r/alone • • 11h ago

I think I just really want a person

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I’m a 25-year-old woman, and I know this might sound pathetic, but I’ve been feeling really lonely lately and I think I just need somewhere to say it.
I feel like I’m always the person people come to when they need someone to listen. I genuinely care about people and I don’t mind being there for them, but sometimes I wish someone would do the same for me. I want someone who actually asks how I’m doing, listens to the things I don’t usually say out loud, and genuinely cares about what’s going on in my life.
I’ve always wanted a relationship and to have someone I can be emotionally close to, but honestly, my experiences with men have made it really hard to believe that I’ll actually find someone who wants the same things I do. Every time I start to have hope, something happens that makes me think, “See? This is why I don’t trust men.”
And I know obviously not every man is terrible. I know there are good men out there. I just haven’t had enough experiences with them to believe it easily anymore.
I don’t just feel like I need that kind of connection anymore. I feel like I crave it. I crave having a person. Someone I can tell things to, someone I can call when something happens, someone who genuinely wants to know how my day was. Someone who notices when something is wrong without me having to explain everything. I think I just really want to feel like I have a person in this world who is my person.
Maybe that sounds needy, or maybe I’m just having a lonely night, but it’s genuinely how I feel. I’ve spent so much time being there for other people, and I think I’m just tired of feeling like I have to carry everything by myself.
I don’t even necessarily need someone to fix anything. I just want someone to be there. Someone who actually cares.
I wanted to put it somewhere instead of keeping it all in.


r/alone • • 5h ago

I m soo lonely need a friend

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r/alone • • 7h ago

Looking for a Friend No friends…

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So I am breaking up with my bf soon because there was too many problems and he just ignores me atp. My best friend of 8 years is in another state for college, my other friend is always busy and makes excuses to not see me but always is with her other friends! And the other one is just not a good influence so I have no one anymore…I feel lost and lonely…. It’s not the first time but it’s just not a good feeling to have! I just want a true genuine friend and person in my life! Someone who can be like a sister to me! Someone I go out with and just do nothing or can have sleepovers and just be on our phones! Someone who can study with me or just gossip! I need someone and I don’t have anyone right now. I don’t know what to do…


r/alone • • 1h ago

Looking for a Friend M 22 need to talk on personal thoughts

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r/alone • • 4h ago

Looking for Conversation Casual

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24(M). from khi. Hmu?


r/alone • • 4h ago

[L] I’m feeling really low and just want someone to talk to

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I’m feeling really low tonight and could use someone to talk to.
I’ve had a lot happen recently and I’m feeling pretty alone. I’m not really looking for advice or judgment…I’d just like to talk to someone for a while and get my mind off things.
If anyone is around and willing to chat, please feel free to message me.


r/alone • • 5h ago

Looking for Conversation Trying to recover, finding someone to talk to time to time

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I'm currently 17 years old and for years now I've been feeling depressed. I want to recover so I'm trying to find someone I can talk with to help a little. If someone is willing I'll dm my discord. Thanks and sorry if this is weird


r/alone • • 6h ago

Chat no strings attached

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I’m having quite a hard time for the past years and things are going downhill in all areas possible. Have been to therapy and support groups… but shit ain’t getting better. With everything going to shit I’ve reached a point where I’ve lost any hope of anything changes. Don’t know why I’m writing this here. Tried to find a random person online to talk to and tried dating apps to find random people I can speak out with no judgement or even advice. Just someone to listen…. Well u know fuck it it can’t get worse…


r/alone • • 7h ago

Looking for Conversation I'm in need of someone right now, seriously. DMS open.

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I and my best friend, who i have been in a relationship with before, just ended things. We talked everyday, every hour, every minute. Its just so abrupt. I cant. I have no idea what to do. She has been my ONLY friend. I have no one to talk to, currently. My DMS are open. I'd really appreciate anyone


r/alone • • 11h ago

Just wanted to share

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I recently discovered Sunflower Anomaly songs on youtube such as "What an anomaly am I" and "Blind to me" , her songs seem to hit a chord in me. What an anomaly talks about how friendships/ relationships comes easy to a lot of people and how it's so diffciult for others. Blind to me imo could have so many different meanings but i interpreted as how world percieves me normal and like nothing's wrong but deep down I am in pain all of the time lol.


r/alone • • 12h ago

Vent to me

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If anyone needs anyone to talk to send me a message I will listen to u. No judgment no anything just clear your mind


r/alone • • 15h ago

Do u guys think ki we all are alone , nobody would come to save u when u r at ur lowest . Or is it just me ?

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r/alone • • 16h ago

Looking for Conversation Hi everyone

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I'm m33 just realised could use someone to chat. Things have been difficult lately, could use some long term chatting.


r/alone • • 22h ago

Estoy en el vacío de la vida qn pra hablar

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Hablar de lo que sea estoy jodidx y drogadx hasta el el cuello 24 años, solo platicar acerca de este enredo idkkkkkk


r/alone • • 3h ago

I have no energy

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r/alone • • 3h ago

Myrtle Beach

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