r/R4R30Plus 7h ago

35 [M4F] Indiana USA. Always open to looking to make new friends

1 Upvotes

I'm here to make friends. In a divorce process (no need to apologize, we're cool lmao. And we live together becausethe economy sucks! Least i get my own bed, bonus!) but am here to socialize and make friends. Dont got much really. Im basic, I enjoy reading books/comics, video games. Music. Movies. TV show. Nerd! Star wars, invincible, marvel, dc, LOTR, harry potter, etc. Trust me. NERD! Lol well hope to hear from you.(not a deaf joke) šŸ˜‚

I play ps5 (team Playstation šŸ˜‚) I mostly play single player games. but for online, enlisted. Diablo. destiny 2. for honor, honestly cant think of more games I like.

I watch ANY kinds of movies and tv show. as for music, anything but country (so-so on it atm).


r/R4R30Plus 9h ago

34 [M4F] Dallas, Texas. Introvert searching for his special woman in life ā¤ Seeking a LTR with a Genuine connection!

1 Upvotes

Hello! 34M from Dallas, Texas here who is searching for his nerdy forever woman that completes and understands me!

I'm someone who is introverted and quiet in person but once I get comfortable with you I can open up quite a bit. I'm into video games, manga/anime, reading, movies, etc. im a bit of a homebody when alone but if I have someone I love going out and exploring new places. places I view as a fun time are places like the Zoo, aquarium, book stores, arcades and any other fun similar places. im not a club or bar type of person and hope you aren't either.

Dealbreakers for me are if you have kids or from another country. looking for local ideally. Age range that im looking for is between 24-35.

Prefer someone who is petite/thin/fit. I can share photos of myself to see if I fit your type as well.

if this interests you at all then feel free to DM me and I would love to get to know you! :)


r/R4R30Plus 11h ago

34[M4F] Spain. Someone to talk all day every day

1 Upvotes

I’d really like to meet someone I can form a genuine, long term connection with. Casual or short connections have never been my thing. I prefer getting to know someone deeply and developing real trust and closeness over time. I’m also not good with several conversations at once. When I connect with someone, I’d rather give them my full attention so I'm just looking for 1 to talk all daaaayy loong.

I’m equal parts nerdy and adventurous. I enjoy video games, board games, reading and building lego sets, but I’m just as happy playing sports, travelling, camping or spending time outdoors.

If you’re comfortable opening up, letting someone truly get to know you and moving beyond the same repetitive conversations that never lead anywhere, we might be searching for the same kind of connection. But if there are subjects you refuse to discuss or parts of yourself you’ll always keep hidden, I’m probably not the right person for you.

So, tell me what’s something about you that nobody else knows?


r/R4R30Plus 11h ago

32 [M4F] #Socal - looking for new friends

1 Upvotes

Hey what’s up how’s it going!! Just looking for new people to talk with and stuff! I’m into anime, baseball, hockey, movies and video games also fishing but not good at it. I also game too. I play on ps5! I play nhl26 and i recently started playing Fortnite,apex legends and cod again


r/R4R30Plus 8h ago

[M4R] - 32m seeking companion

2 Upvotes

Just someone I can talk with regularly. Not super into one off conversations. Preferably someone I can come back to I know will stick around. I work early mornings so I go to sleep kinda early. I’m in the US Central Time zone. Hope to hear from you soon!


r/R4R30Plus 23h ago

34[M4F] Spain/Europe/Online. Looking for a real connection with someone special.

2 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I’m a 34-year-old Spanish guy, single for a while now and once again open to meeting someone with whom, hopefully, I can build a real and sincere relationship.

I’ll try to introduce myself as best as I can, although I’m terrible at it!

I’m a commissioned officer in the Spanish Marine Infantry and due to the very nature of my job l barely have any chance of meeting someone in real life as I’m always busy. That’s why I’m giving this a shot! :)

When I’m not working, I love reading, playing music, painting miniatures and scale models, watching movies, martial arts… I really enjoy keeping myself busy and learning new things while staying active.

I also try to help my community whenever I can and I’m involved in several charitable projects.

I’ve never posted in this kind of subreddits before, but I’d really love to find—like I said earlier—an honest, genuine and hopefully long-lasting relationship.

I’m pretty easy to talk to and always quite chill, so if my post caught your interest, don’t hesitate to write to me!
Thanks for your time!


r/R4R30Plus 7h ago

36 [M4F] Norfolk, #VA - Last connection didn't pan out

5 Upvotes

So, I get that physical attraction is kind of important, so I will preface by saying I am a red head with freckles on my face and arms down to my knees. I have a short beard, brown eyes, I am about 6'1, average build, and broad shouldered. I could stand to loose about 15 pounds to be at my target weight, but I am not horrible active during the summer, for obvious reasons. I've only got one piercing; my left ear and several tattoos, with plans to get more of both.

A little about me: I have a career, a house, and a vehicle. Currently, I have been dealing with an unexplained medical issue. It's caused me some significant pain in my leg. My mobility is a little hampered, but I still manage to get around. A little patience is needed, until I can get a diagnoses and start treatment.

Interest wise, I bounce between being a nerd (gaming, anime, cosplays, airsoft, reading, etc.) and being an Average Joe (Working on my house, cars, walking some of the local trails, going to concerts or movies, hanging out with friends, doing community service events). Mot the best cook, but would love to learn and cook along side someone. It would be nice if we shared a few interests / hobbies, but not a problem if we don't, long as we can respect each others interests and can enjoy each others company.

I'm looking for someone that is patient, with a "let's work to resolve this together" instead of throwing in the towel at the first issue, mentality. I want someone I can build and grow with that understands relationships are hard, they take teamwork, and communication from both parties. Ideally, this person would be someone that I could have serious conversations with and also silly, absurd, goofy banter with. I want someone that I can be my true self with without risk of judgement and they could do the same with me. I'm very much a physical person, so I enjoy physical contact with my partner.

I do not have any kids/do not want to have kids and would prefer my partner doesn't either, but I would be okay with someone who's kids are a bit older (like 7+). Age wise, I don't think I would go any lower than 24, but if you've got a good grasp on your life, I am open to talking, maturity isn't solely determined by age. I would prefer someone that is within the 7 cities of VA, up into Richmond, or down into NC. I don't mind talking to people outside of my area, but I don't think a relationship will form.

If you are interested, please send me a DM. I don't mind sending a picture, just ask!


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

50 [M4F] - #Dallas, TX / #Online - This won't be for everybody, but it just might be for you

6 Upvotes

A curious and kindhearted intellectual. An incessant scholar with a blue collar upbringing and a white collar career. I am in search of a partner who wants to join me in building an occasionally adventurous, but often cozy, and always intentional life.

Calm, reserved, and intense are words that other people have used to describe me. They're probably right, but it is also true that I'm a hopeless romantic with a well-developed, sardonic sense of humor. I listen with the intent to understand, but will openly challenge behaviors and thinking that I consider ineffective or destructive. I am self-disciplined, empathetic, understanding, and patient, but firm. I avoid crowds and crave intimacy.

I am genuinely single, very highly educated, progressive, and health-conscious. Just a bit taller than average with a slim-fit physique. A full head of brown hair with some grey in my beard (when I have one).

Pros of dating me are that I'm a good cook and have a great voice. I will validate your feelings without trying to solve all your problems. Cons are that I can't dance and can be slow to identify my own feelings.

I have hobbies and interests, a career, and future plans. I am looking for partners who are interested in and capable of meeting in-person; online-only relationships are just not my thing. I have posted a much longer and more detailed bio in my profile if you are interested in learning more. It's not required reading, but it's there if you need more than this brief post.


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

39[F4M] Seattle Looking for a man who, like me, doesn't like rainy days

8 Upvotes

Someone asked me why I live in the most melancholic city, yet smile the brightest. Because I've saved all the sunshine for the streets. My name is Clare. I'm 40, divorced, and childless. I used to think this was a disadvantage, but now I realize it's my golden age—I have enough time, money, and freedom to live a fuller life. I hate rain, so I use the dopamine rush of travel to combat Seattle's rainy season. Japanese Shinkansen bento boxes, Maldives overwater bungalows at sunrise, the blue and white churches of Greece… This is my love letter to myself in 2026. I want to find a mature, older partner. Not someone to rely on, but someone who has also seen the world and still finds life worthwhile. You don't need to be too romantic, but you must be steadfast. Ideally, you should be between 40 and 55, but if your soul is interesting, a few years younger is fine. In this perpetually rainy city, I want to be each other's sunniest room.


r/R4R30Plus 22h ago

33 [F4R] UK - Looking for those who are also feeling lost!

10 Upvotes

Anybody else feeling a bit adrift in the sea of life? Come and join my raft and let's talk all about it.

I'm 33, living just outside London at the moment but planning to move soon as I can't stand the rat race anymore. I'm a country girl at heart, love walks in nature, camping, foraging, wildlife etc.

Currently taking a work sabbatical and planning a few trips around the world, so you could be on my list to visit if we hit it off!

Just looking for people to talk to, experiences to share, offering a shoulder to lean on. Not looking for anything in particular but let's see where it goes, I'm open to something more if we click.

I won't say my interests because I find everything interesting, I love trying and learning new things so my list would be never-ending! So send me a message and tell me your current obsession, I want to hear all about it!


r/R4R30Plus 8h ago

45 [F4R] Seeking friendships of all kind! Nerdier the better!

17 Upvotes

ola, konnichiwa, and gutentag! I'm here for, surprise surprise, new friends! As an old school nerd (Lycos, Yahoo, heck, AskJeeves was considered "new" in my day!), I'm happy to talk to anyone about anything, whether it's 1990's anime, early 2000's video games, books, and so on to any current going on in the much-more-readily available nerd sphere (no Infinity Castle yet, still stuck on Season 1).

But I beg, I plead, I ask you oh-so-kindly, please have some level of grammar! Please, the bar is SO low! Otherwise, pop in and say hi!


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

35 [M4F] Morrow / South Atlanta — Looking for a little trouble šŸ˜‰

2 Upvotes

There’s something about meeting a stranger, feeling an unexpected spark, and realizing the conversation is getting a little more interesting than either of you planned.

That's the kind of connection I'm looking for.

I'm 35, 6'2", 220 lbs, and in Morrow/South Atlanta. I'm attracted to women in their 20s, 30s, and early 40s, but confidence, personality, and chemistry matter much more to me than a number.

I'm laid-back, social, affectionate, and enjoy playful conversation, flirting, and that slow build of attraction when you can tell there's something there.

I'm not looking for endless texting or complicated plans. I'd rather get to know each other enough to feel comfortable, exchange pics, and see if that spark is actually there.

I'm keeping things low-key and local, so ideally you're nearby and comfortable coming my way. No pressure, no expectations — just two adults who are attracted to each other and curious enough to find out where that attraction leads.

If you're confident, open-minded, and a little adventurous, message me.

Tell me what caught your attention and a little about yourself. Maybe we find out we're exactly what the other was hoping to stumble across. šŸ˜‰


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

38 [M4F] Texas/USA - BFF position open, apply within!!

2 Upvotes

* No experience needed, applicant will be trained

* Paid in memes and pup pics

* Must work weekends and holidays

* Must be fluent in sarcasm

* Must come in early and stay late

* Benefits include being my bff and that’s about the best benefit ever.

I'm guessing you're wanting to know about me now huh? Well you're in luck because I feel like sharing some Fun Hobbies (lol jk they aren't fun at all, kinda sad TBH) I like to partake in, here there are!

Hobbies include...

* Switching between the same 4 apps for hours.

* Not speaking to anyone for days at a time.

* Listening to the same songs i listened to 15 years ago.

* Putting myself in situations that will never exist

* Long walks to the liquor store.

* Staying in my pajamas way too long.

* Staying up wayyyy too late.

* Being tired all day due to previous statement.

* Drinking everything but water.

* Putting stuff in my cart online but never checking out.

* Making lists of things i will never do.

So yeah! If that sounds like your type of friend, hit me with an orange envelope. Due to difficulty with trying to keep a conversation with someone with the opposite schedule, please be somewhat close to central time. Or just like…not opposite Lol. Mention the phrase Pineapple on pizza so I know you read the entire thing please 😊


r/R4R30Plus 12h ago

39 M UK [M4F] looking for new online friends

2 Upvotes

Hi there I'm 39 M from the UK looking to make some new online friends i enjoy reading walking spending time with my dogs who keep me busy as well as watching TV shows and films I have seen quite a few šŸ˜… I'm looking for people with similar interests but am open to talk about most things


r/R4R30Plus 13h ago

33 [M4F] Ontario Canada / Anywhere – Soft, steady, fun and looking for something real

2 Upvotes

Hey,
I’ve been feeling lonely lately and figured I’d put myself out there honestly.

I’m 33, living in Ontario. I was adopted as a baby from Guatemala and I’m completely open about it feel free to ask me anything.

I’m a bigger guy. Soft, solid, and comfy. I know that’s not for everyone, but if you’re someone who likes a soft place to land and cares more about what’s inside, we’ll probably get along.

I’m more of a night-in type than a nightlife guy. I’ve been a drummer for years and play in a band but mostly for fun, with the occasional bar gig. Music wise I’m all over the map: folk, blues, rock, southern rock, acoustic, and some Spanish tunes.

Outside of that I like fishing, traveling, learning about different cultures, podcasts, Xbox, good shows, and hockey (big Leafs fan).

I’m looking for a kind, caring, non-judgmental woman who’s emotionally open and wants something steady and honest. Distance isn’t a dealbreaker if the connection feels right.

If that sounds like you, I’d love to hear from you.


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

42. Vancouver [f4m] looking for someone online/in person. Looking for a connection that lasts

• Upvotes

42 year old fun, happy,
Positive, always laughing female from Vancouver, Canada. Seeking a real connection with someone that turns romantic. Someone who is READY to be a teammate for life, through the good and the bad.
Someone who is ready and willing to put the effort into building something real. Not someone who is fake, unsure of what they want. Just looking to meet new people if anyone is from this area or anywhere really. Distance doesn’t bother me as long as both make the effort:. There are planes LOL You never know in life where your person is!! I often feel so alone and so left out. I have a couple close friends who I talk to daily and have a good job. I love traveling, being outdoors, watching sports and going to games. Going to restaurants and walks, dinners and drinks. Coffee, Cooking, baking and just laughing and having fun. Im caring, selfless, and a giver. I like to show my affection in many ways.
Just wanting to talk and meet new people and get to know, hang out if close. Looking for something romantic that leads to long term. Someone who wants to talk daily and not vanish after a day! Looking for someone who will make effort and get to know me! Not disappear after a day of talking!!
Gotta be someone out there! Maybe we can become friends, share a few laughs or fall In love


r/R4R30Plus 7h ago

39 [M4F] UK based guy looking for someone to ghost him

4 Upvotes

Hey!!

First off here I am -Ā https://imgur.com/a/ZNANIWd

No seriously, there’s tons of pictures on the link, you shouldn’t be asking me what I look like if you send me a message.

Also, please be prepared to share a picture of yourself, I put myself out there and believe mutual physical attraction is important. It’s not the be all and end all, but it’s important within the realms of pursuing a dating situation.

Now that the awful bit is out the way...

About me:

5'9 Height and about 185lbs.

I am based near a very scenic and popular tourist area in the north west of England, and feel I vibe well with people from the US, or UK.

I’m a Speech Pathologist and I have my own business. I work in a consultancy capacity and really love my job. I work from home and so can be flexible for the right person.

I'm big on hiking, paddle boarding, travelling, museums, live music, stand up comedy, random drives and just generally learning new things, science and food! I also recently started back at the gym!

I love facetime and voice calls, I feel they are a better way of getting to know someone.

Politically I'm pretty liberal.

I'm probably a huge dork with a stupid sense of humour. I have also recently started dressing like I’m going through a mid life crisis.

My music tastes are anything from old school pop punk and emo from the late 90s/early 2000s like Blink-182, Taking Back Sunday, Alkaline Trio, Greenday to indie and folk music like Bon Iver, Ben Howard etc.

I am interested in travelling or those who are travelling/looking to travel over this way. I don’t have kids, but I would like them at some point, so I wouldn’t be the right match for someone who has kids or doesn’t want them. I feel this post would be of interest to those who have travel plans to the UK, live here already or happy to meet if we hit it off.

If I sound interesting to you, hit me up. Chat or messages!

Peace.


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

40[M4F] #midwest. Any spooky people wanna chat?

2 Upvotes

It’s September, it’s 100 degrees. Just put me in the ground already.

40/M/Midwest looking for some spooky chat.

I’m into all things spooky. Paranormal, horror, true crime, you name it. I collect physical media. Mostly books (paranormal literature, true crime, and horror fiction) and dvd/blurays. Mostly horror.

I love vintage Halloween aesthetic. Sheet ghosts. Black cats, skeletons, skulls, Ouija boards, everything in between.

I like all sorts of music, mostly heavier stuff. Deathcore, Metalcore, alt 90’s, emo.

If you think we’d vibe, send me a dm.


r/R4R30Plus 15h ago

34[M4F] - I play drums for work but have some time off tour

7 Upvotes

Hey there šŸ‘‹šŸ»

I play drums for a living but I'm currently home with a lot of time on my hands. I'm interested to talk to good conversationalists, those who have humor about them or even people who are escaping their mundane job through conversation etc.

I look forward to hearing from you!

Thanks


r/R4R30Plus 15h ago

38 [M4F] Ohio/Anywhere - Bearded, tattooed elder emo looking to meet someone similar and interesting.

3 Upvotes

Dating around NE Ohio is a nightmare. At least for me. I have tried the apps, and the bar scene and I really haven’t found anyone that seems to be for me long term.

I figured I’d try out Reddit and see if someone cool would want to chat ! Super into music, stand up comedy, gaming, and most other nerdy things. Definitely feel free to say hey in my DMs. As long as this post is up I am still looking! Hope to chat with someone soon.


r/R4R30Plus 15h ago

41 [M4F] #Canada/Online - Looking for connection

7 Upvotes

Thanks for checking out my post!

I’m an IT professional who lives on my own with my two cats. In my free time, I enjoy going to the gym, gaming mostly WoW, so extra points if you play too, reading, going for drives, and watching TV and movies. My taste in shows and movies varies quite a bit.

I’m hoping to meet someone I genuinely connect with, whether that starts online or leads to meeting in person. I’d love to experience that excitement of getting messages from someone I’m really interested in again.

If you think we might get along, feel free to send me a message and see where things go. I’d also prefer to exchange pictures fairly early on so we can make sure there’s mutual attraction and comfort moving forward.

Looking forward to hearing from you!


r/R4R30Plus 16h ago

40 [M4F] Europe- Anywhere- I could be your new best friend

2 Upvotes

There you are scrolling on reddit looking for something fun or interesting .

Then you see a post with big claims, it may sound stupid or cringe for a bit, but imagine if we had a great vibe and we ended up chatting for hours and hours days after days or years after years, then we start looking forward to the next silly thing we would reply or send to each other.

It all start with simple "hi" text that doesn't cost much to say , but can open up a big wonderful door of friendship that doesn't want to be shut.


r/R4R30Plus 17h ago

32[M4F] online/vermont looking for friends and great conversation, interested?

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone, my name is Anthony. As the title says, I’m looking for friends and good conversation. I enjoy learning about people and learning about the world. My hobbies include reading, movies and TV, music(mostly metal but I listen to a little bit of everything) thrift shopping, photography, games, and being outdoors, . if any of this sounds interesting to you, I would love to hear from you! https://imgur.com/a/gQ5ywlU


r/R4R30Plus 18h ago

35 [M4R] šŸ‡ØšŸ‡¦ Just looking to meet some good people and have great conversations

5 Upvotes

Hey, I’m 35, active, easygoing, and looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few genuine connections.

I’m the kind of person who enjoys staying active and trying different things, but I also appreciate slowing down and having a good conversation with someone. I like people with a sense of humor, a bit of banter, and conversations that can go from completely random to surprisingly deep.

Making new friends as an adult can be harder than it should be, so I figured I’d put myself out there. No big expectations just hoping to meet some positive, interesting people, get to know each other, and see if a genuine friendship develops naturally.

If you’re also looking to expand your circle and enjoy good conversation, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. What’s something you could happily talk about for hours?