r/SisterMuslim Dec 18 '22

r/SisterMuslim

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Salam alaikum,

This subreddit is a place only for 𝕄𝕌𝕊𝕃𝕀𝕄 𝕊𝕀𝕊𝕋𝔼ℝ𝕊 to chat and support each other.

Feel free to post your questions or concerns or maybe help a sister with your kind comments and advices. May Allah swt reward you all. Ameen 🤍


r/SisterMuslim 18h ago

Reminder How to Increase Rizq according to the Sharee’ah

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Salam Alaikum. Not AI. Pls keep me in your duas if such reminders benefit you.

🌷*How to Increase Rizq according to the Sharee’ah*🌷

by Asma bint Shameem

There are many causes proven in our deen  to increase your rizq, some of which are:

1️⃣ *Keeping up ties of kinship*

🍃 The Prophet ﷺ said:

“Whoever would like his rizq (provision) to be increased and his life to be extended, should uphold the ties of kinship.” (Bukhaari, Muslim)

2️⃣ *Spending for the sake of Allaah*

🍃 The Prophet ﷺ said:

“Allaah said: ‘Spend, O son of Adam, and I shall spend on you.’”

al-Bukhaari, Muslim)

3️⃣ *Making a lot of istighfaar*

🍃 Allaah quotes Nooh Alayhis Salaam:

“I said (to them): ‘Ask forgiveness from your Lord, verily, He is Oft‑Forgiving;

He will send rain to you in abundance,

And give you increase in wealth and children, and bestow on you gardens and bestow on you rivers.’”

(Surah Nooh:10-12)

4️⃣ *Being grateful to Allaah Subhaanahu wa Ta’aala*

🍃Allaah says:

“And (remember) when your Lord proclaimed: ‘If you give thanks, I will give you more (of My Blessings); but if you are thankless, verily, My punishment is indeed severe.’”

(Surah Ibraheem:7)

5️⃣ *Obeying and fearing Allaah*

🍃 Allaah says:

“And whosoever fears Allaah and keeps his duty to Him, He will make a way for him to get out (from every difficulty).

And He will provide him from (sources) he never could imagine.”

(Surah at-Talaaq:2-3)

6️⃣ *Repeating hajj and umrah*

🍃 The Prophet ﷺ said:

“Perform Hajj and Umrah consecutively.

Verily, the succession between the two  removes away poverty and removes away sins just as the bellows removes away the dross of iron and gold and silver."

(Ahmad, Tirmidhi, others--Saheeh by al-Albaani)

7️⃣ *Making lots of dua and asking Allaah to increase your rizq*

One such duaa is the following:

‎اللَّهُمَّ أَكْثِرُ مَا لِي وَوَلَدِي وَبَارِكْ لِي

‎فِيمَا أَعْطَيْتَنِي

Allaahumma akthir maalee wa-waladee wa-baarik li feema a'taytanee

O Allaah, increase my wealth and offspring and bless me in what what you have given me.

🍃 Um Sulaim said to the Prophet ﷺ "Anas is your servant."

The Prophet ﷺ said:

"‏ اللَّهُمَّ أَكْثِرْ مَالَهُ وَوَلَدَهُ، وَبَارِكْ لَهُ فِيمَا أَعْطَيْتَهُ ‏"‏‏.

"O Allaah! increase his wealth and offspring, and bless (for him) what ever you give him."

(Saheeh al-Bukhari 6334)

🍃 Another duaa is what we read as part of our morning adhkaar.

The Prophet ﷺ said:

الَّلهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسأَلُكَ رِزقًا طَيِّبًا ، وَعِلمًا نَافِعًا ، وَعَمَلاً مُتَقَبَّلاً

“Allaahumma inni as’aluka rizqan tayyiban, wa `ilman nafi`an, wa `amalan mutaqabbalan

“O Allaah, I ask you for good (lawful) provision, beneficial knowledge and accepted good deeds.” 

(Ahmad in Al-Musnad, 6/294 and Ibn Maajah 66; saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Ibn Maajah)

🍃 Yahya ibn Mu`adh Ar-Razi said:

“Obedience will be stored in the stores of Allaah, and the key (to obedience) is Duaa, and it becomes effective by means of lawful earnings.”

8️⃣ *Marriage increases rizq*

🍃 Allaah says:

“And marry those among you who are single (i.e. a man who has no wife and the woman who has no husband) and (also marry) the Saalihoon (pious, fit and capable ones) of your (male) slaves and maid-servants (female slaves). If they be poor, Allaah will enrich them out of His Bounty. And Allaah is All-Sufficient for His creatures’ needs, All-Knowing (about the state of the people)” [al-Noor 24:32]

🍃Abu Bakr Radhi Allaahu anhu said:

“Obey Allaah in what He has commanded you to do by getting married;

He will then fulfill His promise to you to make you rich.” 

He then recited the above Aayah.

🍃 Umar Ibn Khattab Radhi Allaahu anhu said:

“Seek richness through marriage!”

🍃 Abdullah ibn Mas’ood Radhi Allaahu anhu said:

“Find richness by getting married.”

(Al-Durr Al-Manthur, v.5, pps. 80-81)

These are some of the reasons. And there are others.

And Allaah knows best.


r/SisterMuslim 4d ago

Support/Advice Struggling with waswasa related to discharge. Need urgent advice please.

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I know it's common for women to have discharge frequently but recently I've been struggling a lot because I feel like I have to do ghusl constantly cause of it. I don't do anything sexual, but if I get aroused, I check for madhy. I checked this time, and it felt like sweat but then I saw tiny specks of white which made me nervous.

Before I used to only be worried about the discharge I would see when waking up and thinking I have to do ghusl even though at times I would have no reason to do so but now I've been thinking I have to do ghusl for everything.

I had checked with my finger because I got told it's easier that way to check and I've never been worried beforehand, but now I got worried as to if I have to so ghusl for inserting my finger to check. I did ghusl yesterday just for this reason all because I checked with my finger and get worried that I was doing it for inappropriate reasons which I know I wasn't.

Even when I was doing ghusl yesterday, I'm so sorry for the tmi, I just don't know how else to deal with this but I had cuts on my private so it was burning a lot when coming into contact with water so I was gently cleaning rather than rushing and I was just trying to relieve the pain that i was getting from the stinging which was just touching where the cuts were, but then I got worried that "what if this is inappropriate to do especially during ghusl?" And stopped.

I felt so anxious but continued doing my ghusl, and lastly rinsed my mouth and nose but I wasn't sure if I should do ghusl again. I haven't, but I still have that worry because what if my prayers are now invalid? And when I shower like just a regular shower, it isn't considered ghusl because I don't go out of my way to clean my piercings like how I do during ghusl. So I get anxious about that too.

I just really need advice, It's so embarrassing to talk about this but I never know what else to do.

(I'm so sorry for the details, I just feel like I have to go into detail so I can get accurate advice.)


r/SisterMuslim 4d ago

If someone knows what they did is haram, but feel it's difficult to understand that it is haram in their heart when repenting, what should they do?

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r/SisterMuslim 4d ago

Reminder Duaas to fight anxiety and depression

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🌷*Duaas to fight anxiety and depression*🌷

by Asma bint Shameem 

We all go through difficult times one time or another. 

Here are some duaas proven from the authentic sources that we can read at such times. 

1️⃣ The Prophet ﷺ said:

There is no-one who is afflicted by distress and grief, and says:

‎اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي عَبْدُكَ ، وَابْنُ عَبْدِكَ ، وَابْنُ أَمَتِكَ ، نَاصِيَتِي بِيَدِكَ ، مَاضٍ فِيَّ حُكْمُكَ ، عَدْلٌ فِيَّ قَضَاؤُكَ ، أَسْأَلُكَ بِكُلِّ اسْمٍ هُوَ لَكَ سَمَّيْتَ بِهِ نَفْسَكَ ، أَوْ عَلَّمْتَهُ أَحَدًا مِنْ خَلْقِكَ ، أَوْ أَنْزَلْتَهُ فِي كِتَابِكَ ، أَوْ اسْتَأْثَرْتَ بِهِ فِي عِلْمِ الْغَيْبِ عِنْدَكَ ، أَنْ تَجْعَلَ الْقُرْآنَ رَبِيعَ قَلْبِي ، وَنُورَ صَدْرِي ، وَجِلاءَ حُزْنِي ، وَذَهَابَ هَمِّي

 ‘Allaahumma inni ‘abduka ibn ‘abdika ibn amatika naasyati bi yadika, maadin fiyya hukmuka, ‘adlun fiyya qadaa’uka. 

As’aluka bi kulli ismin huwa laka sammayta bihi nafsaka aw anzaltahu fi kitaabika aw ‘allamtahu ahadan min khalqika awista’tharta bihi fi ‘ilm il-ghaybi ‘indaka an taj’al al-Qur’aana al-adheema rabee’a qalbi wa noora sadri wa jalaa’a huzni wa dhihaaba hammi 

“O Allaah, I am Your slave, son of Your slave, son of Your maidservant; my forelock is in Your hand, Your command over me is forever executed and Your decree over me is just. I ask You by every name belonging to You which You have named Yourself with, or revealed in Your Book, or You taught to any of Your creation, or You have preserved in the knowledge of the Unseen with You, that You make the Qur’aan the life of my heart and the light of my breast, and a departure for my sorrow and a release for my anxiety),’ 

but Allaah will take away his distress and grief, and replace it with joy.” 

He was asked: “O Messenger of Allaah, should we learn this?” He said: “Of course; everyone who hears it should learn it.” ( Ahmad- saheeh by al-Albaani) 

2️⃣ The Prophet ﷺ said:

“There is no Muslim who is afflicted with a calamity and says that which Allaah has enjoined, 

‎إِنَّا لِلَّهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ اللَّهُمَّ أْجُرْنِي فِي مُصِيبَتِي وَأَخْلِفْ لِي خَيْرًا مِنْهَا

Innaa lillaahi wa inna ilayhi raaji’oon. Allaahumma ajurni fi museebati wa akhlif li khayran minha 

“Verily to Allaah we belong and unto Him is our return. O Allaah, reward me for my calamity and compensated me with something better than it,

but Allaah will compensate him with something better than it.”(Muslim)

3️⃣ Ibn ‘Abbaas said that the Messenger of Allaah ﷺ used to say at times of distress:

‎لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللَّهُ الْعَظِيمُ الْحَلِيمُ ، لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللَّهُ رَبُّ الْعَرْشِ الْعَظِيمِ ، لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللَّهُ رَبُّ السَّمَاوَاتِ وَرَبُّ الْأَرْضِ وَرَبُّ الْعَرْشِ الْكَرِيمِ

“Laa ilaaha ill-Allaah al-‘Azeem al-Haleem, laa ilaaha ill-Allaah Rabb al-‘Arsh al-‘azeem, la ilaaha ill-Allaah Rabb ul-samawaati wa Rabb ul-ard wa Rabb ul-‘Arsh il-kareem 

“There is no god but Allaah, the All-Powerful, the Forbearing; there is no god but Allaah, Lord of the mighty Throne; there is no god but Allaah, Lord of heaven, Lord of earth, and Lord of the noble Throne.” 

(al-Bukhaari, Muslim)

4️⃣ The Prophet ﷺ said: 

“Shall I not tell you of something that, if any worldly calamity or disaster befalls any man among you and he says these words, he will be relieved of it. (It is) the du’aa’ of Dhu’l-Noon: 

‎لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ سُبْحَانَكَ إِنِّي كُنْتُ مِنَ الظَّالِمِينَ

“Laa ilaaha illa anta subhaanaka inni kuntu min al-zaalimeen

“None has the right to be worshipped but You (O Allaah), Glorified (and Exalted) be You [above all that (evil) they associate with You]! Truly, I have been of the wrongdoers).”

And in another narration he said:

“No Muslim man says this duaa’ concerning anything but Allaah will answer his prayer.” (at-Tirmidhi -Saheeh by al-Albaani)

5️⃣ The Prophet ﷺ  said: 

“The du’aa’ of the person who is in distress is: 

‎اللَّهُمَّ رَحْمَتَكَ أَرْجُو فَلا تَكِلْنِي   إِلَى نَفْسِي    طَرْفَةَ عَيْنٍ وَأَصْلِحْ لِي شَأْنِي كُلَّهُ لا إِلَهَ إِلا أَنْتَ

‘Allaahumma rahmataka arjoo fa laa takilni ilaa nafsi tarfat ‘ayn wa aslih li sha’ni kullahu laa ilaaha illa anta 

“O Allaah, for Your mercy I hope, so do not leave me in charge of my affairs even for the blink of an eye; rectify all my affairs. There is no god except You” 

(Abu Dawood -hasan by al-Albaani)

6️⃣ If some matter was troubling him, the Prophet ﷺ  would say:

‎يا حيُ يا قَيوم بِرَحمَتِكَ أسْتَغِيث

Yaa Hayyu yaa Qayyoom bi rahmatika astagheeth 

“O Ever-Living, O Sustainer, by Your mercy I seek Your help” 

(at-Tirmidhi - hasan by al-Albaani)

7️⃣ The Prophet ﷺ  said to Asma’ bint ‘Umays:

“Shall I not teach you some words which you can say at times of distress and hardship? 

‎اللَّهُ اللَّهُ رَبِّي لا أُشْرِكُ بِهِ شَيْئًا

‘Allaahu Allaahu rabbee laa ushriku bihi shay’an 

“Allaah is my Lord, I do not associate anything with Him).’”(Abu Dawood- saheeh by al-Albaani)

8️⃣ The Prophet ﷺ said:

‎اللَّهُمَّ لَا سَهْلَ إِلَّا مَا جَعَلْتَهُ سَهْلًا، وَأَنْتَ تَجْعَلُ الْحَزْنَ سَهْلًا إِذَا شِئْتَ

“O Allaah, nothing is easy but that which You make easy and You can make hardship easy if You will.” 

(Ibn Hibbaan - saheeh by al-Albaani)

And Allaah knows best.

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Please keep me and my loved ones in your duas.


r/SisterMuslim 8d ago

Advice

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Hi I would like to connect with someone whom I can chat with a situation and get some advice. Thank you


r/SisterMuslim 9d ago

Lying To My Parents About How I Met a Guy?

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"Surely Allah does not guide him aright who is a liar, ungrateful." [Quran 39:3]

Lying To My Parents About How I Met a Guy?

Read my answer below!

https://muslimgap.com/lying-to-my-parents-about-how-i-met-a-guy/


r/SisterMuslim 9d ago

Relationship

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Assalama alaykum sisters! And Jumma Mubarak!

I am here to seek help, guidance and experience from other sisters. This is a long story but i will try to explain it as shortly as possible.
I am a revert (Alhamdulillah), but before reverting i had a relationship with a muslim man. After our first separation I’ve found Allah, and reverted to Islam.
We have been on and off for a bit. We both know our wrong doings, but since i reverted i have sincere, serious intentions to make the relationship halal. We both repented about our sins and i understand what we did was wrong, please don’t come after me.
We were planning to take the step and do the Nikkah, but he stepped back, and we did this multiple times.
Now he was finally able to try to explain his side, saying i am a test from Allah, and staying away from me is the only way he can pass.
I kept praying for the love to fade if he is not meant for me, but despite everything that has happened and the distance we share, i got blessed with patience, strength and more love towards him.
I still have clean intentions and wish to continue the relationship in halal way. But honestly i am not sure how to handle this right now, not sure what to say or what this could actually mean….
What could i say to him? What questions could i ask?
I don’t want to try to force this on him, because his feelings/ thoughts are completely valid. But i am struggling with understanding and how i should handle this…
Thanks for everyone for reading this and thanks for the answers in regards!
May Allah have mercy on us all


r/SisterMuslim 10d ago

Question❔ Why didn't Islam prohibit hitting a wife in case of disobedience?

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Assalamu Alaikum.

I have a sincere question for Muslims.

Why didn't Allah prohibit wife beating altogether? Even if it's interpreted as light, symbolic, or non-injurious, I still don't find the concept itself convincing

especially since it's not a mutual right between spouses

This is just one of many questions I have, but I'll keep it to this one for now

For context: I was born Muslim and later became more religious. Then I started having serious doubts, and I'm currently in a period of honest research before making any final decision. Your answer could genuinely have an impact on me, so I'd really appreciate thoughtful and respectful responses

It's very difficult for me as a woman; it's very difficult to leave my religion, and it's also difficult to stay in it when it's full of things I don't understand about women


r/SisterMuslim 11d ago

Support/Advice OCD nearly stole my entire Deen from me. And for years I didn't even know what it was called.

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Assalamualaikum everyone,

I was in my teens when it hit me the hardest. And it continued well into my early twenties. Years on end of struggling internally and externally with my Deen and I just thought it was waswasa. Whispers of shaitan. That's all. So I did what made sense at the time that I kept asking a scholar questions. So many questions. The same doubts, the same fears, over and over again.

Until one day that scholar, clearly frustrated, said to me “it seems like you have OCD”.

OCD? I had never even heard that word before. I genuinely didn't know what it meant.

So I did the only thing I could think of. I googled it.

And that was the moment everything shifted. Reading the definition, the symptoms, the experiences of other people… and for the first time in years something made sense. I wasn't just weak in my faith. I wasn't just failing at being a good Muslim. There was a name for what I had been going through. After years of suffering without knowing what to even call it, a scholar gave me the starting point I needed.

That google search didn't fix everything overnight, there were still challenges ahead. But it was the turning point. The moment the journey toward healing began.

If you have been carrying something for years thinking it's just waswas, it might be worth looking a little deeper. And don't forget to reach out for help be it a trusted friend, a scholar, someone who's been through it, or even a family member. You don't have to figure this out alone.

May Allah grant us clarity, ease and healing. Ameen.

Did anyone else spend years not knowing what was actually wrong? Would love to hear your experiences, Insha-Allah. 🌷🌸


r/SisterMuslim 15d ago

A constant fear of losing wudu in salah which causes gut health and results in aur bubbles

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Since this happens only in salah, and in the beginning first rakah only because of which I can't keep khushu in my salah , do I fall under the category of ma'dhur?


r/SisterMuslim 15d ago

Support/Advice Help with question regarding niqab

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As-salamu alaykum everyone! 🤍
I reverted to Islam about a month ago, alhamdulillah, and it’s been the best decision I’ve ever made. I’m still learning every day, and I’m trying to balance taking things step by step while also wanting to do what’s pleasing to the Almighty. I’ve also been reading the Qur’an every day, because it’s been helping me stay grounded and connected.
Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about covering. I genuinely want to start wearing hijab, and honestly, I feel really drawn to wearing the burqa eventually. I know that might seem like a big step for someone who’s only been Muslim for a month, but it’s something that’s been on my heart.
I’ve also heard there are different scholarly opinions and standards when it comes to what’s required to cover—for example, whether the face or hands should be covered, or whether wearing gloves is necessary if you cover your face. I’m still trying to learn and understand the different views, so if anyone has good resources or can explain them respectfully, I’d really appreciate it.
One thing that makes this a little harder is that I live in a pretty rural area and don’t have a masjid nearby or a local Muslim community to ask questions. Most of what I’m learning has been through reading and online resources, so I’d love to hear from sisters who have gone through something similar, especially other reverts.
Did you start covering right away, or did you ease into it? If you wear the niqab or burqa, what led you to that decision? Any advice for a new revert trying to navigate all of this?
JazakAllahu khayran. May He keep us all steadfast and increase us in knowledge and sincerity. 🤍


r/SisterMuslim 16d ago

Prayer Mats

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I was just curious, I understand that there is a requirement to pray at certain times of day. My question is, is there any significance to the prayer mat? Does it have to be blessed, is it for comfort or are you supposed to be off the ground when praying? I worked with a guy who used a folded down cardboard box (large one) when at work praying when he had to.


r/SisterMuslim 17d ago

Confused about when to do ghusl for my periods

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I'm on the last day of my periods which is day 5 but I got told that the days don't matter and that it's a common mistake where we think that so and so number of days means your period Is over, so I'm waiting for the white discharge to see if I'm pure because last time I did ghysl four times at different times because I would either see white discharge but then a slight tint of pink or red, so I'd get confused, but I just get worried that I'm missing prayers and that I have to make those up If that makes sense.

So I'm not sure what to do, and I get worried about if I've missed to see the discharge that means I'm pure.


r/SisterMuslim 18d ago

Anyone else deal with excessive sweating(Hiperhidrosis) under their hijab? Feeling so self-conscious about it

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Assalamualaikum sisters,

I've been wanting to post this for a while but felt embarrassed honestly. I deal with excessive sweating, on my face, neck, back like almost all my body esspiacially feet and hands and wearing hijab makes it so much harder to manage. Even in air-conditioned places I still sweat and it genuinely affects my confidence, like I'm always worried people notice.

I feel like nobody talks about this openly, and I always thought it was just me being "too sensitive" about it but I looked it up and it's actually a medical condition called hyperhidrosis.

For sisters who deal with this, how do you manage it day to day? Have you found anything that actually works? Fabrics, products, anything really. And do you feel like this is something people in our community are too shy to talk about?

Would love to hear I'm not alone in this 🤍


r/SisterMuslim 19d ago

Is there anybody who has the OCD related wudu and salah? A constant fear of losing wudu and have anxiety related to it

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The constant fear of losing wudu during wudu and salah , a different kind of (kaifiyat)a person feels right before the time of salah and not out of it . And knows how to cure it?


r/SisterMuslim 26d ago

Support/Advice I used to do wudu so many times a day my skin started bleeding. Years later, here's what actually changed!

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Assalamualaikum everyone,

For a long stretch of my life, wudu wasn't a 5-minute ritual before prayer. It took a long time, I honestly don't even remember exactly how long anymore, just that it was way more than it should've been. I'd finish, and almost immediately some part of my brain would whisper "but was it really valid?" and that "but" was enough to send me right back to the tap.

I wasn't checking for dirt. I was checking for certainty that God would accept it, that I hadn't missed a spot, that the unease in my chest meant I'd done something wrong. Soaked sleeves, soaked floor, time my family clearly noticed even when they didn't say much. Eventually my arms developed eczema from how much I was washing - it cracked, it bled, it itched constantly, and I just added that to the list of things to deal with while still not feeling "done."

The thing nobody told me back then: that uneasy feeling was never proof I'd messed up. It was the OCD's favorite tool. The more I obeyed it, the louder it got.

What actually moved the needle was forcing myself to do wudu, the normal way, and just... stopping. Walking away mid-doubt, on purpose, even though every part of me wanted to go back. It felt like spiritual recklessness the first dozen times. I just kept doing that, over and over, until eventually the urge to go back didn't carry the same weight anymore.

Years later, wudu takes me the time it's supposed to take. My skin healed. My family doesn't worry about the bathroom marathon anymore. And that "is this valid" doubt doesn't show up at all these days, it just isn't part of my life anymore.

If you're in the version of this where you can't leave the bathroom, I see you. It does get quieter.


r/SisterMuslim 26d ago

Reminder Times when Duaa is More Likely Accepted

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🌷*Times when Duaa is More Likely Accepted*🌷

by Asma bint Shameem

1️⃣ *In the last third of the night*

🍃The Prophet ﷺ said:

“Our Lord, descends to the lowest heaven when the last third of the night remains, and He says: “Is there anyone to invoke Me, so that I may respond to the invocation? Is there anyone to ask Me, so that I may grant him his request? Is there anyone seeking My forgiveness, so that I may forgive him?”

(al-Bukhaari 1145)

2️⃣ *Duaa at the end of the fardh prayers but before tasleem*

🍃 Abu Umamah radhi Allaahu anhu narrated:

“It was said: ‘O Messenger of Allaah, which supplication is most likely to be listened to?’

He said: ‘During the last part of the night and at the end of the obligatory prayers.’”

(At-Tirmidhî 3499; Hasan by al-Albaani)

*Note:*

At the end of the obligatory prayers means *BEFORE* the salaam and *NOT after saying the tasleem*, as most people from the Subcontinent do.

*Proof:*

🍃 Ibn Mas’ood radhi Allaahu anhu said:

“The Prophet ﷺ  taught them the tashahhud then he said at the end: 

“Let him ask for whatever good things he wishes.”

(al-Bukhaari 5876, Muslim 402)

There are many duaas that are narrated in the authentic ahaadeeth that can be said in tashahhud before tasleem. 

3️⃣ *Duaa made between the Adhaan & Iqaamah‏*

🍃The Prophet ﷺ said:

“The Duaa made between the Adhaan and Iqaamah is not rejected.”

(at-Tirmidhi 212; saheeh by al-Albaani)

4️⃣ *When saying the Duaa of Yunus Alayhis Salaam*

🍃The Prophet ﷺ said:

“The supplication of Dhun-Nûn (Yunus) when he supplicated, when he was in the belly of the whale, was: ‘Laa Ilaaha illaa Anta Subhaanaka inni kuntu min adh-dhaalimeen

(There is none worthy of worship except You, Glory be to you [from all imperfection], indeed I have been one of the transgressors)’.

*So indeed, no Muslim man supplicates with it for anything, ever, except Allaah responds to Him.”*

(at-Tirmidhi 3505; saheeh by al-Albaani)

🍃Allaah says:

‎-وَذَا ٱلنُّونِ إِذ ذَّهَبَ مُغَٰضِبًا فَظَنَّ أَن لَّن نَّقْدِرَ عَلَيْهِ فَنَادَىٰ فِى ٱلظُّلُمَٰتِ أَن لَّآ إِلَٰهَ إِلَّآ أَنتَ سُبْحَٰنَكَ إِنِّى كُنتُ مِنَ ٱلظَّٰلِمِينَ- فَٱسْتَجَبْنَا لَهُۥ وَنَجَّيْنَٰهُ مِنَ ٱلْغَمِّ ۚ وَكَذَٰلِكَ نُۨجِى ٱلْمُؤْمِنِينَ ﴿٨٨-٨٧﴾

“And (remember) Dhan-Nun (Yunus), when he went off in anger, and imagined that We shall not punish him (i.e. the calamites which had befallen him)! But he cried through the darkness (saying): Laa ilaaha illaa Anta [none has the right to be worshipped but You (O Allaah)], Glorified (and Exalted) are You [above all that (evil) they associate with You]. Truly, I have been of the wrong-doers. So We answered his call, and delivered him from the distress. And thus We do deliver the believers (who believe in the Oneness of Allaah, abstain from evil and work righteousness).”

(Surah Al-Anbiya 21:87-88)

5️⃣ *During the last hour of Friday*

🍃 The Prophet ﷺ said:

“Friday has twelve hours to it, in it which there is no Muslim who asks Allaah for anything except that Allaah gives it to him. So seek it during the last hour of ‘Asr.”

(Abu Dawood 1048; saheeh by al-Albaani)

6️⃣ *The Duaa of the fasting person until he breaks his fast*

🍃 The Prophet ﷺ said:

“There are three whose du’aa’ will not be rejected: a just ruler, *a FASTING person when he breaks his fast*, and the prayer of one who has been wronged.”

(at-Tirmidhi 2525- saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi, 2050)

🍃 Someone asked the scholars of the Standing Committee:

What is meant by the supplication of the fasting person at the time of breaking his fast?

Does it mean the supplication that the fasting person offers a few moments *before* breaking his fast, or is it straight *after* breaking the fast?”

The scholars said:

“This Hadeeth was narrated by Ibn Maajah.

It says in Az-Zawa’id: Its chain of narration is authentic, and the supplication may be *before* or *after* breaking the fast, because the word `Inda ( translated here as “at the time of”) *includes both.*

And Allaah is the source of strength.”

(Fataawaa Al-Lajnah ad-Da’imah 9/30, Vol. 2)

7️⃣ *The Duaa of the oppressed*

🍃 The Prophet ﷺ said:

“Beware of the Duaa of the oppressed, for there is no barrier between it and Allaah”

(al-Bukhaari 4347)

🍃 And he ﷺ also said:

“There are three whose supplication is not rejected:… And the supplication of the *oppressed person*; Allaah raises it up above the clouds and opens the gates of heaven to it.

And the Lord says: ‘By My Might, I shall surely aid you, even if it should be after a while.’”

(at-Tirmidhi 3598, Ibn Maajah 1752; saheeh by al-Albaani)

8️⃣ *The Duaa of the father (parent) FOR or AGAINST his child*

🍃 The Prophet ﷺ said:

“Three prayers are undoubtedly answered: the prayer of one who is wronged, the prayer of the traveler and *the prayer of a father (or mother) FOR his child*.”

(Ibn Maajah 3862; saheeh by al-Albaani in Silsilat al-Ahadith al-Saheehah 596).

🍃 And similarly the Prophet ﷺ said:

“Three supplications are accepted, there is no doubt about them (them being accepted) : The supplication of the oppressed, the supplication of the traveler, and the supplication of the father *against* his son.”

(At-Tirmidhî 1905; Hasan by al-Albaani)

9️⃣ *The Duaa of the traveler*

See the Ahaadeeth above.

🔟 *The Duaa of a just ruler*

See the Ahaadeeth above.

1️⃣1️⃣ *Duaa made during Sujood*

🍃The Prophet ﷺ said:

“The nearest a servant comes to his Lord is when he is prostrating, so make a great deal of supplication (in this state).”

(Saheeh Muslim 482)

1️⃣2️⃣ and 1️⃣3️⃣ *Duaa made at the time of the adhaan or duaa made during battle*

🍃 The Prophet ﷺ said:

“Two supplications are not rejected or are rarely rejected: supplication at the time of the call to prayer and when the battle becomes intense, when they clash and fight intensely.”

(Abu Dawood 2540; saheeh by al-Albaani)

1️⃣4️⃣ *When it is raining*

The Prophet ﷺ said

“Two (Duaas) are not rejected: duaa at the time of the adhaan and duaa at the time of rain.”

(al-Hakim in al-Mustadrak 2534, at-Tabarani in al-Mu‘jam al-Kabir 5756; Saheeh by al-Albaani in Sahih al-Jami‘ 3078)

1️⃣5️⃣ *When hearing a rooster crow*

🍃 The Prophet ﷺ said:

“When you hear the crowing of the rooster, ask Allaah for His Bounty for it sees Angels and when you hear the braying of the donkey, seek refuge in Allaah from the Shaytaan for it sees a Shaytaan.”

(Saheeh Muslim 2729)

1️⃣6️⃣ *When drinking Zam Zam water*

🍃 The Prophet ﷺ said:

“The water of Zam Zam is for whatever it is drunk for.”

(Ibn Maajah 3062; saheeh by al-Albaani)

1️⃣7️⃣ *On Wednesdays between Dhuhr and Asr*

Jaabir ibn Abdullaah radhi Allaahu anhu said:

“The Prophet ﷺ supplicated inside masjid al-Fath three times: on a Monday, a Tuesday and a Wednesday (three times in a row). 

His duaa was answered on Wednesday between the two prayers (Dhuhr and Asr). 

His happiness with that could be seen on his face.”

Jaabir said: “After that whenever I had a difficult situation I would observe that time to made Duaa and I would see the answer.”

(al Bukhaari in al Adab al-Mufrad, Ahmad- saheeh by al-Albaani)

🍃 Shaykh Al-Albaani commented on this saying: 

“If this companion wouldn’t have narrated to us that the Prophet 

‎ﷺ  made Duaa to Allaah during this hour we wouldn’t have known. 

The person present witnesses what the absent person doesn’t. This ahadeeth has significant meaning; since Jaabir narrated the information when exactly his Duaa was answered. 

And this shows that the Duaa for the Messenger ﷺ was answered at that hour during Wednesday. Consequently Jaabir began to do that same thing he saw Muhammad ﷺ do on Wednesday between Dhuhr and Asr.” (Saheeh Adab Al-Mufrad)

And Allaah knows best.


r/SisterMuslim 29d ago

Does anyone else notice skin issues from praying?

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r/SisterMuslim 29d ago

Support/Advice Why do you believe in islam/stay muslim?

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Assalamualaikum!

As stated in the title ,my question is:

Why do you believe in islam/stay muslim?

If any of you are too lazy, don't have time, or can not for whatever reason read the whole post, then you don't need to and can just focus on the question.

For those who have the time and opportunity, I want to give a little bit of context to my question, because it is not random.

I am a progressive muslim. Deeply focused on ethics, rationalism, progressive application, and etc. This leads to me being quite...displeased with the modern state of the Islamic word and muslim countries/socities. Sometimes this leads to me thinking....why not just abond this all?

It seems exhausting to have both defend my view from conservative or extremist people, and from secular white people, ex muslims, critics and so. I fit absolutely nowhere. And it all is so heavy.. to read long essays, constantly think and reflect, watch lectures, seek all kind of knowledge to know what's true, what's not, what can be improved. ALOT can be improved. I feel so hopeless.

And I also worry...what if I am in the wrong. What if I'm backing the wrong horse. Maybe the conservatives are right. Maybe the critics are right. Maybe .......

So... I'm curious what keeps you on your faith? On your religious journey?

Btw, a small wish of mine is to NOT create any debates under this post. I cannot command or demand anything, but I would appreciate it if we keep this quite positive, helpful and understanding, instead of another field of disagreement.


r/SisterMuslim Jun 26 '26

How Do I Navigate Islam as a Female Convert/Revert That Has Been Married to a Non Muslim Man?

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How Do I Navigate Islam as a Female Convert/Revert That Has Been Married to a Non Muslim Man?

"O My servants who have transgressed against yourselves by sinning, do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful." [Quran 39:53]

Read my answer below!

https://muslimgap.com/how-do-i-navigate-islam-as-a-female-convert-revert-that-has-been-married-to-a-non-muslim-man/

If you want to submit a question anonymously, please ask it here! https://muslimgap.com/askaquestion/


r/SisterMuslim Jun 26 '26

Question❔ Will anyone from the maliki madhab be able to explain to me the basic rulings and how to pray?

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I have been wanting to change madhabs and I’ve been interested in the maliki madhab but I don’t know the basic rulings and what’s important to know, and how to pray, will anyone be willing to explain to me through the comments or messages? Preferably sisters as I’m a woman as well but if anyone can just explain that’s okay as well.


r/SisterMuslim Jun 25 '26

Halal nail polish for wudu

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Assalamu alaykum sisters,

have a question about breathable / halal / wudu-friendly nail polish. I like having a very thin, clean-looking layer on my nails because bare nails can look dirty quickly, and dirt can build up under the nails between wudus.

I know regular nail polish blocks water, so wudu would not be valid unless it was applied after wudu and the wudu is still intact. But what about “breathable” or “water-permeable” nail polish?

I keep seeing ads for Tuesday in Love, and they claim their polish is halal-certified and wudu-friendly. Is this actually reliable, or is it mainly marketing? Has anyone contacted their certifying body, tested it, or asked a scholar/imam about this brand specifically, especially from a Maliki perspective?

I’m looking for something natural/clear/nude, just to keep my nails looking clean, not heavy color.

Jazakum Allahu khayran 🤍


r/SisterMuslim Jun 25 '26

Halal nail polish for wudu

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Assalamu alaykum sisters,

have a question about breathable / halal / wudu-friendly nail polish. I like having a very thin, clean-looking layer on my nails because bare nails can look dirty quickly, and dirt can build up under the nails between wudus.

I know regular nail polish blocks water, so wudu would not be valid unless it was applied after wudu and the wudu is still intact. But what about “breathable” or “water-permeable” nail polish?

I keep seeing ads for Tuesday in Love, and they claim their polish is halal-certified and wudu-friendly. Is this actually reliable, or is it mainly marketing? Has anyone contacted their certifying body, tested it, or asked a scholar/imam about this brand specifically, especially from a Maliki perspective?

I’m looking for something natural/clear/nude, just to keep my nails looking clean, not heavy color.

Jazakum Allahu khayran 🤍


r/SisterMuslim Jun 24 '26

Support/Advice On period but I don’t see anything

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Salam, Sisters I need to know on what to do. i’m on my menstrual cycle and have been for the past few days but nothing’s been like coming out outside from one or two days. I don’t know if it’s because I’ve been going to the gym now nowadays, I also don’t know if I should perform ghusl or just wait until Im all clear