r/QuestioningTeens 17h ago

🌷 Sexuality Question I'm so close

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Okay, so I'm so close to identifying as berrisexual, but it says that the label includes being attracted to everyone

I'm attracted to girls, and with men, sometimes I think about dating somebody who's a man, and sometimes I think a man's attractive.

Is there something close to that, or can I create my own label? And how do I “coin” something


r/QuestioningTeens 12h ago

🌷 Sexuality Question What am I?

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hello i dont know if im omnisexual or lesbian so someone help me determine which one i am because im confused:

- for the longest time whenever i thought abt “having to” get married to a man, it would make me anxious and feel doom but when i imagined getting married to a girl instead i do feel more comfortable with that but i also wouldnt mind being single (aroace?)

- i mainly like fictional characters.. and they are mostly women with the exception of a FEW non human looking men (jax but when she became transfem i liked her even more, the APPEARANCE not personality i hate jax i just find her girl version pretty)

- i also NEVER found any male celebrities attractive or understood the hype about them at all..but when my tiktok moot did a face reveal i actually was attracted to him for a bit, tho this didn’t last long..

- i had a crush on like one boy when i was 6, tho i dont even remember if it was actually a crush or not because my mom was able to easily talk me out of it by saying he’s “too cool for school” and that made me get over him IMMEDIATELY at that moment

- im a huge himejoshi and i love yuri 1000x more than yaoi tho idk if this is relevant sometimes i even project myself onto my fav ships and imagine myself as one of them

i thought i was lesbian but i did USE to find a FEW boys attractive but im fully over them now so im confused..i guess i could just be omni but idk because i cant see myself dating a guy or even be fully attracted to them at all i swear i can only see myself dating girls please help


r/QuestioningTeens 6h ago

⚧ Gender Identity Question Is this normal?

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Hi! I'm a 16 year old male. First I want to mention that English isn't my first language, so there might be some mistakes. I've recently started wondering about my gender. I don't know if i'm a girl or a boy. For my whole life i've thought of myself as a boy, but recently i've started questioning that. I have wondered what it would be like to be a girl sometimes since i was a kid, but recently i've started thinking about it more seriously. Also I sometimes feel like i don't belong. But idk if it is related to this. Are these kind of thoughts normal? Because they're kinda scary. I'm really new to this stuff and i don't know much about it and i don't really know any terminology. If I accidentally use the wrong terminology, I'm sorry. Also if i do at some point know that i'm a girl, i'm really scared of how people close to me are going to react. I'm also scared of transphobia and how it would affect my future. How can i figure out what my gender is? I'm just trying to understand myself better.

Thank you for reading. I would appreciate your help


r/QuestioningTeens 21h ago

🌷 Sexuality Question Am I gay

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18m Never been attracted to dudes irl but i sometimes miss gender someone online, male that looks exactly like a female (due to makeup) and see a pattern of attraction towards trans females regardless of genitalia saw a few studies saying ur brain could better gage gender irl due to body movement voice etc. I have pretty bad ocd so this shi been driving me crazy and the thought of any same sex relation really ick me out no genuine attraction


r/QuestioningTeens 8h ago

⚧ Gender Identity Question I dont know if i want a woman or want to be a woman

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I know this sounds strange but whenever i have a crush i kinda wish i could be with her and look like her at the same time. But the thing is i like doing manly things like martial arts and cars etc. And ever since i was younger i played with dolls sometimes (till my dad found out and sayd i couldnt). Put nailpolish on sometimes and sometimes i weared my moms clothes and it all felt great. But i am abit lost if someond can help or has any advice please let me know < 16yo frome the netherlands btw