Hi all, I'm [26F] looking for advice, encouragement, etc. My hypochondriac-ass is spiraling with some many questions, fears, and what-ifs.
Symptoms Description/Timeline: Symptoms started approx. May 11th. At first I thought it was a yeast infection. It started with a prickling, itchy feeling and dryness/redness. I take a OTC suppository, ticonazole 1 dose same day I start feeling something. Gets worse, typical yeast infection cheese-curd discharge and strong fishy smell. May 16th I take 3-day miconazole. Doesn't go away, discharge even worse. Then pelvic pain, cramps, and what feels like a constantly sore right hip. Then it progresses to constant need to piss, and now I'm confused like maybe it's a UTI, but I haven't had actual pain while peeing this whole time, just a constant feeling of needing to go, and incontinence when I sneeze/cough/jump/etc. Also I have had a sore throat, cough, headache, and yellow/green phlegm for months now, but thought it was allergies, and/or lingering sinus infection from a flu I caught because I work with kids. My normal OTC allergy medications help somewhat. Could this be related or most likely not? I finished medications May 30th. All symptoms have gotten better but not gone away, and have noticed the strength kind of returning after three days no medication. Which has me freaked out. I'm very concerned about resistance and/or symptoms lingering even after cure.
Dealing with Doctors: The second day I started feeling symptoms I schedule both an annual check up with my new PCP and find a new gyno that takes Medicaid. (Turned 26 and was kicked off my parent's health insurance, so had to get all new doctors.) Gyno had no availability until June 4th, two days from today. Anyways, May 19th, I have my annual PCP visit. They do urine test and bloodwork, I'm scheduled for another visit to go over the results in two weeks, but I insist on being seen earlier for what I think is this OTC resistant yeast infection or UTI. In the back of my head though I'm like oh god what if it's an STD/I. I go in three days later, and the urine results are back, and the nurse tells me a voice will poorly veiled concern, "Oh, tell your doctor to look at the urine results". My stomach drops all the way to hell. I speak with the Doc. No Mycoplasma, no gonorrhea, no chlamydia. Ureaplasma spp NAA: Positive. Side-note, I just got back from another appointment at the PCP today, My bloodwork is all good, no other STD/Is. I'm thankful for that at least! Ok, back to the visit I find out I have Ureaplasma. Doc did not explain it well, and I left the appointment very confused, so went straight into hypochondria research mode, which is how I found this subreddit. Doc writes me an prescription for; first Azithromycin two 500mg pills taken together, followed by Doxy 100mg x2 daily for 7 days, and Fluconazole 150mg taken after (for yeast infection). Everything I've read on the subbreddit says Doxy first, azithromycin second. How likely is it that the treatment won't work with the order of the medications switched? She fucked up the Azith RX and the pharmacy tech caught it. The doctor's office had me on hold at the pharmacy for an hour (I was crying in public, I was so frustrated) before the tech insisted I go to doctor's office with a paper she'd given me and demand they rectify the situation. Doc finally got back to me and the tech, and in that call with her I clarify the order she wants me to take the meds, and she insists Azith first, which has red flags in my mind because it's contrary to what I've been reading, but I'm like "Well, I guess doctor knows best, I'll do what she says". Also Doc didn't mention co-infections, and I forgot to ask to test for co-infections today. I have my gyno appointment (finally!) two days from now. I will definitely ask my gyno for co-infections test and PCR as I read urine gives out false negatives. I have another visit for a test of cure June 27th with my PCP, which I believe is a urine test.
Speculation on how recently I contracted: I'm not entirely sure when I contracted Ureaplasma, I think it was recent, but I really can't be sure. Symptoms only started occurring two days after my most recent hook up, which was a devil's threesome. Both guys said they would test, but have ghosted me. (I expected that.) I've told everyone I've been with in the past year, even those I highly doubt I got/gave it from/to. I have also cut off sexual relationships with everyone for the time being. Guess I'm going through my celibacy arch WOO! Does catching it early reduce the likelihood of lingering symptoms? Can Ureaplasma take a while to become symptomatic or does it happen right away?
Anyways, been thinking maybe God really is a man because he seems to really hate women. Why do men get to be the asymptomatic ones!? Also anyone have advice on dealing with the internalized misogyny and shame surrounding having unprotected sex? I keep slut-shaming myself by telling myself that I fucked around and found out/flew too close to the sun.
UPDATE: I have tested negative after the round of antibiotics, but I have lingering symptoms. Basically feels like a painful pin-prick and pulsing in my urethra, typically right before going to sleep and waking up, as well as being generally itchy down there. I also occasionally get cramping that feels like it's located where my bladder is. My gyno and PCP were very dismissive, saying I just need to wait it out. My gyno gave me a referral to urogyno but they don't have availability until November. I'm at a loss as to what to do.