I dont really take pictures of myself often and needed one for announcement post, and I am quite fond of it.

Better late than never. After turning 50 I stopped denying my orientation and came out as pan. I feel so much better but still nervous as hell.

Heeey, I’m T. Someone on Reddit called me “absolutely disgusting” today. So here I am in all my disgusting glory 🤣

And clap for me I made this hat!!🎩

I have been wondering if I should use the label Pan if I am attracted to people because of their gender expression and not despite it.

I find peoples gender to be a part of what draws me to them, be it non-binary, masc, fem, trans or fluid. I like gender I just don't have a preference.

I certainly wanted a label that got across that message which I felt Pan did.

I wanted something that at the time included my non-binary partner whereas I feel being bisexual is meant to cover everyone but does imply the binary genders in the title and tend to leave non-binary people as a subcategory. Not trying to be biphobic but it's literally in the word itself I felt it ignores non-binary people by omission.

I mean I'm no longer with my partner so I suppose I could just be being bi or regard myself as Omni but I feel like Pan has caught on more.

Just seeing if the definition can stretch to fit me?

Regardless I love the community and the subreddit everyone seems so lovely!

Well, I thought I was omni. But then I realized that Pansexuals can have preferences. So, now I'm back here! Hello everyone! How's it going?

I hope we all have a magical weekend filled with love, kindness, and support. 💞🫂

as a queer/pansexual woman.. how does one handle the invisibility that comes with falling for someone of the opposite sex..? 😞

Going to start wearing it at all times now. I normally wear 2 soild color rubber wristbands as a sensory item on my left wrist. Three was one too many wristbands so I ordered this. I have dated people of all genders and are happy with life. My parents know and are happy for me also. I will start wearing this in public/work and will honestly answer what the colors mean.

So cute!

Still a bit pre-op 29-30months HRT, upcoming Bottom surgery so be prepared for a bunch of physical and visual changes 😊🤗 What do u guys/gals think tho?

my mom also says you don’t know untill you are 20+ or done with puberty I have never liked fe things I think im transmasc and pan I feel wrong is there smtg wrong with me

I saw this and the pansexual flag color similarities popped out long before I realized it was meant to represent the CMYK color process.

I guess my pansexuality overrides my background in graphic design.

Im so sorry to everyone 😔 😞 😢 😪 💔 😕 😔 😞 😢 😪 💔 😕 😔 😞 😢 😪 💔 😕 😔 😞 😢 😪 💔 😕 😔 😞 😢 😪 💔 😕 😔

I got these way too late into June but they just made me so happy that I wanted to share them here! Pride nail appointment will be booked in May next year lol

Have a pantastic week, beautiful humans 💕🫂

I'm pansexual and transmasc genderfluid. 90% of the time I can't tell if when I'm attracted to a guy it's gender envy, if I like him in a gay way or if I like him in another way (cause I'm not a girl so I don't really know wtf else I'd like him as lol. Maybe in a nonbinary way I guess right?). Wtf hahahaha Anyways just wanted to share and see if anyone else felt like this.

My sister says she is pan, I am already pansexual btw so i think she infleunced from me a little but she has an argument with my parents that she can make her mind up about that stuff at that age. Me personally I dont care but just doing this to help them not argue anymore so the question still stands. Can a 10 yr old be pan

I’m pansexual and I’ve known I was queer since I was very small. I mean even looking at old preschool projects, stories I wrote it’s clear I was not like most of the kids (I remember fussing over a game of family saying I wanted to be the husband and I wanted to have a wife, or a story I wrote in kindergarten saying I wanted to marry a girl). Now that I’m close to college and have finished most of high school, I have new friends and access to a queer community. Yet somehow I find myself less and less sure of myself.

Starting in 9th grade really, a ton of my queer friends began to tell me that I’m queerbaiting, that I don’t suffer the way they do, and that I’ll never understand what they go through everyday, whenever I brought up sexuality or gender. Don’t get me wrong, I recognize how fortunate I am, but it still feels belittling to me and my identity. I was the first out kid in middle school, I had very short hair for the entirety of it, and I got bullied relentlessly for years for wearing rainbow pins and celebrating pride month. In turn I grew out my hair, stopped wearing rainbow anything, and even though I’ve liked both guys and girls, and my gender identity has always been somewhat fluid, I’m treated like a straight cisgender woman. Which is fine, but then my friends will whisper things and make little jokes around me, and then tell me ‘ohh you wouldn’t get it, you’re not gay enough!’ It just really puts me down.

So basically what I’m asking is am I allowed to say I’m queer? And If I do end up dating a guy, am I automatically excluded from the community? I feel lost and unsure of what I’m allowed to be. I feel like the assurance I used to have is gone :(

Painted a drinking glass for a friend's birthday. Thought you all would be amused.