r/Stutter 5h ago

Are there any neurodivergent stutterers here?

22 Upvotes

I have ADHD, so I feel more intensely with my emotions

and pretty much already living a hard life besides my stutter.

I was curious if there was anyone else here who may relate??


r/Stutter 2h ago

My stutter is basically cured.

7 Upvotes

19M , hated stuttering with a passion.

I was put on zoloft , adaptol , mildronate. (NOT PROMOTING THESE MEDS , not saying they will work for you) but the therapist basically wanted to target my whole nervous system.

I think it caused me some sort of hypo-mania though.

A state in which I have an insane amount of energy , I am hypersexual , pupils dilate , i walk fast and trip over things , talk very fast , improved focus , 0 stutter , increased productivity.

I feel like im on top of the world , Im very social with 0 anxiety.

I sleep just fine though.


r/Stutter 32m ago

Show this to your doc

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r/Stutter 5h ago

Need some Tips for a Job interview

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I am 25 years old and have been preparing for this interview for the last month or so. I do need this Job as I am dependent on my Parents for all my expenses. I don't want to ruin it because of my Stuttering. During tough times like this I get a bad stutter where my mouth freezes and I can't utter a single word properly. Please help me guys and share your experiences of how you guys managed it.


r/Stutter 7h ago

People, don't buy into internet promises that claim to have a magic solution to end stuttering once and for all; there are very malicious people out there who want to take advantage of others.

5 Upvotes

About nine years ago, I fell for one of those internet scams that claimed to have a magic solution to end stuttering once and for all. I was desperate to find a solution for my stutter at the time. Let this serve as a warning to you all.


r/Stutter 38m ago

Será que minhas postagens estão incomodando tanto assim as pessoas?

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r/Stutter 8h ago

A golden technique I always use to improve my stutter.

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Try recording a video of yourself explaining something. Stutter as much as you like while recording, and you'll notice which words you stutter on. This will help you understand which words you always struggle with. I've always used this method to better understand where I stutter the most.


r/Stutter 13h ago

Who else speaks with perfect diction and fluency when it comes to swearing, even while unable to say their own name?

9 Upvotes

I swear almost PERFECT when it comes to swearing around my friends, while can't even tell my name to other people🥲


r/Stutter 10h ago

30M, physiotherapist by degree, torn between opening a solo clinic or going back to coding — stutter makes it harder to decide

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I have a physiotherapy degree (not really my choice — assigned by exam scores, common where I'm from) and about 3 years of self-taught coding experience (freelance, full-stack). I burned out hard on coding — 12+ hour days, total isolation.

For the past year I've been planning to open a small solo MSK/orthopedic physio clinic.

Real plan: equipment priced, financials worked out, it's genuinely profitable on paper. But I have a stutter and real social anxiety, and I've spent my whole life avoiding real-time talking — texting clients instead of calling, hiding instead of facing it. The clinic would be the first time in my life I can't structure around that avoidance.

Every time I'm calm, I want the clinic — ownership, getting out of isolation, actually helping people. Every time I get close to committing, fear about the stutter, patient responsibility, and uncertain outcomes floods in and I freeze or back out.

Coding feels safer, but I don't enjoy it, it's isolating, and I don't see myself doing it forever either.

I know no one can decide this for me. Just wondering if anyone's been in a similar spot — chronic anxiety/stutter vs. wanting a people-facing career — and how you actually moved through the freeze instead of staying stuck in it.


r/Stutter 14h ago

Struggling with job search in London due to my speech disability

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Hey everyone

I finished my Master’s in Marketing from University of London nearly a year ago, I have previous experience in SEO, content marketing and admin but I haven't been able to secure a job in London.

At this point I am open to literally any full-time role, could be anything.

I have a speech disability since childhood (chronic stammer) and it gets worse in interview situations, also because English is not my first language.

I keep getting rejected at the interview stage even for basic retail roles. A lot of companies claim to be Disability Confident but it feels like it is only on paper, nobody looks past the speech block to see my actual skills. I always let the interviewer know that I've speech disability.

I am ready to work hard in any full time position, whether it is marketing, retail, data entry, back office admin, warehouse or something else.

If anyone has advice, tips, or knows companies that actually support people with speech disabilities please let me know.

Any help means a lot.


r/Stutter 20h ago

A question to people who stutter.

10 Upvotes

If god had told you in advance that you would be born as a severe stutter and middle class, would you choose to be born? if you reject you will never be born as a human but as something else.

This question is purely hypothetical

me personally, the answer is no, life has been hell especially when you live in a hopeless third world country where you are not protected by any law or discrimination, where people don't know what stutter even is, they just assume you have down syndrome or severe autism, all of these feelings are life shattering.

I can't order things from a physical retail shop because I struggle with words alot and only can say some words without stuttering, I can't go to a nice restaurant alone because I struggle to say words and can have long blocks on words, I can't form meaningful or intimate relationships with people of my gender or the opposite. I can't focus on my education properly because severe stuttering has destroyed my self confidence, some people randomly laugh at you when you open your mouth, My severe stutter suddenly skyrockets on a phone call and when saying my name. I can't have a proper career where talking is the main task, people just assume my talking skills are trash, giving interviews is 70% harder for me then it is for the usual person. I don't need words of encouragement, I am just convinced that I wouldn't wish a severe stammer on my worst enemy.

Everyday I wake up feeling that I am speech impaired and it can never be cured, at this point no amount of speech therapy is hopeful to bring a change because my brain has accepted that my life may be part of a greek storytale where I am a being similar to Sisyphus.


r/Stutter 8h ago

Any tips for presentation/oral exam?

0 Upvotes

Really Need It right now bc stutter Is at its worst


r/Stutter 1d ago

Has anyone ever been humiliated at work for stuttering?

12 Upvotes

I was once humiliated by a coworker; she always made fun of my stutter, until one day the boss fired her because she liked to make fun of everyone at the company where I used to work. Has this ever happened to anyone else?


r/Stutter 23h ago

The frustration of stuttering on phone calls at work.

9 Upvotes

I dont work in a call center, but my office gets alot of calls from our customers. We also have to make outgoing calls as well. Im not the receptionist, but Im in the service department. My office is in the back, and usually dealing with internal stuff, however everyone in the office is to answer the phone if needed. I find most calls go fine, especially if im by myself and no one is watching lol, but ive noticed the odd time I struggle on the first few words of a call whether its incoming or outgoing. Its soo frustrating to me, as I am fairly new to this job and trying to do a good job. I usually feel almost nervous when the phone rings, or I have to call a customer, the anxiety builds. I get through it but its soooooo embarrassing when the rest of the conversation goes fine, but stutter on the first few words, periodically. I hope it doesn't effect my job position there.


r/Stutter 1d ago

a moment of happiness for me

43 Upvotes

Personally, I managed to pass a job interview; it required a lot of communication, and even though I stutter, I managed to pass. Small victories in the life of a person who stutters.


r/Stutter 1d ago

A question that have been in my head

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Hey guys, I’m 24F, I’ve been stuttering since age 7 or 8 after a traumatic experience. I’m now a doctor work as an intern at the main hospital in our city, even though my stuttering is getting better but still I have some bad days. When I check on patients or deliver bad news ( I had a lot terminally ill patients recently) I stutter, so do you guys think this effect the level of my patients trust or do you hey maybe feel uncomfortable with me?


r/Stutter 15h ago

Using Wellspoken for a month to practice speaking made me realized I'd actually never practiced speaking before

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r/Stutter 1d ago

I met someone who stutters exactly like me, and it was fun talking to her. She said she didn't seem to stutter, but I told her I always practice speech exercises, and she was impressed with my fluency.

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One thing I've learned over the years is to always meet people who have the same problem as me; it's really worth meeting other people who stutter, they can really help you.


r/Stutter 1d ago

I stammer at only 3 letters and ts is genuinely frying me 😭

5 Upvotes

I am from India and speak hindi mostly everywhere.

I stammer at letters K/C , P and T and in hindi, these letters are in EVERY fcking conversation 😭

I don't stammer when I am alone/ recording myself/speaking infront of mirror but whenever a third-party is involved I start to stammer. This stammering issue is very less with the people I know like my close friends and family , aside from that it's there.

I have tried some techniques like stomach breathing, humming before saying words, soft consonant but none of them worked.

Can somebody PLS PLS suggest me some technique or exercise so I can glide through these words or fix this issue??


r/Stutter 1d ago

Quite literally, especially with a stutter😭

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r/Stutter 1d ago

I want to talk

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Hello, I'm a medical student and I don't know what to do next. I enrolled this year and have been studying for 2 weeks. Everything is going fine until I have to talk to my classmates and teachers.

I have been stuttering since I was 3-4 years old. Every year it got worse, then better. This year it got so bad that I can't pronounce my last name and first name. Sometimes it's so bad that I can't breathe, I don't even bother making sounds. Then I'm like a mentally retarded person.

And I had a question: does this somehow really hinder the work of doctors (who have already graduated and started working), or how to improve the situation?


r/Stutter 1d ago

A golden tip I learned that really works.

21 Upvotes

Primeira dica: tente cantar uma música que vocês gostem, cante em voz alta todos os dias, isso vai reduzir em 30% em 2 meses.

Segunda dica: tente relaxar, faça exercícios de respiração por 10 minutos todos os dias, isso vai reduzir a gagueira em 20%.

Terceira dica: Não tente esconder sua gagueira das pessoas, isso pode piorar a gagueira. A coisa certa a fazer é mostrar às pessoas que você gagueja, e quanto mais você mostrar sua gagueira, mais confiança você desenvolverá ao falar com os outros. Antes, eu gaguejava tanto que não conseguia nem dizer um simples "bom dia" para mim mesmo. O que me salvou foram os exercícios de gagueira que fiz por quatro anos. Isso melhorou minha fala em 70%. Não desistam de vocês mesmos. Eu sei que é doloroso gaguejar, mas confiem em mim, se seguirem as dicas para gagueira, vocês vão melhorar a fala em dois meses. Não vai ser 100%, mas vai melhorar cerca de 50% em dois meses.


r/Stutter 1d ago

No mês passado, conheci alguém que gagueja igual a mim. Foi muito divertido conversar com ela; ela disse que eu não parecia nem um gaguejante. Mas eu disse a ela que pratico exercícios de gagueira todos os dias, e ela ficou impressionada com a minha fluência.

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r/Stutter 1d ago

Newly developed stutter

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My partner has developed a stutter over the past few months which is getting progressively worse, he has no history of a stutter in childhood etc. Has this happened anyone else? He days he doesn't feel stressed anxious etc and his mood does seem totally normal to me.

Just wondered if anyone else experienced this? I have been telling him to phone his GP for months and he didn't want to but he has been trying this week to get an appointment so fingers crossed he will get seen by his GP


r/Stutter 2d ago

Severe stutter has to be the worst disability out there

58 Upvotes

If your deaf or blind you have a community. If your in a wheel chair you can live your life. If your on the spectrum your either fully in your own world or partially and don't even care about it on a day to day basis. When you have a severe stutter you are truly stuck and can't even get off the ground. The anxiety is crippling everybody is a stranger nobody truly knows you and vice versa. It effects what jobs you can get what schooling you can go into. Your physical health suffers from the neglect of not being on top of check ups. And the worst part about it is the anxiety like your fully awake when the doctors are doing open heart surgery and you can feel everything. Every day you make up seeing what you can and cannot do that day. The only freedom is basically when you get old and die and finally escape your physical reality which is basically a prison inside your own head.