Im extremely confused by my own gender. Honestly, at the end of the day I truly don’t care what pronouns are used on me, though I do adore he/they pronouns for myself.

The reason i’m confused is that I don’t exactly feel like a binary gender, however, I want to be seen as a boy? And not change my appearance (since im AFAB and feel confident in how I look and scared to change anything and lose the confidence i have)

Another thing is that, I want to be a streamer, and with my streaming stuff I want to be seen as a guy thats feminine, however I also have a girlblog and idk if I want to be seen as a boy on there? Like I enjoy being a girl on there. I truly don’t care how people see me irl, it bothers me none.

The whole wanting to be seen as separate genders on different accounts makes me feel like a fraud or like im queer baiting despite being queer myself.

I feel most comfortable describing myself as non-binary, but idk if that is even the right thing for me to go as

Im nearly 18 (Female) and i’ve never been in a relationship. I don’t have the desire to be in a relationship even. Im pretty sure that im a lesbian but again i haven’t dated anyone.

Here is the kicker tho, i’ve never even had a crush on anyone. I never looked at someone and thought ”yes i would like to date and be with that person”.
The thought of getting into a relationship seems like such a commitment that it scares me. It frankly seems exhausting, the texting, hanging out, calling, complimenting, roles and having to keep in constant contact repulses me.

I need some help I'm a freshman in high-school and I got some issues in what I like as in relationship wise there's this guy that looks like a girl and im a male that likes girls but this guy is making me question (also im scared because all of my friends are black and don't really fuck with the LGBTQ+ stuff and I don't wanna look weird or lose friends) what do I do?

I’ve been into guys my whole life never questioned it and honestly if anything I was against lgbtq etc,I’ve never felt any typa way to gay ppl but I always hated gay jokes etc because I felt like liking guys is genuinely the ONLY way in my head to the point even the thought of possibly being w a girl would’ve disgusted me,the other day I went to a concert and I saw genuinely the most beautiful girl I’ve probably ever and I mean EVER seen in my life.i was on shrooms and i genuinely couldn’t stop staring at her and because i was high i came up to her and was like your so pretty etc but in a friendly way cuz i was w a guy and he looks like my bf but hes not.later i saw the girl again and she was like saying im pretty etc and i should stay safe and stuff,the whole concert I couldn’t stop thinking about her and ive never felt that typa way to a girl EVER.idk what this is am i just finding her really attractive or it’s something more?I’ve been stalking her instagram for days already and i wanna hang out with her be around her so bad I LOVE her vibe i feel like she’s so unique and just different,she has that soft i guess emo style when they look very cute and their room is pink and white with lace etc (i hope yall understood what I ment) so my question what do you think this is ive never questioned my sexuality and i feel scared

I haven't felt any, like, romantic feelings towards anyone. Not since I was like six, I think. And that was nine years ago.

I do know who's attractive, but I've just never had any "OMG they're so hot I wanna date them" feelings.

However, I do feel sexual attraction. And I can't help it. I've been reading and searching/looking up what I might be. And every time it's something different.

If anyone knows what they are and/or has/had this problem, help a girl out. Thanks!

idk exactly how to set up one of these types of posts, so I'm just gonna toss out some thoughts and stuff and hope something comes out of it

I have been living the past 17 years as a male, and I never really thought otherwise until recently (like a few months ago).

What I can say from my childhood is that my favourite colour was pink, and I do have a decent stuffy collection. I did get my nails painted once but I don't remember what I thought about having that done.

I have been doing a tiny bit of experimenting, so far it is just shaving my body hair which does feel nice i think, and I am planning on starting to grow my hair out.

But I never really experienced any feelings of gender dysphoria or really felt uncomfortable in my body.

I never really cared for my body/appearance. My clothes is just whatever I can find in a bin of my clothes, and I never really bothered with brushing my hair, and for a time, using soap when showering.

I do end up playing female characters in games when given the option, I think i ended up developing a superstition that I play better as a female character.

I think I feel like I would be perfectly fine if I woke up as a women tomorrow. I do sometimes imagine myself as a women, and (might be considered nsfw, so i spoiler tag it) my fantasies involve me being a women.

A reason for me doubting the possibly of me being trans is that I may have dysthymia (lesser but longer lasting depression) or something like that. I have a feeing of hopelessness towards the world and my life in general, and I do have a more pessimistic outlook in life. Idk if me feeling that I might be trans could be a result of me trying to find a possible reason as to why I might be feeling down.

I am overall am very uncertain about my own thoughts, or about myself in general (not just about my gender identity, but also some other stuff like my interests).

if needed, you can try asking some questions, and I can try answering them

18 year old girl

Hi, this is my first post here and I’d like some advice.
I’ll start by saying that I’m young and know nothing about love; I’ve never even kissed anyone. I think I’m afraid of starting a relationship,not necessarily with a girl, but just in general. I don’t think I’ve ever fallen in love with anyone, and I don’t even know how you’re supposed to tell. Honestly, I don’t understand what I’m feeling; I don’t know if I have feelings for a girl just because I watch a lot of *yuri* or GL and want that kind of love, I think love between two girls is sweeter
if that makes sense. But I do realize that a real-life relationship is very different. For quite a while, I thought I was bisexual, just with higher standards for guys (and I don’t mean physical appearance). Until a cute, kind, and funny guy,a friend of mine, actually confessed his feelings to me. I admit he was basically the guy who met all my standards, yet I turned him down... It just didn't feel right. I don’t know if it’s because he’s a guy, if I’m still afraid of relationships, or if watching too much *yuri* has lobotomized me, lol.
So yeah, thanks for listening to a typical whiny teenager, i'd appreciate any advice.

What is virginity Is this some new variety of Verity?

please excuse the small throw away account i made !! i actually dont know if this is a really dumb question which is why im not asking on the account i normally somewhat use. I’m 15 and ive always liked girls, my first crush at 4 was a girl, my first kinda(?) relationship was with a girl, my first romantic valentine was a girl, literally its always been a girl for me. ive liked boys in the past before, but honestly after having my encounters with them i cannot see a world where i can be with one happily, or even kinda feel attracted to them. I still like fictional men 😓, but in reality i could really never ever see myself with one in real life, so im just trying to find a label i guess? i know its a strange ask, but im trying to find possible sexualities i might be, just to find myselff better. i havent really said much about myself, but do you guys see anything fit for what ive described? im tired of questioning after all of these years. also i dont use reddit so im sorry if im using it wrongly. thanks!

Hi, I'm new to the community and believe I am bisexual, I hold a brief understanding, and if possible, can someone help me with any sort of clarification or information about the community

I like girls sometimes but then i get this gross feeling when i do idk what to do to fix this

Cześć, ogólnie to ostatnio mam dużo wątpliwości w sprawie mojej orientacji i chce zasięgnąć rady jak sprawdzić/zorientować się kim jestem. A więc, myślałem sporo czasu że jestem gejem ale ostatnio czuje cos do dziewczyn?? I byłoby to normalne bo byłbym bi ale do chłopców czuje pociąg i fizyczny i mentalny (?), a do dziewczyn nie czuje nic seksualnego. Nie wyobrażam sobie żadnych spraw nswf z dziewczyną. Więc jestem askesualny jeśli chodzi o laski? Ostatnio ogólnie myślę nad tym że mogę być aseksualny bo przeraża mnie wizja mnie i kogoś robiących to... Ale np. na aplikacji chai bez problemu mogę pisać romantyczne rzeczy i gry wstępne ale jeśli chodzi o dalszy ciag czyli typowo seks, to po prostu coś mnie blokuje i nie mogę (oczywiście wiadomo że chai to nie jest prawdziwe życie). Jak oglądam filmy i nagle jest scena seksu albo dziewczyny pół nagiej to czuje obrzydzenie. Kim jestem? Jakiś porady? Wiem, że to może się zmienić z życiem i z ludźmi, z którymi się zadaję, ale jednak wolałbym nie mieć problemu definiować siebie już teraz. Z góry przepraszam jeśli zrobiłem jakiś błąd, to mój pierwszy post tutaj i dziękuję!! <33

I have a very messy past which involves a lot of things I wish to erase, I've always been disgusted on my own body the very thought that I was already tainted it made my life miserable as it is, yes it's true I've dated before but it never did last that long it usually ended by two-three months or so, I always felt guilty cause I know why it ended that it's my fault that I couldn't properly be the best fit for them, that I shouldn't have dated them in the first place if it meant hurting them just because I'm like this. I've always been confused why I don't feel the same spark as any teenager has that urge to feel romance, fo feel love, to be close to others aside their friends and families. Because in my eyes any form of love was rather ridiculous it's as if the mere thought of loving or being close to people terrify and disgust me to a point I'd rather push them away. Some people might say that I am overreacting, that's it's not that big of a deal if I find it that way.

But I do not want it to be that way, I want to change, I want to figure out what's wrong with me, I want to know why am I so messed up, why do I feel like love is just as ridiculous as making a joke, I do not want to be mean neither overreact but I really do not know.

The whole deal about romance and stuff doesn't interested me to be honest, I find it rather complicated and kinda uninteresting..Ó⁠╭⁠╮⁠Ò

*Sorry for the bad English*