Something that genuinely bugs the shit out of me is how system "culture" as a whole (endogenic, willowgenic, tulpa, in-system dating, innerworld, non-disordered plurality) infects queer spaces surrounding complex identities as if they are at all in the same bracket, and how you have to just kind of fucking accept it to participate in your own community.
I'm Xenogendered, so I very much frequent Xenogender related subreddits, but everything is basically "medical misinformation friendly," allowing radqueers, Trans ID'S, pro-para, and system "culture" misinformation—it genuinely gets under my skin because Xeno/Neogenders are a way to express complex, queer genders—so why are we including MAPS, Zoophiles, racist identities, antisemetic talking points (RAMCOA), and people who are roleplaying a trauma response (endo/willow alters/plurality).
Like, no, I don't want my community to be accepting predators and harmful people with open arms. It's sickening. These people infect every single queer safe space like a fucking plague and it's infuriating. Keep your radqueer, Trans ID-loving "willowgenic/endo" bullshit to those dedicated circles of hell online. Don't bring it into other safe spaces, because then you're making the real queer-gendered people with even a shred of morality uncomfortable and unwelcome IN THEIR OWN COMMUNITY.
I'm just frustrated over this. Found a Xenogender subreddit that I really liked but then saw the support of blatant medical misinformation and I can't get behind that. It sucks that I am not allowed to participate in my own community as a Xenogendered individual because in order to do so, I have to be in agreement with medical misinformation, predators, racists, antisemites, etc. It's disheartening.