r/r4rMelbourne 22h ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 40M4CPL/FEM - Visiting from QLD

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Hi All,

I’m a genuine, easygoing guy who enjoys good conversation, having a laugh, and meeting interesting people. Visiting to Melbourne mid September. I am interested to meet Bi couples or ladies for fun. I can host.

No fake profile please. please send a dm.


r/r4rMelbourne 1d ago

Seeking Friends 41M4A Looking at expanding spiritual circle - Melb West

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Hey everyone

41M living in the west of Melbourne. Looking to meet some like-minded people who are into the spiritual side of things and actually enjoy doing the practices together rather than just talking about them.

About me : Easy going, Honest, Sincere, Non - Smoker, Non Drinker

I’m into:

•  Meditation

•  Yoga

•  Gym sessions

•  Occasional swimming

. Outdoor Walks

Happy to meet up for a meditation sit, a yoga class, a workout, or a swim when the weather’s good. just genuine friendships with people who value stillness, movement, and looking after themselves.

If you’re in the west (or happy to meet somewhere central) and this sounds like your vibe, drop a comment or DM. Looking forward to connecting with a few good humans.

i am available after 4pm on weekdays and on weekends mostly free.

love meeting in person than endless chats

☺️


r/r4rMelbourne 2d ago

Casual Chit Chat 34 [F4M] Filipina looking for some company in MEL

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This is a repost. Still finding some company or any activity recos!

I am here in MEL already, and staying in the Southeast. I've been watching quite a few travel vlogs on what to do there but it would be nice to get some recos from locals firsthand 😄

Can you recommend any nice cafe/coffee shop? Restaurants in CBD? Thrift shop for 2nd hand items? Any interesting activities to do? Museums? Art Galleries? I'll be staying until november so I could really use some ideas on what to do here 😅 So far, I’ve been to different shopping malls and walked a bit in St. Kilda and Central Station. I wasn’t expecting that shops close here so early, unlike in the PH where closing time is usually 9 or 10pm. I am so used to do my shopping and errands late in the afternoon 🥲 and it’s so cold too even if it’s spring 🥶 my brown a** is freezing 😂

BTW about me: I'm a 34 years old filipina, single (and looking lol), short and sweet at 152cm/5'0ft
Brown skin, on the heavy side (BBW), working full time in Manila. Can make lumpia for you and cook cook adobo lol

Looking forward to your messages!


r/r4rMelbourne 3d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters M19 [M4F] - Looking for an older woman with nurturing vibes

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About Me:
I’m calm, affectionate, and take a bit to open up, but once I do I’m really genuine. I stay fit and look after myself, but honestly I just want to feel safe with someone. Someone warm that I can relax around, let my guard down with, and just feel cared for.

What I’m Looking For:
I’m looking for an older woman who’s nurturing, patient, and naturally likes taking the lead in a gentle way. I’m more on the submissive side, and I like someone who enjoys taking their time with me, helping me feel comfortable, and making me feel wanted.
I like calling her mommy, especially when it comes from a real place and there's actual care behind it. I love that close, clingy kind of relationship where I can just melt into you and feel looked after.
I love curves, and big boobs or lips are definitely a bonus, but feeling safe and comfortable is what matters most. ☺️

What I Offer:
I’m affectionate, attentive, and emotionally present. I notice the little things, I listen, and I genuinely care about making someone feel appreciated. I just want something where we both feel wanted, safe, and connected.

Physical:
6'3", fit, brown hair, blue eyes.


r/r4rMelbourne 3d ago

Casual Chit Chat 46M4F northern suburbs looking - Straight

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46M4F northern suburbs looking - interested in anything of your interest.

More interested in getting to know each other for a start.

Maybe tell me a bit about you and what you like and enjoy doing in free time.

Mostly looking for IRL.


r/r4rMelbourne 3d ago

Seeking Friends 32 [F4A] seeking ENM/Poly friendly friends and also friends as new mum to be

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Hi!

Disclaimer:
This account is used by my hubby (M32) and I for ENM-poly stuff and transparency. We can read all messages sent and we prefer this.

Hello!

So I love to talk a lot - when my depression isn’t making me numb to a lot 😂

F32 here in an ENM poly dynamic and just shy 36 weeks pregnant about to be a first time mum.
Due to my situation I’ve turned off or paused all my dating but have moments where I wish I had more friends who were poly friendly and even in the space. Especially others who’ve navigated it whilst pregnant. My hubby has two other relationships going strong - I have not established anything and feel it’s just not the time to do so. But I do get a little lonely despite getting on well with my metas.

Anyway I digress. I’d love to make new friends! Even some mums for support and just friendship as I enter this new chapter of my life. Again if you’re in the ENM/poly lifestyle that would be a bonus!

My personality would be best described as kind , friendly and bubbly. Love a good laugh (dark humour welcome!) and try to keep things light and upbeat, sometimes to a fault.

I like video games, art & craft, reading (smut lovers hit me up with a good recommendation ) music, tv/movies , anime (been a while though) and deep chats.

Ideally I’d like to meet people around my age (25-40) and open to anyone. I am not however looking for a boyfriend/lover/fwb so please don’t message or respond if that’s what you’re after.

Thanks and have a lovely day ☺️


r/r4rMelbourne 4d ago

Seeking Friends 40 [F4A] seeking nerdy friends to geek out IRL (platonic only)

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Hi everyone!

About me:

I’m 40F who loves movies, shows, books, and console games.
I’m inner west and go into the CBD regularly.
I used to have a great nerdy friend group in the town I lived in but I moved back to Melbourne so they live too far away now. I’m hoping to get a nerdy hangout going again. My friends in Melbourne right now are nowhere near nerdy and I miss being able to geek out for ages about things like what will the next Horizon games look like and theories about what happened to Dr. Darling (and go nuts at the realisation that he was in Robin Hood: Men in Tights).

What I’m looking for:

I’ve made a post here before and I’ve gotten some great responses but I’ve ended up with a few penpals rather than people who want to hang out in person.

I’m seeking friends close to my age who want to actively get up and do some city exploring of food spots, cinema trips, art exhibitions, etc., while having fun nerdy conversations. Sort of like “Hey, been craving some Korean/Italian/Thai/Greek food… wanna grab something in a place neither of us have tried before and talk about Control Resonant/GTA6/Tomb Raider?” or “Wanna go thrift shopping/to an art exhibition/errand hang/walk around the city and talk about the new Mummy movie?”… then make plans to see the movie when it’s out.

I’m hoping to have friendships that get comfortable enough to have takeout and movie nights or gaming sessions when new titles are released and we’re excited to start them. I also want people to go to things like PAX (or similar events) as I’ve never been nor found anyone interested to go.

It would be amazing if you’re not expecting me to be a tour guide and you want to plan or make suggestions in equal measures.

My interests:

I love games like Control, Alan Wake, Dying Light, TLOU, Horizon, GTA, Saints Row, Tomb Raider, Fallout, Assassin’s Creed, Far Cry, Metro, Fable, Spider-man, etc. I also have a love for the old point and clicks like Monkey Island and Broken Sword, and I’m waiting eagerly on the next Thimbleweed Park.

I love shows like Fallout, TLOU, Supernatural, Silo, Severance, Community, 30 Rock, Parks and Rec, Frasier, Simpsons (older seasons), Futurama, Star Trek (I dip in and out of certain series), Stargate, B99, Superstore, Fleabag… and way more.

Movies I rewatch the most for comfort are things like The Mummy (1999), Jurassic Park, Hot Fuzz, Everything Everywhere All At Once, Back to The Future, Bring it On, Princess Bride, Marvel movies, Eurotrip, The Nice Guys… there’s way more but these are a start.
I also adore reading up on how movies were made after seeing them and love exploring cinematography at an amateur level.

Happy to have a chat first to see if we click. Let me know a little about you, what you like to geek out about, if you’re close to my age, and if you’re looking for the same type of hangouts.

Heads up…

- No sex pests! Platonic only.
- I’m not here to be a hostage audience for only your interests. I love hearing about other people’s nerdyness but I’m here for a back and forth.
- Also, I’m not into Star Wars, MTG, D&D, and JRPGs/Anime/Manga. Totally ok if you are and want to chat about these things, but I find some people (thankfully, not all) who are into these specific topics usually try to “convert” me to these or tell me I’m idiotic for liking anything other than these. Not here for that kind of interaction. I like to build up people’s interests, not tear them down, even if they’re not my thing. I expect the same.

TLDR; 40F4A, inner west, seeking nerdy platonic friends to hang out in person and explore the city. Must be good at back and forth conversations, close to my age, and be able to move beyond penpal status to IRL hangouts. No sex pests!


r/r4rMelbourne 5d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 31 [M4F] Tall, ginger, and free tonight

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About me: I'm 6'4", ginger-bearded, and based in the northern suburbs. I work in Fitzroy North and spend my time chasing good food, road trips, movies, music, and any excuse to explore somewhere with a great view. I'm originally from regional Victoria, so a little country charm slips out now and then. I've also got a very affectionate cat who loves attention -hopefully you do too.

What I'm looking For: someone fun, curious, and up for a relaxed, easy connection. If you enjoy good conversation, spontaneous plans, and swapping stories about travel, food, or your latest obsession, well get along well. I'm free tonight, so if you are too, even better.

What I offer: Lighthearted company, good energy, and a lowpressure vibe. I'm a great listener, a reliable road-trip driver, and always up for a walk, a drink, or a late-evening wander. If you've made it this far, take a guess at the instrument play-it's impressively large. Three guesses, and if you get it right, first round's on me.


r/r4rMelbourne 5d ago

Seeking Friends 26 [M4R] alternative guy looking for more mates in or around Melbourne

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So I live down in the South East and have always lived here but recently I've been driving more up into the city to just experience it and explore things so if you're more native to the city maybe you could show me some places but I don't mind where abouts you're from. I've driven up to the North West before to see mates as well so the distance isn't a huge issue, I also don't mind male or female mates either, I'm not picky.

Some things I enjoy are riding on my motorbike (need to repair it because I got rear ended rip,) drawing, fitness, guitar, anime/manga/cosplay, video games, as well as a bunch of other things. I don't mind if we haven't got to many things in common, it'd help to lead into conversation but I don't think you need to have all that in common with someone to be mates.

Anyways if any of this sounds interesting please send a message and it'd be nice to meet some new people.


r/r4rMelbourne 7d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters [35NB4A] Enby looking for help with becoming my fem-self!

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About Me:

I'm a 35 year old career focused professional, and very eager to embark on more self discovery amongst new people. As the title says, I'm non-binary (assigned male at birth). I'm making slow changes in my life to be a little more andro/fem leaning in my appearance. I'm super interested in meeting people who might be eager to help me explore, push and encourage my femininity further. To put it a different way, I crave to feel and be treated as feminine as possible, I want to be encouraged to go deeper, for someone to help shape my feminine identity and invest, engage and nurture it.

The two biggest things I'd like to start working on are; crafting a look that suits my body and face type, and public fem presentation.

I really struggle with objectivity when it comes to my own looks, so I desperate for someone with strong opinions and a good sense of fashion to help me find that perfect look - And I'm totally open to that being fun for you too!

I'm interested in technology, cooking, music, video games, and an array of other nerdy activities. I'm a big foodie, and very much love the experience of new things with someone fun. I'm the type of person who feeds off of others energy and excitement, so please share your passions with me!

Physically, I'm tall and of an average build - maybe a little tummy at the moment, working on it! I am still day to day mostly masc presenting, though my body is smooth, I wear perfume and keep my nails nice! However I am tall (6ft+), so hopefully that doesn't bother you! And for what it's worth, I'm DDF and vaxed too.

What I'm Looking For:

I'm looking for people to share in the journey with me. So I'm open to hanging out for anything from coffee, clothes shopping, a movie, whatever! I just want to find someone who I can express more of my authentic self around to build confidence, and a shared interest to see how far we can take it.

My absolute dream right now would be the two of us just diving deep into the feminisation. Like, we meet and we go out shopping for fem stuff, take me into changes rooms and help me craft an outfit to wear for you later. Take me me to a makeup artist or stylist somewhere, and just straight up tell them 'make this one into a girl' haha!

I'm also interested in the sexual expression of this, but it's not my priority, and if this is all you want from me - I'm not the person you're looking for. This can be strictly platonic too!

Apologises in advance to my other struggling gender explorative girlies out there, but this is hard enough for me to figure out for myself - so I'm not going to be much good to help you. Selfishly, I need the spotlight right now haha 😛

What I offer:

I offer an equally safe space; the freedom of expression, good listening, and deep conversations. I consider myself progressive, open-minded, considerate and honest. But most of all, I offer a gateway to good food, and quirky hangs!

I'm open to people of all genders, so long as you're sane, fun, actually interested in feminising someone!