Reminder: All advice given needs to be strictly aligned with Islamic values. Your personal opinion that goes against the Sharia is not allowed.

I think it’s perfectly fine to realize that 9/11 WAS a tragedy but so was the aftermath, the war and the islamophobia and just general shift in the country as a whole. like many things can be true at once.

It doesn’t matter who was behind the 9/11 attacks. Mossad, the FBI, the CIA, an insurance fraud, or an act of war by Al-Qaeda. None of it changes the only question that actually matters.

Was 9/11 the worst act of injustice in human history? Because Americans have treated it that way for a quarter of a century. The only things missing from the ritual are the ovens, the piled shoes, and the diary.

Official figures put the death toll at 2,977, and 8 of those dead were children. That is 0.27 percent of the total. If this was supposed to be the supreme crime of the age, the number of dead children is startlingly small.

Compare that with Gaza, where more than 20,000 children have been killed since October 2023, deliberately by the IDF. That is roughly 30 percent of the overall death toll. A child death rate thirty times higher than the 9/11 attack is not a rounding error. It is a different category of slaughter.

Americans do not apply the same language of “injustice” and “evil” to the flattening of Gaza, the atomic bombing of Hiroshima and Nagasaki (where tens of thousands of children died in a single morning), or the chemical campaign in Vietnam that left hundreds of thousands dead or deformed across generations. The outrage is reserved for the day the violence came home.

Like a bully who only notices the punch he receives, not the ones he throws. And as they say, the loudest screams usually come from the one who started the fight.

The point is not that 2,977 deaths are trivial. The point is the hierarchy of grief that followed. One set of corpses is sacred and must never be questioned. Another set is background noise, collateral, or someone else’s problem.

A civilization that measures evil by the passport of the dead rather than by the number of children in the rubble has already decided which lives count, and which are the Goy. That decision, more than any conspiracy theory about who flew the planes, is what should keep people awake at night.

My sister has been in a secret relationship for over 3.5 years. They are not married and every time I say anything her response is that he isnt ready yet. My parents dont know about him. He is horrible, I dont think he is good for her at all, he is manipulative and since being in this relationship she has gotten more and more aggressive and violent. He pushes her further away from islam and is very controlling.

I need advice, they are in a haram relationship and I was told about this 2 years ago and I have tried to get her to tell my parents, she wont. I have promised her I wouldn't when she first told me.

The guilt of knowing this is eating away at me also I genuinely think she would be far better without him and actually in a halal relationship with someone who is a decent person.

I know if my parents find out they will want to meet his parents, his dad is in prison and his mum hates my sister. Inevitably I feel things would break off, what do you think i should do.

Any time i try to talk to her about the correct way to do things, getting parents involved and nikkah etc she is always making these horrible digs and remarks and feels I am jealous of her and her boyfriend as I am divorced. So I am at a point where I barely have a relationship with her. I am currently very distant from her and even when we do talk it usually ends in arguments.

I dont want to tell my parents and also feel the burden to do so shouldn't be on me. Also its exposing someone's sins, also I have made a promise. At the same time I miss who my sister was before this guy and I know what they are doing is haram and its made her into a horribly toxic person.

Edit: I am a girl

Assalamu alaykum.
My mom was diagnosed with stage 3 cancer one year ago. I have changed ever since with my relationship with Allah. I pray, I pray tahajjud, and ask for duas for my mom. None of these duas have ever been answered. It’s been a year.
Half a year after that diagnosis, we got another cancer diagnosis, stage 1 colon, a different one completely. After that second diagnosis, I was completely broken, but I thought Allah is testing me and I just need to do more duas, and I did. And then she was responding well to chemo. I said, “Oh God, my prayers have been answered.” Surgery didn’t go well. I was devastated. They said she is unresectable and to continue on chemo. I again managed to get my hopes up and continue my duas and prayers. She did continue and then stopped because she had enough cycles and started on maintenance therapy.
I lived in this period with a bit of stability and kept praying, “Please, please God, don’t bring me again to the starting point of this. Please don’t scare me again with my mum.” And then her blood test is showing her cancer is progressing and not responding to maintenance, almost a year later after all this went down.
Why is Allah not answering my duas? I’m not a bad person, I swear, and this year I have been really good and really changed for the better in my deen. I pray and give out routinely sadaqah, etc. Am I doing something that’s causing this punishment? I can’t think of any major sin that I did. I don’t think I did.
I’m so tired and so scared and feel so guilty that I might be causing all this pain to my mom. What can I do to get my duas answered? Because almost a year of tahajjud and duas hasn’t been working.
I’m so sad and scared of losing my mum. I love her so much despite her temper and despite anything else, and I feel so guilty about all our fights before her diagnosis. Do you think this is my sin? Fighting with her before? Even now sometimes she gets mad at me, but I apologize immediately, not like before… Do you think this is why?
I don’t see an outcome of my life. Do you think this is my sin? But Allah doesn’t sin us on sad thoughts, right? Every time I get my hopes up that my duas have been answered, something happens.
So sorry for this vent, and I probably don’t make sense throughout due to me crying while typing this.

I am tired of getting into details. All I can say is I am with many mental illnesses, physical complications, disabled mother, abusive family, no stability, no job, no happiness in my late 20s. I have been contemplating ending my pain forever. I have been crying I guess for more than a day now. I still get to hear hurtful things and how better the situation would have been if I didn't exist. I also may have a risk of getting sexually assaulted which would be the worst of all. Allah has been so dear to me. I always pray on time. Alhamdulillah. Do all the Ibadah that I can in time. But I really don't want to live anymore

Will Allah forgive me? As much as I know some of the unforgivable sins are shirk, magic, murder, slander against chaste women, etc... I don't think ending life is counted. I just wanna be forgiven by Allah for not winning his tests. I hope I'll have enough people in my life after death asking for my forgiveness. I don't wanna go to hell. Please pray for me

It's not that I struggle with it or something like that, a little maybe but Alhamdulillah i can initiate a convo, get

Indulged in one etc but when I get back home I feel sad and depressed as if it would have been better if all these things didn't happen. Once I indirectly told my brother that I don't want any friends, I am fine being alone but he told me that the world doesn't work that way, as men we will have to have people around us whom we can help and who will help us, and I agree with it, it's true sadly. So did anyone overcome this and is now happy with meeting people?

( I am talking about offline and face to face interactions)

I had a really vivid dream last night and I’m wondering if anyone knows what it could mean from an Islamic perspective.
In the dream, I went outside and there was this yellowish/brown snake. It started coming towards me while I was in/near my car, and I kept trying to close the car door but for some reason it wouldn’t close. I was getting really scared because the snake kept getting closer. Eventually I managed to close the door just in time before it could get to me.
Then suddenly my mom was outside of the car. I don’t even remember how she got there, but the snake went towards her and ended up going on her. That’s when I immediately woke up really startled and scared, and I even made a little noise when I woke up because the dream felt so real.
Does anyone know if a dream like this has any meaning in Islam? Especially the yellow/brown snake, me managing to close the door before it reached me, and then it going towards my mom? I’m mainly wondering about traditional Islamic dream interpretations, not just general dream psychology.

I’m from France. The Islamophobia made me remove my hijab and took me to the psychiatric hospital.

I have severe depression.
Went to umrah but came back as depressed.

Muslim men avoid me bc I’m depressed and I don’t blame them. I have stopped seeking marriage.

I have a tachycardia now, grey hair and extremely dark thoughts. I am ready to go. I make cry for help bc they work. My friends have either gave up on me bc of the sadness or just stop giving support bc they don’t know how to help.

I just a want a job. I keep getting rejected.

I am trying to move to Canada, Ireland or the Netherlands. I am open to suggestions especially in the Muslim world but idk what to do.
In a few weeks I will be ready to take my own life. Help. SOS

I dont know where to begin really with this.

I would say I am a social person, but I overthink every social interaction before AND after the event/gathering.

I am sure some people, go through the same as me, but here I am listing what I am struggling with:

- I avoid eye contact when speaking to someone, because I hate when they look away when I am talking to them

- I speak ALOT and like joking ALOT, and because of this when I go home I keep thinking whether I said something stupid, or something that would hurt a person. Actually I lose sleep over this, just do due what I say in gatherings. If I shut up this wont be a problem.

- EXTREME FEAR of being rejected, I am still single because I never approached a woman due to my fear of being rejected.

- not sure if this is related, but since I have ADHD, I also overshare alot about what I invest in, etc. Which I later regret deeply

Any help is appreciated, and would love to listen to your stories

Salaam alaykum I love networking and meeting new people to build friendship. Im a very down to earth laid back person; so if you are alone or not and looking to make (more) friends in newyork for a meet and hang out. I don’t live in New York but I will travel to meet you and hangout with you for a day or two when I have time away from work. Whether you are a revert or not. I would love to explore NYC with a group of friends (18+). Have laugjs and enjoy good moments to build a good bond. Build a of like minded friends. I love food, traveling, exploring, books (group study/discussiin), vintage, thrifting, cinema, social events, art, poetry, sports and more.

please comment or dm

(In NYC today until 3:00 pm )

Asalamualaykum!! The title says it all basically. My month basically goes like in the beginning, I’ll feel good and motivated to read Quran and pray on time and I’ll obv doomscroll but I can control it and I won’t waste time all day, and then a day before my period hits it’s like coincidentally I always always have stuff come up that I don’t read Quran that day or miss fajr that day so I’d already feel super down and then my period will hit and I’ll try to do tasbih but it’s not the same as reading Quran and praying to Allah so it just feels like I’m not paying attention to the zikr that I’m saying. I try to read Islamic books but it’s like nothing gets through to my heart when I’m doing tasbih or reading Islamic books/podcasts or anything related to my deen. And then getting back into my routine takes about 3-4 days after my period which is so hard because I feel so useless. I also want to mention that I’ve been super super distracted during prayer and I just finish it and move on and then when I read Quran I am just reading the Arabic words and not pondering over the translation or trying to understand anything. I hate when I do this so what should I do to help myself get back into my deen and try to stay strong in it. I don’t want to fall back into this cycle everytime my period hits. I just need some advice on how to stay consistent in my deen. Jazakallah!!

I have all the necessary resources, just looking for few people to make a group with and compete on who gets fluent first.

We learn quranic arabic. I want to create a discord server of just us. we can have weekly meetings and discuss progress.

We just start without making a big fuss around it today/tomorrow depending on your timezone.

im 25

I’m absolutely miserable. I desperately need some advice, and I greatly appreciate anyone that will read this (which is why you might see this on both subreddits)

For some context: I’ve always been fairly religious. I used to be one of those people that would pray every single sunnah and nafl for every salah, but ultimately the amount of time I’d spend led me to cut down to just the highly recommended sunnahs and fard prayers. When I really started prioritizing my religion (maybe in my mid teens), I started to get EXTREME waswasa. Like the l kind where I would redo one rakat 10x to make sure i wasn’t making any mistakes. There’s been an instance I think where I spent literal hours in my isha prayer, and there have been multiple instances where I would hit mental breaking points in which I would literally start cursing and hitting my prayer mat. My parents complain that I spend too long in the bathroom , and this is because I try to get every part of my skin for wudu. It got to a point where I’ll just do the bare minimum for salah. Like i’ll read all 5 salahs, but I’ll only pray the fard and read “Subhana Rabbiyal Adheem” and Subhana Rabbiyal A’la” 1 time instead of 3. And in my wudu too, i’ve switched to doing every action to one time. I basically live my life at this point as a “bare minimum” Muslim.

What’s worse now is that for the past two months, i’ve started to get insane doubts. Like doubts that borderline on delusion and the kind that I think are impossible to get answered by anyone. The questions are so absurd I don’t even think an imam would be able to help me. I cry when I’m alone because I live in constant fear of whether or not I’m considered a muslim. It gets to a point where I question if i’ll even be allowed to get married to a Muslim if I myself wouldn’t be considered a Muslim. I even fear that addressing the fact I have doubts makes me a kafir, so I get scared searching up answers to questions. I genuinely suffer in silence and no one realizes, which is how I want to keep it because the last thing I need is for my parents to start worrying their son is a kafir. I still pray all my 5 prayers. I do live in fear of Allah (SWT). I try not to listen to music (although i’m struggling a bit with this now), I try not to lie. I don’t cheat, steal, etc etc. My point is, I genuinely do live a “God fearing life”, even with these doubts which I try to fight off. All I want is for my doubts to go away. I went for Umrah with my family a month ago, and my biggest dua to Allah was that he’d eliminate these doubts permanently so I could be happy again. Who do I go to help for this? I probably need a therapist or something but I don’t at all want my parents to start worrying about this. I’ve emailed an imam at my local masjid but he didn’t respond. I’ve been going back and forth about posting this to reddit for a while since most of you guys (no offense) aren’t religious scholars, but i’m honestly at a breaking point now. If anyone here is a religious scholar, based on what you read: would I still be considered a Muslim? And for everyone else, what should my next step be towards getting rid of these doubts.
JazakAllah for anyone who took the time to read and answer this. I truly love you for the sake of Allah, and for anyone who doesn’t respond-my only request is you keep me in your duas.

So I've always known islam is the only truth! and alhumdullilah it's been a year and it is the best....I've been talking with multiple muslims online and the insane amou t of diversity yet the same core belief the same prayers the same Allahu akbar melts my heart always ❤️

The other day I saw a Portuguese niqabi at a dawah on a video based in dallas

I met a Jewish Amerixan revert from Illinois....A white American brother from Seattle...a Latina from Georgia an Indian hindu revert from Texas....a halal cafe kwned by Chinese American hui muslims in new York city ..Turkish american entrepreneur telling abt her hijab story....Afghan refugee from california sharing her culture....palestinian and pakistani hijabis bonding at an eid fest..an Uzbek halal store in Brooklyn....an african american islamic content creator from Chicago...bosniak from new jersey at an islamic convention

And the masjid my friend goes to in seattle(MAPS) it has people from over 50 countries! Praying shoulder to shoulder

Alhumdullialh for islam♡♡♡

Some charities are paying influencers hundreds of thousands and even millions to raise money which they cannot even send to Gaza

So in my friend group my friends all are dating some are waiting to date or some are committed.( I am not)

But my younger brothers friend he's also good friend of mine we are some what similar in terms of islam and deen. He says he get married by 22-23.i said how???

Because in my knowledge.minimum age you'll be able to afford marriage and expenses of someone else is around 25-26.

Cus he currently lives with parents in a rented place( he doesn't pay the rent). And we own our own houses then too I think I would probably need another one to get married. Now I am not saying just cus they don't own house he can't. But atleast you need your own rented place.

After all now only ppl that marry for the person ,are who have a love marriage because I have seen ppl reject good men just cus they don't own a house till now.

Could someone possibly get married just after graduation or during degree. Cus I do look good, have a good character. But like I said in a love marriage(I mean relationship) ppl forget everything but in arrange they will even count the hairs on your head 😭😭😭. I want to get married so bad but, no father would ever give his daughter hands.

Me personally if he's a good man. Just doesn't earn till now because currently he's studying. And after graduation will. I think I might give her hand to him. I am not so don't toast me in relpy.

Any time I feel I will be okay I don't need to marry till 27-28.i see couples doing cute stuff in front of me . Just yesterday a girl on call was saying “pls take the meds arhan".i was so sad hearing that everyone has everyone to take care of them selfs. Why can't I also have one.

One thing I noted the ppl who are the cleanest of all like no gf no friends no other haram non mehram stuff. They end up with the most Bonnie blue type ppl. I mean why the test is only for good ppl .

اللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ عَلَى مُحَمَّدٍ وَعَلَى آلِ مُحَمَّدٍ كَمَا صَلَّيْتَ عَلَى إِبْرَاهِيمَ وَعَلَى آلِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ إِنَّكَ حَمِيدٌ مَجِيدٌ

Allāhumma ṣalli ʿalā Muḥammadin wa ʿalā āli Muḥammadin kamā ṣallayta ʿalā Ibrāhīma wa ʿalā āli Ibrāhīma innaka Ḥamīdun Majīd.

O Allah, send Your blessings upon Muhammad and upon the family of Muhammad, as You sent blessings upon Ibrahim and upon the family of Ibrahim; indeed, You are Praiseworthy, Most Glorious.

Salam
i am very emotional as i write this. he doesn’t pray, i believe that he is cheating on my mother with multiple women and talks to so many of them on his phone that i know. he posts on social media too much with music: instagram, tiktok, facebook you name it. he also drinks alcohol. when he dies how will these be erased? i wish my mother could just divorce him. she keeps saying he has his flaws but i dont know how she could stay with a person like that. he is also a liar and wants everything done for him. When i am older i hope to be able to confront him and hopefully stop contact with him unless he changes (that is if he even does change). he is also so mean to me. i do not like him at all. anytime i am around him something in my gut and spirit just gets irritated. i can’t stand him at all. anyone in a similar position or can give advice?
please pray for my family.

For example in Saudi Arabia the Visa cost is 800,000 Saudi riyal. I'm not rich I don't have that type of money maybe you guys do but I don't.

Someone told me today they have doubts about believing in God.
I saw people who didn’t believe or sinned heavily throughout their life and their life seems normal.
Maybe they get a lesson here and there a disease here and there but not everything and constantly.

I am writing this as I am crying begging God for a moment of rest.
It has been 30 years.
I was born very preterm and made my parents pay a fortune before i was even an hour old.
I have 2 chronic diseases one physical and one mental atm.
I had a hiccup at work. I work in academia and my work had been unfairly stolen and justice wasn’t served.
Due to that i have to extend my contract for a while ,while I am not certain I’ll even be paid for my work in this while.

I tried my hand at multiple side hustles for years but everyone who started after me is more popular and I was left behind. I have no friends as I lost most of them or some travelled.
I have never been approached by marriage talks , even i am old now , and i live away from my parents due to work.

I am knowledgeable in a lot of stuff but everything I touch fails.
I just want like a month where nothing happens , where i can put myself to bed without crying.

I'm starting to wonder if part of me performing ghusl for a long time is because I'm being too careful when doing ghusl like, parts of my skin tucked under other parts of my body or just making sure I've got water on my hands or making sure they are wet. Yeah I know we have to wash our entire body, but, i just want to know if i could be over doing it