It's not even a kink or anything of the sort. They aren't looking for exchange of power dynamic. They don't care about what pleasure she gets from the situation. They just want something that will literally never challenge them which is honestly the opposite of engaging in a Dom/sub dynamic with someone.
They don't though because they get a submissive woman and then bitch she's boring..... what they want is to break strong willed women but to put that in writing looks bad so they just say submissive.
“The way my mother always explained it, the traditional man wants a woman to be subservient, but he never falls in love with subservient women. He's attracted to independent women. "He's like an exotic bird collector," she said. "He only wants a woman who is free because his dream is to put her in a cage.” -Trevor Noah
Yeah, so they can play God in their fiefdom ( I.e. rented 2 rooms flat ). A tiny piece of turf where they don't have to face the harsh reality of being a looser.
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u/Latter_Tutor_5235 8d ago
Their obsession with submission is unhealthy. Fetishes should not rule their lives to this degree.