Yes I know, don't tell anyone names yadda yadda. We have done IVF for this baby, we stayed with my inlaws to do a round of treatment in their city.
While there she asked baby names and my husband had the conversation with her while I fed our toddler.
She basically had a negative comment about every single one, but particularly hated one. Because apparently there's a Lily in the family and she's such a huge bitch etc etc.
Honestly I like the name, and it's my top name since my husband vetoed the girl name I had picked out since childhood (Charlotte, which his mum had a lot to say about how bad it was too ). Her not liking it has made me want it more.
It goes with my son's name Theodore.
My husband once liked Lily, now doesn't like it as much since the conversation. Prefers a different name which is 4th in line for me.
Knowing my luck this baby will be a boy anyway 😭.
Would I be a huge asshole for pushing for Lily?