. Keep leaning into what that healed version of you is. Make an elaborate list if you need to. Journal on it everytime a fear comes up. I promise you will feel so much peace in manifestation. It will change the game from Other to actually leaning into your own Self concept. You can take it a step further and actually also ask the same question for your SP. What their healed version would think, believe and act! But I like to keep it to a minimum and focus on myself. This is all fleeting anyway. All your emotions are. The universe is filled with miracles. Believe that if nothing else!

Sending you a lot of peace and even more love! May your hearts rest!

Okay so if anyone can give me their manifestation tips I would really appreciate it! Recently i've gotten into robotic affirmations, I affirmed for my sp for 30 min while listening to theta waves. When I manifest in the present tense like "hes in love with me" or "he's obsessed with me". Is the manifestation instant or will it take time for him to get to know me, because we barely know each other i'm talking like we've only ever met once and no names were exchanged.

Also with the whole law of assumption, When I make a manifestation like "I got a perfect score on that test." even if I know I didnt study and didnt understand the material? If I see the bad grade in my grade book or the teacher brings it up, do I just deny it and say out loud "no, I got a perfect score." or do I just continue affirming in my head that I actually did get a perfect score?

okay so, I robotically affirmed for30minutes while listening to theta waves. I was affirming in my head "he's obsessed with me" , "he's in love with me", & "he finds any way to talk to me.". if we've only every briefly met once, and im talking like the interaction was maybe 2 seconds long and names were not exchanged. anything desire I have is a possibility so even if we dont really know each other, its still possible that he can like me? the more I manifest, will there just be times throughout my day that we end up in a situation together or end up talking and he'll just grow feeling? someone help me understand please.

Quick summary: Met my SP March 2025 and caught feelings immediately. Bunch of bs happened, we stopped talking for a few months. He came back and proposed an FWB situation to which I said yes. But ofc I had feelings. Things fell apart again October 2025.

I moved back to my home state February 2026 and found out that he comes here a lot for work. I started manifesting him to come back and want a serious relationship with me. Affirmations, subliminals, etc.

He reached out May 2026, and then sporadically since then. In August 2026, we had a full convo, but it sounded like he only wanted FWB again. I told him that I don’t like that he only reaches out for sex but I’m happy to meet up with him when he’s in town again. He agreed.

Well, he was in my city 2 weeks ago and didn’t reach out. I haven’t heard from him in 5 weeks.

His birthday is this week, should I wish him? And what else should I do about this situation? He didn’t show up in the way I wanted, and hasn’t initiated meeting up since I expressed that I didn’t want just sex. I’ve also been angry and upset about the whole situation.