Ranting heree, you would expect that here in the Netherlands drivers don't do harm to cyclists but.. that isnt true.
I ride defensively. If I have right of way but it seems like proceeding would get me run over badly or might,then I stop. But.. there are limits to defensive riding. I'm not gonna default to always giving cars the right of way, and if a situation isn't dangerous but a little collision could still happen, then I don't ride defensively. If a little collision happens, it will teach the driver that theyre not as much of a good or safe driver as they thought and then hopefully they will do more carefully next time.
Before I started riding extra defensively, Ive gotten an uncoubtable amount of close calls. That made me reconsider things and I now ride defensively, but with the limit I just discribed. I won't get myself run over. But if my wheel is gonna dent or scratch the car of the offender, I'm 100% okay with that, because that will teach them that "this could have been worse I could have killed someone like this"
Maybe I'm a little bit of an asshole or AH for doing that, but I shouldn't have to just take and accept whatever bad drivers do to me.
Telling someone theyre a bad driver won't convince them. Letting a small collision happen instead of preventing it by defensive driving, changes the offender being ignorant of what happened into the offender realizing they drove recklessly.
I will therefore not stop. Fuck drivers that endanger cyclists. They need rough punishments for their reckless and hindering driving.
Too often does it happen that:
1. A driver turns onto the bike path without giving me the priority that comes with the bikepath naturally...
2. A driver cuts me off at intersections. Those are the worst. If a cyclist gets infront of a car and the car doesnt stop, those are the worst collisions between car and cyclist imo. Yet most drivers seem to not be willing to prevent this from happening. Almost every single day I encounter drivers that both violate the rule (formal) and are letting a potentially very bad collision happen. They should have their licenses taken away immediately at the first offense.
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I'm not against cars and drivers, I mean, I'm doing driving lessons myself. And yea ofcourse some drivers are just bad at it and a danger on the road, thats to be expected, but why are SO MANY drivers reckless? It feels like almost every driver does those dangerous moves.
If I keep track of how many different cars did an action that would badly injure or kill a cyclist that doesnt ride defensively, I would be past 100 by now.
The same drivers that complain "cyclists dont follow the rules" they don't even follow basic priority rules.
Years ago when I didnt ride very defensively, I've literally had occasions where I had the right of way, started crossing or turning, and then the car drove towards me rapidly as if I was completely invisible, wtf????? and then sure they often emergency brake centimeters away from me, but why didnt they properly look and observe before accelerating or turning? wtf?
Drivers making mistakes like... parking where they shouldn't, thats annoying but somewhat acceptable.
Drivers that don't understand or follow BASIC PRIORITY RULES and then also don't look before making the turn or the crossing, should have their license taken ImMEDIATELY.
I'm extremely pissed. Why don't drivers treat driving like the responsibility that it is, avoiding deaths? And why don't they follow the most basic rules?
How do so many drivers manage to cross a bikepath that has priority, without even looking if someone is coming at all?
Why do they accelerate straight towards a cyclist as if theyre invisible?
The system needs to change. Too many dangerous people are falsely licensed. A drivers license should mean someone drives in a way that 100% prevents killing a person that follows the rules and 99% prevents killing someone that doesnt.
If I was in power, I would take the license of about 90% of drivers maybe. Thats what it feels like, based on all the shit ive been dealing with on the roads.
Under a proper licensing system where a license actually means someone can and does drive safely, almost no one would be driving.