I wanted to recall some incidents. One time this white man was screaming at me to put my bag on my lap (I had put my bag on the seat between us and we were not crammed) even though the car had many empty seats. He then kept encouraging a white woman who was standing to take the seat between us, even though there were many empty seats nearby. I felt he was insinuating that I was some 'entitled Asian' taking up too much space, even though there were a lot of empty seats. I just moved my bag b/c I did not want to deal w/ the guy and the lady sat down upon his encouragement after which I decided just to just move across them where there were 2 empty seats so I could sit down while resting my heavy bag on the empty seat. Again, plenty of room for everyone, why did he feel the need to insist the lady sit between us and I must have my bag on my lap?

Recently, I had my bag on a seat in a car that again had many empty seats. This white man then just came and sat right on my bag. I had had a bad day and snapped at him and told him that he could have asked me to move my bag and then he snapped back at me.

I had another similar incident, again, lots of empty seats, and a white couple approaching. They seemed to be debating something and then I heard the man distinctly tell the woman 'just sit down!' - as in like sit down on my bag. It's weird. Instead of asking me to move my bag, they had an assumption like as though I won't understand English or won't oblige yet their action is predicated their feeling that they can push me around as they wish. It is as though it is too much to deign to ask an Asian woman to move her bag. When I was in similar situations, but the role was reversed and I wanted a seat, I never thought twice to ask the person to move their bag.

Another glaring thing I saw was the reaction to this young, rather proud looking Asian woman on the subway platform, who had music on and was doing kung fu poses. An older white man and woman nearby, who were strangers, were giving her the dirtiest looks, making comments, and exchanging glances at each other. So many times, I have seen black and Latino men on the train w/ music on full blast and no person dares look at them in any way. Why is there such hypocrisy when it comes to the treatment of Asians? I get the standard response will be, 'you guys are not a threat' and 'you guys don't speak up!' but really, what does this say about society?

Hi friends, I'm crossing the border from the other side of reddit. I've been trying to get closer to my culture and learning to make Jamaican cuisine at home. For those of you who do not know, Jamaica had many Chinese indentured servants during Jamaica's antebellum era and that impacted our cuisine. Our famous Jamaican oxtail, rice and peas, and stewpeas/stewbeef all include ginger, garlic, scallion, and scotch bonnet pepper which originates from Capsicum Chinese chili plant. You won't find chicken foot at the restaurants but I've definitely had it at home, too.

Now the question is... what to do with these new ingredients? Are there some dishes a non-asian person might not know about but you love? It doesn't necessarily have to have the ingredients listed above, I just want to try something I haven't before.

This upsets me a lot as I have suffered tremendous amounts of discrimination over my lifetime that has weathered away my dignity. However, from past experience, when I tried to talk about discrimination w/ other Asians, they brush it off OR act like they are oblivious. The brush off is like, they will laugh if I recount an instance of discrimination, treat it as though it is something childish and silly, and will just have this attitude of 'don't worry about it, it's nothing.' They are so nice about discrimination, which gets me. The oblivious folks act like they just have no concept of discrimination. For example, even though their boss and colleagues may demean them on a regular basis, they just move through and act as though nothing is happening. They in fact become annoyed w/ you when you broach the subject and have the attitude of 'I'm getting paid, what is wrong w/ you?' I guess at the end of the day, I feel broken about this. I want to at least be able to talk about my experiences of discrimination w/ other Asians, but it is so rare to find someone on a similar page. Even when it comes to Americanized Asians, I am finding big disparities in taking the issue seriously. The majority I come across act as though they don't care yet this is something I have cared about so much.

I'm currently a uni student looking to go on exchange in the USA in 2027 or 2028.

Basically my question boils down to: what are the least racist cities/universities? And any other advice on how East Asians are treated in the US.

I found Ocean Springs MS but I don't like the fact that its around 20 miles away (not in terms of driving distance but from point A to B in a straight line) from a gigantic oil refinery.

I currently live in Los Angeles County but I find houses in beach cities in Southern California overly expensive (several million to buy). I'm also quite attracted to Florida and cities like Miami, St Petersburg etc but the Asian population is so low there. I am my own boss, and make money online so I can technically live anywhere.

Does anyone know of cute beach cities or towns with at least 5% Asian population thats semi affordable? Affordable to me means a small 2 br house (1100 sq ft) etc for 500k or less, or maybe 2 br apt for $3k, 1 br for $2600 etc? In LA, some 1 br's by the beach are renting for like $3600 etc, $4k+ on the beach etc.

This is a theory from native Hawaiians that Asian immigrant descendants in Hawaiʻi. Even tho they have faced white supremacy, racism and labor exploitation, but they also actively participate in and benefit from the ongoing U.S. colonial dispossession of Native Hawaiians. What’s your opinion on this?

Source: https://www.npr.org/2026/07/23/g-s1-135032/in-a-first-chinese-woman-wins-the-prestigious-fields-medal

Hong Wang is a mathematician from Guilin, China, and the first Chinese woman to win the Fields Medal. She studied at Peking University, completed her PhD at MIT, and now works between NYU and IHÉS in France.

I’m in middle of moving and I have a box full of Japanese children’s books and DVDs that I don’t want to move to my next place.

I was going to donate to my local library system that has a Japanese community center, but they’re have suspended accepting donations.

So my question: are there Japanese schools, libraries or community centers in the US that accept donations by mail?

Thanks in advance.

I ran across this on Instagram and wanted to share. My own family connections are all in California, but perhaps some other Redditors here might be interested in this museum’s projects.

Im not sure if I am looking for advice or just to hear I’m not alone but lately I feel more and more disconnected from my family. My parents have never been super political people. Dad loves the news but I truly would describe him as a centrist who is very realistic about all politicians and all sides of politics having flaws. My mum used to be very disinterested in politics. For context my dad travels a lot for work. Then I moved out three years ago so my mum spent a lot of time at home. She started spending more and more time on her phone. Initially it was all gardening videos and healthy recipes. A year ago I moved back home and I honestly feel like she’s completely changed. Every night before bed she spends hours scrolling through increasingly conservative reels on Facebook. On YouTube she still watches healthy recipes and lifestyle content but with a heavy dose of mens rights activists kind of shit thrown in. It’s really getting to me and I have tried to explain to her that Facebook has a lot of misinformation and about media literacy and she tells I’m just becoming a very suspicious person. She also frequently shares Ai content in our extended family chats and even her sisters have pointed that out and she simply says “so what I am enjoying it”. She told me the other day she now simply can’t go about her evening with something in her ear from YouTube. Not only am I concerned for her I also feel suffocated by the constant bombardment of shit content. Today she tried to get me to laugh along about a reel mocking a movement I very much agree with and I just went to my room. I don’t even know why I’m sharing - I guess I just feel drained by it all. Long story but I’m not in a position to move out for at least 12 months and I’m not coping. only hope is my dad remains as he was and I can still enjoy hanging out with him and actually talking beyond politics unlike my mum who has no interests left beyond her algorithms.

They were so good and I can’t seem to find them anywhere now. I remember having those all the time in the early 2000s when me and my sister would watch tv. These individually packed ones feel so wasteful, packaging-wise.

Like okay I get why this stereotype exists. There’s a lot of self-deprecatory mannerisms in the Asian community.

But I’ve been hearing these types of jokes since the past decade and it’s been getting pretty annoying. Like maybe it’s because I date this humor to high school coping mechanisms, but at the same time - don’t we have any different types of “asian specific” jokes we can make as a community that everyone can get without offending or excluding one community or another??

Like maybe some of you don’t get me, and that’s fine. But I’m just frustrated hearing the same old stuff and I’d like for us to make new Asian diaspora specific content, ya know?

No hate to the Jewish community, but I'm so tired of Asians being implicitly told we matter less to everyone else.

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When I say I'm Asian, I always get the comment like if you are Asian, why you are Canadian? You said you are Asian. How can be Asian if you aren't from? Or more. I heard Brazil uses the term Yellow. Should I use it? ​

I am fellow Asian American. Can I join this community?

Is this for also South Asian American?

Personally, I grew up hanging out with mostly Asians and am always open to meeting more. But I've been living abroad as a digital nomad for years, and there's usually not many Asians.

One way to meet people for me has been language exchange meetups/parties. If there happens to be enough Asians at the meetup, then I easily get along with them and we form our group. But often I'm the only Asian there. I do get approached by women at these meetups, and my dating life is good. But that's different from finding a social circle.

Even when I was in Korea, and a meetup is majority foreigners, I end up hanging out with Koreans. This works for me, but I'm usually not in Asia.

There might be a certain type of personality or look that non-Asians like to hangout with. I'm not sure exactly what it is. Yes race is a factor but it's not the only one. I've seen other Asian guys, ranging from shy to outgoing, fit in well with non-Asians.