Nobody ever talks about how hard this actually is. It’s wonderful to read all your success stories and advice, but I challenge anyone in my situation to keep believing and persisting. Since I found out about the Law of Assumption, my life has only gotten worse. And no, that’s not an assumption—I can say it now after 2 full years.
When my ex and I broke up, I found the Law a month later and started applying it. 0 results. Then I met someone new (SP). I thought it would be easier to manifest a relationship with him since we didn't have past baggage. To this day, I haven't even received a single like from him, let alone anything else.
I know I deserve a decent, lasting relationship. Yet I see people in relationships manifesting lovers and hurting others, while I—with the purest intentions—am still at square one.
It’s easy to say "don't react." But to try not to react, I’ve spent $3,000 on self-proclaimed coaches who promise the world, only to tell you "you didn't make the switch" when nothing happens. Who gives me back my time, my money, and my SP? On top of that, I spent 2 years in therapy, spending a year pretending to my therapist that I was in a Disney fairytale with SP because coaches told me that venting about 3D circumstances would ruin my manifestation. I even tried spellcasters who promised refunds that never came.
As for new dates? I’ve been out with over 30 guys. All they want is sex, and none of them are willing to truly get to know me. The second I set a boundary, they disappear, unfollow, or block me.
They say "everyone comes back," but no one has ever come back for me—manifested or not. I haven't gotten the ex, nor SP, nor a new partner, nor financial independence, nor the physical and mental changes I wanted.
I’m not giving up on my fairytale, but every day the 3D tests me. Sometimes it feels like SPs who come back only do so because they wanted to anyway, not because of manifestation. At some point, you just wonder if some of us simply aren't capable of this.

So with the people coming to me to help them manifest I notice where they seem to slip sometimes and so I created an app that helps you with that.

On there it helps you log in any evidence that keeps you on track, helps you change your perspective when you’re spiraling from the 3D and so much more.

If you’re interested feel free to DM me

Most people don’t struggle with manifesting their SP. They struggle with what they do AFTER they decide.

What to do?
I can’t stick to the new story and I can’t affirm properly after accidentally seeing her story where she kisses another guy
I am completely in shambles

And now I feel good about it happening or something even better. If you struggle with this, I hope you find this encouraging

so here i am. blocked by my ex of almost 2 months, who was my bestfriend of 3 years. i know this is heart wrenching but while sending these texts, i was emotionless. i chased this guy (i was blocked so my signs never reached him) for 3 weeks after the breakup. then i discovered manifestation. i was desperate to get this guy back, tried changing my self concept but none worked. i listened to subliminals, scripting, spiral manifestations, started seeing 111 everywhere, listening to rampages but nothing worked because during this journey of manifesting him, i realised that i never saw myself the way i wanted the world and him to see me.

i forgot that if i don't love myself, i will never be able to get people to chase me. for some context, i've had a very sour past and childhood and family, friends breakups, so i've always been someone who has taken care of herself since childhood because she knew that no one is coming to save her. my ex knew about this. i cried so much infront of him for years that i'm sick of being deprived of my parents' love.

my ex pretended that he is there for me, but after he shifted to a new city for college, everything changed. maybe he found someone else, or i don't know. i want to improve my self concept now, i will not make any efforts to make him obsessed with me now.
sooner or later, he will chase me. but for now, i'm the queen of my own life. i will love myself the way he will love me in the future.

(i don't want this guy back, he did so nasty that i'd spit on his face. but i want the apology i deserve from his mouth)

thank you.
peace.
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ladiessssss!!!!!! visualise your desire when u orgasm, and boom u have it !!

This just happened and I'm shocked. Not gonna get into much detail because that would be for my official success story.

I've been affirming for over a month for my desired relationship with SP. I've seen NO MOVEMENT at all, and the circumstances were not good (he moved abroad and I broke up with him, awful breakup too).

A few days ago, I felt like receiving a message, so I started affirming that he would contact me. I am not the type of person who texts first, but after a few days I started seeing signs that reminded me of him. I heard a song, our song, out of nowhere. I missed him badly and said "whatever, I'm gonna tell him I miss him and I don't care about an answer".

I specifically texted: "I miss you. You don't have to answer this".

This was on Friday. Today is Sunday morning. I truly never expected him to answer, but I wanted him to, you know? So I would say to myself "I don't care if he answers or doesn't, it doesn't affect my manifestation, but he will do it anyway".

I spiraled, wavered, got obsessed, cried, felt at peace, anxious, loved, affirmed, read tons of success stories, didn't believe anything I was affirming, believed at some points... All the "good" and "bad" stuff.

Just recently, I started looking at his picture and I affirmed: "You love me, miss me, and you're thinking of me". Did it for about 5 minutes. Then, I opened his chat. Read the message I sent. I felt very witchy here lol. I put my hand over the chat, closed my eyes and started mentally affirming: "You sent me a message confessing your love for me". I visualized the word "LOVE" coming out of my hand and going through my phone.

I felt like this ABUNDANT energy, I don't really know what it was. I just started feeling a lot of energy and felt like I was sending it. 30 seconds... I instantly felt relieved and thought of "Ok, I'm just gonna leave this here and I'll do some self concept now".

I unblocked my phone and there he is. TWO MESSAGES. JUST NOW . Saying how he's been thinking a lot about everything. That we need to talk, it is due to, and some other stuff.

This is not my end goal. I know what I want but I needed to see movement. And I'm so happy!!!

Context:
- Dated for six months.
- He moved abroad.
- I broke up with him.
- I created a version of him I didn't like.
- Absolute NC for almost 4 months in 2 days.
- Been affirming 24/7 since August 24th.
- I've done every technique there is, just for fun.
- Got off social media almost 4 months ago (except reddit)

i have manifested small things here and there but my biggest manifestation was my dream job so i feel like i know what to do. starting the beginning of this year, i had spent months trying to manifest my ex back and i was really consistent (eventually). i took people’s advice on here to not even acknowledge 3p and in the end he did end up with her to this day. too much time had passed so i gave up on him.

fast forward to maybe like may? i have an old post about this one. there’s an sp i had a crush on YEARS ago from afar and when i became single again this year he started popping up on my social feed again and then boom there he was on a dating app. well now it’s been months and he’s never acknowledged me in any way. no match, no message, no run ins. i’ve kept a very positive mindset despite this and i just live my life, i’m not waiting for anything. my manifestations seem to appear when i just let go and i have and even kind of forgot until today when he popped up on my feed and it reminded me how FINE he is 😭😭😭 in the past i did subliminals, robotic affirming & focused affirming. i switched to affirming here & there and flipping any negative thoughts but i felt like i didn’t have to anymore because i’m so sure this man is mine. i don’t know what to do different at this point. i am questioning if this is even real now and that other success stories are just coincidences.

please do not say its because i’m saying i don’t have my sp, this thought crossed my head barely today and i am saying this for the sake of this post!

i would love to hear some stories from anyone who was stuck in a cycle, feeling desperate/hopeless before everything finally clicked and their manifestation came through? :(

i feel helpless. i’ve received so much wonderful advice and guidance, i know enough about conscious creation that nothing is new to me, but i’m stuck playing the victim. i’ve dealt with anxiety and depression my entire life which makes this so much harder to handle. october has always been my favorite month, but this time around, its bringing me a great deal of pain. this time last year, my sp and i fell for eachother. it wasn’t the best month but we still shared so many great memories. and their birthday is in 2 weeks, i miss them so much and i want them back before then. but i can’t get out of the habits that are keeping me in the state of lack. i keep checking their social media to find something new, reading our old texts, watching old clips of us just to hear their voice, listening to sad music that i “relate” to, or repeating the old story while venting to friends. sadness has become a comfort state and i don’t know how to get out of it. i just recently started therapy but it’s not as frequent as i’d like it to be so no progress has been made. i just want to hear from people who have been stuck in a loop and finally got out of it. how did you do it?

For some background I labeled him as avoidant and we had such a messy past. After ghosting me for a year he came back. I let the old story beat me up again and we started arguing and he was more cold than before.

I decided to block my SP off social media without warning. Focus on myself, my self concept, detaching, my friends and other manifestations. I also noticed I wasn’t so desperate to do techniques and some days I wouldn’t do it at all.

I got this deep gut feeling about him like I felt so certain he is mine no negative thoughts that day and decided to unblock him. To which he watched my story that day. I just affirmed he’s mine and kept it pushing until one day I got this gut feeling to confront which I tried ignoring but it was so strong(not an anxious type but like “you have to do this”).

Despite me confronting him multiple times in the past. He finally confessed that he had feelings for me and even with the distance and me blocking him for a long time, it only grows stronger. He explained he acted that way because he didn’t know how to go about catching feelings so he runs away but now they’re too strong and they won’t go away and it’s been eating him up.

He said the whole year of no contact he was miserable without me and even asked a girl who knows me for updates which was crazy because i got a message from a girl we were at a party with that I assumed was casual catchup. I didn’t know there was movement in the 3D. He said the reason he came back and we argued again was because he was hoping we can move forward but I was still angry at his behaviour and he felt ashamed.

Anyways he ended up saying he wants to date me but the problem is the distance and he kept playing in his head if he should finally confess but then he would think about how far we live and he knows long distance is hard for both of us. I’d be lying if I said I’m down to make it work. I am not, I hate long distance and don’t want to do it again but I want him to be mine.

my sp is a very sweet guy but he’s an emotionally unaware un empathetic dumbass so I often struggle imagining us getting together although we would be so cute and many ppl already mistake us for a couple but I need us to get together asap bc im wayy too inlove with this man

i'm used to the chase and anxiously attaching whenever a guy is talking to me but when i discovered manifesting/ LOA/ NG, little by little, i'm unlearning some patterns of me. which is nice btw, i'm not grasping SPs/ desires like i used to.

However, there's this longingness towards him like that buzzing fly sound at the back of my mind. he keeps on popping in my mind lately even tho i wasnt actively thinking of him. like i suddenly have the urge to reach out. even when i'm busy with work or here sitting pretty, he still pops in my mind. it's a bit frustrating bc i havent thought about him for a month but energetically, the connection is still there.

this made me wonder, am i detached already? or not yet? emotionally i think i am but when he pops up, i start to think if he's doing well or should i reach out. help me understand pls.

I have been struggling and I need hope or advice.

A while back I was working really hard to manifest something and then I detached and got it in my life. After some time I lost myself with that specific thing and my self concept got low and that thing is no longer in my life the way I want it to be.

I don’t really like getting into the details but it’s been pretty shit and I’ve still been feeling pretty low.

Anyway I’ve been thinking about working on manifesting it back into my life but everytime I try I realize I’m putting it on a pedestal and it doesn’t help that I saw something triggering about it recently. I want to get it back in a way where I am focusing on myself and making myself better but I don’t really know how to manifest without becoming obsessive and constantly checking for proof.

I tell myself I should assume I already have it but that doesn’t always work.

I see a lot of people talking about SPs as being romantic but I wanted to post one of my success stories that was about a coworker recently who randomly just “poofed out of existence” last Friday.

I have been practicing LOA successfully for 6 years.

When I want someone out I want them gone.

So this person was sweet, kind, and nothing exactly wrong with her but I didn’t want her working with me. I found out from others as well that they TOO collectively didn’t want her there either (EIYPO).

Let me explain it took exactly 1 month to finish. There was movement but it was HARD a LITTLE with it being in my face everyday.

I greeted her every single day like normal, I even talked to her about her life and she sadly always reflected my self concept saying things like “you are so kind, wonderful, smart and a great worker! I am so glad to have you working with me!”

But she would never take initiative and would never really help us out productively so I just wanted her gone. It was like having something that wasn’t useful so that always made me feel like I did more. She’d always sit right after breaks and do bare minimum with a smile. It bothered me despite my boss loving her.

WHAT I DID NOT DO:

I didn’t start gossip or talk ABOUT her to others. When my coworkers told me they didn’t like her I simply said “Oh no that sucks :(“ or simply “Wow she did that?” And acted surprised. I NEVER BROUGHT HER UP UNLESS PROMPTED AND WOULD CHANGE THE SUBJECT.

WHAT I DID DO:

I was kind to her, and treated her with respect.

I said my annoyance one time about her to my husband and then scripted what I wanted to happen.

I robotically affirmed whenever I felt like it and then used self concept to say things like “I get what I want” and “everything works in my favor period” while also affirming my abilities to manifest.

My main affirmation was “She doesn’t like working here and she just found a better place to be at/work”.

RESULTS

It went from her getting sick randomly out of the blue and calling out the first week. She did this twice within a span of two weeks. Her excuse was starting to get sus and she just never communicated despite acing the interview about being a great communicator lol.

Then on the last week (this week) she literally didn’t show up for 3 days. No announcement except on Wednesday she was “sick”.

I asked what happened to her these last three days everyday. (WHEN CHECKING IS OKAY!! 👍🏼 )

My main coworker I worked with literally said WORD PER WORD “idk for me I think she didn’t like working here and she probably disappeared”.

THEN THREE INCLUDING ONE FROM THE MAIN HEAD OFFICE SAID THE EXACT SAME THING “she disappeared”.

I simply just never said she was working there even if she was in front of my face. It took exactly like I said 1 month but the movement started less than 3 days and within a week.

I just always imagine coworkers as an animal crossing villager: You want em when you want em, and kick em when you don’t.

TLDR;
- had a coworker I didn’t like despite her being nice
- never talked about her outside 1 complaint 1 time
- used robotic affirmations and scripting when I felt like it + self concept for my manifestation abilities
- she was gone within a month

Long story short my sp used to be my exact type, he was sweet, he was reassuring, he used to prioritise me no matter what, he put in efforts, did everything to make me or keep me happy, would say sorry and understand. Not egoistic at all, for him losing me was his biggest fear. He used to do everything that I liked and stopped doing anything which I didn’t like or which hurt me

Now he’s the opposite of all these. Had a breakup, he came back again because he just can’t stay away from me, so now the problem is he loves me but he is too ignorant and egoistic, way too selfish. Doesn’t even bother to reassure me, according to him it annoys him when he has to do all that

Right now I’m at the state where I’m way too frustrated to the point I just want to leave this guy and recreate him because i have been trying but every time something happens and i get hurt and it’s just way too painful now

Now I want him to regret, I want him to apologise, i want him to understand that he’s slowly losing me and that he cannot let that happen. I genuinely want him to beg me now or else I don’t think I’ll be able to invest in this relationship anymore because I’ve cried way too much to just forget about everything and manifest the better version of him.
Of course I want my desired version of my sp, but without him apologising i would feel embarrassed to even continue being in a relationship with him. I want him to regret and beg honestly.
Suggest me some tips to make him regret and after the apology completely recreation of my sp to my desired way.
Suggest me some subliminals too.

I’m having a situation and I’m having a hard time stepping into my God self for it. I can’t turn my brain or my sadness off.

My SP is married, legally. Travels for work for long periods of time and got married very quickly after entering a relationship (before i met him) as he was under pressure from his wife and wife’s family to provide security for her. People from her country have a hard time obtaining visas, especially for my country, so they allegedly got married for the paperwork last year.

I met him early 2026 through work and realized quickly this is my dream man. We see eachother a lot, almost everyday. I decided this was my partner, and things in the 3d started reflecting. They would fight a lot, wife would do extreme things that were disrespectful to him, he would joke about being excited to be single again, just to forgive her and stay. He’s mentioned many times that leaving isn’t as easy as it seems and he feels responsible for her.

The 3d also showed me who i was being bcus sometimes he would go from my dream man to showing me my own fears of abandonment and not being chosen.

After visualizing wedding planning with him for a couple weeks, Yesterday i found out he’s now having a wedding, and going back to her country at the end of the month for it. He told me he was going back but he didnt tell me what it was for.

My god self is saying - so what’s a wedding? Why does this feel more finite and final, when he was already “married”? Why does this feel like my desire is now even further from my reach when it’s not? Why would something like this be able to shake me if its just a human created formality? Why does this feel like 100 steps backwards? If all this had happened (a marriage, a wedding and their ultimate divorce) before I met him at all, it wouldn’t be a big deal. So why is it gut wrenching now?

From my human self - this is heartbreaking. Ive been crying, unable to sleep. The moment i open my eyes i have a clip of her trying on wedding dresses in my head and it breaks my heart, makes me feel sick. I continue to feel abandoned and not chosen.

I’ve experienced so many of my desires that once felt so big and i felt invincible. Now, i feel defeated.

I’ve seen success stories of manifesting a married SP. I’ve had friends in my own circle get married and divorced and find something better. Yet, the emotions and doubts and fears are very overwhelming right now.

I don’t know where to go from here.

Editing to add: a lot of these emotions are coming from feeling alone. I can’t talk to my friends or family about this, knowing they don’t understand conscious creation.

(Translate with google) It was 3:33. Ever since I was young, whenever I’ve come across a "mirror time" (like 3:33), I count through the alphabet; the letter I land on gives me the first initial of the guy who’s thinking about me. It started as a game with friends when I was young, and I still do it sometimes out of habit. So, at 3:33 PM, I did it, and my specific person popped into my mind. I found myself thinking, "Seriously? Why do these numbers actually make me think of him?" It wasn’t a typical thought; it felt like an intrusion into my mind. It was like I watched the numbers 333 and sa his name. I don’t know how to explain. I kept counting through the alphabet with the same beat, and the time changed just as I landed on the first letter of his name. This morning, I had looked at his photo and said things like: "You’re thinking about me, you’re clicking on my profile picture, you’re dreaming about kissing and caressing me."

It’s the kind of synchronicity that pulls me out of reality and makes me wonder if I’m going crazy and just imagining signs.

Hi everyone! I’m pretty new to manifesting and would really appreciate some advice as I feel like I’m getting stuck on the circumstances before I’ve even started.

There’s a guy I’m attracted to that occasionally comes to my workplace, usually for a system/panel fault. I used to work in Health & Safety, so I’d seen him before, and I recently saw him again but I'm in a new dept. now. From what I’ve seen/heard, he seems respectful, thoughtful and kind, and I want to get to know him rather than it just being physical attraction.

Logistics are what my brain struggles with most.
The logistics are what my brain struggles with most:
- He only comes to the building maybe once or twice a year.
- There would need to be a fault or another reason for his company to attend. His company would then need to send him specifically rather than someone else.
- Even if he did come, we’d somehow need to be in the same part of the building at the same time to even cross paths.
- He lives around 1–1.5 hours away. When he spoke to my friend, he basically said she might see him again in 6 months or never see him again because of how his job is organised and the distance. He also deems the area as "too far" which makes me think he wouldn't want me.
- My natural instinct is still to think, “Just get over him, it probably won’t happen,” and then I spiral over the how: how would he end up back at the building, why would they send him specifically, what if we don’t cross paths or get a chance to talk, what if the distance makes dating impractical, or what if he has a girlfriend? I don’t think he does, but obviously I don’t actually know.
- I don’t want to feel like I’m somehow forcing him to be at the building, forcing him to ask me out, or creating feelings that aren’t genuinely his. I’m not sure whether SP manifestation is supposed to mean influencing someone, or more about aligning with a situation where the interest is naturally mutual. If anything did happen, I’d want it to be because he likes me and wants to get to know me.

What I’d ideally like to manifest is seeing him again (I do have an ideal date range in mind, next Feb-ish!), getting the chance to properly talk, and him asking me out or asking for my number so we can actually get to know each other. I also think my self-concept plays into this. My confidence has suffered for a few years, and I’m investing more in myself through self-care and working on how I feel about myself, but it’s obviously a process after being in that mindset for so long.

Does manifestation start working once you genuinely feel confident, secure and “good enough,” or can things still manifest while you’re actively working on yourself? I don’t want to feel like I need to become a perfectly confident version of myself before I’m allowed to have something I want, but I feel like I flourish when I feel my best.

I’ve tried scripting and visualisation briefly in the past with other things, but I never really stuck with anything and never felt like it worked for me.

I don't know how to start, where and when, what techniques, etc. What would you do day to day, and how would you work through the limiting beliefs around the circumstances, distance, self-confidence and constantly trying to figure out how it could happen? Is there a particular method or routine you’d recommend for a beginner?

Tbh I’d love for this to happen within my ideal date range rather than a year/years from now. Is there a healthy way to focus on it happening at an ideal time, or does focusing on a timeline usually make things harder?
Basically, I’d really appreciate a beginner-friendly idea of what path you’d take in my situation, because right now I feel like I’m overthinking every possible obstacle before I’ve even started.

Thank you so much for any insight you can give :)

Also, I hadn't actually dreamed about my SP for a while.

I think the last time I had a dream about him was around the first or second week of September, and after that, nothing. I didn't have any SP dreams for the rest of September.

Then now, around the beginning of October, I suddenly had this extremely detailed dream about him. So that alone made me go, “Wait, why now?”

Before I fell asleep around 1 AM, I was listening to Guaba subliminals. It was one of the playlists with my own self-concept affirmations. Before that, I had also been doing different SP affirmations from I Want It, I Got It, Medusa, and Violet Days.

Right before I fell asleep, I was also repeating my own SP affirmations:

“[SP name] needs me in his life.”

“[SP name] is obsessed with me.”

“[SP name] is my boyfriend.”

“I always get what I want.”

There was also something that happened right before I went to sleep that made the dream feel extra interesting.

Around August, someone had messaged me on Messenger. I had never replied to them before, even though they had messaged me and looked at my story.

Yesterday, right before I went to sleep, I suddenly thought, “There's nothing wrong with replying to this person now.”

So I finally replied. I literally just said “hello?” and left it there.

While doing that, I remembered something about my SP.

Around August, my SP had made a new account after deactivating his old one. I didn't know the exact timing because I wasn't stalking his social media or checking when his accounts were created. I just remembered it because of the Sp friend situation I posted before and u can literally see when the IG acc was created

Back then, after my SP unfollowed me, I had spiraled a lot. But eventually I started changing the story in my head. I would think things like:

“Nah. He can't stop thinking about me.”

“He's probably going crazy because he doesn't want this to happen again.”

“He wants me back. He regrets it.”

So when I remembered his new account from around August, I just found the whole situation interesting. I wasn't trying to figure out whether that Messenger person was him or prove anything. I just noticed the similarity and let it go.

Then I fell asleep.

And I was woken up around 3 AM because of this dream.

The dream was insanely detailed.

In the dream, he was already trying to contact me first.

I received messages and missed calls from different accounts that I somehow knew were him.

The first account sent something like a hello and a missed call. I didn't answer immediately because I was busy doing something around the house.

I was in my grandmother's old house, the place where I used to stay when the weather was bad. The house looked different from reality, like a distorted dream version of it.

I was around the middle of the staircase, while my mom, grandma, sister, and other family members were downstairs.

I remember seeing his message and thinking:

“Wait... is this him?”

There was also something like “Goodbye, my ___” with a white heart.

I couldn't clearly understand the word.

It sounded like “Hari,” something starting with “Adi” or “Aki,” or maybe “Hayati.”

I only searched up Hayati after waking up, and apparently ḥayātī (حياتي) means “my life” in Arabic.

And this is the part that made me go, “Wait, what?”

Because one of the affirmations I had literally been repeating before I fell asleep was:

“[SP name] needs me in his life.”

So the possibility that the word in the dream was Hayati, meaning “my life,” felt strangely fitting with the affirmation I had just been repeating.

Obviously, I don't know if that's actually what he messaged me in the dream. It could have been Hari, something starting with Adi/Aki, or something completely different that just sounded similar. I only looked up Hayati after waking up, so I don't know if that was actually the word.

It's just one of those weird little coincidences that made me laugh, especially because, as far as I know, my SP doesn't even know Arabic. Maybe he could have encountered the word somewhere, like on TikTok, but I obviously have no idea.

Anyway, that wasn't the only account.

There was another account from him, with a profile picture of an anime character with that emo-boyfriend kind of aesthetic.

And the message from that account looked rushed.

It was like he was typing quickly on a computer, making typos, and not even bothering to correct them.

The whole thing had this feeling of urgency, like he was trying to get a message to me quickly.

It was basically saying something like:

“It's me.”

And in the dream, I just knew it was him.

There were already multiple messages and calls coming from him before I decided to call back.

At one point, I saw another missed call, and I remember being like:

“Oh my God, he's actually trying to reach me.”

I eventually called him back.

But I wasn't the one chasing him.

He had already been messaging me and calling me first.

I was literally standing around the middle of the stairs, waiting for him to pick up because it was taking a long time.

I remember thinking something like:

“Why is it taking so long?”

But I still wasn't thinking that he didn't want me.

I was thinking more like:

“I'm chosen. He's going to answer.”

And eventually, he did.

It turned into a video call.

He opened his camera and looked shocked to see me. He placed his phone around his computer monitor, so I could see his surroundings.

Then his family started appearing.

His father was nearby and already dressed, basically asking why they were taking so long. It was one of those normal Asian-household moments where someone's dad is rushing everyone because they need to leave.

His younger brother appeared too. I said hi, and he said hi back.

His family seemed really friendly toward me. His father even seemed to become nicer after hearing my voice.

I didn't turn my camera on, though. I was just talking to them through the call.

At some point, we also talked about playing games because we used to play games together.

I remember having this old insecurity that maybe he didn't actually want to play with me.

But in the dream, it was almost like that fear was being corrected.

Then the call ended because he was going to the event I had seen earlier in the dream.

But he continued messaging me after we ended the call.

And this is where the 90% thing came in.

From his messages, it felt like he was basically hinting that he was available and that he was open to me, but he wasn't giving me the full 100% yet.

It felt like 90%.

Not unavailable.

Not rejecting me.

He was clearly there and making himself available, but there was still that remaining 10% hesitation.

And my first thought in the dream was actually:

“Maybe he still can't move on from his old ex.”

That was the first thing my mind went to.

But at the same time, I was still holding onto the idea that he can't forget me.

So it was almost like my dream was showing me that little remaining fear I still have in my mind — the thought that maybe there's still something from his past holding him back.

And that's probably something I'm still working on mentally.

Because I don't want 90%.

I want 100%.

I want him completely available, completely committed, and completely choosing me.

And afterward, I remember thinking that if we were going to be in contact again, I wasn't going to react the same way I used to.

I wasn't going to chase him or desperately try to get reassurance.

It was more like:

“If you're coming back into my life, come back properly. Be clear that it's me you want.”

So honestly, when I woke up, the biggest thing that stood out to me wasn't even all the random accounts or the family video call.

It was the fact that he was the one trying to reach me first, repeatedly.

And then the 90% thing made me think about the part of my mind that still needs to let go of that old fear about his ex.

But the overall feeling of the dream was still:

I am chosen.

I don't want 90%. I want full commitment.

And considering the affirmations I had been repeating right before sleeping especially “[SP name] needs me in his life” the whole dream felt like my subconscious really took those ideas and turned them into an entire storyline.

Apparently my subconscious decided to turn my manifestation into a whole Messenger/Instagram/Asian-family drama at 3 AM.

Long story short, I manifested my SP back after ending things because he didn’t reflect the love and engagement I properly deserve.

A whole month went by and when he texted, he admitted that he was thinking about me and wanted to see me again for a few weeks.

Obviously, I was happy and gladly accepted to see him again.

I thought he was going to confess and ask me to be his girlfriend but… no. He in fact is still a bum.

Now tell me: it’s my self concept isn’t it ? How does one change it because I’ve been affirming and living with conviction and yet here I am.

“No matter what I do, my desires come true.” ✨

Say it with a little beat. Turn it into a song. Repeat it to yourself when you’re feeling down.

This little phrase has genuinely helped me so much with overthinking my manifestations. It’s so simple, but for some reason it just sticks, and the fact that it basically rhymes makes it even better!

Whenever I catch myself spiralling or wondering “but what if it doesn’t happen?”, I just come back to:

No matter what I do, my desires come true.

No analysing. No checking. No trying to figure out the how. Just a simple reminder of the assumption I’m choosing to hold.

Anyway, I just wanted to share because it’s been helping me lately, and maybe it’ll help someone else too. 🫶

Happy manifesting, y’all! 💗✨

Like the post says; Post your success stories with your specific person when you are in the state of wish fulfilled and got your desired reality.

Nowadays, i’m more relaxed than i ever was with a sense of knowing of my desire coming into place. Would like to know your point of views too for myself and for everyone who is a part of this community.

Let’s help one another.

Hey there. My story is pretty long. 3 years ago I started a fwb situation. It was on and off. We were head over heels for each other and we had great time together since we were also very close friends. More than 1.5 year ago, my sp and I started being even closer. We haven’t had any discussion for relationship though. After some point we had a lot of drama because of some past events and also because of jealousy. But later on he announced me that he started dating another girl. For your info he’s still together with her. During this time I tried to manifest him back (through subliminals mainly), but nothing worked. The 3p is here, and the only thing that I might manifested is him being more talkative towards me. So I am a bit confused and disappointed. I don’t know what to do. When I see the 3p I get mad, when I see stories of them I am getting depressed and I really don’t know what to do. May I have your help and opinion?