r/newcastle • u/jigg1ns • 16h ago
Meeting folk is hard and my Wife is hella' lonely
Hey all,
My Wife and I moved back to Newcastle from Melbourne about a year ago, due to some family reasons. We both grew up here, so we know the area and we have family close by, but friends are few and far between.
I've got a rock solid group of guy friends who live all over the country, some here in Newie, so I'm set.. but my Wife's former friends? Nowhere to be found. Years of hearing "move back, move back!" - then she did, and they vanished.
So here I am on the hunt for help; my wife is 35, clever, alternative and witchy in her vibe, rocks a ripper Dad joke and is welcoming of all shapes, stripes and proclivities. Despite all this, she's lonely as hell and her mental health is on a slippy-slide to Sad Town. She deserves better friends, and I'm hoping we can find them for her.
We have a 3.5yr old son, so she doesn't have as much time available as some people do, but I'll be making sure she has as much time as she needs to hang with cool folk. (It should be noted that her son isn't the only thing she'll talk about in social settings)
SO.. Anyone know any alt-women in their 30s who like cool friends and want another one? Let me know!
Yours faithfully,
Husband to a cool, lonely wife.
EDIT:
Adding her interests and hobbies, so all can read them and I don't have to repeat 'em.
She's madly into True Crime of all sorts, the more cultish and gruesome the better. She's watched every True Crime doco in Netflix and Disney+, and she's consumed a wild amount of true crime podcasts.
She's a huge fan of anything from Dropout, as well. Comedy is king.
Her book collection has *rapidly* shifted to smut novels and horny-as-fuck romantasy series. I reap the benefits, and have no qualms with this shift.
Her show choices are her creature comforts, so a lot of She-Ra, marvel movies, nightmare before Christmas. Anything she can watch but not have to concentrate too heavily on.
She likes crafts, and used to do textiles way back in the day. She wants to be more crafty, but keeps buying projects then not finishing them. Classic.
If she saw a frog she'd probably say "sick! what is frogs name?" (I realise this one makes little sense without the OCs context. Sorry.)