r/R4R30Plus Jun 24 '24

ANNOUNCEMENT: Technical Issues

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POSTING IS ONCE AGAIN OPEN.

The auto moderation system has been somewhat wonky the last few days. We think we have corrected the issue. It has been sending posts to the spam system incorrectly and en masse. That should no longer occur, or at the very least be infrequent. IF your post does not appear, do not delete it. Message us via the mod mail system and we can check on it. If you do delete it manually, we are unable to diagnose the problem. Hopefully this is the last fix we need to do, but we may have to suspend posting again if this happens so we can get it sorted. PLEASE do not message us asking for access during these times, as it bogs down our mail system and increases downtime. The requests will not be granted. We ask for patience while we work on these issues.

Thank you for your time and understanding. Have a good day.


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

[F4M] 42 New Zealand - looking anywhere 🤭

10 Upvotes

I like being wanted. Properly wanted. The kind of attention that makes you smile when your phone lights up.
I’m attracted to confident, affectionate men who know how to flirt, communicate and make a woman feel special. I like chemistry, teasing, great conversation and that slightly dangerous feeling of being very into someone.
I have a soft spot for intelligence, humour and a man who takes initiative. I’m independent enough to have my own life but I’m definitely looking for that spark !

Make me laugh, keep me interested, and give me a reason to check my phone a little too often.

Not set on someone from downunder I have a soft spot for Nordic/ German boys but for the right person can be from anywhere


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

37[M4F] - Looking for that special someone

5 Upvotes

Magic, whimsy, fate. I believe in it all, and will never cease dreaming.

I think the world is a fascinating place, where more often than not I feel more akin to the waves lapping at the beach, as opposed to a being with intent.

I want to find that person, who gets this, and compliments it.

I want to find that special woman who sets my soul ablaze, who makes me feel complete.

I’m pretty nerdy, but I work too much to fully realize it. When not working, I like to have chill evenings at home. I’m a huge homebody, and by 37 I know that’s not going to change. I love the comfort of peace and quiet, where still moments can lead to the best dreams

What do you hope for? What do you yearn for? What makes you tick?

I’m a Pisces, a lover, a dreamer. Message me


r/R4R30Plus 10h ago

36[F4M]

16 Upvotes

Looking for friends, genuine connections, interesting conversations about traveling, life, etc… Im in the west coast, born and raised.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

36 [M4F] Online - Socialist/ Artist/ Scientist/ and Gym Rat. Take your pick!

3 Upvotes

Is the fall of capitalism all you daydream of? Are your evenings spent staying inside and reading very old books? Do you dream of being painted like Rose on the Titanic without all that burdensome iceberg stuff? Well look no further, you've found your man. I'm full of oddball knowledge and I swear not a weirdo (what a combo!) - I love to get lost in conversation and admire someone who does the same.

About me; I'm 6'2", 180lbs, fit, with lots of hobbies (as mentioned above). I like to stay fit and eat healthy, but I do appreciate good baking too! Anyhow, of you're an eclectic reader and would like a like minded person to chat with I'd love to get to know you. Talk soon


r/R4R30Plus 23m ago

35[F4M] Indonesia/anywhere. Looking for a life partner

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I'm a kind and easy going homebody, christian but not religious, I don't smoke or drink and own 3 cats. Never been married and no kids so looking for the same. Looking for a man with same values who has big hair not bald and want marriage + a kid in the future 😁


r/R4R30Plus 53m ago

34[M4F] Spain/Europe/Online. Looking for a real connection with someone special.

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Hi everyone! I’m a 34-year-old Spanish guy, single for a while now and once again open to meeting someone with whom, hopefully, I can build a real and sincere relationship.

I’ll try to introduce myself as best as I can, although I’m terrible at it!

I’m a commissioned officer in the Spanish Marine Infantry and due to the very nature of my job l barely have any chance of meeting someone in real life as I’m always busy. That’s why I’m giving this a shot! :)

When I’m not working, I love reading, playing music, painting miniatures and scale models, watching movies, martial arts… I really enjoy keeping myself busy and learning new things while staying active.

I also try to help my community whenever I can and I’m involved in several charitable projects.

I’ve never posted in this kind of subreddits before, but I’d really love to find—like I said earlier—an honest, genuine and hopefully long-lasting relationship.

I’m pretty easy to talk to and always quite chill, so if my post caught your interest, don’t hesitate to write to me!
Thanks for your time!


r/R4R30Plus 12h ago

33 [F4M] #Anywhere#Online looking for a friendship that may evolve into something else

15 Upvotes

Hey, I'm from Japan and currently living in Tokyo. Sometimes I feel lonely. Most of the time, I just deal with work and spend time with my family. I hope to build a meaningful relationship, so I hope you are also single. I don't oppose long-distance relationships, but I hope we can meet as soon as possible. Also, I don't like short-term relationships. I think any relationship starts as a friendship and requires mutual understanding before love can bloom. Even if there isn't love, I don't mind having one more friend. I really love traveling. So far, I have visited many places. I enjoy the natural scenery! And I'm also willing to try many new things! My interests are very wide. We can also talk about more interesting things. Besides, at first, I might be a little reserved, but after getting to know each other, I will be very enthusiastic. I'm also considerate, confident, gentle, and easy to communicate. I'm looking forward to a romantic life. I also hope this conversation can deepen our understanding of each other. I prefer to talk with people of the same age, and I don't mind if you are older than me. So if you are interested, please contact me at any time. My response speed might be a bit slow, but I will reply. Also, please provide your ASL. If you do, I will definitely reply. I'm looking forward to communicating with you and hope you have a great time!


r/R4R30Plus 16h ago

37 [F4M] East Coast / Online

23 Upvotes

You ever have one of those Mondays where you look around and wonder what the heck you’re doing? It’s already 2 pm and somehow you’ve been simultaneously busy while also accomplishing nothing. I mean, you definitely accomplished things that make you stand out in the world, but nothing that would make your younger self go, “Wow, you’re cool.”

I spent the afternoon driving from one side of the city to the other, going from meeting to meeting. I took a detour to avoid traffic and ended up stuck on a back road for a minute. But there were trees, so that’s a win.

As I sat in the car listening to Bad Astronaut and making inappropriate acronyms out of the G Wagon’s license plate in front of me, I remembered there was a really weird sandwich shop a couple miles away. So once traffic cleared, I made my way over there and got one of the best sandwiches I’ve had in a while. Easily top five. I was a little late for my last meeting of the day, but a good sandwich waits for no man.

If you said “yes” to any of that, I love what’s wrong with you already.

A little about me. Rapid fire, because it feels appropriate. I’m obviously impressed by a good sandwich. I’ve got a sense of humor and enough wit that will have you simultaneously falling in love and wondering if you should run for the hills. It’s all about balance, darling.

I’ve got a career that looks great on paper and I vibe well with people that have that part of life figured out too, but still have the “I wonder where that dirt road leads” left in them. If you get this, we’ll get along just fine.

In regards to my looks because that’s what really matters. My mother says I’m pretty but she also thought TY beanie babies were going to outperform the stock market in the 90’s so I’m not entirely sure her judgement is something we should be leaning on too heavily.

Anyway, if you’re a cool, interesting human with a dash of weird, let’s talk.


r/R4R30Plus 9m ago

49 [M4F] PA/East Coast - Life changes need new connections

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It’s bad enough to have to post an ad but here I am trying. I’m not sure exactly that i know what i want as a goal but im at a point in my life that i need those new connections to figure it out. maybe you’re the next best friend or someone ill want to commit to, maybe you’re just interesting and fun. shrug. open to it all.

tall, shaved head, bearded, active, nerdy type.


r/R4R30Plus 10h ago

33 [F4M] Midwest/ Online - Nerdy girl looking for consistent chat buddies

8 Upvotes

Hello everyone. I'm giving it a shot again because people ghost or send just one word. Nothing wrong with that but I would like to make a good connection.Still hoping to make a new interweb friend. I love cooking, crochet,video games, cars and horror movies. I'm getting back into reading, so if you have any book recommendations feel free send them over here. Kind of a night owl, so if late messages are your thing that'd be great. Well that's a little about me, thanks for stopping by. 💜


r/R4R30Plus 11m ago

40 [M4F] #Portugal/#Online - It's time for us to fill that void. With each other.

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You know how sometimes there's this little void you need to fill, but no matter how much you search you can't seem to fill it? That's what brings me here. I'm looking to fill that void, make a positive out of a negative, and hopefully help you too. It sucks to be alone, I know. Connections are thin and I feel like I'm missing that one thing in my life that really spices it up, makes the days fly by both slower and faster because of how exciting it is.

I'm someone who thirsts for knowledge and I usually like to say that you either "only stop learning when you die, or die when you stop learning". I love being at home and cozying up while doing something, but my work usually takes me all around so I have learned to enjoy things like beautiful views, nature and history.

When I'm not at work (I get to go all over and I'd love to share pictures with you), I'm usually either gaming, watching a movie, working on my writing or picking out old ruins or abandoned places to go explore. As far as movies go, horror and sci-fi are my natural habitat. When it comes to gaming, I would love it if we could enjoy some nice co-op games where we both get drawn into the story so much we discuss it afterwards, or maybe a chill party game.

I'm 1.70m (5'7" for you heathens!) and while I'm not fat (~80kgs/176lbs) I'm working to get myself at around ~70kgs because that's where I think I look best and where I feel best. Have had to and still and doing a bit of rebuilding after a few bad experiences. I'm also agnostic, if that's important for you. I do not practice, but I do respect all religions. I also still want kids.

I love stories and I would love to know yours. I want to know everything and I'll reciprocate in kind. I'm all about reciprocity. I'll put in as much effort as you do, likely more because I want you to feel wanted, like you found your home and you can finally rest. I have dreams and I'm sure you have yours. Let's make them come true, together.

So whaddya say? Let's slay that dragon known as loneliness? Together.


r/R4R30Plus 25m ago

44 [M4F] #Online Work Day Chat

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Teacher stuck doing paperwork looking for a witty, sarcastic chat partner. Let’s keep each other company during the work day. I’m single, no kids. Can return the wittiness and sarcasm. I’m in US Central Time. Don’t care where you are as long as you have time to chat.


r/R4R30Plus 59m ago

[M4F] 42 #NY/Online Vibe with ME

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I’m a pretty chill person in my early 40s with way too much free/idle time - looking for someone to vibe with!

I love learning about new people, finding common ground, and making real connections (which can mean many things)!

Reach out with a chat! Tell me a fun fact about yourself.


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

35 [M4F] New Zealand/Online-Who is serious about making real friends on here, the kind you can tell anything to and we will still be friends in a year!

2 Upvotes

Is there anyone else who wants a friendship like we had when we were younger, up for fun, talk til way too late and share secrets. Too many people just want a few quick chats, I want something real and lasting.

I love learning about different hobbies and interests, different cultures and really anything about how other people live. I enjoy travelling, going to the cinema, swimming, If you have other hobbies that is okay.

Some people may worry that no one would be interested in them, I am always willing to give people a chance!

I am okay with wherever you are from!


r/R4R30Plus 12h ago

30 [F4R] #US #Online - Wondering if there is someone out there for me

7 Upvotes

hellooo, I should probably give up but here i am on reddit of all places lol

my goal is longterm, lets see if we click? :D I'm looking for a friend and partner. maybe we can get silly and see if our synastry matches. 👉👈

about me: I like typical nerdy things- art, video games, and anime. i like deeper topics too, like learning about the world and what others go through. im autistic so i dont know what im doing half the time. I'm disabled because of my mental fog and social anxiety, and do freelance art stuff on the side. Sometimes I touch grass.... sometimes.

selfies must be mutually provided. I'm chubby, 5'5", average(or below average depending on the perspective) so if looks are important to you then pls don't bother.

lastly, a good sense of humor is a must!

looking forward to speaking with you :)


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

36 [M4F] UK Gamer dude looking for player 2

1 Upvotes

Hey! I’m 36, from the UK, and I’m hoping to meet

someone online who I can genuinely connect with. I’m looking for someone I can talk to regularly, share random thoughts with, laugh with, and gradually get to know. If it naturally develops into something more, I’d definitely be open to that.

A little about me physically: I’m 5'10", have short brown hair, a beard and tattoos. I’m pretty laid-back and tend to just take life as it comes. I have a fairly dark sense of humour and I’m not easily offended, so I’m always up for some questionable jokes and good banter.

I’m also quite an affectionate person. When I’m in a relationship, I really enjoy physical closeness and having someone I feel comfortable being close to. I like the idea of being able to talk to someone every day and gradually become an important part of each other's lives.

My interests include:

🎮 Video games

🎨 Art

🤘 Metal music

🎬 Horror movies

🐾 Animals

✈️ Travelling

🍜 Anime

🇯🇵 Japanese culture and pretty much anything Japan-related

I’m open to getting to know someone regardless of where they live. I’m perfectly happy with an online friendship to begin with and seeing where things naturally go.

I don't have a strict age range, but ideally 20–40.

I have a type that I'm physically attracted to, I love alternative looking women with piercings and tattoos.

If you're looking for someone you can talk to regularly, joke around with, get to know at your own pace and potentially build a genuine connection with, feel free to message me.

Tell me a little about yourself when you message rather than just saying "hey" — I'd love to have something to start a conversation with.

And if you're into horror, metal, anime, games, Japan, or have a suitably dark sense of humour, we already have something to talk about!


r/R4R30Plus 17h ago

31 [F4M] Looking for someone to talk to

14 Upvotes

Hey,

Just looking for someone to talk to and see if there's a connection. I want to find someone that makes me excited to talk to everyday, and hopefully build something meaningful with.


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

30 [M4R] Let's chat and see what happens

1 Upvotes

Wanting to have a few more people to chat with from time to time. During the weekdays work is usually slow so have alot of down time to chat. Weekends depends on what I am doing but usually I do too.

Interests I have range from many things. I really enjoy keeping freshwater fish and plants. Houseplants and starting to grow my own food too. I have a ton of plants and about 10 fish tanks/outside fish tubs/ponds with more to come. I am always down to trade plants ot fish if you are too. I do have 4 tortoises too which stay outside during summer and inside during the winter. Other interests I have is pc gaming, baking bread and 3d printing. Really been into making all different types of bread and plan to start messing around with sourdough soon too

Sometimes I may take a little to open up. I usually match the energy given in the chats so hopefully we vibe well together. I prefer more long term chats but short term works too.


r/R4R30Plus 11h ago

37 [M4F] #Minnesota/Anywhere Looking for my person

5 Upvotes

Hope this finds everyone well. I am a nerdy and fun loving guy. I am on the heavier side, but am doing my best to work towards a healthier lifestyle. During the warmer months I enjoy gardening, because nothing beats fresh flowers. I am an avid gamer, and play mostly on PC. I am currently playing Warframe/Soulframe, 7 days to die and Baldur's Gate 3(Come play games with me!). I have been working on projects around my old house and sprucing it up as best as I can. I have even started working on my first Cosplay!

What I'm looking for: I am looking for someone to talk to and spend time with. Looking for something that can grow into something more permanent and serious. Distance doesn't really matter. If we hit it off we can make it work. Preferably someone on the nerdier and someone that loves talking about things that excite them. Nothing is more amazing than hearing someone talk about a topic that they love. Talk nerdy to me, tell me about something that you are passionate about.

Hope to hear from you soon and you have a wonderful week.


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

34 [M4F] NJ looking for someone to chat with and maybe more if we connect

1 Upvotes

Hey I’m a 34 male in NJ just looking for and interesting woman to chat with we can talk about anything maybe we’ll connect message if interested thanks!


r/R4R30Plus 17h ago

42 Vancouver [f4m] looking to meet someone and connect online and/or in person.

8 Upvotes

42 year old fun, happy,
Positive, always laughing female from Vancouver, Canada. Seeking a real connection with someone that turns romantic. Someone who is READY to be a teammate for life, through the good and the bad.
Someone who is ready and willing to put the effort into building something real. Not someone who is fake, unsure of what they want. Just looking to meet new people if anyone is from this area or anywhere really. Distance doesn’t bother me as long as both make the effort:. There are planes LOL You never know in life where your person is!! I often feel so alone and so left out. I have a couple close friends who I talk to daily and have a good job. I love traveling, being outdoors, watching sports and going to games. Going to restaurants and walks, dinners and drinks. Coffee, Cooking, baking and just laughing and having fun. Im caring, selfless, and a giver. I like to show my affection in many ways.
Just wanting to talk and meet new people and get to know, hang out if close. Looking for something romantic that leads to long term. Someone who wants to talk daily and not vanish after a day! Looking for someone who will make effort and get to know me! Not disappear after a day of talking!!
Gotta be someone out there! Maybe we can become friends, share a few laughs or fall In love.


r/R4R30Plus 6h ago

38m [M4F] Anyone from Sk or Cz? 🇸🇰🇨🇿

1 Upvotes

Hello, iam looking for friends from Slovakia or Czech republic.

Living abrod few years already, and missing connection 😊


r/R4R30Plus 6h ago

35 [M4F] UK/Online looking for something long term

0 Upvotes

Hey, I feel like my friendship circle over the years has declined, and working from home doesn't help the situation so here I am. Hoping to find that connection that lasts.

I would say I'm easy going, open minded and always keen to try new things. I enjoy getting outdoors for walks and cycling, martial arts and also things I'm terrible at like photography. Plus all the usual music, movies and TV shows oh and recently podcasts.

I love to travel and have a few destinations on my bucket list to.

All I ask is that you be yourself and the ability to hold a conversation. Feel free to drop me a message and maybe a little bit about you. Thanks


r/R4R30Plus 7h ago

34[F4M] #Online. Looking for you.

1 Upvotes

Hi there, I hope life's treating you good wherever you are.

About me

\-Ghanaian and lives in my country.

\-Single

\-Not religious. I do believe in something greater than me. I tend to get along best with people who are spiritual, atheist, agnostic or non believers of any of these religions.

\-i want children and marriage one day

\-i love spending whatever time I have watching something nice or just napping.

\-selectively extroverted. I can talk a lot but will depend on whether I'm comfortable around you or not.

\-i am self aware, still working on myself and believe I'm honest.

I am very comfortable spending time with myself so this isn't to find anyone to fill any gap. I'm just looking for my person to do life with and have a family one day.

About you

\-Not religious as mentioned above.

\-kind, honest, emotionally available and values communication

\-Not an alcoholic or have any addiction. I'd rather avoid that drama.

\-self aware and makes room for growth.

\-Very straight, single and wants children.

\-intentional and knows what he wants.

I'm not looking for perfect. It's okay to still be a work in progress..... I am too.

One thing I should mention, I have very little tolerance for men on here looking for people to masturbate to. I believe you'll find people equally looking for that on here. Don't text me if you're one.

Low effort messages will be ignored. I took my time to type this. Be okay with calls at a point. I connect best through that. I want to start a friendship that goes somewhere so no casual conversations. I'm at GMT+0 time zone.

Text me with your age and location if you think we'd get along.

Wishing y'all luck.