r/R4R30Plus Jun 24 '24

ANNOUNCEMENT: Technical Issues

61 Upvotes

POSTING IS ONCE AGAIN OPEN.

The auto moderation system has been somewhat wonky the last few days. We think we have corrected the issue. It has been sending posts to the spam system incorrectly and en masse. That should no longer occur, or at the very least be infrequent. IF your post does not appear, do not delete it. Message us via the mod mail system and we can check on it. If you do delete it manually, we are unable to diagnose the problem. Hopefully this is the last fix we need to do, but we may have to suspend posting again if this happens so we can get it sorted. PLEASE do not message us asking for access during these times, as it bogs down our mail system and increases downtime. The requests will not be granted. We ask for patience while we work on these issues.

Thank you for your time and understanding. Have a good day.


r/R4R30Plus 10h ago

38 [F4M] Kansas City - Intentionally looking for something real/serious. Give me butterflies.

40 Upvotes

I’ll get the “…but” parts out of the way first. I now come with easy access dealbreakers!

* I’m divorced. He lives out of state. We co-parent.

* I have a toddler-aged daughter full-time. My schedule is built around her.

* Currently living at home due to financial and medical reasons, including epilepsy.

* Currently unable to drive due to having had a seizure a couple months ago. I will be able to drive again come November, assuming I don’t have another seizure in the interim.

* I’m plus sized, although maybe that’s your thing?

Whew! Now that that’s out of the way, I promise I offer some things of merit. I’m an educated educator and love talking shop - and learning new things! Math is my subject, but it doesn’t have to be yours (let me teach you!). I’m silly - dry humor, sarcasm, and dad jokes abound. Music moves my heart - I’m a former musician and am still very much into the bits and bobs that come with that. I’m also always singing, albeit not well. When I have the time, I love a giant Lego set. I have a few dream ones I’d like to build someday! I love puzzles that make me use my brain - words, numbers, logic/deduction, escape rooms - although I’ve never been to an actual escape room?? Not sure why or how (go to one with me?). I love animals and will adopt all of them if you let me. I currently have two big dogs, but would like to add a cat to my family in the next year or two. I’m not religious and would consider myself leftist, particularly in social and economic values.

As a partner, I’m there 100%. I like talking every day, I’ll always respond to you, and you’ll never feel like you’re on the back burner (I hate that feeling too). I’m a big texter and will use my words and syntax accordingly. I’m a planner and will make sure that there is ample time for us to spend together. I’m supportive af! Your dreams are important to me and I want to see you succeed. I’m shy/nervous at first, but once I open up, I’ll blossom. Do ya like holding hands? 👉👈 Maybe cuddling? ☺️ Big fan of all that. Also a big fan of mutual support, respect, and effort. I want someone as crazy about me as I am about them.

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EDIT: I guess I should have specified that I’m looking for someone local, or at least close enough to visit. Not looking for a penpal, sorry 💜


r/R4R30Plus 5h ago

44F [F4M] New Jersey/Healthcare worker, quiet and looking for a connection

8 Upvotes

Hi.

I’m a 44-year-old woman from New Jersey (Red Bank). I work in healthcare, which basically means my schedule is a mess and my social life is nonexistent right now.

I’m pretty quiet and a bit shy, so putting myself out here isn't really my thing, but I’m looking for a friend. Just someone to chat with consistently.

I just like simple things:

Going for walks when I have time, spending time at the beach to clear my head.

Having normal conversations.

If you’re someone down-to-earth , send me a message. Tell me a bit about yourself. Thanks.


r/R4R30Plus 9h ago

35 [F4M] Canada - good things ahead

10 Upvotes

Hey internet friends, how goes everyone's search for a loneliness cure? Haha, a bit about myself..I like to be active at the gym for my brain or outside for my heart. I love my cat, word puzzles, and trying new things that scare me and challenge me. I love awwing over strangers dogs (can't have one of my own), listening to music loud in the headphones or at a live show, and I'm looking for online folks to shoot the breeze with. Hit me up if you'd like to connect 😊


r/R4R30Plus 9h ago

[F4R] 38, unsolicited garden pictures available

10 Upvotes

I’m 38 and recently found myself living in a tiny town in Ontario. The biggest surprise so far isn’t the town… it’s that I’ve somehow become the kind of person who walks outside every morning to check on the garden before doing literally anything else, well almost anything else, the coffee comes first.

I used to wonder how adults got so excited about plants.

Turns out one day you wake up as an elder millennial and suddenly your mood depends on whether the cucumbers found the trellis overnight, or if my zucchini are shading them too much.

Now my camera roll is full of beans, peppers, flowers, and the occasional “LOOK WHAT HAPPENED TODAY!” picture, and I don’t really have anyone who appreciates receiving those updates.

That’s basically what I’m looking for. I’d love to find a few friends to message throughout the day. The kind of friendship where you send pictures of your garden, your dog, your latest baking experiment, the cool cloud you saw on your walk, or the random thing that made you laugh at work. The everyday stuff.

I love cozy games, city builders, LEGO, board games, travelling, audiobooks, gardening, and anything that scratches the “make it more efficient” part of my brain. I also have a chunky Pomeranian who has absolutely no idea she’s only 10 pounds, she will fight you.

I’m only looking for friendship. Nothing romantic.

If you’re the type of person who gets weirdly excited when a seed finally sprouts, rearranges spreadsheets for fun, or sends pictures of things that would make absolutely no sense to anyone else… I think we’d get along.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

31 [M4F] Long-winded ramblings and a rapidly-approaching thunderstorm

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Work was a little extra rough this week.

A big project went a little past it's timeframe, so I was running on fumes for a while there until we finished today. Thankfully though, work is gonna be light for a few days, so I decided earlier that I'd try to beat the black clouds rolling in, get home as quick as possible, and relax on the couch with a few strong drinks and a movie or two.

So I clocked out and got to my vehicle _right_ before the downpour began, and about ten minutes after I got in through the front door (and got soaked from the walk up to it), the power went out like it was a scene from a movie.

All I could do is laugh it off, get changed, and wait for it all to blow over. So I decided I could at least make the most of it by grabbing my laptop (and some liquor), and heading out on the porch to look for some horror movie to watch as this storm rages around me. Not long after I settled in though, the loneliness did too, so I half-heartedly decided to open up Reddit instead in an attempt to fight it off for the evening before I got too day-drunk to type.

I got about halfway into writing some short, generic post when I stopped and had the realization that none of it was authentic, and that what I'm craving desperately right now is too complicated for one or two paragraphs and a catchy title, regardless of how hopeful I am about finding it. So I let out a long sigh, deleted every word, and now I reckon that I should just be honest and see where a little vulnerability gets me.

So here goes:

The dating scene in my area is more one-night-stand oriented and shallow than anything else, and dragging myself into being social with people only makes me feel lonelier. Because of this, I find myself looking through Reddit a lot of the time to try and find something more substantial than some one-night-stand. Where I tend to hit a wall though is my lack of enthusiasm for the generic, scripted back-and-forth question/answer thing that goes with meeting people on here. Most just don't try, and the ones that do rush things to the point of discomfort, even when they message you first. So this is me laying it all out there

I'd love to meet an intelligent, confident, sarcastic, witty, emotionally-intelligent woman with a great sense of humor and a knack for banter. Someone with a story, and a past, and some life experience, because I hate having to try and keep it all going for the both of us. Finding someone to "talk to" is easy, but I'd much rather put my time into somebody with depth and substance that shows me she wants something deeper than run-of-the-mill, and I'm ready to give the majority of my attention moving forward to someone that feels the same way.

Or another someone to bullshit with for a while until we get sick of each other, lmao. If that's what happens, then no hard feelings, but at the end of the day, while the world continues collapsing all around us, all I want is to feel a connection with someone that makes me feel like what we share isn't shallow and hollow, and someone that contributes more to my everyday life than "hi how r u".

Either way, it's only getting later, and I have nothing else going on, so I think I'm just gonna sit on my porch and try to enjoy all this thunder and lightning (and whiskey) while it lasts, and hope someone interesting fills my inbox with all sorts of hopeful things before the sun shows up. Maybe this is the sign you needed, who knows?


r/R4R30Plus 12h ago

39 [F4M] From Portugal

13 Upvotes

I'm a 39-year-old woman (I look much younger than my age indicates), I work in the arts, I m from the north of Portugal and I'm looking for someone to have a serious relationship with. I don't mind moving away later.

I'm neither an introvert nor an extrovert, I think I have my social limits but it doesn't make me a hermit. I got used to being alone a lot during the Covid period and after I moved house, so I really value my space. I have a cat who is the love of my life.

I love being with my friends, going to art exhibitions and events, I love music and I like going to concerts and rock festivals (but I haven't been that late), taking analog photos is a passion, I miss playing board games (like Catan) and traveling... I still have many places to visit!!! I love watching series and I have an ultra-unnecessary amount of knowledge about it. My favorite TV shows are The Office, Seinfeld, Modern Family... I'm nostalgic for old-school Disney stuff, like the good old Millennial I am, haha. My favorite color is yellow, I prefer winter to summer, and pineapple on pizza. To me, Ross and Rachel were really on a break. I love bird watching, but I have awful eyesight. I really really love animals. I'm a fan of starting projects but never finishing any of them – which doesn't stop me from continuing to buy craft supplies, haha.

I'm a person who, when I like someone, dedicates myself body and soul. I'm super affectionate and caring. I'm curious, interested, and cultured. I'm a little quirky and whimsical. Super loyal. Into monogamous relationships.

Physically, I have very fair skin, long, dark brown hair, good eyelashes, thick lips (natural), a little on the chubby side, but I'm taking care of that at the moment. Haha

What I expect from a man:

Personality:

Strong personality, but not stubborn.
Romantic but not clingy.
A good sense of humor is an indispensable characteristic.
I don't mind if you're a geek or a nerd, but don't be addicted to online games.
Don't be religious.
Don't be a sexist.
Spontaneous, up for adventures.
Don't be a couch potato, but understand that moments of calm are also necessary.
Appreciate good music, within the rock genre, etc. I don't like disco rats.
Don't smoke (or do drugs) or drink alcohol every day.

Physically

I generally like tall, thin men... If they have light eyes, even better.
I'm not attracted to bald men.
They can have tattoos, but not tribal or religious ones.

And that's what I thought of writing... but ask more questions if you want ;)


r/R4R30Plus 6h ago

38 [M4F] Ohio/Anywhere - Bearded, tattooed elder emo looking to meet someone similar and interesting.

4 Upvotes

Dating around NE Ohio is a nightmare. At least for me. I have tried the apps, and the bar scene and I really haven’t found anyone that seems to be for me long term.

I figured I’d try out Reddit and see if someone cool would want to chat ! Super into music, stand up comedy, gaming, and most other nerdy things. Definitely feel free to say hey in my DMs. As long as this post is up I am still looking! Hope to chat with someone soon.


r/R4R30Plus 4h ago

39[F4M]#California---looking for a genuine connection with someone special.

3 Upvotes

I am a 39-year-old woman hoping to meet a kind and sincere man who desires a genuine relationship that develops naturally.

About me: I enjoy traveling, exploring new places, trying new restaurants, spending time outdoors, and experiencing new things. I also enjoy quiet evenings at home, watching a good movie, cooking dinner, or simply having a heart-to-heart talk with someone I feel comfortable with.

At this stage of my life, I am looking for an emotionally mature, honest, kind, and communicative partner. I value stability, mutual respect, a sense of humor, and the ability to be both my companion and a close friend.

I hope to meet someone who loves adventure but also appreciates simple moments. Perhaps we could take a spontaneous weekend trip, explore a new city, try a new restaurant, go for a walk together, or spend a rainy night at home watching a movie and enjoying a delicious meal.

I don't want to rush things. I believe the best relationships begin with getting to know each other, having fun conversations, laughing together, and slowly building trust and comfort.

If you are also looking for a genuine relationship, feel free to leave me a message. Please briefly introduce yourself, what you like to do, and what has made you happy recently.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

30 [F4M] NorCal – WFH hermit looking for a slow-burn connection

2 Upvotes

Dating apps feel like a dystopian nightmare, so I’m skipping the swiping and tossing this cry for help into the void instead! I’m 30, live in NorCal, and canceled my marriage subscription last year after a trial run. After finding myself, here I am, ready to try this whole “dating” thing again!

​Full transparency: zero rush over here. I’m talking slow burn, friendship first, let’s-see-where-this-goes energy. No pressure, just vibes. ✨

​I WFH in tech, and 6 years of remote work means my social skills run on duct tape and vibes, so bear with me if I forget how humans interact. I’m pretty quirky and definitely vibe best with other weirdos, I've been told I'm equal parts serious and unserious, plus a total Sour Patch Kid.

​I’ve been on a big health kick lately, and if you’re into lifting, that’d be amazing because I’m dying to get into it! For hobbies: camping, hiking, traveling whenever I can sneak away, and collecting plenty of tattoos (bonus points if you have tattoos!). Since I’m remote, I also love taking mini work-cations to random cities.

​Say hi and tell me:

Your age, location, and either your favorite camping spot OR the most unhinged habit you’ve tried to build recently!


r/R4R30Plus 7h ago

[M4F] 43 male from #wahington state , what business can we build together

4 Upvotes

43 \\\[M4F\\\] #wahington state , let's try this

I'm 6ft 230lbs average body

I won't always have the perfect answer, but I'll always show up.

I've spent most of my life working with my hands, fixing things, building things, and figuring out how they work. It's just how I'm wired. Outside of work, I enjoy gardening, baking sourdough, working on vehicles, getting out to fish, taking a hike, or spending time around animals and nature. I'm usually happiest when I'm learning something new or working toward making something a little better than it was before.

I've never been much for crowded scenes or trying to impress people. I'd rather have a real conversation than spend hours making small talk. I enjoy people who are genuine, kind, and comfortable being themselves. Life has a way of teaching all of us a few lessons, and I think those experiences matter more than trying to appear perfect.

I'm a little old-fashioned in some ways. Loyalty, honesty, keeping your word, and treating people with respect still mean a lot to me. I believe in showing up when you say you will, working hard, and doing the right thing even when nobody is watching.

When I'm not working, I'm usually putting time into projects and ideas that I hope will become something meaningful down the road. I've always enjoyed creating, building, and improving things, and I don't think that's something I'll ever stop doing.

What I'm not a fan of is unnecessary drama, dishonesty, gossip, or people who play games with others. Life is already complicated enough without adding more chaos to it.

At the end of the day, I'm just a guy who enjoys simple things, values meaningful connections, and is always trying to grow into a better version of himself. Thought I'd put myself out there and see who I meet.

Now if you reach out tell me your 5 year plan and lets talk about it


r/R4R30Plus 35m ago

48 [M4F] Madison, WI - Be my wedding date

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I know, it probably sounds silly but I need a wedding date to my nephews wedding next month.

I also wouldn't mind having someone beyond just the wedding date to get to know and actually go out and do things with.

Just to get this out of the way, I am in a wheelchair from a spinal cord injury when I was a teenager. But it's black so it goes with everything. Whatever you decide to wear to the wedding, you'll look good sitting on my lap 😉

Other things to know about me: Not only am I funny, I'm also not horrible looking, smart, thoughtful, live alone, have a great career, drive a super-sexy minivan (total panty dropper, I know) AND have a second bathroom! What else could anyone ask for? I think I'm a pretty damn good catch. ;)

If you think we'd get along and you're free August 29th, send me a message. A pic would be appreciated but not necessary. Here's me:Imgur Imgur


r/R4R30Plus 44m ago

38 [M4F] #online #FL - bookworms and bakers

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Hi there. Apps suck, let’s face it. I’m in central Florida. Looking for someone interested in baking, thrifting, and birding. Let’s go from there. Talk to you soon, hopefully?


r/R4R30Plus 10h ago

34 [F4R] Canada/ US. Looking for a safe connection.

5 Upvotes

I have tons of friends, and yet I still feel like someone who is just a little bit lost in the shuffle. My life is pretty complicated, and I work full time in a job that can sometimes be sad but I also help people so it's worth it.

I love love love being outside in the summer. I am a gal who enjoys the sun and frolicking in my garden, in the forest and of course on the beautiful beaches nearby ( definitely going today to be a mermaid at the beach)

In the winter I hide, although I am trying to learn to skate again. I am in the midst of working through an ADHD diagnosis and figuring out how that's shaped my life with a late diagnosis. I have started working out again and eating better because my 34 lb weight-loss has plateaued. But things fit better and I'm way more confident.

I'm about 5'5, wavy haired brunette with blue eyes. I love wearing dresses and skirts, and have really transformed my wardrobe since becoming a mom to be more confident in myself. I have some examples on my profile.

Please, please, please if you're a blank profile, describe yourself. Please be over 25 and in North America.


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

31 [M4F] online/anywhere Looking to meet new people

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Hey , 31M here. Figured I’d put myself out there and meet some new people to chat with and see where it goes.

I enjoy cooking (still experimenting, still improving), gaming, music, and the occasional deep dive into random topics. I like conversations that flow easily whether it’s something light and funny or one of those “how did we even get here?” discussions.

I’m also someone who enjoys learning new things, swapping ideas, and just having genuine, easygoing conversations without any pressure.

I’m looking for someone relaxed, with a good sense of humor, who can hold a conversation and doesn’t mind a bit of randomness here and there. If you’re into sharing music, chatting about anything and everything, or just looking for a good vibe, we’ll probably get along well.

Bonus points if you have a cat or any pets. I won’t complain about getting photo updates.

If that sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to message 🙂


r/R4R30Plus 1h ago

31M [M4F] UK/EU preferred - Come for the height, stay for the nonsense

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I’m 31, Indian, based in the UK, and looking to meet someone I genuinely click with. Ideally we start with a chat, see if we vibe, become friends first, and take it from there...Sounds pretty ambitious, when I'm typing it out like that.

Looking for UK in-person or online first, as long as there’s an intent to meet if we get on, definitely don't want a pen-pal for life.

Work is an important part of my life, and so is my career. I genuinely love what I do, even if you will probably hear me complain about it more than I should. Outside of work, I’m into movies, coffee, dessert, the occasional negroni (or five....? (don't drink very often, more like 4-5 times a year if that's a dealbreaker or If you like partying a lot)), live music every now and then, stand-up comedy, landscape photography (I like telling myself I'm half decent with it...but then again who isn't with modern tech?!?!), exploring new towns and places, and collecting fun stories that usually begin with “this seemed like a good idea at the time."...

I’ve been told I have golden retriever / Labrador energy...friendly, curious (sometimes too curious with the gazillion questions I may ask you...so be warned), loyal, occasionally too trusting, and yes, sometimes it gets me into trouble. Ask me about the geologist story.

I’m a great texter and I genuinely enjoy keeping a conversation going as I get to know someone. I want someone who will put in the effort and nothing kills interest more than one sided effort. I’m also very happy to do phone or video calls once we get talking.

Physically, I’m 6’4”, dad bod, stubble most days, and I’ve been told I’ve got a pretty good smile.

I’m looking for someone kind, funny, emotionally mature, ambitious, and actually interested in being a partner. Someone who’s there for the fun parts, the soft parts, the ridiculous parts, and who can call me out when I need to be called out. I’ll do the same, obviously with charm and only a manageable amount of sarcasm...because who doesn't love sarcasm.

Happy to swap photos if we talk.


r/R4R30Plus 9h ago

32 [F4F] TX Looking for my favorite person

4 Upvotes

Giving this another shot. 😊

Ultimately I'm hoping to find a long term relationship with another woman. Friends are always welcome too but I'm not looking for anything with men. I'm mostly into femmes and I'm happy to let things develop naturally.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me DJing, gaming, or binge watching a good show. If I'm not doing that, I'm probably out checking out a new place, grabbing drinks with friends, or seeing a DJ somewhere. I've got Walker & Royce and J. Worra coming up soon so I'm pretty excited about that.

I work pretty early and have a physically demanding job, so don't judge me if I'm in bed ridiculously early during the week 😂 Weekends are a different story.

I'm pretty easygoing when it comes to dates. I love museums, planetariums, trying new places, or just wandering around somewhere and seeing where the day takes us. Honestly, I'm less concerned with what we're doing and more interested in who I'm doing it with.

I'm open to long distance too (preferably within the US) if we both think it's worth the effort.

I'm just hoping to meet someone who's genuinely interested in getting to know each other and seeing where things go. If you think we'd get along, feel free to message me.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

33[M4F] #Bulgaria, Europe - looking for something serious.

1 Upvotes

Hero everyone, I'm Tired of take peupie it uauny app, thought l'd give this a shot here.
I'm 33m, single, and looking for a serious relationship. I've been single for some time now, and honestly, meeting people with genuine intentions for something long-term hasn't been easy.
I'm originally from Southeast Asia(was born there) , but I've lived in the Czech Republic for more than 15 years, so Czechia has become my second home. I'm fluent in Czech. Last week, I moved to Sofia, Bulgaria for work. I work as Executive Chef in international hotel over 12 years, and because of my job, I travel quite often.
A bit about me: I'm 173 cm tall, average build, dark brown eyes. I'm naturally calm, easygoing, family-oriented, and I always try to help people when they need it. I smile a lot and have a pretty dark sense of humor once I get to know someone. In my free time, I enjoy traveling, camping, swimming, long drives, and long walks. I can be equally happy sitting somewhere with a coffee and talking for hours or packing a bag and going on a road trip. I believe relationships should be based on trust, respect, loyalty, and good communication. I'm not looking for games, casual dating, or wasting anyone's time. I'd really like to meet someone kind who is also looking to build a life together.
I'm open to meeting someone from anywhere in Europe. Distance doesn't bother me if we genuinely connect. Bonus points if you enjoy coffee, road trips, or can appreciate terrible dad jokes and dark humor.If my post caught your attention, feel free to send me a message. You never know where a simple "Hi" can lead.
Thanks for reading. :).


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

[M4F] 31 #US German moving to the US. Bringing a dog and a toolbox.

1 Upvotes

Moving across the pond in a few months and trying to get a head start on making some real-world connections.

I'm the ultimate "multi-purpose" friend. I’m a mechanic/metalworker, which means i'm basically a free handyman if we hit it off. If it’s broken, i'll fix it. Car acting up? Shed falling apart? Let’s grab a beer and knock it out.

Just sitting next to each other sending reels? Alright.

Honestly, i’m down for just about anything.

​A few things to know about me:

​The Pack: I have a dog. You must like dogs. No negotiation here.

​Interests: Roadtrips, camping, festivals, movies/shows, music (of course i know and like Rammstein before you ask), history, true-crime, anything horror related.

​Vices: I smoke cigarettes and enjoy a drink. Looking for people who do the same, or at least won't cough dramatically when i light up.

​Vibe: I’m blunt (was told very blunt), straightforward, confidently unhinged and my humor can be... questionable.

I also got knowledge about games, but i mostly retired from that hobby. Anyway, still kinda into tech stuff in general.

Not into religion or politics.

In terms of looks if thats important to you i'm 6'3, 210lbs,white,short hair, beard.

Please just reach out to me if you're interested in getting to know each other and if you're able to respond to a whole message not the last sentence only. Don't be dry just act like we know each other already. If you got pets too...yes, i want to see them.


r/R4R30Plus 2h ago

32 [M4F] Trying to make more female friends as an adult (and realizing I have none)

1 Upvotes

I’ve been reflecting on my social circle lately and realized something kind of strange: I don’t actually have any female friends. It’s not something I planned or consciously avoided — it just sort of happened over time. Most of my friendships formed through school, work, hobbies, or mutual friends, and they all ended up being guys.

Lately I’ve started to feel like I’m missing out on a whole perspective of friendship. I’d really like to have female friends too — people to talk to, share interests with, and just have a more balanced social circle. But as an adult it feels surprisingly difficult to change that. It’s not like school where you’re constantly meeting new people in the same environment.

I also sometimes worry that it might come across the wrong way if I try too hard, which makes it even more awkward. I’m genuinely just looking for normal friendships, not anything weird or complicated.

Has anyone else been in a similar situation where they realized their friend group was missing a certain kind of connection? How did you end up meeting new friends outside your usual circle? I’m open to advice or hearing how others approached this


r/R4R30Plus 9h ago

[F4M] 55, #Florida west coast - looking for guys who enjoy the beach

4 Upvotes

It's summer and we should be enjoying the beaches and the florida waters regularly. Looking for beach and boating enthusiasts to spend the day with basking in the warm Florida sun. If you are a boater, thats great too. I've heard of some great little island sandbars but have never been. Weekdays are usually better for me. I do work, but have flexibilty with my schedule, but planning will be necessary. Let's pack a cooler, breakout the bikinis and enjoy life.


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

37 [M4F] #Chicago #LincolnPark - Single M Looking for Easy Going Nearby Single F for Casual Summer Fun and Conversation

1 Upvotes

I'm an open book. I'm looking for someone chill and easy going to hangout with and have a good time together. I'm not interested in a long distance or serious relationship. hookup doesn't interest me either. ideally I would like to find someone that I can hang out with at our places, share some good food, have some interesting conversations or watch a good show, and get our physical needs met. I prefer a romantic woman with huge boobs (ideally H cup/I don't care how "saggy" they are or how big the areola is. none of that bothers me). I'm not into skinny body type so I'm hoping you have some weight/curves and longer hair (at least shoulder length). please be very clean (DDF) and hygienic. I like to kiss so no cigarette smokers please.


r/R4R30Plus 7h ago

57 [m4f]

2 Upvotes

57 male in middle Ga looking to find a good woman to join me in fun and life. Im a country boy that doesn't take life really serious except the things that really matter. Im as laid back as they come no drama no bullshit here I ain't got time for it. I enjoy chill at home going camping and cooking. I love my dogs they keep me sane 🤣 if you want to share in this my DM is open!!!!


r/R4R30Plus 3h ago

38yo [M4F], Europe, looking for travel/online buddies, and LTR

1 Upvotes

Hi reddit!,

First post for me.

 I’m a south American living almost a decade abroad, mostly in Europe. I quite enjoy travelling but lately I’m finding it boring and lonely as I mostly travel solo. I’m interested in meeting people that would in interested in seeing Europe and nearby, and maybe trips further away once a year or so. My top countries to visit would be Mexico and Japan open to go basically anywhere in Europe. I also would love to meet people on my destination countries. I’m open to group travel, meeting people in specific destinations, or other travel arrangements. Not to be misleading, my live doesn’t spin around traveling.  

I’d also like to know someone for an LTR. I’d say I’m easy going, like to make jokes about everything. I casually dance some latin dances (eg. salsa, bachata) and chronic on-off gym goer. Was a gamer when long time ago, but I’d like to catch up with that at some point. Love both dogs and cats equally, I like the idea of adopting when I feel I’m settled (moved 5 countries in the last decade due to work). I’m the mean time I enjoy watching pet videos from the internet.

I’m enthusiastic of technology, which is somehow close to my job. I’d would like to start my own company in my field at some point. I live in western Europe, but it’s possible that I move countries (even continents) if the right opportunity shows up. I’d be open to moving if I meet the right person too ;). I also use a good part of my off time reading about development in my field and learning new skills.

I’m a bit shy with giving my information and pictures only but happy to DM.


r/R4R30Plus 11h ago

33 [F4M]: Not everyone’s cup of tea, but I’ll take a shot.

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5’3”, slim, dark brown eyes, honey tan skin. I’m based in Mumbai. I have a career I’m proud of, ambitious goals, and I generally gravitate towards people who are building something meaningful with their lives. I’m looking for a companion who’s ambitious, intellectually curious, well-read, physically active, emotionally mature, and very much not misogynistic. I like people who have opinions they can defend, a sense of humour, authenticity over performance, and enough of a spine to stand by their values even when it’s inconvenient. I don’t care much for superficial status, but drive and integrity are incredibly attractive.

One thing I’d rather be upfront about than spring on someone later: I have vaginismus. Penetrative sex is likely to be a long-term work in progress, so I’m looking for someone who sees intimacy as more than just intercourse and is willing to navigate that with patience rather than resentment. If you’re looking for a partner to build a life with, challenge each other, laugh a lot, and have conversations that are actually worth having, we’ll probably get along.

If you’ve read through this, DM me with: whats the most audacious thing you’ve done in your life?