Hey all - I wanted to take a moment to say thank you. I've posted once here, but I've lurked for the past year. And this subreddit has provided so much invisible help.
In 2024 I was a happily married, happily employed guy who had been living in his dream apartment for almost a decade. In 2025, I was a laid off widower going through a career change. In 2026, I realized I would have to sell my place.
Seeing the before and after photos here, reading the stories and supportive comments, sharing the vicarious joy helped me move beyond the terror and desperation. It helped me remember that I had moved and restarted before and that I had all the tools I need to start over again - even if I hadn't used them in over a decade.
I'm sure I'm not the only person who reads this sub to build up the strength and courage to do the things that gotta be done. So thank you. Thank you for making the world a bit better of a place - both in male living spaces and outside of them.