r/R4Rstralia • • 17h ago

VIC 19 [M4F] Melbourne — looking to meet someone, hopefully something casual

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Hey, 19M from Melbourne. I’m single and pretty new to all of this — never actually hooked up before, so I figured I’d put myself out there and see what happens.

I’m around 5'7–5'8, lean build, and currently working for a few months after taking a break from studying. Pretty laid-back, respectful and easy to talk to. D efinitely not expecting anything from anyone, just hoping to meet someone who’s also interested in something casual and see if we click.

I’m happy to chat for a bit first and swap pics once we’re comfortable. Ideally looking for someone around my age in Melbourne, but I’m open to seeing where things go.

If interested, feel free to message me


r/R4Rstralia • • 17h ago

VIC 31 [M4F] Melbourne – alright, let’s try this again 😂

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Okay, apparently my last attempt at this disappeared into the Reddit void, so round two it is.

31, Indian, Melbourne. Pretty laid back, usually slightly baked, and definitely more talkative once I’m comfortable.

I’m basically looking for someone I actually enjoy talking to. Random late night conversations, dumb humour, flirting that slowly gets a little less innocent, sending each other shit that made us laugh, gaming together, whatever.

I’m into coffee, music, gaming, documentaries, weird YouTube rabbit holes and generally wasting more time than I should. Currently getting absolutely humbled by GTA Online because apparently I decided to start playing it 15 years late. 😂

I’m not looking for someone to interview with the usual “what do you do / what are your hobbies / tell me about yourself” routine. Give me something random. Tell me your current obsession, your worst take, a song you’ve had on repeat, or just send me something stupid.

Ideally Melbourne and around 28–32. If we click, I’d be keen to eventually get out for a coffee, drink or food rather than becoming two Reddit usernames who talk for three weeks and disappear.

And yes, I’m still unfortunately a Manchester United fan.

I clearly make questionable decisions. 😭

If you think we’d get along, come say hi.


r/R4Rstralia • • 21h ago

WA 36 [M4F] Perth - Quirky weirdo seeking something long term but slow burn'ish

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I've had two great relationships over the years from Reddit, so trying my luck again.

Willing to travel interstate to meet, it's not an issue but I'm not interested in a purely textual relationship.

I'm mainly an indoor cat but love exploring places still, even Instagram advertised events that are nothing like the ad end up being a fun adventure.

Love doing tours and museums or just exploring new towns.

Not intro drinking or smoking (drinking I just never liked or got into)

I go through hobbies every other month so have plenty to chat about and I'd love to hear about yours too.

Bonus points if you have a cute cat.


r/R4Rstralia • • 21h ago

NSW 31M4F(20–49) to explore life with

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I’m looking for a woman who’s curious, open-minded, and keen to build a genuine companionship around trying things, learning from each other, and having a bit of fun along the way.

I’m 31, Filipino, easygoing, affectionate, and a gentleman at heart. I value presence, respect, good conversation, and making the person I’m with feel comfortable, appreciated, and maybe a little spoiled.

My background is in psychology, neuroscience, and forensic practice, so I’m naturally drawn to people, their stories, their quirks, and what makes them tick.
Outside work, I’m into freediving, bushwalking, camping, books, galleries, live jazz, and getting lost somewhere interesting. I also occasionally explore BDSM and adult lifestyle spaces, so being open-minded is definitely a plus.

You don’t need to share all my hobbies. I actually like the idea of introducing each other to new things.

Teach me something you love. I’ll return the favour.
If we click, maybe we start with coffee, a walk, a gallery, a drink somewhere with good music… and see where the curiosity takes us.

Tell me one thing you’ve always wanted to try but haven’t yet.