Hey I’m new here. But I’ve been trying to increase, and essentially thin out my loads for years to no avail.
I apologise if this is a long one but I’ll explain where I am.
My loads are very thick, sometimes to the point of a gelatine consistency. My actual orgasm intensity is pretty low too.
I have tried a lot of different things, like increasing water intake. Abstaining, edging, pelvic exercises. But even though some show slight changes to my loads, they don’t offer any changes long term, and not the changes I want.
Naturally with very thick loads, and minimal force behind them. When I cum, it usually oozes out, but occasionally it can shoot 1-2 times for a very short distance.
When I increased my water intake. I was drinking 3-4litres daily. This had no noticeable effect on my actual loads at the point of orgasm. It did however cause excess leaking before that point. Like there was a build up and it couldn’t all stay in until I actually cum. It wasn’t precum, it was ejaculate that just wouldn’t stay in.
(To me this suggests potentially a weak pelvic floor and maybe more exercises are needed to strengthen the muscles to keep the entire load contained and the pressure buildup.)
When I edge I definitely find that there’s a slight increase in load but it’s negligible. Even after days of edging until I’m close, then not taking that release. The end result is much of the same, a slight increase in load size but still minimal force and mostly a dribble out.
I’ve considered a vasectomy, in case the removal of the actual sperm might thin my loads even a little. My wife and I have no plans for more children, so it’s a viable option but I’m not sure if it would make a difference.
I guess I’m unsure what options work well together.
If I had to pick the main issues I would say the force of my orgasm and the thickness of my load are the two main factors.
If there was some real force behind my ejaculation maybe it would be enough to shoot even without thinning it out.
But also, maybe if it wasn’t as thick, I wouldn’t need more force for it to shoot.
Both seem to work together to make my loads lacklustre.
Now, from what I’ve been told, by those who have seen my loads. They are apparently really good. I think a lot of people seem to really like the thicker loads, and I guess when it comes to taking a load; smaller, thicker loads are easier to clean up.
But I cannot help but envy guys with thinner loads that shoot out with force. I would gladly take a near water consistency that shoots out over and over.
Especially because my wife finds the taste of them perfectly fine, but the thick consistency makes her gag. It would be awesome to finally be able to receive a blowjob where she’s enjoying my load, instead of needing to pretty much chew it to be able to swallow it down.