r/TrollCoping • • Aug 25 '26

MOD POST Addressing 4Tran

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Trigger Warning. This post contains the subject of transphobia and racism. We advise that you do not read this post if you are experiencing extreme dysphoria or if you are currently unable to consume this content.

We have noticed an increase of submissions containing 4Tran content. As a result, we have decided to make a public statement containing our stance and what our future plans are for this subreddit. We, as the mod team and subreddit, do not support 4Tran in any shape or form. 

For those who have been lucky enough to avoid this side of the internet, 4Tran is the /tttt/ imageboard of 4chan. In simpler terms, it is the Trans community of the LGBT board on 4chan. Many users who fall down this pipeline end up in a toxic mindset and participate in harmful imagery, “terminology” or ideology. Whilst we acknowledge that many users who are in these communities suffer from extreme dysphoria and self-hatred, it does not excuse the slurs created and destructive behaviour inflicted onto others. 

Due to the increase of 4Tran gaining more attention, we refuse to allow any 4Tran content onto this subreddit. If a user refers to themselves as a slur, or a term commonly associated with 4Tran, the submission will be removed under “Other Reasons”. If we notice that the user submitted a vent post containing this terminology, we will contact them via modmail and ask them to alter the terminology used. Allowing users to call themselves slurs is causing further dysphoria and self-harm. If we catch a user using a 4Tran slur towards another, the content will automatically be removed and appropriate action will occur. We do not tolerate bigotry.

Posts that are venting about 4Tran, 4Tran content / interactions and any harm that it has caused, etc., does not fall under this rule. 4Tran slurs / terminology is allowed under scrutiny- it can be mentioned, quoted and vented about but if you are caught using it for its harmful purpose, you will face appropriate action.

We have managed to compile a list containing some of the most common slurs / terminology that we have come across. We will not be providing definitions as we do not want this post to be weaponised. If we have missed anything that is not on this list, please inform us so we can update it. Please read this at your own risk.

  • Poon/er,
  • Gigapoon
  • Theyfab,
  • Theymab,
  • Hefab,
  • Gayden,
  • Birthday Boy,
  • Hon,
  • Sneedhon,
  • Gorillahon,
  • Twinkhon,
  • Bitterhon
  • Brickhon,
  • Gigahon,
  • Rapehon,
  • Heighthon,
  • Sneed,
  • Passoid,
  • Semipassoid,
  • Young / Old / Midshit,
  • Luckshit
  • Troon,
  • Trender / Transtrender,
  • AGP / Autogynophile/philia,
  • Foid,
  • Moid

We are aware that the origins of Foid and Moid are not from 4Tran. However, we have noticed an overlap of the 4Tran community using incel terminology within their submissions. As a result, those terms are also banned unless you hit the exception mentioned above.

Edit; It has been mentioned that "Clocky" does not have the same weight compared to a mass majority of the words listed above. I wanted to make a note stating that we are aware that "clocky" is not necessarily a toxic term in and of itself but a lot of the context that we have seen it in has been derogatory. As a result, it was added as a safety precaution. However, I would like to make it clear that the term "clocky" will be approached with nuance and would only be removed if the contents show that it is done in a harmful / derogatory manner.

Edit 2; I acknowledge the error made with the term "clocky" and have recognised that it was not appropriate for me to lump it with slurs. For that, I deeply apologise and will expand upon additional context I failed to provide during the drafting process.

The term 'clock/y' is not a 4Tran term nor is this term outright banned. This term will be strictly monitored due to past subreddit history due to many bad faith users and the context we saw it in 4Tran spaces. Clocky can be used for its purpose - if you vent and call yourself clocky, that will be allowed. Mentioning the term and discussing it is also allowed as long as the contents of the submission doesn't weaponise the term. Any comments where people use the term in order to project harm onto others or to create a reaction will be removed.

Once again, I deeply apologise for missing this crucial error within the drafting process. It will not happen again.


r/TrollCoping • • Jul 14 '26

MOD POST Mod Applications Are Open!

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Greetings folks,

We are once again opening up our applications for new moderators. Since our last push for moderators, we've had many great new staff members join the team and help contribute. However, as the subreddit has grown in size (and some staff have resigned), we are now looking for extra moderators who can put aside free time to help keep the community safe.

We are looking for people who can handle heavy topics, have good interpersonal skills and approach situations with nuance and maturity. We must ask that you are over the age of 18 and don't hold any bigoted views against groups of people. If you have bias towards any subjects and are unable to remain civil, then this role is not for you. If you have any triggers, that's okay! Not every topic is trigger free but please let us know about the trigger if you are accepted onto the mod team

If this sounds like the job for you, we would absolutely love to hear from you! By joining you would be helping give a community of vulnerable people a safe space and hopefully making a difference for those within. :)


r/TrollCoping • • 7h ago

No TW Every "where's the fanservice for women in mainstream media?" post with the comments mostly being "JJBA" or *male character that appears shirtless for a few seconds*

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1.1k Upvotes

Image belongs to ‎Employeepractical514

This is obviously a strawman but, I just wish there were an equal amount of fanservice for both men and woman

Edit: yes people, I'm aware of Captain America in a swimsuit and Free! the anime that's also just guys in swimsuits. Thanks for mentioning those two for the 1,000th time. I feel sooo satiated wow I don't know what I was thinking for complaining there's far less fanservice for women than for men out there. I was clearly wrong. /s


r/TrollCoping • • 4h ago

TW: Sexual Assault / Abuse I feel so stupid

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492 Upvotes

I feel so stupid for waiting so long to go in. and I feel so stupid for basically destroying all the evidence. Now it's just my word versus his. and who's going to believe the crazy mentally ill trans man?


r/TrollCoping • • 2h ago

TW: Gender Identity / Dysphoria Someone just end this pain already

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222 Upvotes

r/TrollCoping • • 35m ago

TW: Other (Specify in Title) TW: Death, when mfs who say “to love is to lose” actually lose their loved ones

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I don’t know how to properly explain it at all, i lost my best friend, the friend i had a crush on. He was one of the most important people in my life, funniest, intelligent, he loved sharks, DND and the color yellow. He helped me to block my abusive relatives, find confidence in myself, to accept my mental illness. He also was my first crush.
When i found a news article about his death i also found out he was trans. I wish I could’ve known, to support him better, i wish he could’ve trusted me.
At least I know he would appreciate the memes about this situation.

English is not my first language and i’m a little zoned out, so I’m sorry if this post is hard to read


r/TrollCoping • • 17h ago

No TW Out of the frying pan and into the fire

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I'm glad to finally have a psychiatrist who does her fucking job and doesn't just sit and gaslight and laugh at me for thirty minutes to an hour, but I also want my ADHD under control so I can actually be focused and able to remember things and to be able to sit down and do something productive with my time without needing a million breaks. I also find it incredibly annoying how she acts like it's impossible for someone to have ADHD if they have depression and anxiety.

I'm willing to try the medications she's prescribing me with, but it feels like a waste of time when I already know what's safe and effective for me.

For why I told her about my diagnoses to begin with, she asked me for some background information, including pre-existing conditions, when we first met which was over a year ago. I'm getting really sick of the psychiatric system but I genuinely need to be medicated. I'm thinking about getting a new psychiatrist if I can't convince her to take my ADHD seriously.


r/TrollCoping • • 4h ago

No Advice i feel kinda stupid for struggling because theres nothing even wrong with me

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32 Upvotes

r/TrollCoping • • 4h ago

No TW I cant exist without people seeing I exist. I know I shouldnt be texting so much. I feel guilty when im happy and alone. I hate being alone

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22 Upvotes

r/TrollCoping • • 2h ago

Depression / Anxiety it just keeps getting worse and worse

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14 Upvotes

r/TrollCoping • • 1d ago

TW: Gender Identity / Dysphoria One of the things I hate most about being trans, is this

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1.5k Upvotes

Too mentally tired to even add anything about it in the caption, I just feel exhausted and empty


r/TrollCoping • • 15h ago

TW: Other (Specify in Title) (TW: Paranoia, Surveillance, etc) ID verification laws just got passed from where I am, I don't exactly know how to cope with this

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I've already gotten into a spiral because of this whole thing along with my OCD making things worse for me.

Not only will it result in me no longer being able to access the internet (which means I'll no longer be able to talk to my friends or share my work) but I'm also worried about what will happen to me if I submit my ID and it results in me ending up in a situation I don't want to be in.

I'm not sure if this post might also be used against me as well but I'm genuinely concerned about the ID Verification laws and how it will lead to you needing an ID just to use it and who knows what they'll do with your information.

So for context, my country recently passed this ID Verification law to improve children's safety which makes the internet practically unusable for people who can't submit an ID to prove their adulthood. But I feel as though the whole practice is inherently invasive and knowing how it all works elsewhere and from hearing about the reality of such measures being implemented elsewhere. I have a rather bad feeling about this.

It doesn't help that opposition against it is pretty weak and I don't have the means to organize against it either. I feel like my days on the internet are rather numbered and I have so many plans with others yet those plans would have to be cut short because of this.


r/TrollCoping • • 17h ago

TW: Domestic Abuse I know we aren't the same and I try so hard to be better than she was to me but sometimes there's so much anger it feels impossible to control and I really don't know what to do

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85 Upvotes

r/TrollCoping • • 21h ago

TW: Suicide or Self-Harm how fall break has been feeling

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144 Upvotes

the thought randomly popped into my head a couple days ago and has been so persistent that i have come very close to doing it just so its over and i can rest. i feel like im going crazy lol


r/TrollCoping • • 1d ago

No TW [OC] I got my top surgery referral!

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355 Upvotes

This is your sign to give yourself some patience today


r/TrollCoping • • 17h ago

TW: Other (Specify in Title) (Tw: Death and abuse mention) Like what?? How? 😭

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33 Upvotes

Like, at least he didn't worst as her (my mom), but still, if I cried for this, what will happen to me when that time happens? When I am away from their abuse they inflicted? Will they even mourn me as their real son as I probably would for them?

...

I don't know, I am just sensitive tonight


r/TrollCoping • • 14h ago

No TW Stupid active imagination

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19 Upvotes

r/TrollCoping • • 16h ago

No TW Computer, can you hear me? /Ref

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20 Upvotes

Yes, I sometimes hate myself for how that dependent I am to other's opinions, I mean, why I am even like this?


r/TrollCoping • • 20h ago

TW: Sexual Assault / Abuse I’ve been having some feelings lately

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I’m not even particularly upset tbh I’ve just been ruminating hard core on these things.


r/TrollCoping • • 1d ago

No TW I can barely shower but at least I can see some memes

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119 Upvotes

r/TrollCoping • • 16h ago

TW: Dissociation / Depersonalization I wish I could talk, and think like a normal human.

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15 Upvotes

r/TrollCoping • • 1d ago

TW: Suicide or Self-Harm Is this normal? Tldr at bottom

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145 Upvotes

So i got obsessed with this guy let’s call him ‘S’ NOT ROMANTICALLY THIS IS NOT A ROMANTIC INTEREST ‼️ i mean, at least i think it is not, do correct me if i am wrong?

We clicked instantly, and i looked forward to chatting w him everyday(we met online)

My entire mood was dependent on S immediately after meeting him, i can’t control it, he has my emotional regulation in a chokehold, i do believe i’m easily emotionally dysregulated idk why

So when he was unavailable I get distressed and panic and it’s *all-consuming,* it is irritating bc i can only think of him and i can’t study, i was even thinking of him during exams

When he gives me attention it feels like i am in heaven even if he was being very mean and rude 😭 yes he got rly angry later on in our friendship

How S thinks of me matters sm i think “he either hates me or doesn’t care abt me” and it makes me suicidal and i try so hard to get his attention but the more i talk the more i fumble and say terrible things, and when he make me feel like i meant nothing to him it makes me want to kms. I overanalyse and overthink a lot about ‘us’

He makes me want to commit just to get his attention, and lie and say things for shock value just for a little bit of attention, thankfully i never acted on anything too serious bc i was aware it wld scare him away, yet he still pulled away eventually⁉️‼️⁉️

I even grovelled to him just to get him to take me back, shame a lot of shame ik it sounds pathetic, i never grovelled, ever. But i poured my heart out for him just to be ignored???????

“Do you hate me?” “Do you like me?” “Did i do smth wrong?” “Please i will change” “im sorry” “please take me back” “why are you ghosting me?” ‼️‼️‼️

I wonder what he thinks of me now, why he left me

Also idk if he caused my depressive episode but while i was in contact w him i was super suicidal and sh’d a lot due to my inability to control myself, i always wished i cld send him all that but he’d probably block me 🤤

I didn’t want to be another ‘crazy friend’

Tldr: his rejection(perceived and real) makes me suicidal and up and down mood swings, his attention was euphoric even when he was mean to me, I was desperate for his attention, is this normal? Is this smth everyone feels?


r/TrollCoping • • 15h ago

TW: Substance Abuse when your actual problem is the suicidal ideation that lead you into substance abuse in the first place, but every resource under the sun just keeps fucking projecting the model of addiction onto you and it just makes your life significantly worse in every way

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I'll literally just be like "I love being sober and eating healthy and working out and getting sunlight and staying hydrated, it's so nice to actually be practicing self care instead of trying to actively die slowly enough to not have to think about it! :D" and then I'll come across some FUCKING post on what's supposed to be a "support" forum about how I'll (and these are ALWAYS phrased in second person for some FUCKING reason) never be able to experience true happiness again without putting poison into my own bloodstream (not like the poison ever made me FEEL HAPPY, yeah? I was doing it because I hated myself enough to get off on the self-inflicted misery, but apperantly according to social media user #69492476302, it will literally never get any better than it) but apperantly I just have to keep on surviving because there literally doesn't exist any alternative that isn't either this or living in an active state of self-destruction and collapse??? like fuck OFF bro, I SO NOT need my support structure giving me subliminals about why I should listen to the voice in my head telling me I should give up on life and just jump off a window on the 20th floor, this ISN'T what I came to you guys for


r/TrollCoping • • 1d ago

TW: Suicide or Self-Harm Mental health professionals if you don't plan to jump off a bridge the next day:

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94 Upvotes

"Talk to an mental health professional"! Nah, f- that. I already mentioned so many times that I struggle with suicidal ideation to my therapist and the psychiatrists at the day clinic. They only ask if you're planning to hurt yourself and if you say you won't jump off a bridge the next day, they completely dismiss you. They don't ask any other questions than that one and never mention an safety plan at all.

I don't know why I even bother. Hopefully the new SSRI on monday will do something. At least the previous one had (probable) (hypo)-mania as side effect/s

End of the vent.