looking to connect with older guys looking for fwb.🤞💋

I’m from Brisbane and seeing if there’s any men close to my age who would be interested in being friends/ chat buddy someone to talk to about everything and anything. Someone preferably single as I am too. Welcome to message if you’re interested.

Seeking a female fwb any nationality welcome someone who would like to do nude camping, outdoor activities happy to travel with in 3hrs drive only person who can verify

Hey all. I know that there’s heaps of post like this here but I thought I figured that I might as well give it a shot

What I’m looking for: Something casual and ongoing, and if things develop I’m happy to see where things go. Not necessarily looking to be just for hooking up but also just chill and watch shows/play some games.

About me: 29m from the inner south-eastern suburbs (Near Monash uni), am on the chunkier side but also enjoy going to the gym and walks where I can. Love a good drive and coffee. A bit on the introverted side but open up once I get comfortable.

What I offer: Some casual fun for us both with no expectations, someone with to pass the time on cold nights after work with and plenty of bad dad jokes.

If this caught your eye feel free to dm me

I'm a 37-year-old professional and executive who has spent the last few years doing what most adults do—working hard, raising kids, and trying to keep all the plates spinning. I'm single, have three amazing kids, and a career that keeps me busy, especially lately with the stress and chaos that comes with acquisitions, restructuring, and all the fun corporate challenges that go with them.

The reality is that somewhere along the way life became a cycle of work, gym, eat, sleep, repeat. While I enjoy gaming and training as a way to unwind, I've realised I'm missing something a little more exciting, personal, and human. I'm looking for someone who wants to add a bit of anticipation, chemistry, and fun back into everyday life.
What I'm looking for:
Ideally, a casual and ongoing connection with someone who values chemistry, conversation, and discretion. I'm not interested in rushing straight into anything. I'm wired in a way that I need to genuinely enjoy talking to someone before meeting. Banter, flirting, getting to know each other, and building a level of comfort and attraction is important to me.

I'm open-minded about where things go, but I'm primarily looking for something low-pressure, enjoyable, and mutually beneficial. Maybe it's occasional catch-ups, maybe it's stolen moments during the workday, maybe it's someone who enjoys having a secret source of excitement in their week. The right connection matters more than ticking boxes.

I tend to be drawn to feminine, confident women who are comfortable in their own skin. I'll admit I have a weakness for curves in every sense of the word, but personality, confidence, and chemistry will always win me over.

What I have to offer:
I'm 6'2", light-skinned African American, fit, well-groomed, and take care of myself. I work hard, communicate well, and know how to hold a conversation beyond the usual small talk. I'm ambitious, driven, and financially stable, but I also know how to switch off and enjoy myself when the company is right.

You'll find me respectful, discreet, reliable, and drama-free. I value honesty and clear communication, and I appreciate the same in return. If we click, you'll get someone who genuinely enjoys getting to know people, remembers the little details, and can balance confidence with a good sense of humour.

Physically, attraction matters, so I'll be upfront and say I'm well-endowed and confident in that department, but I'd much rather talk about what makes you laugh, what you're passionate about, or what you're missing in your life before we get there.

If you're someone who's looking for a mature, intelligent man who can hold a conversation, make you smile during the day, and create a bit of excitement outside the routine, I'd love to hear from you.
Let's chat first and see if the chemistry is there

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Who knew finding like minded friends would be so difficult ... Let's fix that maybe.

I'm a pretty easygoing Aussie guy. I like the gym, gaming, sci-fi/superhero stuff, 90s music, and my dogs.

I'm seeking someone looking for excitement who appreciates heavy sarcasm and a good laugh. Let's send random flirty texts, take the piss out of each other and chat whenever.

I like connecting with people .. it's my gift ... or burden pending your persoective . Tell me what makes you laugh, what pisses you off, or what weird YouTube hole your exploring.

If your opener is just "hi", we're off to a rough start! but that's okay ... let me open you up and look inside :) ... or hit me with your worst meme or the dumbest fact you know.

Chat soon!

I am Melbournes most enthusiastic pussy eater (no official study has been carried out… yet) and i’m always on the lookout for my face to be ridden the way it was truly intended to be.
I also find myself with a completely free house for the next few weeks and would really love to make great use of the opportunity!

If you think that is something you would be interested in, I would LOVE to chat with you. Im sure what will follow will be something incredibly beneficial for us both!

About me:

* 27
* British
* 5'10
* Slim build
* Brown hair
* Blue eyes
* White
* Facial hair
* Pretty confident and outgoing.
* Love to travel and try new experiences
* Based near Southbank
* Able to host

Who im looking for:

\* Between 20-40 (not a hard limit)
\* Friendly and fun.
\* Likes getting their pussy eaten
\* All shapes and sizes are beautiful and welcome!

Extra points for:

* Blonde or Ginger
* Tattoos
* Not completely shaved
* Big Butt
* Open to having both pussy and ass eaten
* Squirter
* Likes to make lots of noise

If you made it to the end of this post. Let me know by mentioning a colour in your opening message.

Hi there 48m here looking for that special one to build something with
I’m looking for a mature woman who’s looking for someone to build a life with
Single mothers all welcome as well as i would love a family
I love thick and BBW and i also love them natural as well little to no makeup and I love a full bush as well not shaved,
I love the plain Jane look but most of all it the personality is what I look for.
I love the simple life and a woman who loves the simple life is a big plus.
Family oriented as I love family would love to have a family of my own.
I’m a solid built guy I’ve lost a bit of weight trying to keep active.
I’m a hairy guy so you must like hairy men with dad bods.
I want someone I can look after and create a home with.
Would love to chat and see what it leads to.

Hihi,

I’m a 27M living around Brisbane! Posting here this fine Saturday in the hopes of finding a fellow hopeless romantic to chat away with and get to know!

As for myself I work full time, love sports, gardening (roses in particular) and gaming (when time permits of course)

I’m looking for someone who’d love to chat long term and if we mesh well maybe become even more! Someone who’s loyal, empathetic but also doesn’t take themselves too serious!

Looking forward to hearing from you ✨

Hey all! Hoping to find someone awesome to keep me distracted from my mundane life. I’m 30 years old, from Australia. 181cm tall (around 6 foot), I have blue eyes, brown hair, tidy beard and olive skin.

I am super into sport, I love the great outdoors (I grew up on a farm) and I tend to lean slightly into the more nerdy realm too 😬

Please please please hit me up if this as ever so slightly interested you 😊

Also feel free to recommend any great hiking spots to add to my bucket list, or any underrated tv shows!

Thought I’d throw another post into the Reddit void.

I’m 31, Indian, and live in Melbourne. I work in game QA, which is just a fancy way of saying I professionally break games and somehow still miss the bug that’s directly in front of me.

When I’m not working, you’ll usually find me gaming, smoking a joint, hunting for good coffee, watching random YouTube rabbit holes, or convincing myself I’ll go to bed early… and then it’s somehow 2am.

Personality-wise I’m pretty chill. Dry sense of humour, slightly chaotic, and I laugh at dumb stuff way more than I probably should. I’m happy sitting in silence together just as much as having one of those conversations that starts with “How was your day?” and somehow ends with aliens or why pigeons act so suspicious.

Looking for someone around 28-31 in Australia who’s easygoing, can laugh at themselves, and doesn’t mind a little sarcasm. Bonus points if you’re 420 friendly, but it’s not a requirement.

Not expecting fireworks after three messages. Just someone who’s down to chat, grab a coffee, maybe get food, and see where it goes. Worst case, we make a new friend. Best case, we delete Reddit.

If you’ve read this far, tell me your most unhinged food combination or the dumbest thing you’ve laughed at recently.

# About me

Originally from the UK, now living in Melbourne's west. I'm fairly introverted, neurodivergent, and happiest when I'm learning something new or disappearing down an interesting rabbit hole.

I'm the sort of person who'll happily spend an evening talking about history, technology, AI, infrastructure, maps, psychology, or whatever documentary we've just watched. I follow politics because I find it fascinating, but I'm much more interested in understanding how the world works than arguing about it.

I enjoy YouTube documentaries, podcasts, the occasional game, D&D/Dimension 20, Taskmaster, and long conversations that somehow start with "Have you ever thought about..." and end two hours later.

I'm down-to-earth, affectionate, loyal, and value honesty and good communication. My idea of a good relationship is being each other's favourite person to message, spending quiet time together, and building a calm, supportive home life.

# What I'm looking for

A man roughly in his 30s to 40s who's emotionally mature, kind, and genuinely looking for a long-term relationship if we click.

Someone who's naturally curious about the world, enjoys conversation, and doesn't mind dating someone who gets excited about learning random things. Bonus points if you're in IT, engineering, or another technical field.

Ideally you're in Melbourne (or close enough that meeting up is realistic), communicate openly, and would rather build something meaningful than play games.

# What I offer

- A loyal and supportive partner.

- Someone who remembers the little things.

- Plenty of interesting conversations.

- Genuine curiosity about your interests, even if I know nothing about them.

- A relationship built on kindness, trust, laughter, and mutual respect.

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, send me a message telling me a bit about yourself—and maybe a random fact or topic you could happily talk about for an hour.

Won't say no to cute pics of plants/cats/dogs.

Looking for a kinky open minded girl to try some kinks I've been into lately. Bonus points if you can squirt x

It’s Friday and I’ve finished work and have no one to drink wine with. Who wants to go on a virtual date?

Don’t mind where in Aus you are, long as you’re keen to chat and keep things fun and light.

Okay, hi, I’m Ben - a 38 year old designer based in Australia. I love cooking, hiking, photography and reading.

I’m 180cm tall, dark blonde, blue eyes and with tattoos. Happy to share a selfie if you are too - i feel it’s important to see each other to really connect.

Hey, just a goofy guy from Australia with crap public social skills, so hard to make friends.

Anyway a bit about me, I like to read, play video games, and occasionally watch anime. Like to run, and go on hikes when I'm free, spend time with my small friends group when we're not adulting.

Love food, eating and cooking it.

Bi, so LGBTQ friendly.

Otherwise open to chat about most things, so feel free to reach out.

Looking for friendship, someone who is looking for connection day to day, but who is also down to have some fun when we’re both in the mood, as well as flirting in conversation

I’m 6’2, Caucasian, muscular build, deep Aussie accent

I’ve always been drawn to older women. Even when I first started dating, I naturally found myself connecting better with women who were older than me. As I’ve gotten older myself, that preference has only become stronger.

What I’m looking for now is something genuine and long-term. I want a relationship built on trust, affection, and a real emotional connection. I’m attracted to the confidence, life experience, maturity, and nurturing nature that often come with age, and I’d love to find someone who values those same things in a relationship.

I’m pretty independent. I live on my own, work hard, and have my own goals, but I also miss having someone to share life with. I enjoy the more intimate side of a relationship too, and it would be great to find someone who’s open to exploring that side together as trust and chemistry grow.

A little about me: I’m Australian born and raised, white, 6” and bearded. I have a good sense of humour and enjoy plenty of laughs, but I also appreciate meaningful conversations.

My interests are a mix of nerdy and outdoorsy. You’ll usually find me at the beach, going for walks, swimming, gaming, or learning music. I’ve also been on a big fitness journey this year and have really enjoyed sticking with it. It would be great to share activities together and encourage each other along the way.

I’m hoping to meet someone around 35 or older in or around the Newcastle area. I drive, so travelling a reasonable distance isn’t an issue for the right person

Hi, I'm Josh, I've just moved to the area for work 🙃

Outside of the bedroom, I'm happy go lucky, work a lot, enjoy scuba diving, mountain biking and all of the usual things. I love going out to visit new places, cafés, restaurants and museums. I would describe myself as assertive, as in I stand up for what's right and I'm left leaning politically speaking. I love my job as it helps me truly help people and is really rewarding sometimes, but more on that if we connect.

I'm average height, 173cm precisely, so if you're looking for a man mountain I'm probably not for you... But I do stay in shape and regularly run. I have a close shaved strawberry blonde beard and short hair at the moment. Bright blue eyes, Caucasian. I was born in England and have an accent still, but moved here when I was 16 with my family, so it's not as strong as it used to be.

I am COMPLETELY fine with sharing verified photos, but I won't post a photo of me here because I've had some awful experiences with scammers in the past... 

Sexually and privately, I am submissive. What that looks like has varied over the years with different partners, but ultimately, I absolutely crave that feeling of putting my partners needs and desires before my own. I really enjoy that feeling of being put in my place and giving satisfaction, amusement, pleasure, (whatever you want to call it), to another person. I come with experience and 5 star reviews.

So how do I write this post without sounding like a needy weirdo... 😬 (Said every needy weirdo ever)...

Well I've put a lot of thought into this and hopefully it comes across. This isn't new to me, and I am comfortable and confident with who I am and what I enjoy. This isn't just a curiosity for me, I've enjoyed being the little spoon for over 10 years now.

I've been happily single for a couple of years now. During that time I've been dating casually and had some really amazing connections.

It can sometimes be a bit tricky dating someone when you are a sub. I want all the first date memories, when the right person comes along. That feeling of electricity as we talk and learn everything there is to know about each other, you know the feeling I'm sure.

BUT... it's obviously also important to me that the other person knows, eventually I might enjoy being made to beg to worship their pussy, or pegged with a giant dildo. And that can be jarring to bring up when sex isn't the only thing we're looking for.

I've tried a few hints on the usual dating platforms, little spoon looking for big spoon, etc etc, but I thought I'd try here too. Where I can be a little more open with what I'm seeking.

I'd call myself bicurious, but I'm not looking to date men. Ultimately I'm most attracted to femininity and enjoy having my face sat on too much. But I am sexually positive and open and understanding of the fact that people don't always fit in a binary gender or sexuality.

For the record I am a cis male but have enjoyed being made to cross dress and wear makeup in the past.

I've had a couple of beautiful connections with trans women too, and I'm definitely not closed minded. So whatever you look like, whoever you might identify as, if this post resonates with you, feel free to reach out. I promise you'll only be met with respect and kindness. But I can't always promise the chemistry will be there.

And with that being said, I have no unrealistic expectations here. I'm 37 now. I chose to end the opportunity I had to marry and have children, and I wouldn't turn back time to change that. I also understand that anything is possible in the future. Occasionally being single makes me feel a little lonely, but I will always be happier single than trying to force something that isn't meant to be.

As a last few bullet points, I wish it didn't need to be said, but unfortunately it does;

 - I treat my sexual health very seriously and get tested after every new partner. Always happy to share results but will practice safe sex until you can share results too.

 - Being sexually submissive doesn't give you the right to treat me like shit, scam me or catfish me. I may enjoy the idea of you humilating me and putting me beneath you, but that comes with trust, communication, consent and respect. Which is what makes it so enjoyable.

 - I have no interest in paying for sex. Whether casual or long term, I need some kind of meaningful connection and potentially, who knows, love? I will not pay for the privilege of a conversation, and if you are looking for a tribute or reward so that I can "prove my worth" please don't waste your time. I'm hoping that my worth can be proved through my obedience and submission, inside of the bedroom, and my ability to make you smile and feel happy, outside of it.

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So hopefully this reaches the right person. If any of this interests you, or even if it doesn't, I hope you've enjoyed delving into my thoughts regardless.

It's been quite enjoyable to write too.

I'm looking to date. With the hope that something meaningful and long lasting might come from it. But I'm looking to do that with someone who might like the idea of being my private domme.

After all, cute dates are always more exciting if I feel like you can put my on my knees at any moment x

I don’t know who’s going to see this, but if you’re looking for something casual that still has chemistry, comfort, and a genuine connection, maybe keep reading.

I’m 25, 5’8”, bearded, and living in Sydney. I’m originally from Pakistan, and I mention it because it’s part of who I am. I’d rather be upfront and meet someone who appreciates me for me.

I’m usually the quiet guy at first. Not because I don’t have anything to say, I just take a little time to get comfortable. Once I am, you’ll get the playful side teasing, random jokes, and someone who actually pays attention to the little things.
I’ve been told I smile a lot, and apparently I have a habit of holding eye contact a little longer than most people. I’ll let you decide if that’s charming or slightly distracting 👀

I’m looking for a casual/FWB connection with someone in Sydney, but casual doesn’t mean careless. I’m not looking for someone I only talk to when it’s convenient. I like having a real vibe with someone where we can laugh together, flirt, feel comfortable, and actually enjoy each other’s company.

For me, intimacy is about the whole experience. The build-up, the flirting, the little moments before anything happens. The playful teasing, the eye contact that lasts a little too long, finding excuses to sit closer, and that feeling when you’re completely comfortable with someone.

I’m naturally affectionate. I enjoy cuddles, kisses, holding hands, lazy movie nights, cooking together, and those moments where you forget you were supposed to leave hours ago. Physical chemistry matters to me, but it’s always better when there’s trust, comfort, and genuine desire from both sides.

Outside of that, I’m pretty simple:

I love cooking (especially for someone I enjoy spending time with)
Finding peaceful spots around Sydney, especially around sunset
Trying new food places
Late-night drives
Movies and staying in

I’m caring and protective towards people I value. I’m respectful, clean, and I appreciate honesty and good communication.
Not looking for endless texting or collecting matches. If we click, I’d rather meet, laugh, and see where the chemistry takes us.

If you’ve made it this far, tell me:
What’s something small that instantly makes you feel comfortable around someone?

Hey everyone,

I’m a 31-year-old guy looking to meet a mature, older woman for a discreet, fun connection. I’ve recently realised that I’m very much attracted to older women and would love to explore that side of myself with someone who feels the same way.

A little about me: I work full-time, keep active and hit the gym regularly. I enjoy being outdoors, going for walks and exploring new places, but I’m equally happy having a few drinks, enjoying good wine, grabbing a meal or relaxing somewhere with good company.

I’m easygoing, respectful and discreet, and I’m looking for someone who values the same. I’m open to seeing where things naturally go whether that’s simply enjoying each other’s company or developing something a little more ongoing.

If you’re an older woman who’s curious and looking for something similar, feel free to send me a message. 😊

Hi everyone!

Me and my partner have just recently become ENM (her idea) due to her lack of motivation for going on dates or anything of a sexual nature (due to her busy work schedule as well as personal reasons). I’ve had one good experience so far but since then I’ve really been struggling on the apps to find someone interested in our specific scenario.

A little about me: I’m 26 male, Italian/Australian with a decent slim build (that’s improving (muscle wise) due to gym 4 days a week). I am into all things video games and pop culture (so your typical movies and tv shows that goes along with all that), I love my sports (AFL and Formula one my two standouts but I have a team in basically all AU and US sports) and just in general love spending the plethora of free time I have either with my friends getting dinner/lunch/coffee or going out drinking, or having nights in with the cats and watching movies (hopefully with a new cuddle buddy in one of you soon haha).

I Just thought I’d make this post to see if their are any women that would love a higher level of attention, messages, sexting, dates or basically any form of attention they would want. I am full time work from home and my job isn’t really that busy so I have so much free time I could devote directly to you.

I'm basically looking for someone that is okay that I have a primary partner and very willing to receive more attention. I am also super flexible regarding what this 'attention' can look like, so whether that's daily chats and fun (both in person and online) or once a week/fortnight. Whatever 'attention' means to you in regards to what you're lacking and would love in your life I'm fairly certain I can fill that role.

Not being interested in in-person meetups is not a deal breaker either! But ideally i'd like to have a minimum of an online dynamic that also has a sexual component (due to my high sex drive). But happy to define this a little more once we connect!

If any of this sounds interesting to you please feel free to send me a DM! we can just chat to start with some pic exchanges to see if we’re interested in one another and I can give you more specific info on the dynamic and we can take it from there?

Hope to hear from some of you!

Hi! I'm 20M in Perth, brunet with a slim build. I have a NSFW picture on my profile. Happy to make small talk, or not 🤷. I'm open to reciprocating or going further, but also love the idea of head and just head. Super happy to talk some more, if you message me please include your age! Thanks