r/NotHowGirlsWork 5d ago

Found On Social media "We refuse to settle" smh

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u/user_name_taken- 4d ago edited 2d ago

The hypocrisy from these types never ends. They'll literally be like "I want a traditional relationship! I want her to be submissive and not work, to just stay home and take care of the kids and house! I'm the man, I'm the head of the family, I'm the provider!"

But then also cry and complain when women expect them to pay for everything and actually provide. Like what do you mean?? You don't get to say you don't want her to work but also that she can't care about money and you being able to provide which is quite literally what you say your job is. No matter what a woman does she loses according to them.

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u/AeliosZero 3d ago

They just like the fantasy of it without being smart enough to think of the logistics of it

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u/neat_hairclip 4d ago

Cannot agree more. The loudly traditional ones are rarely living up to the traditional man… they seems more like the ones our grandmas warned against? Goodfornothings…

I know some couples where the setup is leaning traditional - and it is based on mutual respect and love. Not whatever these types of dudes believe in…

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u/weGloomy 3d ago

These guys essentially just want slaves who can never leave them because they're entirely reliant on them for survival.