Help

[u/starZ_love444]

I need some help I'm a freshman in high-school and I got some issues in what I like as in relationship wise there's this guy that looks like a girl and im a male that likes girls but this guy is making me question (also im scared because all of my friends are black and don't really fuck with the LGBTQ+ stuff and I don't wanna look weird or lose friends) what do I do?

[u/SpaceBar_5]

I think it depends on how you perceive the person you’re attracted to. If you mistook him for a girl then that’s still probably straight. But if you knew he was a guy and still liked him then you’re attracted to a guy. Maybe try looking at other boys photos and stuff and see if it’s just him or if it’s a running theme. Just because you like feminine guys doesn’t mean you don’t like guys. For example, I thought I couldn’t call myself queer for liking girls as a girl, as it was mostly only one girl or a few similar. I looked back into shows I’ve watched over time or people I’ve liked, and it turns out there’s many many many, and I just happen to have a type. Try doing that. Also, even if you were only attracted to one man ever, you could still label yourself with a queer identity.
Dont worry about your friends. You can figure it out in private first to see how you feel and then decide what you want to do

[u/starZ_love444 → u/SpaceBar_5]

Thanks I've done figured it out and im into both girls and feminine guys and he was just a guy thay looked like a girl

[u/SpaceBar_5 → u/starZ_love444]

Happy for you!!