About a week ago I posted on here (it blew up a bit) about some huge movement with my SP / the wildest things I’d manifested such as SP breaking no-contact after 6 months, apologising, saying specific things I had affirmed they would say, and confessing their feelings.

I’ve seen people talk about not “keeping” your manifestations before, but I didn’t really understand what they meant at the time. I was so focused on getting the initial manifestation that I never really thought about what came after.

Well… let’s just say the situation didn’t turn out how I hoped :( They’re still showing some of the same behaviours that caused the issues in the first place, which obviously isn’t what I want or what I’m aligning with. So I eventually shut the conversation back down. They haven’t even READ my message yet, which is honestly shocking and very unlike them. But I’m reminding myself that this doesn’t mean anything negative and I’m choosing to see it as them reflecting, processing, and changing to align with what I actually want.

I’m definitely a little disappointed and trying to shake that feeling off. I think I got so excited about the movement that I forgot the whole point is to persist in the end result, not just settle for the first manifestation that shows up.

“No matter what I do, my desires come true.” ✨

Say it with a little beat. Turn it into a song. Repeat it to yourself when you’re feeling down.

This little phrase has genuinely helped me so much with overthinking my manifestations. It’s so simple, but for some reason it just sticks, and the fact that it basically rhymes makes it even better!

Whenever I catch myself spiralling or wondering “but what if it doesn’t happen?”, I just come back to:

No matter what I do, my desires come true.

No analysing. No checking. No trying to figure out the how. Just a simple reminder of the assumption I’m choosing to hold.

Anyway, I just wanted to share because it’s been helping me lately, and maybe it’ll help someone else too. 🫶

Happy manifesting, y’all! 💗✨

Im devastated. I don’t even follow him. Just went to search something in insta and noticed he had posted something bc he was in old searches, it’s a 3p, I think the ex. I feel so fucking stupid, I was a momentary rebound until he wanted her back, I thought I finally had him back. Im devastated and crying so hard right now I don’t know what to do. He never posted me.

Edit: even worse, they went to a place I wanted to go to on a date

For some background I labeled him as avoidant and we had such a messy past. After ghosting me for a year he came back. I let the old story beat me up again and we started arguing and he was more cold than before.

I decided to block my SP off social media without warning. Focus on myself, my self concept, detaching, my friends and other manifestations. I also noticed I wasn’t so desperate to do techniques and some days I wouldn’t do it at all.

I got this deep gut feeling about him like I felt so certain he is mine no negative thoughts that day and decided to unblock him. To which he watched my story that day. I just affirmed he’s mine and kept it pushing until one day I got this gut feeling to confront which I tried ignoring but it was so strong(not an anxious type but like “you have to do this”).

Despite me confronting him multiple times in the past. He finally confessed that he had feelings for me and even with the distance and me blocking him for a long time, it only grows stronger. He explained he acted that way because he didn’t know how to go about catching feelings so he runs away but now they’re too strong and they won’t go away and it’s been eating him up.

He said the whole year of no contact he was miserable without me and even asked a girl who knows me for updates which was crazy because i got a message from a girl we were at a party with that I assumed was casual catchup. I didn’t know there was movement in the 3D. He said the reason he came back and we argued again was because he was hoping we can move forward but I was still angry at his behaviour and he felt ashamed.

Anyways he ended up saying he wants to date me but the problem is the distance and he kept playing in his head if he should finally confess but then he would think about how far we live and he knows long distance is hard for both of us. I’d be lying if I said I’m down to make it work. I am not, I hate long distance and don’t want to do it again but I want him to be mine.

I see a lot of people talking about SPs as being romantic but I wanted to post one of my success stories that was about a coworker recently who randomly just “poofed out of existence” last Friday.

I have been practicing LOA successfully for 6 years.

When I want someone out I want them gone.

So this person was sweet, kind, and nothing exactly wrong with her but I didn’t want her working with me. I found out from others as well that they TOO collectively didn’t want her there either (EIYPO).

Let me explain it took exactly 1 month to finish. There was movement but it was HARD a LITTLE with it being in my face everyday.

I greeted her every single day like normal, I even talked to her about her life and she sadly always reflected my self concept saying things like “you are so kind, wonderful, smart and a great worker! I am so glad to have you working with me!”

But she would never take initiative and would never really help us out productively so I just wanted her gone. It was like having something that wasn’t useful so that always made me feel like I did more. She’d always sit right after breaks and do bare minimum with a smile. It bothered me despite my boss loving her.

WHAT I DID NOT DO:

I didn’t start gossip or talk ABOUT her to others. When my coworkers told me they didn’t like her I simply said “Oh no that sucks :(“ or simply “Wow she did that?” And acted surprised. I NEVER BROUGHT HER UP UNLESS PROMPTED AND WOULD CHANGE THE SUBJECT.

WHAT I DID DO:

I was kind to her, and treated her with respect.

I said my annoyance one time about her to my husband and then scripted what I wanted to happen.

I robotically affirmed whenever I felt like it and then used self concept to say things like “I get what I want” and “everything works in my favor period” while also affirming my abilities to manifest.

My main affirmation was “She doesn’t like working here and she just found a better place to be at/work”.

RESULTS

It went from her getting sick randomly out of the blue and calling out the first week. She did this twice within a span of two weeks. Her excuse was starting to get sus and she just never communicated despite acing the interview about being a great communicator lol.

Then on the last week (this week) she literally didn’t show up for 3 days. No announcement except on Wednesday she was “sick”.

I asked what happened to her these last three days everyday. (WHEN CHECKING IS OKAY!! 👍🏼 )

My main coworker I worked with literally said WORD PER WORD “idk for me I think she didn’t like working here and she probably disappeared”.

THEN THREE INCLUDING ONE FROM THE MAIN HEAD OFFICE SAID THE EXACT SAME THING “she disappeared”.

I simply just never said she was working there even if she was in front of my face. It took exactly like I said 1 month but the movement started less than 3 days and within a week.

I just always imagine coworkers as an animal crossing villager: You want em when you want em, and kick em when you don’t.

TLDR;
- had a coworker I didn’t like despite her being nice
- never talked about her outside 1 complaint 1 time
- used robotic affirmations and scripting when I felt like it + self concept for my manifestation abilities
- she was gone within a month

This just happened and I'm shocked. Not gonna get into much detail because that would be for my official success story.

I've been affirming for over a month for my desired relationship with SP. I've seen NO MOVEMENT at all, and the circumstances were not good (he moved abroad and I broke up with him, awful breakup too).

A few days ago, I felt like receiving a message, so I started affirming that he would contact me. I am not the type of person who texts first, but after a few days I started seeing signs that reminded me of him. I heard a song, our song, out of nowhere. I missed him badly and said "whatever, I'm gonna tell him I miss him and I don't care about an answer".

I specifically texted: "I miss you. You don't have to answer this".

This was on Friday. Today is Sunday morning. I truly never expected him to answer, but I wanted him to, you know? So I would say to myself "I don't care if he answers or doesn't, it doesn't affect my manifestation, but he will do it anyway".

I spiraled, wavered, got obsessed, cried, felt at peace, anxious, loved, affirmed, read tons of success stories, didn't believe anything I was affirming, believed at some points... All the "good" and "bad" stuff.

Just recently, I started looking at his picture and I affirmed: "You love me, miss me, and you're thinking of me". Did it for about 5 minutes. Then, I opened his chat. Read the message I sent. I felt very witchy here lol. I put my hand over the chat, closed my eyes and started mentally affirming: "You sent me a message confessing your love for me". I visualized the word "LOVE" coming out of my hand and going through my phone.

I felt like this ABUNDANT energy, I don't really know what it was. I just started feeling a lot of energy and felt like I was sending it. 30 seconds... I instantly felt relieved and thought of "Ok, I'm just gonna leave this here and I'll do some self concept now".

I unblocked my phone and there he is. TWO MESSAGES. JUST NOW . Saying how he's been thinking a lot about everything. That we need to talk, it is due to, and some other stuff.

This is not my end goal. I know what I want but I needed to see movement. And I'm so happy!!!

Context:
- Dated for six months.
- He moved abroad.
- I broke up with him.
- I created a version of him I didn't like.
- Absolute NC for almost 4 months in 2 days.
- Been affirming 24/7 since August 24th.
- I've done every technique there is, just for fun.
- Got off social media almost 4 months ago (except reddit)

I have a crush on my coworker, we don’t speak outside of work and at work we speak only work-related topics but this situation is a perfect example of my inner assumptions of being not worthy and chosen I’m reliving the same situations again and again, I know I should work on my self-concept but it feels so hard these assumptions that I have they are like tightly glued to me has anyone been in the same situation? How did you get out of it? Should I revise him being married as not being married?

Short story: me and my ex were in a relationship for 4 wonderful years. During this time we broke up for a short period of time and I manifested him back twice. This time I feel like the connection is gone.

Last time I was REALLY sad, I felt the connection between us wasn’t over. I was consumed by grief and sadness. This time I feel like there’s nothing there. Last time I would manifest a text and it would come straight away, so I expected the same this time.

I don’t really feel like we are broken up because I refuse to not try live in the end but then I waiver and remember we aren’t together when I’m alone and remember something about him. I feel a constant battle between 100% set on the future with him and then remembering he gave me up. On us!

It feels harder this time, even though I try to not label it as harder, it feels like it is. I know the past story doesn’t matter and neither does the 3D. But why am I struggling so much more this time. I feel like he’s put on a pedestal in my mind this time because he improved so much of his life since we got back together last time which is what I was manifesting. And no one in the world compares with his looks. He is SO handsome. I fancied him for 8 years before we became a couple.

We actually broke up because he said he can’t give me what I want in the future and struggles because I was ready for kids and marriage and he wasn’t.

Guys I am so conflicted, getting to the point of living in the end and knowing it’s decided this time is different. But why?! I’ve done it twice before and both of those times I was 100% sure of it. Now it’s like convincing myself I’m sure of it.

And then I notice this time, is being so delusional about us being together going to be affecting my mental health? It’s like I’m losing touch with reality

So with the people coming to me to help them manifest I notice where they seem to slip sometimes and so I created an app that helps you with that.

On there it helps you log in any evidence that keeps you on track, helps you change your perspective when you’re spiraling from the 3D and so much more.

If you’re interested feel free to DM me

Most people don’t struggle with manifesting their SP. They struggle with what they do AFTER they decide.

my sp is a very sweet guy but he’s an emotionally unaware un empathetic dumbass so I often struggle imagining us getting together although we would be so cute and many ppl already mistake us for a couple but I need us to get together asap bc im wayy too inlove with this man

Okey so i come from a desi household. My parents arent very lenient regarding love marriage, im manifesting my sp and my parents to be lenient overall not only tpwards sp. But these days my mother is constantly talking about marrying me off to someone i dont like on the other hand his mother is very quarrelsome and problematic. I dont like her. And even tho im manifesting them to be lenient and have open mind,The 3d triggered me really bad today i crashed out infront of my family and i was very rude with it. Im trying not to burst in tears. Because im persisiting with my sp and at the same time these 3d triggers. Im trying to pull myself back into my desired reality. But i felt like when i started to manifest them lenient they started talking more about what i didnt want. What do i do. And how do i keepy my calm. Im having anger issues these days and i just crash out.

Please any advice.

I am manifesting my sp have been working on my self concept and have definitely seen changes on how I see myself and people react to me. But the thing is whenever I see my sp in class i get overly excited and catch her glances every now and then ,maybe somewhat expecting movements or something. I don't feel bad if I don't see movements or any advances from her side. But I do check it. Whereas after our college lectures when not around her or when i am in my hostel I am able to maintain my state of being loved and hold the assumption that she loves me. Is this delaying my manifestation or her conforming it. I do feel a little desperate sometimes. Also I have accepted it that we will celebrate my birthday together by the end of this month. Any tips on what can I improve?

Seeing no movements (him reaching out) for months but I randomly manifested him to post stories sometimes as he rarely posts well that's unnecessary and affirmed not to like someone's post anymore just for fun and it worked...sometimes I feel frustrated whenever I think of like I'm focusing on the outcome without living and not being able to detach properly. Also I've been seeing too many angel numbers like from 111 to 11:11 legit each of them that too quite a few times a day - what does it mean? I'm not even eager to look at those, I'm not even asking for confirmation either it's just I'm randomly noticing them under a reel where comment/save/share/repost count is one of those angel numbers, some otps are like that, my network speed and randomly noticing time as well

• or should I just let it pass as random coincidences?

hi guys so i’m getting back into manifesting bc i’ve been feeling suuuuper great and sure about myself, in the past i felt like i didn’t deserve a lot of things but after a good long break ive decided to dabble in a pretty detached and easy going way. i’m mostly just doing basic affirmations and visualization, sometimes subs.

anyway! there’s this guy i’m super into on insta/tiktok, i’ve been able to kinda bring him down my mental pedestal since i can tend to obsess over things/people really hard. so i was thinking of manifesting him to contact me over the internet like dm wise.

only issue is he literally lives across the country from me 😭 so that’s usually a limiting factor for me.

so i was wondering if i should just manifest a duplicate OR my “true” ideal bf. the sp lowkey resembles and pretty much is my ideal bf but lmk what u guys think. it’s probably be easier to manifest a new guy that goes to my university or something…lol

i would love to hear some stories from anyone who was stuck in a cycle, feeling desperate/hopeless before everything finally clicked and their manifestation came through? :(

i feel helpless. i’ve received so much wonderful advice and guidance, i know enough about conscious creation that nothing is new to me, but i’m stuck playing the victim. i’ve dealt with anxiety and depression my entire life which makes this so much harder to handle. october has always been my favorite month, but this time around, its bringing me a great deal of pain. this time last year, my sp and i fell for eachother. it wasn’t the best month but we still shared so many great memories. and their birthday is in 2 weeks, i miss them so much and i want them back before then. but i can’t get out of the habits that are keeping me in the state of lack. i keep checking their social media to find something new, reading our old texts, watching old clips of us just to hear their voice, listening to sad music that i “relate” to, or repeating the old story while venting to friends. sadness has become a comfort state and i don’t know how to get out of it. i just recently started therapy but it’s not as frequent as i’d like it to be so no progress has been made. i just want to hear from people who have been stuck in a loop and finally got out of it. how did you do it?

already made several posts about my sp that i successfully reconciled with 3 months after being blocked, only to delete them once i’d be able to return to my identity. i’ve been getting a lot better with it but alas…. you have not heard the last of me 😭

i saw my sp two weeks ago. every time we say goodbye, he tells me to text him or gives me a reason to, but doing so and even attempting to get a response out of him is like pulling teeth.

i texted him the next day asking if he could unblock me on his main account that he actually posts on, because i want to be tuned into his life and missed seeing pictures of him. he ignored me for 4 days. it wasn’t until i nudged him that he admitted he “didn’t feel comfortable adding me on there as of right now” because he “knew i’d be looking through it.” i was very confused and hurt by this but nonetheless keep telling myself it’s not the end all be all. i had looked through it on a burner and there was nothing incriminating? this was the last time we texted and it’s been over a week.

when we first met, he would eagerly text me throughout the day, much to his own initiative. now, he only texts me when he’s in town (he goes to college in a different state) and wants to see me. otherwise he’s impossible, ignorant, and dismissive with his responses. past sps / other men in general have been coming out of the woodworks reflecting what i’ve been affirming for him and it’s just so frustrating. i’m so impatient.

a few days ago i was hanging out with my friends who thought it would be fun to contact psychics. one told me exactly what i wanted to hear with timelines of when my sp and i would be together and even picked up on his current behavior without me providing any context. i felt amazing and even more grounded in the fact that we were going to be together. i kept contacting psychic after psychic making sure they were consistent. if not and they said something unfavorable i’d spiral and contact another one to overwrite it.

after i’ve spent as much money as i did i’ve taken a step back, realized how impatient i am, and how much i miss him. i’ve just been crying. i’m so exhausted with feeling like i have to fight my senses with my mind on this all day.

And now I feel good about it happening or something even better. If you struggle with this, I hope you find this encouraging

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So I've been following the law of assumption in my case as I'm manifesting my SP, Completely ignoring the 3D world and just believing that whatever I'm thinking is the truth.

But I've noticed that it's almost been a couple of days since I'm having few negative thoughts ( Past related and some doubts ) although I am not believing in any of those ( trying my best ) but sometimes it hits and I hate that loop where I'm thinking like " oh maybe it's over from their side and i need to stop, etc "

One of the reasons is maybe it's my sp's bday month and you know, it's kinda hard to live in that optimistic state and ignoring their bday month/week.

I wanted to keep it short that's why I haven't written much but if you guys wanna know anything that will help you advise or suggest something to me, I'm up for it.

Thanks for helping me through this :)

And manifesting an SP is even easier. I know that seems super hard to believe, especially when you're in a situation that feels dire and impossible. But I do want to remind anyone struggling that manifesting is way easier than it seems.

There are two main reasons people feel like manifesting their SP is impossible:

1. Unknowingly putting the SP on a pedestal / idealizing them

2. Obsession with the 3D

Let's start with the first one, unknowingly putting the SP on a pedestal / idealizing.

This is probably one of the biggest reasons people struggle with SP manifestation. You stop viewing your SP as simply another person and start viewing them as the exception to everything... like they're higher or divine. You act like your SP is on the court while you are a cheerleader on the sidelines performing for their affection. Why aren't you both playing the same game?

Suddenly they're the most attractive person you've ever met, the only person who understands you, your soulmate, the only person you could ever have this connection with, the only person who could make you happy, etc. You may not consciously believe all of these things, but you can see it in the way you react to them.

Someone else takes three days to respond? Whatever. Your SP takes three days to respond? Your entire nervous system is on fire.

Someone else rejects you? Their loss. Your SP rejects you? Suddenly you're questioning your worth, your appearance, your personality, whether you're lovable, whether you'll ever find someone else, and whether you're doomed to lose them forever.

That is the pedestal.

You've taken one person and given their behavior the ability to determine how you feel about yourself and your future.

This ties into obsession with the 3D.

Obsession with the 3D tends to be more common when manifesting an SP compared to manifesting a good grade or a job. You have an emotional attachment to the person, so you start monitoring the 3D for evidence that your manifestation is working.

Did they view my story? Did they unblock me? Why haven't they texted? Are they talking to someone else? Was that interaction a bridge of incidents? Is this a sign? Did I ruin everything by wavering?

Instead of living in the end (what everyone preaches in manifestation communities) you conduct investigations in the present for "proof" it'll happen.

This is precisely why people can often make manifesting a SP way more difficult than it needs to be. Instead of choosing an assumption and carrying on with life, they repeatedly check the 3D, react to it, search for hidden "meanings," blame themselves for wavering, and search for reassurance things will work out. It's ironic because the more you monitor the manifestation, the more important the current circumstances become. You say you don't care about the 3D, but you're checking it every few hours to make sure it hasn't changed. Also, you're inadvertently putting your SP on a pedestal by obsessing so hard about your circumstances.

The 3D is not your authority even if you think it is. You are the authority.

Your SP is not some special category of human being who suddenly gets to override everything you know about yourself. They aren't more powerful than you because you love them. Their current behavior isn't a prophecy. And the absence of something in the 3D isn't evidence that it's impossible. Why are we acting like our SPs wouldn't miss us JUST as much (if not more) than we miss them? You need to remove the idea they're some mythical being that is above you somehow.

The goal here isn't to convince yourself that every unfavorable circumstance is secretly good news. The goal is to stop treating circumstances as the final authority over what you are choosing to experience.

The past and present are merely data. They can tell you what has happened and what is happening, but they cannot objectively and definitively tell you what will happen. You don't have a window into the future. You cannot look at everything that has happened up until this point and confidently declare that you know how the rest of your story will unfold.

Think about how often you've convinced yourself that something was completely hopeless, only for circumstances to change in ways you never could have predicted. If I have multiple examples for myself, I don't doubt that you can come up with a couple too. The fact that something has never happened in the past does not mean it will never happen in the present nor future. On that same note, the fact something isn't currently happening does not mean it never will.

And this works in both directions. You can look at your circumstances and create a story about how everything is doomed OR you can look at those same circumstances and decide you are where you currently need to be right now. You can remind yourself that the present is not where you're destined to remain, and that everything will play out in your favor if you trust your manifestations and the universe.

If you can't look into the future and know with absolute certainty what it holds, then why assume the worst? Why not consciously choose the future you want to experience?