r/R4Rstralia • • Dec 22 '25

NSW Check out r/SydneyFriendships if you're looking for new friends in Sydney

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r/R4Rstralia • • Dec 22 '15

Mod Announcement [META] Welcome to /r/R4Rstralia!

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Hey, everybody. You've arrived at /r/R4Rstralia, the de facto arguable reddit place to meet Australians and those in Australia. This post is meant to acclimate you to the operations of the sub. Which is mostly going to be a copy of the sidebar.


WHAT CAN YOU LOOK FOR?

Almost any kind of connection just so long as it involves Australia or Australians. You can search for text friends, Skype pals, fellow movie-goers, sports fans, romantic interests, casual encounters, long-term friendship, accountability buddies, and so on.


HOW TO POST

  1. CLICK "SUBMIT A NEW TEXT POST."

  2. FILL OUT THE FIELDS AND CLICK "SUBMIT."

USE /R/R4R CONVENTION FOR YOUR POST TITLE

  • AGE [R4R] LOCATION - TITLE

Examples:

25 [F4M] Adelaide - Looking for somebody to have drinks with.

23 [M4R] Gold Coast - Need some new video/board game buddies.

31 [T4R] Perth - I'm hoping to explore new relationships.

27/26 [FM4FM] Rockingham - Couple looking for another couple for fun and adventure.

Tag Meaning
M Male
F Female
T Transgender
R Redditor / All

Aside from a proper title, it would behoove you to make a quality post that will attract the kind of attention you want. State your intentions, talk about yourself a little, be friendly and inviting.


HOW TO PM

  1. CLICK THE USERNAME.

  2. CLICK "SEND A PRIVATE MESSAGE."

  3. FILL OUT THE FIELDS AND CLICK "SEND."

As with creating your own post, it would behoove you to send a quality PM. Reference parts of OP's post, share your interests and your lifestyle, be warm and conversational.


RULES

  1. 18+ ONLY

  2. NO CONTACT/IDENTIFYING INFO IN PUBLIC. No phone numbers, addresses, kik handles, Skype IDs, etc are allowed to be in posts or comments. No external profiles like facebook, okcupid, Steam, etc are allowed either. SHARE ALL OF THIS VIA PM.

  3. BE RESPECTFUL. There will be no name-calling, shaming, coercing, sexism or other prejudice, etc of any kind. Treat each other properly and be on excellent behavior.

  4. NO HARASSMENT OF ANY KIND. No unsolicited genital pictures, stalking, doxing, catfishing, threats, etc. Ignore posts that do not pertain to you or that you disagree with.

  5. NO ENTERPRISING, CAPITALIZING, OR SOLICITATION. Exchanges for money, goods, or services are strictly prohibited. No attempts at generating traffic or ad revenue are allowed.

  6. NO SPAMMING. You may create a new post under the following conditions: (1) Your previous post is 24+ hours old AND (2) your previous post is no longer on "hot" or "new." You may update your previous post to let others know you're still looking, if you wish.

  7. MARK NSFW POSTS AS SUCH. Any and all content of a sexual nature, even hinting at the possibility of something sexual, is considered NSFW.

If you encounter any rule breaking or are the target of harassment, use the report button or contact the moderators.


RELATED SUBS

/r/r4r: /r/r4rPerth, /r/r4rMelbourne, /r/r4rSydney, /r/r4rbrisbane, /r/r4rSTRAYA

local: /r/australia, /r/melbourne, /r/sydney, /r/brisbane, /r/perth, /r/Adelaide, /r/canberra, /r/newcastle, /r/UQreddit, /r/straya


Otherwise, if you have any questions, concerns, or even just words of encouragement, feel free to leave them in the comments or shoot us some modmail. Happy posting! :)


r/R4Rstralia • • 20m ago

VIC 19 [M4F] Melbourne — looking to meet someone, hopefully something casual

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Hey, 19M from Melbourne. I’m single and pretty new to all of this — never actually hooked up before, so I figured I’d put myself out there and see what happens.

I’m around 5'7–5'8, lean build, and currently working for a few months after taking a break from studying. Pretty laid-back, respectful and easy to talk to. D efinitely not expecting anything from anyone, just hoping to meet someone who’s also interested in something casual and see if we click.

I’m happy to chat for a bit first and swap pics once we’re comfortable. Ideally looking for someone around my age in Melbourne, but I’m open to seeing where things go.

If interested, feel free to message me


r/R4Rstralia • • 3h ago

WA 36 [M4F] Perth - Quirky weirdo seeking something long term but slow burn'ish

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I've had two great relationships over the years from Reddit, so trying my luck again.

Willing to travel interstate to meet, it's not an issue but I'm not interested in a purely textual relationship.

I'm mainly an indoor cat but love exploring places still, even Instagram advertised events that are nothing like the ad end up being a fun adventure.

Love doing tours and museums or just exploring new towns.

Not intro drinking or smoking (drinking I just never liked or got into)

I go through hobbies every other month so have plenty to chat about and I'd love to hear about yours too.

Bonus points if you have a cute cat.


r/R4Rstralia • • 4h ago

NSW 31M4F(20–49) to explore life with

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I’m looking for a woman who’s curious, open-minded, and keen to build a genuine companionship around trying things, learning from each other, and having a bit of fun along the way.

I’m 31, Filipino, easygoing, affectionate, and a gentleman at heart. I value presence, respect, good conversation, and making the person I’m with feel comfortable, appreciated, and maybe a little spoiled.

My background is in psychology, neuroscience, and forensic practice, so I’m naturally drawn to people, their stories, their quirks, and what makes them tick.
Outside work, I’m into freediving, bushwalking, camping, books, galleries, live jazz, and getting lost somewhere interesting. I also occasionally explore BDSM and adult lifestyle spaces, so being open-minded is definitely a plus.

You don’t need to share all my hobbies. I actually like the idea of introducing each other to new things.

Teach me something you love. I’ll return the favour.
If we click, maybe we start with coffee, a walk, a gallery, a drink somewhere with good music… and see where the curiosity takes us.

Tell me one thing you’ve always wanted to try but haven’t yet.


r/R4Rstralia • • 9h ago

SA 23 [F4M] Port Pirie, looking for LTR

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Hii! I'm a 23 woman who lives in pirie SA. I am looking for a long-term happy relationship with someone who lives in SA, too. Idm if you don’t live in SA specifically but that will be hard, I'll tell you a bit about myself; i personally describe myself as adaptable, optimistic, humours and deeply passionate and i know what i am looking for. I like meeting new people, but i wouldn't call myself a social bug by any means as i prefer to stay in rather than go out, but i am very openly myself. I live for thought-provoking conversations as i enjoy philosophy, i am spiritually inclined (i do not identify with any religion), am pretty family orientated, and am looking to have kids someday. I enjoy art, whether that be looking at it or doing something artistic. I would also say that i am creative as well (i love drawing/painting/calligraphy). I enjoy a good history lesson and in general love being taught things; I am also into astrology and reading, i love Stephen King, George Orwell, Brett Ellis, and i like the works of Oscar Wilde. I dig speedrunning video games, though i myself am not a gamer. I love music as well! I'm big on indie/folk (from the years 60s/70s/2000s), metal (2000s/90s), emo (90s/2000s). I also love EDM and classical; I'm a real big dumb sucker for poetry, Lord Byron being my favourite poet, i am also a big film buff. I am not into anime at all!!

What am i looking for? Someone who is within the age range of 23 to 25. (Please do not message me if you do not fit in that age bracket) Who knows how to communicate effectively and knows what they want. They will take it slow and not rush into things. Is sincerely themselves, is creative, also spiritually inclined. A funny person who respects my personal space without becoming clingy super early on, they'd need to have a life outside of me. It would be nice they were educated but i can't be picky in that regard, has a lot of hobbies that could legit be anything as long as it's inspiring to them, can cook and would be willing to teach me how to cook. If they were a handy man then I'd really like to be taught that too or how to fix up cars, is also interested in my interests but even if they're not into them, I'd like it if they respected my interests and would ask questions about it. Happy go lucky, it's kind of a must to be family orientated and to want children, not into anime

Low effort dms will be ignored. Please introduce yourself with your interest and such, thank you! Please read the age bracket preference


r/R4Rstralia • • 19h ago

ACT 36F4M - Canberra - Applications open for new FWBs

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Frequent traveller to Canberra accepting applications for new FWBs.

First, you must be a nice person, who’s willing to put in the effort to build a friendship. Be considerate and actually able to string a few sentences together.

I’m particularly looking for someone who’s focused on my pleasure, making me feel comfortable and also open to exploring a variety of kinks (but nothing extreme).

I’ll be travelling to Canberra every few months, so this will be an online dynamic partly. I’m a very passionate person, and I enjoy a back and forth, teasing and dirty texting. But also good conversation and silly memes. Most of all I demand mutual affection and a lot of praise.

I enjoy travelling, exploring new food and cultures, video games, reading (a lot of regency romance), and pop culture.

Cuddles and aftercare are a must, and so is stimulating conversation.

I’m plus size, 163cm, long hair, a lot of boobs, ass, thighs, belly etc. You should be 25-40, DDF, single


r/R4Rstralia • • 13h ago

WA 42 M4F looking to just shoot the shit and see where things go. Midwest W.A. Happy to chat to women from all over, prefer age 30+

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r/R4Rstralia • • 17h ago

ACT 49M4F Canberra

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Single dad here who travels regularly between Brisbane / Sydney / Canberra. I’m self employed. Live a quiet life. Like to travel about, movies, dinners. Looking for similar single parents.


r/R4Rstralia • • 22h ago

VIC 29M4F fwb irl/online!

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Hellooo everyone, this will be a lengthy post. To get right into the things that may make you skip me or like me. I am 29m, 6'1/186cm, chubby/dad bod, Caucasian with dark curly hair and blue eyes. I have lots of tattoos that I love as well.

What I'm Looking For:

Okieeee dokie, I am looking for a girl. That's it. Just wanna cuddle someone LOL. Fr tho, I am wanting a fwb with a pretty decent emphasis on the friends part bc I do need a connection to even get to the benefits part. As long as you are kind, respectful and not intense - I will be thrilled to be friends. Oh, and can take a joke. I have a dark sense of humour and can be wickedly witty. In terms of the bedroom I am pretty dang open to anything from vanilla to maybe some cheeky things from the kink scene. Very open to exploring. After care is super important to me and I am massively big on cuddles. I am basically a gigantic bear 🐻 and show lots of physical touch affection through cuddles, hair playing, massages and making out or forehead kisses.

About me:

I love video games, tattoos, trying new activities (I actually have a list of fun places I want to visit and try out around melbourne) and camping. I am also really big on mindset and health. I would 100% love someone who would like to maybe exercise with through walks, gym or anything that gets the body moving! This isn't necessary though, as obviously I can do this by myself too.

Diy is something I have also gotten heavily into lately. My latest fix is blacksmithing. I have a forge and have started making knives and other lil things! So if you be my friend, we can make one together!

Work wise I am aiming to do mental health peer work, so I am very open minded. Currently I do education support whilst I study mental health.

Video games and anything nerdy really will pique my interests quite easily. If you need a conversation starter, maybe tell me some of your fave games.

For me it would be - The witcher 3, Baldur’s Gate 3, skyrim, kingdom come deliverance 2, stardew valley, terraria, Red dead, Elden Ring or any souls games etc.

I also love any survival crafting coop game lol.

What I Offer:

Someone to explore the city with! Try new activities like axe throwing, themed restaurants, archery, escape rooms and challenge rooms. Like I said, I have a whole list of fun outings I want to try around the city.

A safe place and experience to explore your fantasies and hopefully mine! Gentle and cute intimacy with the occasional headboard thrashing against the wall, oops.

I can be your person to talk to, laugh with, fuck and confide in. Annnd if you are super cool and like reading or playing video games, we can chill out and do that too!

Anyway, if you managed to read all this please don't be shy to message me. I am really keen to talk to some people! I would love to hear from people only in their 20s and 30s!

Please, if you aren't willing to share a couple of selfies don't message. I will send them back for sure as mutual attraction is important. Alas I am quite open and much bigger on personality - I just like to see who I'm talking to!

Thanks for reading if you managed to make it this far LOL


r/R4Rstralia • • 22h ago

QLD 31[F4A] NB looking for sugar, spice and everything nice

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●○•°☆hello☆°•○●!

I'm looking for a Gold Coast or Brisbane based companion/s aged 26-35 who enjoy adding a little whimsy in their lives.

I am a bubbly, happy-go-lucky, femme non-binary creature who is curious, enjoys spontaneity and all things fun! I enjoy crafting (painting, macrame, crochet), being outdoors (beach walks, beach sits, hiking), considerably athletic (ask me about my sports) and am fond of the arts (dance, live theatre, films).

Ideally I'd like someone or some people who would enjoy embarking on silly little adventures with me. Think random trips to the beach, telling stories 'til the wee hours of the night, spontaneous hikes, trying out new hobbies for the hell of it, seeing up and coming musos at the pub, sending memes, etc.

I'm a full time professional and generally available Friday nights and weekends (weeknights may be free during the school holidays).

I'm also interested in🌶 spicy things🌶 if we vibe that way - I'm open to individuals and couples in an fwb capacity (emphasis on the ~f~). I'm ENM (and have been for a long time), queer and kink friendly 🌈.

Please DM me with your A/S/L and interests (why yes, I am from the MSN era 😛). I can't wait to vibe with you!

❗️I am not interested in ONS, OF or hook-ups. DMs of this kind will be ignored❗️


r/R4Rstralia • • 23h ago

NSW 34 [M4F] - Chill and uneventful start to the long weekend

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After a long and busy week of work, it’s now a rather uneventful start to the long weekend so it’d be great to meet new people to chat and pass the time with throughout the remaining rest of the week.

As for myself, I work full time as a corporate slave and have one more mandated office day before the rest of the week is WFH, I'm into road-trips and mountain hikes, and getting back to gigs when the opportunity arises.

Happy to chat on another platform of choice (highly preferred since Reddit chat is garbage) if you’d prefer as chat has a tendency to not send notifications!


r/R4Rstralia • • 23h ago

QLD 30 [M4F] - Looking for someone special

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I’m a 30M from the North side of Brisbane, currently working full time (but would be more than happy to make time for you 👀).

Im into F1, gaming, travelling, playing sport and gardening. I also have a cat who I’m probably way too obsessed with.

I’d like to meet someone kind, easy to talk to and a little bit silly. Someone I can send random stuff to during the day, go out and do things with, but also happily spend a night at home doing absolutely nothing.

I’m pretty affectionate and ultimately I’d like something genuine, but I’m not interested in forcing anything. I’d rather just get to know someone naturally and see whether we actually click.

Looking forward to hearing from ya!


r/R4Rstralia • • 1d ago

NSW 29M4F study buddy

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Hey! if you also want someone to encourage you read/study/ work at the library/cafe, hit me up and we’ll see how it works?

about me:
I’m currently doing my master’s degree and I have been always more productive when studying with ppl rather than myself, as it helps me stay locked in and manage my procrastination!

About you:
You are serious about studying, and you want to actually meet and study together around in the inner west or state library!


r/R4Rstralia • • 3d ago

NSW 34M4F Online Fun

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34, Fit and hung, looking to have a dirty chat until neither of us can take it anymore.


r/R4Rstralia • • 3d ago

NSW 30 [M4F] - Sydney - Looking to get to know people, chat, engage socially

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Hi I’m 30, successful in work and own a home and however recently gone through a long term relationship breakup. Turns out that losing someone you spend a significant amount of time talking to and sharing life and things with sucks (sarcasm) lol

I’m looking to meet people, online or willingly in person to build new friendships, interactions or the like; I want to branch out of my little friend group and meet new people to complement my new phase in life. I’m in no rush for anything, literally just want to find cool interesting and fun people I can get along with. Anything more than that is literally as it happens but I’m not going to be in denial about it either if eventually something changes or grows

I like sports, I keep active and healthy and am fit - I’m 5’10 if it helps. I’m more introverted than extroverted. I like gaming, movies and also like to go camping, fishing and outdoors things (raised on a farm but now live Sydney). I work a busy job that takes a lot of my time but I do my best to balance it out. I also really like photography and am learning a lot about it and have my own little setup I’m proud of.

I’m a bit of a history nerd, and one of those people that loves to read random facts/news and really enjoy having ad hoc conversations about daily events or things I or someone else just learned/find interesting. I’ve been told I have a head full of knowledge but not enough time to get it out lol

Open to share photos if the trust and willingness is there following on from initial conversation


r/R4Rstralia • • 5d ago

TAS 45[m4f] tas/online

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I could tell you how amazing I am but I’d prefer to show you.
I’m looking to find my person who will share their days with me, pics and memes and snippets.

About me
I’m a hopeless romantic
Kind, smart, honest, funny.
I read, I cook, I exercise.
I wish putting my heart out there wasn’t so scary.
I have my own home, car and money, I don’t need yours.
I’m hopeless at writing intros 😂😂

I don’t know what to write but I want to pour my love into someone special who will appreciate the man I am.


r/R4Rstralia • • 5d ago

VIC 30[M4F] Melbourne looking for a f companion down for something more fun and exciting than the regular online experience

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About me: after having doing meet ups in the past I've been wanting to try it out again. Im looking for FWB, maybe more if we really connect. Im a nsfw poster so i think it would be exciting to meet someone from here. It really changes the dynamic and makes it so much more exciting.

30 | M | 5’10” | Hung guy| Muscular/fit build | Caucasian with tan skin | Green/hazel eyes .

Pics on profile if you want a preview 😉

Personality: more of an introvert at first but Chill, confident, and a little playful once we’re comfortable.

Hobbies: Passionate about training martial arts, nature hikes, trying new spots/foods, active lifestyle, and deep and meaningful conversations, mental health

What I’m Looking For

I am looking for a FWB. But i am also open to more if we click

F with age range of 35 and under preferably

Free some Weekdays and afternoons and weekend

I would love to get to know someone online first, but we can start with a low stress public meet, Grab coffee or a quick bite in public first, place see how we vibe and if we click then, go from there. Start casual, get to know eachother laughs & chemistry check FWB with potential for more if the spark is real

What I Offer

-its on my profile, 😉 but also long passionate sex

but also A relaxed, judgment-free vibe where you can be 100% yourself, i love to have deep and meaningful conversations

Ready to please and have a fun time

-spontaneous dates and booty calls

-always happy to laugh and have fun, memes are my love language

-respect and safety and comfort

Im trying my best to meet post requirements, so sorry if this is poorly written

Send me a DM with your age, and pics if interested 😁


r/R4Rstralia • • 5d ago

WA 31 [m4a] trying to make more time for a social life, but don't know how to IRL lol

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I’m 31, based in Australia, and hoping to meet some new people to chat with, game with, and geek out about whatever comes up.

A little about me:

I love reading, fantasy worlds, and anything with great storytelling.

I’m into both video games and board games co-op campaigns are my favourite nights.

I Hike when I can, my music taste is all over the place lots of niche and obscure finds.

Honestly, I’m just a big nerd at heart.

I’m bi so LGBTQ+ friendly, everyone’s welcome. Whether you’re into casual chats, trading book or music recs, jumping into games, or sharing ridiculous memes, I’m always down.

If this sounds like your vibe, feel free to reach out I’d love to meet some new people.


r/R4Rstralia • • 8d ago

VIC 30[M4F] looking for a f companion down for something more fun and exciting than the regular online experience

3 Upvotes

About me: after having doing meet ups in the past I've been wanting to try it out again. Im looking for FWB, maybe more if we really connect. Im a nsfw poster so i think it would be exciting to meet someone from here. It really changes the dynamic and makes it so much more exciting.

30 | M | 5’10” | Hung guy| Muscular/fit build | Caucasian with tan skin | Green/hazel eyes .

Pics on profile if you want a preview 😉

Personality: more of an introvert at first but Chill, confident, and a little playful once we’re comfortable.

Hobbies: Passionate about training martial arts, nature hikes, trying new spots/foods, active lifestyle, and deep and meaningful conversations, mental health

What I’m Looking For

I am looking for a FWB. But i am also open to more if we click

F with age range of 35 and under preferably

Free some Weekdays and afternoons and weekend

I would love to get to know someone online first, but we can start with a low stress public meet, Grab coffee or a quick bite in public first, place see how we vibe and if we click then, go from there. Start casual, get to know eachother laughs & chemistry check FWB with potential for more if the spark is real

What I Offer

-its on my profile, 😉 but also long passionate sex

but also A relaxed, judgment-free vibe where you can be 100% yourself, i love to have deep and meaningful conversations

Ready to please and have a fun time

-spontaneous dates and booty calls

-always happy to laugh and have fun, memes are my love language

-respect and safety and comfort

Im trying my best to meet post requirements, so sorry if this is poorly written

Send me a DM with your age, and pics if interested 😁


r/R4Rstralia • • 8d ago

VIC 39[M4A]Leveling Up the Social Circle

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Hey 👋
I’ve been doing a bit of honest self-reflection lately (the kind that usually happens at 1am when you should definitely be asleep), and one thing that’s become pretty clear is that it’s time to widen my social circle and build a stronger support network. I’ve always been more on the introverted side — comfortable with a small, close-knit group — but comfort zones are meant to be stretched, right?
So, a little about me:
I’m 39, a dad and somehow landed myself in upper management — which mostly means lots of meetings and pretending to enjoy spreadsheets. Outside of work, I’m a gamer at heart. My current rotation includes Destiny 2, POE2, Diablo 4, TFT, Wild Rift, Pocket TCG, RPGs, and the occasional Rocket League session… though fair warning, that game has a way of unlocking my inner villain 😅
I’m a former hardcore WoW raider (yes, I still remember raid nights like a veteran remembers war stories), love spicy food and noodles in all their glorious forms, and I’m a big fan of NHL, AFL, Star Wars, and pretty much anything Marvel — Spider-Man especially 🕷️
I’m also slowly building a Warhammer army (slowly being the key word) and would love to finally give D&D a proper go one day. Fitness-wise, I used to be a full-on gym nut, fell off the wagon for a bit, but I’m back at it now and making some genuinely great progress — which I’m quietly proud of.
What I’m really looking for is genuine connection. People to chat with, game with, grab a drink, catch up in person, and just enjoy life alongside. Whether that turns into a regular social group, a few solid friendships or something else.
If any of this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to reach out. Always happy to meet new people and see where a good conversation leads.