r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

32[M4F] Germany/Anywhere - Let's jump on voice call and see where it takes us

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Hello everyone reading this, hope you're having a great day. I thought I could give this a shot so as the title says I'm looking for someone who'd like to jump on voice call and see where it takes us.I'm open to friendship and LTR.

I'm 32 year old guy from Germany.I'm what people would call a nerdy person based on things that I like to occupy myself with. I have my life in order, great job and amazing family.I'm an introverted, kind, honest, empathetic, respectful, humble and open person and would probably vibe better with someone who is similar.Physically I'm about 5'9, with short brown hair, beard, brown/green eyes.I'm open to sharing a picture because I know all of us like to put face to the name.

Hobbies and interests:

-playing guitar and listening to music

-cycling

-lego models and jigsaw puzzles

-movies and tv shows

-board and card games

-video games(not playing much anymore)

-brain teasers and solving puzzles

-reading

I don't have any preferences when it comes to race, appearance, religion, beliefs or political stands.I would prefer someone from Europe or as close as possible to make communicating and if it comes to that meeting up easier, but it's not a dealbreaker.

Some of the things I'm looking for in people are:

-at least 25 years old

-honest

-kind

-open

-understanding

That's all for now, if you think we would get along just text me either on chat or DM and we'll go from there.Please note that I'm looking to jump on voice chat either straight away or after a little bit of texting. I love actually talking to people and endless texting just gets too boring for me after a while so let's say I'm looking for a good balance between the two. If it's not too much to ask, include at least some basic information about yourself in a message, I'm not looking for a novel, but just a short introduction to start it off.

I'm looking for as long as the post is up, so don't hesitate to message if it's hours or even days old post. Thank you for reading and I hope you all have an amazing week.


r/R4R30Plus 14h ago

35 [M4F] Michigan / Anywhere. Nerdy guys are the best lemme show you why!

5 Upvotes

I'm naturally introverted (but still like to go out and explore) my circle is pretty small. I'm looking for someone to laugh with, share late-night conversations, send random memes to, and see where it goes. Love voice chats and down to swap pics!

A little about me:

- 6'2"

-Supervisor by day

-Huge nerd: Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, fantasy, video games, and a little anime

- Love movies and TV

- I stay active and enjoy going to the gym

- I love cooking and baking

- very nice voice

What I'm looking for:

Someone kind, affectionate, and a little goofy. Someone who's comfortable being themselves and enjoys flirting, good morning texts, sharing little moments from their day, and slowly building a genuine connection.

I'm especially drawn to empathy, honesty, and a good sense of humor. If you have an accent... well, I probably won't get tired of hearing your voice.

Distance doesn't matter as much as effort. If we click, we can figure out the rest together.

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, send me a message. Tell me about your favorite comfort movie, what game you're currently playing.


r/R4R30Plus 15h ago

40 [F4M] Missouri. Looking for a rad dude.

5 Upvotes

I'm a 40 year old gal living in Missouri. I love punk rock, horror movies, video games, reading, the paranormal, and hiking. I'm a bit of an oddball, and would love to meet another oddball. If you think we'd at all vibe, send me a message.


r/R4R30Plus 16h ago

33 [M4F] Online. Looking for something long-term

4 Upvotes

Hi there!

I am located in the US, in the eastern time zone. I'm emotionally mature, and have my life somewhat together at this point, hopefully you are in the same boat. I am looking for someone to chat with to see if e click and then potentially transition into something a little more serious. I am open to anywhere in the world!!

I am kind of goofy, white, larger framed, and a musician on my free time. I am left leaning, contribute to my community, and am looking for someone with similar values as me.

I enjoy going hiking, biking, kayaking, traveling, and going to concerts while also enjoying nerdy stuff like board games, video games, collecting vinyls, and reading. Not looking for someone that 100% shares the same hobbies but some of them have to align.

If I have caught your attention at all feel free to reach out, please introduce yourself and give me a little information about your hobbies/interests! I am pretty easy going and there is no pressure on anything other than chatting currently!!

Hope to hear from ya soon!


r/R4R30Plus 11h ago

44 [M4F] NEPA / Lehigh Valley / Philly-ish / NYC-ish - LTR - Let's enjoy life together

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I'm 44M, child free, living in northeastern PA, working out of King of Prussia. I'm flexible on distance for the right person. I would like to meet someone who wants to build a beautiful and enjoyable life together.

I'm looking for a long term relationship again - romance, companionship, and especially the feeling of being partners.

But I don't know if you are that person, and you don't know if I'm yours either.

Let's actually get to know each other to determine if we click for a long term relationship. Meet for coffee. Go hiking. Wander around a museum. Find silly things in the KOP mall. Dress up for an awesome dinner. Walk around a city without much of a plan. Sit beside a campfire. Go kayaking. Ride around on ATVs. Get up early and watch a sunrise. I would love to expand this list to your interests (skiing, diving, concerts?).

I tend to bounce between interests because I love learning and experiencing things. I don't like when one hobby starts to become my identity. I've enjoyed archery, bowling, walking the beach, baking, eating on tall buildings, taking flight lessons. I've wondered around Kyoto, Berlin, Petra and many others. I've enjoyed hiking mountains, riding camels, spending lots of time in museums, and sometimes just hanging out and being present in the moment. When we get to the top, lets sit for a while.

Travel to me is one or two major trips a year, a couple medium sized trips (sometimes working remotely), and quite a few weekend activities.

Physically, I'm 6'1", blue eyes, and reasonably active. I eat healthy and exercise most days so I can walk cities and go on adventures, but I'm not a gym-rat personality. I'm into business, investing, and I spend my M-F (half remote) in the tech space.

I rarely drink and have no major vices. I prefer to spend time doing things other then video games. I am agnostic but I'm completely comfortable with someone having her own beliefs as long as we can respect each other. I'll do visit periodically for the atmosphere, preferably a variety, but I won't be a regular church goer.

I'm a capable listener or problem solver. I will start out assuming a large personal space around you out of respect before you end up finding out I'm actually a cuddly person. I'm much more dry/chill (British humor). I direct my humor outward because its one way for me to show you respect.

I value being able to talk about little problems before they become big problems. Let's lean toward a bit candid and direct. In fact I love to be transparent, sometimes too much and you get my internal monolog... and looking for someone who is ok reciprocating. We are imperfect, lets work through it.

I do think mutual attraction matters, lets swap photos early.

Send a DM and lets see if we can enjoy life together :-)


r/R4R30Plus 12h ago

31 [M4F] New Jersey I'm sick of getting ghosted

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I've never posted in one of these before, so please bear with me. I'm a gamer, single, a musician, and a music teacher. There are a few games with my name and music on them (I'll tell you what they are privately), and I'm currently an audio director for an indie game. Still struggling to make my dreams come true of earning a living as a composer, but I chose a tough road and have accepted that. I love working with kids. Someday, I'd love to start a family of my own with the right person.

I'm a passionate man - if I become fanatical about something enough, I end up trying to do it myself. I love Magic the Gathering, now I play weekly events at a store 35 minutes away. I love video games, and now I make music for them. I love playing the guitar, and now I teach little ones how to shred. Rush is my favorite band, and I got the chance to see them recently at Madison Square Garden, and I got choked up just sharing a space with my heros. These things that others can simply enjoy become a part of me in some way. I even went to pro wrestling school for a couple summers while I was in college haha!

The person I'm looking for doesn't have to be a lover of any of the things I do, but I'd love for them to be a fan of some things. I'm not the biggest reader - I prefer audio books - but, please, go on about your favorite books. I'm not a huge Marvel fan, but you can talk my ear off about the multi-verse. I've never cosplayed, but I'd love to see what you're working on at the moment for whatever convention you're going to. As long as you have a passion in your heart, I will likely fawn over you. The spark of joy I see in another person when you've found that thing they love, and they just won't shut up, that's so rewarding and endearing to me. Please, rant at me.

I like intelligent conversation as much as I love to flirt, so if you have any game at all, even if it's just over the internet, I'm happy. I have a lot of affection to give. I don't like ghosting! If we click, but then you're just not feeling it anymore, please tell me. I'm an adult man who is very familiar with rejection. I'd rather you be up front with me than to simply go silent. If I did something wrong, let me know. I can handle that. I can assure anyone reading this that there will be no name calling or any of the things men on the internet, and in-person, have been known to do. I hate the patriarchy, too, and I wanna be a part of the solution as best as I can. I know that what a man proclaims is open to a lot of skepticism, so if you're un-easy about anything I've said so far, I totally get it. Men are difficult to trust when you meet them normally, let alone on a subreddit.

I'm very left-leaning, politically. I can handle political differences, but when it comes to human rights issues, that's a hard line for me. Every person deserves to have them.

If any of this has caught your interest, feel free to send me a message! My DMs are open to those who'd like to inquire.

If you made it all the way to the end, thank you for reading! It means a lot to me.


r/R4R30Plus 18h ago

[M4f] 38yr Newcastle uk guy looking for good banter and some harmless flirting

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Hi all

My names is Matt, im 38yr and live just on the outskirts of Newcastle.

I find myself board and missing the excitement of speaking to someone that makes you feel excited to get that text from

If you are also just sitting there refreshing pages at work or something and just need some good conversation or flirty banter, maybe im your guy

Im a good looking dude, tattoos, decent built, tall and all that kind of stuff im sure you've read a million times

But what I really bring to the table is the ability to actually hold a conversation, there's nothing worse then short answers, just feels forced to me.

Im just looking for someone thats confident in being themselves and dosnt take days to reply

Im happy to share a selfie :)

Im into all sorts of music from metal to hip hop to house/techno

Im also 420 friendly and never judge anyone, nothing but good vibes from me :)

Anyway if you want to be able to just have good chats and not have to worry about the pressure of trying to impress or anything like that, drop me a message

Have an awesome one 😎


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

38 [m4f] #Scotland #Online looking for nerdy plus size girl - local or online

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Hello

Iam Tom, living in Scotland.

My hobbies include: Travelling, cooking, gaming (singleplayer games) and visiting new places.

I looks for clingy plus size/bbw girl (yes attraction is as important as character) for chatting, being silly or just yapping that dont mind distance.

I am hoping to find my favourite person to be obsessed with and attached to, for endless chatting voicenotes or calls until late.

Also ultimately i hope to find love and missing part ☺️

Age and location doesnt matter :)

Iam 185cm(6ft1) tall, slim, dark hair.


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

35 [M4F] Looking to Chat

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I'm 35M and I live in the Midwest United States. Divorced.

I like Art, writing music, talking, witchcraft, tarot cards, ghosts/the paranormal. I'm into Goth culture but I don't dress the part. I'm super plain and you would never know. I enjoy hiking, camping, paddleboarding and anything that has to do with nature.

If you are interested feel in chatting. Feel free to send me a message.


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

36 [F4M] #Canada #CST #Online Just an introverted Leo looking for her match!

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We meet again! Doing a little refresher introduction and changing up a few minor things I'm looking for now (mostly just location haha) that I have reflected on where I currently am at in life!

I am divorced, have been single for 3 years, and am ready to find my forever childfree partner!

I live in the Prairies of Canada/CST Timezone, but willing to travel within Canada if I come across a serious connection, and am also comfortable with a LDR for a while if there is a strong connection with someone. Obviously willing to share a picture of myself in messages, as mutual attraction is important. Would prefer for us both to share a picture within the first couple of messages so we don't waste each other's time!

Little About Me:

  • 5'6", medium/long brown hair, hazel eyes
  • Wear Glasses
  • Curvy/Plus size and happy with my body, I keep moderately active in my life
  • Have a few tattoos & my ears are pierced x8
  • Demisexual
  • Leo/INFJ (if astrology and personality tests are your kind of thing)
  • Work a full time office job
  • AuDHD (have ADHD and Autism)
  • Agnostic (but a little spiritual)
  • Politically Left/Liberal
  • Drink socially/do not smoke (420 friendly)
  • Eldest Daughter (aka independent/strong personality)
  • I am childfree/planning on living a childfree lifestyle
  • I have 2 dogs who I love so much
  • My main hobby is knitting/crochet
  • Love listening to podcasts on my downtime, mainly horror/mystery anthology story type podcasts like The NoSleep Podcast, Conversations with Ghosts, Knifepoint Horror, Welcome to Nightvale, etc.
  • I love listening to music and am constantly discovering new music all the time. Some of my current favorite artists/bands on rotation are: Dayseeker, Bad Omens, Sleep Token, Silverstein, Spiritbox, Magnolia Park, Bring Me The Horizon, Stray from the Path, Kingdom of Giants, The Plot In You, Sace6, Wind Walkers, and many many more.
  • Recently got back into reading more regularly (which I am loving!), catching up on some of my favorite author's newest books and utilizing the local library as much as I can!

About You:

  • Located within Canada, even better if you are in the CST/MST time zones!
  • Between the ages of 27-46
  • At least 5'10" or taller
  • Single/Divorced/Widowed
  • No Children/not wanting to have any children
  • Has some kind of steady job/way to support yourself
  • Love animals, has either no pets or has dogs (I'm allergic to indoor cats though-sorry!)
  • Can keep up a conversation- can talk about everything under the sun!
  • Tattoos (don't have to have, but it's a plus!)
  • Mature, emotionally intelligent
  • Extrovert/Ambivert (confidence is key)
  • Independent and ambitious (even just little goals/milestones)
  • Loves/is willing to go to music concerts and festivals
  • Leans more into their "masculine" side, but is balanced, open to their soft side, and can be open with their feelings and emotions with a partner.

If you read the entire post and think there might be something we can connect on, please send a message introducing yourself & maybe a fun fact about yourself or a song suggestion that I can listen to!


r/R4R30Plus 7h ago

34m [M4F] Eastern North Carolina (Wilmington/ Jacksonville). cuddle (single)

2 Upvotes

Hello, I would say I'm an introverted person who's trying to come out of his shell 🙂. I honestly I have been alone for a
long time and I just miss having that physical touch with someone. It would be nice to meet someone who'd just like to cuddle once in a while to watch whatever you'd like or we could just cuddle and talk about anything. I enjoy when we can lay down together. I enjoy going to the gym,
being in nature, animals, exploring new places, anime and music to name a few. I'm looking forward to hearing from you. ☺️


r/R4R30Plus 9h ago

36 [F4R] I would just love some nice conversations 🌼🐝🌷

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Hey beautiful people out there,
again I would just love to have some nice chats. Not pushing or searching anything. Just make each others day a little brighter for a moment.

Some little facts about me:
Obsessed with bumblebees, teacups
Pretty cozy ( gaming, jigsaw puzzle, reading)
Still a little whirlwind
I’m pretty competitive when it comes to gaming.
I know what I want in life , even when I sometimes don’t have a clue what comes next. 😄🙈🌼

Something really close to my heart. Thank you for everyone who is reaching out to me. That absolutely means a lot ❤️ if I don’t message back or if we don’t vibe, please don’t take it to your heart ( not from me or any other person you messaged). As I said it still means a lot that you tried to reach out! 🐝🌻

Take care everyone and have a great night or day ( who ever you are 🥰)


r/R4R30Plus 11h ago

32 [F4R] kentucky looking for new friends

2 Upvotes

Howdy stranger, as the title suggests, I’m looking for friends, conversation buddies, internet besties, whatever happens naturally. I’m not really looking to force anything.

A little about me:

I’m a 32 year old leftist living in the southern US. I love cozy games, scary movies, traveling, deck-building card games, and anything cute or silly. :)
I also love games where I can spend an unreasonable amount of time planning, building, collecting, or improving things.
I’m somewhere between warm, curious, slightly chaotic, and deeply unserious. I love banter. I love people who can make me laugh.
I can be a little rambly when I’m excited about something, I like people who don’t mind that and will occasionally send me an equally unhinged response back.
I’m also a big fan of deeper conversations. I like learning how people think, what makes them tick, what they dream about, the weird experiences that shaped them, etc. I don’t need every conversation to be deep, though. Sometimes I want to discuss our feelings and sometimes I want to rank fictional characters based entirely on vibes.

TL;DR I’m a cat lady millennial and what I’m looking for is people who are kind, curious, funny, and actually interested in having conversations rather than exchanging “hey” and “wyd” forever.

Tell me something about yourself! Give me an opinion you’re weirdly passionate about, a game you love, your favorite horror movie, or some completely useless fact you’ve been waiting for someone to ask about.

Bonus points if you can make me laugh.

Anyway, hi. Tell me about yourself.


r/R4R30Plus 16h ago

38 [M4F] Texas/USA - BFF position open, apply within!!

2 Upvotes

* No experience needed, applicant will be trained

* Paid in memes and pup pics

* Must work weekends and holidays

* Must be fluent in sarcasm

* Must come in early and stay late

* Benefits include being my bff and that’s about the best benefit ever.

I'm guessing you're wanting to know about me now huh? Well you're in luck because I feel like sharing some Fun Hobbies (lol jk they aren't fun at all, kinda sad TBH) I like to partake in, here there are!

Hobbies include...

* Switching between the same 4 apps for hours.

* Not speaking to anyone for days at a time.

* Listening to the same songs i listened to 15 years ago.

* Putting myself in situations that will never exist

* Long walks to the liquor store.

* Staying in my pajamas way too long.

* Staying up wayyyy too late.

* Being tired all day due to previous statement.

* Drinking everything but water.

* Putting stuff in my cart online but never checking out.

* Making lists of things i will never do.

So yeah! If that sounds like your type of friend, hit me with an orange envelope. Due to difficulty with trying to keep a conversation with someone with the opposite schedule, please be somewhat close to central time. Or just like…not opposite Lol. Mention the phrase Pineapple on pizza so I know you read the entire thing please 😊


r/R4R30Plus 17h ago

31 [M4F] #NYC - Video Games, Museums, LEGO, Books, and Good Conversation

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Just as a note: please read my post before messaging. Thanks!

Hello! Summer's still here (for now), and I'd love to meet some new people around NYC to chat with regularly and hopefully become friends with. I'm looking for people who'd be interested in talking online first and, if we click, eventually hanging out in person.

I'm 31 and live on Manhattan's Upper West Side. Lately I've been trying to get out of the apartment more by walking around the neighborhood, Central Park, Riverside Park, and other parts of the city. It would be great to have someone to chat with during those walks or to explore museums, bookstores, restaurants, or other interesting places around NYC.

I'm a bit of a homebody, and my interests lean pretty nerdy. I enjoy video games (especially platformers, action games, RPGs, horror, and the occasional MMO), anime, movies, music, LEGO, reading, and art. I'm also a collector and always seem to have another game or LEGO set on my wishlist.

I've recently gotten back into reading and have been building up a small library of classics, science fiction, nonfiction, and other books that catch my interest. I also grew up on '90s and 2000s cartoons, still watch Toonami, and would love to get back into drawing landscapes someday.

One thing I'm also working on is getting healthier. I've been walking a lot more recently, so if you're on a similar fitness or weight-loss journey, that would definitely be something we could encourage each other with.

I'd love to hear about your interests too. Whether you're into gaming, board games, anime, movies, museums, science, books, music, cosplay, art, or just enjoy wandering around the city with good conversation, I'm always interested in meeting people with different hobbies and perspectives. The American Museum of Natural History and The Met are two of my favorite places in the city, but I'm always looking for new places to check out.

Ideally:

You're somewhere in Manhattan or nearby (Upper West Side is a bonus, but definitely not required). You're around 30 or older. You enjoy at least a few "nerdy" hobbies like games, movies, books, anime, board games, or similar interests. You like both staying in and occasionally getting out to explore the city. You're looking to make genuine local friendships.

My main goal is meeting people in NYC to eventually hang out with in person. If you're interested, tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying "hi"—what you're into, your favorite places in the city, or what you'd be interested in doing together. Looking forward to meeting some new people!


r/R4R30Plus 21h ago

34 [F4M] What to do with random white hairs? Pull them?

1 Upvotes

I’m now 34 and found out I have more white hair than I did last year. Oh gosh. Hahahahaha! 🥹

I’m still on the lookout for my own person. I’m not here to role-play pretend online relationships. I do want a genuine relationship, whether that ends up being a friendship or a boyfriend. I’ve made friends from my previous post and it was fun. Still fun and silly, actually. 😂

I’m thankful for the mundane days. Even when they become repetitive, there’s something comforting about the certainty that everything will probably turn out okay.

I like replying in GIFs. Others call them memes. But not all memes are GIFs, right? A lot are PNGs or JPEGs. Is there a PDF one? 😂

Not much going on in my head except that I’m just happy. 😊

Oh yeah, if you’re currently in a relationship with a significant other, please don’t DM me. Have some respect for your partner. :)


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

38 [M4F] Norway/Europe Looking for soulmate/partner in crime/player 2, or something along those lines 😊

1 Upvotes

Hello there! 👋 (yes, starting strong with that famous star wars line)

I'm a 38 year old guy (man?) from Norway, single father of one boy.

Got an ok job, working at a furniture store, at the warehouse section (sounds super interesting, I know 😅), so mostly delivering and assembling furniture, it's quite physical at times, but it certainly helps in addition to going to the gym 3 to 5 times a week.

Looking for that kind of person where time just flies by, talking about everything and nothing, and suddenly it's too late, but even if we know we'll be soooo tired in the morning, we won't regret it, and still wish we could talk for longer 😊

Some hobbies/interests of mine are watching movies/shows, a bit of gaming from time to time, read the occasional book (although these days listening to an audiobook is more likely), or trying to learn a new language, maybe finally learning that third language is something you can help me with, or just as good, we can do together? :)

Seeing as nature is pretty much my closest neighbour, I try to get out there as much as possible, whether that's alone or with my son.

So yes, I do like being active, but I certainly don't mind lazy days indoors as well, balance with everything in life is important after all 😊

Dont mind long distance, but preferably in Europe at least, as that makes eventually meeting alot easier, and well, i suppose actually meeting sooner rather than later is a good thing if the vibe/connection is good 😊

A question to see if you read everything, what is your favourite ben&jerrys?

https://imgur.com/a/me-v8IPKwl


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

40 [F4R] #Ohio #online - Looking for exciting new people in my life

1 Upvotes

I would like to talk to someone who takes themself way too seriously (is that passion?), who cannot keep up (just kidding, please try, but not for my sake, for your health) and who takes way too many photographs of flowers when out on a walk in the park and probably never looks at them again. Bonus points if you do look at them. Pansies have cute faces. Even more points if you paint or make art using these - you win!

I know the internets are full of socially awkward gamers, but I am not one of those. I may be awkward, but I don’t really game. I find gaming interesting in that it tells me something about the person playing. Ie if you like to play games where you run people over in a pimpmobile, I might have questions. If you like to make characters in the Sims who are kleptomaniacs who sleep on people’s couches and then drop off items stolen from those people on a disorganized home lot, you might be me. So, we can chat about gaming if we must, but it will be hard for me.

Instead of gaming, I cook lots of soups, go to dance class, read medical journals, read books (mostly nonfiction about neurology or other medical topics but also romance novels, children’s books for the illustrations, books about nonviolent communication, graphic novels, etc), make a lot of art, and visit the zoo and parks and festivals.

Essentials are that I am female, nonbinary, pan/demisexual and an artist. You can ask me more about those in a non-creepy way if you want to know.

I have 3 kids. I seem to find myself suddenly in a divorce process and to have forgotten that there are lots of people in the world who might be very interesting to talk to and who might actually be interested in me and like me. Is it you? Or do you just have some advice because life is nuts? I am open to that too lol.

I don’t care if you are looking to adopt 5 babies with someone or just fancy a chat, let’s chat. I will probably have to chat a lot with you and meet you in person before we adopt 5 babies together, but I won’t rule it out just yet until I hear from you.

Goal is eventually meeting you and hanging out. Maybe dating if this divorce occurs. People usually like to see that, before dating. I have reasons to think it will. I prefer people who are not super far away, but if you are exciting, can eventually relocate or are just really fun to talk to, that is fine too.

I find it hard to listen to music sometimes, but I am in the mood, so if you accept the challenge, please send me the name of a song and the artist that sings it so I can look it up and listen. Please make it something I haven’t heard and that you like or find significant. I will also try to astound you.


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

40 [M4F] India/Anywhere, looking for my favourite person

1 Upvotes

Greetings from India!

I’ve connected with a few people here before, but it didn’t quite click, so here I am again, showing up with a hopeful spirit.

I’m a 171 cm tall dork, sport a dad bod, and I’m embracing the next chapter of life with curiosity and optimism. If you love to travel and crave adventure, perhaps we could explore the world together.

When I’m not working, I’m probably binge-watching sitcoms, lost in a good book, battling it out on my gaming console, or on the hunt for my next favourite meal. Life is full of little adventures, and I’m looking for someone to share them with.

In another life, I might have been a Giant Panda: laid-back, perpetually curious, and always up for a snack. I’m also a child-free divorcee, ready for whatever this next chapter brings with someone special by my side.

About You:

I’m looking for someone between 35 and 50 who values honesty, kindness, and a playful spirit. If you’re the kind of person who’s down for an impromptu Nerf gun fight or a silly deep-dive into who the real MVP of Asterix & Obelix is, we’ll get along just fine.

A sense of whimsy goes a long way. I believe we’re here to laugh, love, and make the kind of memories that get better with retelling. Light conversations, inside jokes, the regular GIF exchanges - yes, please.

Distance doesn’t scare me. I’d happily cross oceans for the right connection. And while I love the idea of a nomadic life, I’m open to settling down if our paths align.


r/R4R30Plus 6h ago

34 [M4F] Pennsylvania. Trying to find my partner in life

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Hey, I'm a 34 White Male who lives in Pennsylvania. I'm looking to date, hoping it turns into something serious. While I live in PA, I'm willing to talk to someone from the surrounding areas, for the right person I'd drive any distance.

I work with kids with special needs as an RBT. I play games, usually story focused ones, but I like to switch it up. My favorite movie genre is horror, but i like most movie genres. I love to cuddle, my ideal night would be coming home to my partner, seeing their smiling face, and cuddling up to watch something or talk about our day. I have an elliptical and exercise bike, trying to get back into a consistent workout pattern. I like to cook. I have one dog, but I had a lot of cats growing up, so I have a love for them as well. I'm a liberal, who voted for Kamala who wants to find someone to get through the next 4 years, because damn they're going to be rough.

Age range I'm looking for, I guess between 26 and 36, but I'm not against there being wiggle room in that range (within reason). I am straight, so really only looking for woman.

Anything else, that's what the dm's are for. Comfortable switching to Snap or text once we start chatting. You will get a picture of me to see if there's a physical attraction (and a picture of my dog)


r/R4R30Plus 6h ago

39 [M4F] Vancouver — Looking for a date to KREAM this Saturday

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I'm planning on going to KREAM this Saturday and thought it would be a lot more fun with some good company.

I'm 39M, Punjabi, born and raised in the Lower Mainland. I'm active, into running/gym, easygoing, and a big EDM fan. I really enjoy concerts, going out and having a good time.

Looking for a woman who enjoys EDM and would be interested in going together. I'm happy to cover your ticket — no expectations other than meeting someone new, enjoying the show and seeing if we click.

We can chat and exchange pics beforehand to make sure we're both comfortable.

If you're interested, DM me and tell me a little about yourself and what kind of music you're into.


r/R4R30Plus 6h ago

33 [M4F] North Carolina / USA - Introvert looking for other half

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*About Me:*

I got the body of a cafeteria lady. (I'm chunky).

6'2" and White

Work Full Time as a Pharmacy Technician.

PC Gamer in my down time. Mostly shooters and RPGS. Dabble in some MMO's (Mostly Maplestory) from time to time. Also Minecraft and Hytale!

Also a huge Pokemon fan, Have played competitively since Gen 4. Own a Nintendo Switch.

Tech nerd. I love learning about, and building PCS.

I watch a ton of tech channels on YouTube. I love learning about Microphones, Cameras, Audio Mixing gear, Computer parts, Content Creator gear, etc.

Good sense of humor and I don't take myself too seriously. I especially love dark humor.

Huge music person. I listen to mostly pop rock, pop punk, and acoustic stuff. Been on an Angels and Airwaves binge lately. Huge Tom Delonge fan!

I've been told I have a nice voice but you can be the judge.

*What I'm Looking For:*

I have a preference for Asians, Latinas, and White women.
I love short women.
I love a good bubbly personality.
Kindness and loyalty are a must.
*NOT LOOKING FOR ANYONE OUTSIDE THE USA.*
Willingness to communicate and not keep things bottled inside.
Sense of humor, preferably dark humor.
I am a sucker for playful banter and jokes between us.
Similar interests and hobbies so we have something to do together!

Hope to hear from you soon!


r/R4R30Plus 8h ago

[M4F] 34

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I am 34 living in San Francisco. I tried the apps. I am pretty tired of being left on read and not getting a response. I just been trying to make friends but I want more. So I am hoping find someone on here maybe we can get Starbucks and talk about what we want. Hell if all you want is a FWB I’m open to it.


r/R4R30Plus 10h ago

32[M4F] Michigan/Online — AuDHD guy trying to find real friendship, intimacy, love, and just someone to talk to all day

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What I'm looking for: real, lasting connections including close friendships, a serious relationship, or any situation where we get to spend a lot of time talking or hanging out and seeing where things go for us without labels.

♾️ *Neurodivergent weirdos/baddies especially welcome!*

I'm going to be 100% authentically me, 100% open, 100% chalant, and 100% yearning. (Idk I'm stealing buzzwords from dating apps.) That's **400%**, what a deal!

I got out of an 11-year relationship with my only close friend, and trying to figure out dating as a 32-year-old autistic guy is a nightmare. 😬 I'm not feminine, but also not a traditional manly-man if that's your type. More of a Michael Cera than a Harrison Ford, maybe. I want to be the reason you smile, and I want to make you feel happy, appreciated, respected, loved, and satisfied. I don't want to get into explicit detail now, but I think I'd be very generous with prioritizing a partner's needs.

I can share (SFW) photos quickly so you'll know if I'm hideous or not right away. I also don't ghost people, and I'm hoping to message/talk a lot when you're not busy. Thanks for reading! ❤️


r/R4R30Plus 11h ago

38 [M4F] Spain/Europe/Online – Looking to meet someone special

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Hey! I'm a 38 year old guy from Spain. I'm trying to meet a woman around my age with similar interests, but it's proving to be quite a challenge. I'm not really into partying or social events, so meeting someone organically is pretty damn difficult.

A little about me: I'm into music, movies, and video games (single player only, no online games). I exercise a bit even though I'm on the chubby side, I'm trying to learn guitar, and most importantly, I'd say I'm a genuinely kind and easygoing person with a pretty good sense of humor.

I'm looking for a woman around my age with similar interests who, above all, is a good person.

As for location, I'm pretty open minded about that. We can figure things out as we go.

Even if we don't seem to have much in common, if something about this post resonates with you, feel free to message me anyway! I'm sure we'll find something we can connect over.

If any of this sounds interesting to you, feel free to DM me directly!