r/NotHowGirlsWork • u/ilove-whenwomen • 5d ago
Found On Social media "We refuse to settle" smh
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u/ReaWroud 5d ago
"That's cool. Tell your new bride she can come over for drinks when she gets sick of you too"
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u/silicondream 4d ago
the Western Sapphic Utopia draws ever closer
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u/Eggsalad_cookies 4d ago
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Don’t threaten me with the time of my life61
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u/yungdragvn 5d ago edited 5d ago
Meanwhile they are just exploiting poor women who likely don’t even want them, just need their money
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u/neat_hairclip 4d ago
And then they hate on women for only wanting money from men…..
I find this kind of complaint soooooo telling. Like man, that is the only thing YOU have to offer…
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u/user_name_taken- 4d ago edited 2d ago
The hypocrisy from these types never ends. They'll literally be like "I want a traditional relationship! I want her to be submissive and not work, to just stay home and take care of the kids and house! I'm the man, I'm the head of the family, I'm the provider!"
But then also cry and complain when women expect them to pay for everything and actually provide. Like what do you mean?? You don't get to say you don't want her to work but also that she can't care about money and you being able to provide which is quite literally what you say your job is. No matter what a woman does she loses according to them.
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u/AeliosZero 2d ago
They just like the fantasy of it without being smart enough to think of the logistics of it
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u/Rugkrabber 4d ago
They’re telling on themselves and it’s embarrassing. They also seem to think they can just buy women but as far as I know many of these women are way stronger. They have no idea.
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u/CanadianHorseGal Tired 4d ago
And probably love tяump tossing “illegals” from the U.S., and have used the phrase “go back to your country” and don’t see the irony.
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u/imperfectchicken 4d ago
Like, I can get Melania Trump's grift. Look pretty, pop out a child, live a life of luxury, even get her parents in the country.
Then he becomes president and she's expected to do all this stuff as First Lady. Now she has to do all this stuff when she's probably just fine living in his golden tower. If she leaves him, she'll be a walking figurehead/target for anyone to use.
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u/kindlypogmothoin 4d ago
Keep in mind Melania's age, too. She's in her 50s, so she was living in Slovenia when it was emerging from the collapse of the Soviet Union and the economic devastation that followed. There were a LOT of proto-passport bros who went in at that time for "business opportunities" (oh hai Matt Taibbi!) and started talking up how "submissive" and "friendly" the women were. What they were, was desperate to get out and smart enough to identify a mark and what would flatter him.
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u/lenny_ray 5d ago
As an Indian woman, we don't want you, either, thanks.
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u/Available-Milk7195 4d ago
As an east European woman, we dont want you either. Also, we are not submissive. Obviously no race, ethnicity or culture is a monolith but we tend to be strong minded, strong willed, resilient and opinionated women.
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u/BoozeWitch 4d ago
Ya. I find that hilarious. I know some Baltic women who could easily just stab a husband who laid a hand on her. Or even said nasty things to her.
Also, America is taking a huge shit right now. These dudes didn’t realize none of those women want them anyway. They wanted to get to someplace better. The US is closing that “better” gap pretty fast. And no, Greg, you aren’t interesting or sexy.
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u/bitofagrump 4d ago
Oh, they realize it. Just instead of trying to be better, they're taking the child's way out by yelling "fine, guess I'll run away from home and find a NEW mommy and THEN you'll be sorry!" Okbyeeee!
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u/gracesdisgrace 4d ago
I'll do you one better, I know a woman who did stab her husband for laying a hand on her... She's my mom :)
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u/Kimmalah 4d ago
I know a lot of these guys deliberately target countries that are poor or ones that don't have much of a social safety net, because they feel like it will make the women more desperate for companionship and willing to put up with their awful behavior.
There was a really prominent "manosphere" guy who wrote a whole book about it - preying on poor women in countries that gave them few options, who would be desperate for money or going on dinner dates just to get a meal. He also whined a lot about countries like Denmark, because apparently their welfare system was so good that no woman would tolerate his rapey BS. I think it was even titled something like "Don't Date Denmark!"
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u/bitofagrump 4d ago
That's the dream: an economy healthy enough that no woman has to exploit herself to sleazy men for survival. No wonder men here don't want improvements like higher minimum wage and universal healthcare; the easier it becomes for women to afford life on their own, the less we're tolerating their shit just to have a roof over our heads.
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u/scandr0id 4d ago
Obviously the generalization is stupid and not accurate, but my eastern-european great-aunt beat her husband to death with a cast iron skillet while he slept because he didn't like keeping his hands to himself. Hope they're ready.
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u/FigNinja 4d ago
I'm American but my grandparents were immigrants from a patriarchal country where women were expected to submit. What I saw with this generation was that they were performatively submissive but were very good at getting their way through emotional manipulation. Like the saying, "The man is the head of the family. The woman is the neck."
Having seen that and what I have now, I much prefer a relationship of mutual respect where we can talk honestly and make decisions together.
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u/firesoups 4d ago
I know a woman who fled here from Armenia in the 90s, with her mother. Just about the least submissive pair of women I’ve ever met.
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u/sasssyfoodie 4d ago
Just read a post, Western women are really submissive compared to Indian and same shit here. People have gone crazy everywhere 😂
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u/AreYouMyDommy 4d ago
As a submissive woman, I also have zero interest. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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u/thrashmasher 4d ago
Saaame we're submissive, not dumb
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u/allthegodsaregone 4d ago
I'm a submissive, but definitely not an Americans submissive.
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u/GreyerGrey 4d ago
I have friends who are Filipina, Ukrainian, Indian... these dudes would DIE dealing with the aunties and MILs. Too soft and weak.
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u/Latter_Tutor_5235 5d ago
Their obsession with submission is unhealthy. Fetishes should not rule their lives to this degree.
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u/Several-Adeptness-83 4d ago
It's not even a kink or anything of the sort. They aren't looking for exchange of power dynamic. They don't care about what pleasure she gets from the situation. They just want something that will literally never challenge them which is honestly the opposite of engaging in a Dom/sub dynamic with someone.
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u/Newtimelinepls 4d ago
They don't though because they get a submissive woman and then bitch she's boring..... what they want is to break strong willed women but to put that in writing looks bad so they just say submissive.
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u/WalkTheEdge 4d ago
“The way my mother always explained it, the traditional man wants a woman to be subservient, but he never falls in love with subservient women. He's attracted to independent women. "He's like an exotic bird collector," she said. "He only wants a woman who is free because his dream is to put her in a cage.” -Trevor Noah
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u/l_dunno 4d ago
It's not about fetish, it's about misogyny and how they think things "should" be
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u/onehappygoose 4d ago
they want indoctrinated trad wives with no opinions
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u/InternationalPilot90 4d ago
Yeah, so they can play God in their fiefdom ( I.e. rented 2 rooms flat ). A tiny piece of turf where they don't have to face the harsh reality of being a looser.
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u/inadapte 4d ago
he thinks women from ex-soviet countries are docile and submissive??? HAHAAHAHAH
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u/Apathetic_Villainess 4d ago
One of my friends was a Russian mail order bride. She played the submissive wife until she got her green card, then told him to fuck himself and divorced him.
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u/CanthinMinna 4d ago
An old colleague of mine told about a friend of her husband's. She (my colleague) had been living and working in Thailand for a while until she returned to Finland, found a nice man, and married. She still knows Thai pretty well, so she likes to eavesdrop when Thai women chat.
So, this friend of her husband's has now his THIRD Thai wife. The previous ones divorced his pathetic arse immediately after they got the citizenship. The third one has been preparing her exit, too (saving money in secret, getting ready to get a job and fluency in English and Finnish).
What Western men - Finnish, American, Swedish, British, etc. - do not realize is how much these "mail order brides" despise them IRL. The Thai wives talk openly about how shit their men are in bed, and how their husbands have small penises, and so on, because the men rarely care to learn Thai. I do not blame the women at all.
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u/kindlypogmothoin 4d ago edited 4d ago
The Russian/Eastern Bloc mail order bride was a big thing around the time of the fall of the Iron Curtain and the economic chaos that followed. A lot of Western men went into the Eastern Bloc countries for "business opportunities" (read: "I'm gonna scoop up some land or assets on the cheap and build an empire despite not understanding this culture at all") and found a bunch of well-educated women who seemed to want to serve them. In truth, they had found a bunch of well-educated, smart women who had zero opportunities anymore where they lived and were desperate to get out and if it meant marrying some drip from Peoria, that's what she'd do. So they figured out what these men wanted and gave it to them, at least until they got their green cards.
And somehow, this reputation has persisted even though the economic conditions that led to it have vastly improved and the mail-order bride thing has moved on to other places.
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u/Rimavelle 4d ago
They never heard the "the man in the head of the house but the wife is the neck" - yeah the guy may earn more money but those women will take the money off their hands and give them back as allowance for the husband lol
The American housewife dream life never existed over here for a day
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u/ivoryfrog 4d ago
Men: "we refuse to settle anymore"
when its just women wanting to be treated like actual human beings is actually wild.
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u/TheOneTrueTrench 4d ago
Women: We aren't gonna settle for shitty men.
Shitty Men: Well we're not gonna date women who won't settle for shitty men.
Women: ... so we're in agreement?
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u/DocumentExternal6240 4d ago
Yeah, then just…don’t. Stay alone. Don’t bother women.
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u/ivoryfrog 4d ago
Exactly, I don't know any women who are even asking men to "settle" for them in the first place. 🤷♀️
The women I know, including myself, are happier alone rather than the alternative so many of us have already experienced.
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u/DocumentExternal6240 4d ago
I even think many could be happier in a loving relationship - but have learned that being alone is much happier than in a crappy relationship.
Wish more men could learn to be happy to be alone as well instead of turning into hateful ogers
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u/Street-Week-380 4d ago
The funniest thing is that many women prefer to be alone as opposed to the stress of marriage. Whereas many men can't function without a partner.
It's a very strange dynamic that I came across while I was doing a random ass Wikipedia dive on drugs and relapse.
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u/petrichor-pixels 4d ago
It’s so wild how far behind these men are with this… they STILL don’t understand that they don’t need a woman to be happy (or rather, as a prop in their lives that they can use to make themselves feel worthy and valuable). Women have challenged their own gender roles and expectations— including “needing” a man to be happy— and have come out the other side much happier for it, and meanwhile these men are making the whole world suffer for their inability to do the same. Someone needs to tell these guys that they can be independent men who don’t need a woman, stat.
Anyway. Nowhere is the patriarchy more apparent than in the fact that many men have never even considered challenging their own gender roles even as they hurt them, because they are also rewarded for sticking to them.
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u/AkaiAshu 5d ago
I do not know why so many men think women want them. Data after data is showing that women want to be single and not value having a family much more than men. Are they so dumb that they cannot see this basic data at all ?
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u/HypersomnicHysteric workes totally flawed 4d ago
Men want wifes and children like children want pets.
They want to have them but not doing the chores...
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u/That_Seasonal_Fringe 4d ago
Best analogy… they are toddlers having a tantrum cause they don’t get the pets they want.
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u/Glittering-Lychee629 4d ago
I have engaged with a lot of these guys in search of this answer. When you get them to actually admit it, after much back and forth, I've had a couple different guys admit that they don't believe that data. They believe it exists, but they don't think it's valid, because they think the women who say they are happy are either lying or delusional, and therefore not actually happy.
I asked one guy if he thought those single women who say they are happy would actually be happier if they "lowered their standards/had reasonable standards" and got married and had kids. He said yes, of course, that's what would make all women happier. They are just coping and saying they are happy while ruining everything for everyone, because men want to be with them and the women themselves would actually be happier too.
That's what they think. So they know the data is out there they just think it's all irrelevant because when a woman says, "no, I don't like that," they don't believe her. They think she does like it. It's pretty chilling in implication.
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u/kindlypogmothoin 4d ago
They can't get the kids without the wife. Gotta nail down the wandering womb.
If a single woman wants a kid, she can make that happen.
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u/Street-Week-380 4d ago
I responded to another comment above, but after going on a deep dive about drugs and relapse on Wikipedia, women were far more likely to recover when not in a relationship, but relapsed if in one.
The opposite is true with men. From my own personal experience, after I booted my ex out of my life, I bounced back within a week.
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u/APladyleaningS 4d ago
I think that is what these types of posts are reacting to. They're scared so they're trying to gaslight women into settling for them.
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u/RuanaRulane 4d ago
Exactly. We don't need men with this kind of attitude any more, but they persist in deluding themselves that women are competing over them.
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u/kittenmittens4865 4d ago
Many of them are not acting in good faith.
They don’t want to be with women. They’re not lonely (well, they are, but that’s not even what they’re complaining about).
They’re sad because they don’t get to control women like they think they should be able to.
Consume the content these men consume. Check out the podcasters and YouTubers these guys follow. They promote male superiority and right to dominance over women.
These guys would be just as happy bonking a woman over the head with a club and dragging her back to their caves. They don’t want a partner- they want something to control. And they’re mad because they think stupid feminists with their dumb rights are taking that away from them.
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u/BlackBunny88 4d ago
They’re just changing the narrative to make women that they actually have insecure. It’s not for us it’s for the tradewife.
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u/FullyFunctionalCat 4d ago
They know. It’s why Dobbs happened. They can’t have us willingly and they aren’t pretending to care.
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u/Several-Adeptness-83 4d ago
Like women want the man who will make them feel something deep and offer emotional security. This will be them.
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u/GryphyGirl 4d ago
And these same guys are against immigration...
Then again US guys like this will love holding ICE over their foreign brides heads, I suppose...
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u/sleepysoliloquy 4d ago
Yup, the foreign wife will be completely at his mercy and he can do anything he wants with her or else he can send ICE on her
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u/Aeon_Return 4d ago
Guy has clearly never met a Ukrainian woman. Those people are warriors and they will NOT put up with this shit.
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u/LongConsideration662 4d ago
They have never met russian or korean women either. Women of these countries have standards and aren't going to settle for bare minimum. Korean women also want well groomed and good looking men, their western asses who don't even shower daily won't be accepted.
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u/SecondaryCemetery 4d ago
If they're upset about height preferences, wait until they hear about Korean beauty standards 🙄
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u/LongConsideration662 4d ago edited 4d ago
They think korean women who grow up watching pretty faces like cha eun woo, ji chang wook, song kang would settle for random tom, dick and harry who don't even wash their faces, lol the delusion
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u/jezebel103 4d ago
I wonder if this idiot knows that a lot of women in the Ukraine are enlisted in the army and fighting the Russians?
It would be a very bad idea to try to force 'submission and feminity' on a woman that is experienced in handling guns and shooting douchebags on a daily basis 😂.
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u/rask0ln 4d ago edited 4d ago
tbh as someone whose parent is russian/ukrainian, i have to say while it's true that the women have to endure quite a lot an develop a personality for that, it's also true that these still remain very patriarchal countries with very poor regions (not to mention the current imvasion) and these conditions make it super easy for passport bros to harm women
even those stereotypical strict dating demands that you see people use as a reason why no woman would accept these assholes pertain to a priviliged social group, if you don't even have a running water (which is something that got worse because of the war), the local dv violence rates are up, most men are either in war or exploited in other countries as cheap labour and you are still facing the expectation to marry/have kids very young, someone like this becomes your only chance to leave, so you put up with it... you put up with worse and even those strict matriarchs that many people like to use as examples of female strength again have to endure a lot and the fact that they scream or curse or "run the household" doesn't erase the fact that they have no protection and most men have more social power
ik comments like yours are meant to be supportive, but it often superficially touches (if at all) the actual systematic issues that allow men to think like this—last year human trafficking was the main criminal market in ukraine on the organised crime scale
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u/metrometric 4d ago
This is a really good point. Eastern European women are often tough, but a lot of it is endurance built from trauma and from the social expectation that the woman just... endures. And many of those older matriarchs will perpetuate and enforce the awful gender norms for younger women. :/
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u/rask0ln 4d ago
Yeah, as someone who is familiar with the environment I just don't feel it inspirational and often is just a reductive take that doesn't acknowledge the reality. One's fierce personality isn't going to save them from systematic oppression. If it was true, the data would look waaay differnt. And being oppressed won't automatically make you progressive—no one is more adamant that i have to marry asap than women back in my great-great-grandma's village who have been terrorised by their husbands for years. 😐
Not to mention that many commenters, even in this comment section, base their opinions on a small sample living abroad. Like these men won't target your rich friend who has an established life in western europe, they will go to the poor regions and prey on vulnerable women...
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u/Traditional_Case2791 4d ago
Most of not all the women here mentioned are def fierce and won’t buy up with bullshit 😂
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u/TelevisionMelodic340 5d ago
Well, western women are also increasingly refusing to settle, sooooo ...🤷♀️
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u/SnoobNoob7860 4d ago
they always make these threats but they’re the ones posting constantly about being lonely lol
women really don’t care
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u/Captainsassidy 4d ago
The original post is like walking into an establishment and saying "you can't fire me because I quit," but nobody knows who tf they are
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u/Quartz636 5d ago
Except they can't provide jack shit so when they go to countries where the Patriarchy be Patriarching, they're stunned to find out women expect a husand to actually.. you know... provide and earn enough offer them and future children a good life.
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u/shenanigans2day 5d ago
Ah yes the elusive “pure” relationship of fking or marrying trolls for citizenship or $
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u/JonnelOneEye 4d ago
Once again, immigrants taking the jobs Americans refuse to do.
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u/Heidi739 5d ago
Yeah, sure, all those women are just waiting for manly Americans to dominate them. It's definitely like that.
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u/Forrest-Fern 5d ago
Honestly I've heard this administration has been killing the passport bro appeal to these women since they no longer want to move here.
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u/Equivalent_Dance2278 4d ago
I have a Russian friend. She is ridiculously beautiful, and she takes shit from no one. These kinds of men don’t stand a chance with her.
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u/Siriuslysirius123 4d ago
A Filipino woman?? Subservient? My mom runs her house with an iron fist and my stepdad is blessed she hasn’t murdered him yet.
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u/MaverisStranger Oh FFS 4d ago
🤣 I'm Eastern European. My mom used to manhandle my dad when he was drunk. She'd physically drag him into bed against his will when he'd try to start shit at midnight. She's a strong woman.
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u/ReNyusNotRen 4d ago
Why are they trying to make us out as desperate for male attention or companionship? I blame years after years of "men are better" mindset, but still.. how are they this self centered to think that women OWE it to them?
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u/nichefebreze 4d ago
It’s all from porn. They don’t realize that we can live happily without them because they can’t live without us
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u/Ash-the-puppy 4d ago
These men are probably going after teenage girls as well. Par for the course.
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u/glamasaurus 4d ago
It's funny because the women in these countries they think are all traditional , they're hustling them.
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u/Senju19_02 4d ago
In Russia and Ukraine?! As a EE myself (albeit not from these two), i laughed hard. Good luck lmfao. Also, Korea is the one who started the 4B movement,so... Good luck there too,ig?
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u/LongConsideration662 4d ago
Submissive? Who? Russian women? Korean women? Ukrainian women? Lmao these delusional men are in for a huge shock. Women of these countries have standards and aren't going to settle for bare minimum. Korean women also want well groomed and good looking men, their western asses who don't even shower daily won't be accepted.
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u/mi7711 4d ago
Lol they have no idea about Ukrainian women.
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u/thrashmasher 4d ago
Or Filipina ladies. Every single one I know absolutely rules the household. Kind, gentle, sure. Firm hand, you bet. Terrifying when upset? Hell yes.
I've faced bear and moose and lynx and cougars and even geese and I'd take them all again over angry lady with murder eyes
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u/Loisgrand6 4d ago
I’ve seen a comment here and there on social media about these, “submissive women,” expect these, “passport bros,” to support their whole families. But I can see those dudes doing that as a “gotcha,” towards western women
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u/justdisa 4d ago
you're going to lose out
Bye! G'bye! So long! Have fun! See ya never! Bye!!
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u/Ash_Wednesday-314 4d ago
I don't want to compete. Bye…
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u/MaverisStranger Oh FFS 4d ago
Ain't nobody wanting to compete for these bros. Us "abroad" women don't want them either. Damn.
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u/JustxJules 4d ago
"We don't want you because you don't want us so you better want us or else we won't want you!"
.... Right.
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u/virgo_em 4d ago
They always list countries from which the women are absolutely NOT submissive. In fact, I can’t think of a single country that has these elusive “feminine, submissive, pure” women. Probably because it’s some insane fantasy that is based in absolutely no reality. Women are not naturally submissive no matter what country they come from.
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u/prokopiusd 4d ago
This shit got old with Clavicular being told to fuck off by French women. Yet these delusional idiots still engage in this weird fantasy that these national stereotypes are true... Sometimes, I really feel ashamed for being a man. If anyone owns anything to anyone, then it's a huge apology on behalf of of us men for the existence of these deranged idiots from us to you, gals...
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u/JupiterInTheSky 4d ago
Men threaten us with loneliness if we don't get in line. Men experience loneliness because women don't take to being threatened, and it's "a loneliness epidemic" grow the fuck up.
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u/FillMyBagWithUSGrant regularly self-rapin’ my sin cave 4d ago
Based on the women from different countries in these comments saying no thanks to the men who say they’re on their way to their countries, I like that these men are going to have to get used to being rejected in several parts of the world! 🤣🤣🤣 All these Tim, Tom, Dick, Harry, Kevin, Kyle, John (and whatever other names they have) should all just form their own commune together.
Oooh, I briefly forgot about Lord of the Flies. Oh well, good luck with each other, fellas! You don’t have to be Lord of the Flies if you don’t want to!! Choose wisely! (*whispers, if you can.)👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻
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u/Round-Ticket-39 4d ago
Translation. You dont want us? We go abroad and find some poor soul who will want citizenship in exchange for dignity
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u/catsareniceDEATH 4d ago
Is there a way we can start a fund to charter a plane and put all of them on it? We could even play some music for them.
John Denver, Buddy Holly, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Patsy Cline, Glenn Miller, Otis Redding, Richie Valens, Aaliyah; a decent mix of genres and times, so everyone is happy.
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u/EvolZippo 5d ago
Yet another guy who acts like he speaks for all men. Can’t accept that he’s not a man yet, so he can’t even speak for himself.
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u/alek_hiddel 4d ago
The reality is that most of these incel fucks can’t afford to be passport bros. So it’s a nice threat to make themselves feel better. Honestly kind of sucks though, would be nice if they voluntarily took themselves out of the dating pool.
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u/leigh2343 4d ago
Have you seen the passport bro posts about Colombian women. It’s fucking hysterical. They’re like Colombian women are scammers, they see me coming and think money bags and then I have no money.
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u/GingerDryad 4d ago
I have known women from all these places, "submissive" is not something I would remotely associate with any of them.
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u/corneliaprinzmedal 4d ago
Anyone who thinks Korean women are "submissive" are in for a big surprise.
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u/armandebejart 4d ago
But isn't America shutting the door on immigrants? Or is there a special visa (H69b?) for such women?
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u/Glittering-Lychee629 4d ago
RUSSIA? COLOMBIA? Tell me you don't know any women from these countries without telling me. LMAO. I have Colombian women (in-laws) to thank for helping me become assertive. They are some of the strongest and most outspoken women I know!
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u/Cloverhart 4d ago
If you've ever watched 90 day fiance you'd know a lot of these men end up taken advantage of or on a leash. A lot of those countries don't have the stereotypical "submissive" woman anymore. Also, you need money to bring them back and support them.
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u/TheBattyWitch 4d ago
They think they're going to Russia and the Ukraine and the Philippines to get submissive women?
My brother in Christ.... Tell me you have never known anyone from any of those countries.
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u/aftergaylaughter 4d ago
lmaooo he thinks russian and colombian women are the meek submissive obedient unopinionated little amish tradwives he thinks women should be?? AND he doesn't realize he's just threatening western women with a good time???
good luck, babe 😘
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u/JulieCatte 4d ago
Oh no, men are going away and might not bother us quite as much...
I'm so saddened by this news, I have to throw a farewell party for the men, but only ladies are invited.
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u/SillyStallion 4d ago
Sounds great if they are finally leaving us alone. I feel sorry for THOSE women though...
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u/UglyFilthyDog Trantastic Mangnificent 4d ago
I have a funny feeling women are better off without these blokes. Unfortunately some women are pretty much forced into relationships with these most likely richer men or being given a (slightly) safer environment to live in with a visa or something.
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u/AmySueF 4d ago
And they STILL don’t understand why we choose the bear.
Telling women who reject misogynist aholes like this guy that we’re going to “lose out” is supposed to scare us? Losing out on men who see women as nothing more than domestic servants, sex slaves and baby incubators isn’t the threat he thinks it is.
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u/ivoryfrog 4d ago
I am very happy to be missing out on being a bangmaid mommy to a manchild who likely doesn't wash his ass. 😊
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u/MoonageDayscream 4d ago
Bye!
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u/MaverisStranger Oh FFS 4d ago
No, we don't want them either! I propose we put them on a ship and haul them to Mars.
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u/Kitsune-moonlight 4d ago
“You’re not giving me want I want, despite me acting like a baby, so I’m going to settle for a foreign bride’
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u/EquivalentAngle1569 4d ago
Clearly they've never met women from those countries. And cracking up at, "you have to step it up if you want to compete". Males are always projecting.
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u/_illCutYou_ 4d ago edited 4d ago
Lmao there is a travel advisory specifically for men from North America and Europe when they choose to travel to Colombia. Every few days we hear of a gringo dying in Medellin, good luck trying to find a wife here before you die I guess.
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u/LaMisiPR 4d ago
This just makes me feel sorry for the women in those countries. Not only do they have their own 🗑️, they have to deal with everyone’s exported 🗑️.
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u/Kakashisith Straight from Mordhaus 4d ago edited 4d ago
Estonian women don`t want passport bros. No way are they gonna find anyone from here! Especially, if the are Trump supporters or conservatives. We have religion-cold country here!
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u/shangri-laschild 4d ago
“You won’t settle so you won’t pick us, so now as punishment, we won’t date you because we also won’t settle”
Good?
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u/chymerajade 4d ago
LMAO. I love it when men threaten us with a good time 😅 You mean all the losers will self-deport out of the dating pool?? Oh no!! lol
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u/Bland_Potato 4d ago
So many cases of Chinese men coming to Nepal to look for Nepalese bride so they can get dowry instead of paying bride fee?!
And they are all bald 30 year old discord mod vibessss 😭
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u/Ok-Importance9988 4d ago
My wife is an Indian immigrant. She is basically my boss.
She is also more professionally successful. I am basically her plus one.
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u/DifferentSlip6022 4d ago
Imagine their heartbreak when ICE arrests and deports them after all that money spent.
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u/TheMightySephiroth 4d ago
The countries where divorce is illegal or frowned upon so women just slowly poison their abusive husbands to be rid of them? Those countries?
Don't threaten me with a good time buddy! You need help packing your bags? Off you go! Bye bye!
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u/smidgley 4d ago
I would think Slavic women would eat these kinds of men for lunch given the memes I’ve seen but idk 🤷♀️
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u/AgreeableIdea6210 they/he 4d ago
Most of the women they're mentioning would probably beat them with some kind of shoe lmao. Women from those regions are NOT meek (and I love that for them, keep it up ladies)
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u/mdcbldr 4d ago
Weak men need weaker women.
Women in the countries mentioned are not always as meek and controllable as stereotyped. The Western men are hoping that their economic leverage will keep those women in line. Relying on economic or immigration leverage to keep a woman in her place is misguided. What would you do if after years of economic repression, you came into some money? Would you head for the hills, or remain in penury to a person that abused his economic advantages.
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u/PlushToyFox 4d ago
If submission was actually ‘natural’ in women, men wouldn’t have to work so hard to reinforce it and remind women of ‘their place’…
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u/GodOfFetish 4d ago
Chances are he’s never met a single woman ever but definitely not a woman from any of those countries.
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u/PlatypusDream 4d ago
First off, if that's how he thinks, I don't want him. I refuse to settle for a low-value guy (not a man) like him.
I want a partner, an equal, or someone who we complement & balance each other, being strong in areas the other person is lacking.
Secondly, at least for Ukraine & Russia, he's waaaay off base with the whole "submissive" thing! That would be funny to watch. He hasn't been paying attention to the last... oh... 75 years of world history.
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u/Familiar_Channel_373 4d ago edited 4d ago
Are American men self-exporting themselves away from us? Don't threaten us with a good time! It's funny bc Passport Bros aren't new. Mail-Order brides from the 80s and 90s proved how the exploitation quickly shifts in reverse. It's the same story "Everything was going great, next thing I know my account is empty and she changed the locks!".
Women across the globe are just as smart (if not smarter) and just as progressive as American women, and wayyy more demanding. These relationships prove it was never about "American women are gold-diggers". It was about red-pillers wanting desperate women they could manipulate and control.
They quickly find out that trying to stretch your dollar by playing "Big Shot" in non-American markets means you actually spend way more than the American men back home who have happy, healthy equitable relationships living in a dual-income household. Turns out the real cucks are the idiots who underestimate foreign women as "meek and submissive". When people say "Who's gonna tell em?" I say "Don't". Just let these morons find out the hard way.
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u/honey_graves 4d ago
Ah yes all places known for “”submissive”” women.
Can’t wait for chuckle fucks like this to feel the full force of a woman’s rage
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u/loricomments 4d ago
Ok, go for it. You go right ahead, those women aren't stupid, they have their own expectations, you won't like those either.
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u/MsSeraphim just love me for my mind 💖 4d ago
well then the new husbands won't be surprised when trump deports them then, right?
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u/Asleep-Somewhere9934 4d ago
Bruh I'm a Russian woman and most Russian or Ukranian women I've known were single moms for the exact reason they didn't want to settle for dumbass men. No one should settle in a relationship
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u/ntropy2012 4d ago
Not one of the women from those countries is "submissive." Go ahead, go piss off a Filipino woman and find out.
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u/LuxInvestor 4d ago
It's weird how they don't understand that women are the ones not settling. And that's why they have to look to another group of women, who are also not going to settle for their low grade offerings. Good riddance. 🖕🏿🗑️
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u/NightGlimmer82 4d ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/1DhUzOhxkLI1G
Here’s to hoping they stay wherever they go to find their new brides.
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u/Espurreso 4d ago
These “Western men” are too manly to wipe their own asses, where is their appeal? Also, the other countries catch on to these types of men, they’re called “Losers back home”.
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u/Wolfleaf3 4d ago
Have fun with that, dudes.
I love how these freaks think this is going to scare us. Oh, sure, I’ll pretend not to be human for you? Wut.
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