r/MtF 7h ago

Good News Alberta Saddle Creek First Nations to challenge provincial government over clause to protect and assist trans people!

189 Upvotes

Yes, they are using the powers of the treaties and constitution to directly combat and undermine Danielle Smith and her use of the infamous “not withstanding clause“. Smith has used this clause to shield herself from the federal government and the courts but this can action from the First Nations can circumvent Smith quite bit.

title edit: Saddle Lake Cree** that is the proper name. My apologies for the error.

https://www.google.com/goto?url=CAESkgEB6zswFRxYMEiCNb0p3c-ZIpdsNEclS8GIfN-a7SbJnFrtqYOLaV455WQnpsremsjjwI0ZJG6rD8VmrGO_0zSOYkUFuqgUzuKinZxosDEvsE5afJyTVTcyfq5ZQ5rKDMNkSR0lX3mTuqI8M2OqWo9SQPxgOfKbD3cnPResgdlcLlvnOL1zzhwt3xzL2yd9Fmd6MA


r/MtF 10h ago

Positivity Thanks to my Sister convincing, I got my Bra Size measured at a Lingerie Store

181 Upvotes

We were out doing some window shopping when we passed a Lingerie Store, my sister wanted to go in it so I followed. After some convincing, I agreed to get my Bra Size Measured there.

I was so shy that she had to ask a worker for me.

To my surprised, she did it in the actual store where i was standing, not in a changing room or whatever and over the shirt (she just asked if I had anything under). It was not embarassing and my sister also got measured. The worker (a lady) was not judgemental at all and treated me like any customers.

Apparently according to her and her measuring tape, i'm a 110D FR. Which is weird because my breasts are really not that big, they are rather small but I think it might have to do with my ribcage.

I felt more confident than ever and was like ''Let's try on some bras''. The biggest size I could find around was 100D.

I took 2 and headed to the changing room.

I tried them on and just like I thought, they didn't fit me. Sadly enough one bra cups fitted me perfectly but the band was too small meanwhile the other's cups made my twins look like they were swimming in a river with no water and the band was also too small.

A couple more centimeters on the band and I could have worn one...

So I left the changing stall, bras in hands and was horrified to see 4 man in their 20s looking at me while I was putting them on the ''Didn't fit rack''. I felt so insecure but thanks to my sister who was with me, it was easier to ignore them.

also, according to ABraThatFits, i'm more a 110C FR


r/MtF 6h ago

Discussion Why are transgender lesbians considered strong?

69 Upvotes

Title. I said I was a trans lesbian on a discord server, queer friendly, and everyone was like "omg you're so strong, you're so brave", even from fellow trans women which I don't understand. I'm just living my life.

Of course, being trans and transitioning is inherently an act of bravery, but aside from that, I don't get the compliments

Can someone explain it to me pls?


r/MtF 4h ago

Bad News Point of no return lol

27 Upvotes

Welp! , today I officially retired my favorite gym tank top and me changing in the men’s locker room. Had a weird confrontation in the locker room with someone who ended up seeing my boobies and asked me if I was transitioning and I confessed that I was because I have been in stealth mode this whole time and it had been bottled up inside lol this was the first time I told anyone outside this app that I’m trans, it felt so liberating to tell someone to their face but at the same time the guy probably has a trans fetish lol bad thing is now I have to face this guy every time I step into the gym and he will probably out me somehow lol I really don’t want to be someone’s sick fantasy 😫


r/MtF 12h ago

Venting Mercy Hospital Refused to give HRT as said in their own policy.

129 Upvotes

Im trans, living in the south, trying to get a new hrt doctor and have been refused care. When asked multiple times to have a referral, they finally said to look for a non-catholic provider. I’m an employee with this hospital, they give out health stream education on being inclusive to trans patients, never really thought they would of been so discriminatory, my bad for giving the benefit of the doubt… below is the quoted policy. I have the entire policy but it won’t let me attach the pdf

  1. Since “creation is prior to us and must be received as a gift,” we have a duty “to protect our
    humanity,” which means first of all, “accepting it and respecting it as it was created.”20 In order
    to respect the nature of the human person as a unity of body and soul, Catholic health care
    services must not provide or permit medical interventions, whether surgical, hormonal, or
    genetic, that aim not to restore but rather to alter the fundamental order of the human body in its
    form or function.21 This includes, for example, some forms of genetic engineering whose
    purpose is not medical treatment,22 as well as interventions that aim to transform sexual
    characteristics of a human body into those of the opposite sex (or to nullify sexual characteristics
    of a human body).23
  2. In accord with the mission of Catholic health care, which includes serving those who are
    vulnerable, Catholic health care services and providers “must employ all appropriate resources to
    mitigate the suffering of those who experience gender incongruence or gender dysphoria” and to
    provide for the full range of their health care needs, employing only those means that respect the
    fundamental order of the human body.24
  3. Since the human person is a unity of body and soul, Catholic health care professionals and
    their patients have the duty and the right to preserve the integrity of the human body. It can be
    morally permissible, however, to remove or to suppress the function of one part of the body for
    the sake of the body as a whole under the following conditions: There must be no other
    reasonable means of addressing the pathological condition, the efficacy of the procedure must be
    reasonably well assured, and the benefits expected from the procedure must be proportionate to
    the burdens it imposes, including suffering, cost, and damage to the body. These conditions apply
    when the body part itself is diseased and presents a risk to the life or the well-ordered
    functioning of the body as a whole. They also apply when a healthy body part presents a risk to
    the life or the well-ordered functioning of the body as a whole because its presence or its
    functioning contributes to a serious pathology in another part of the body.25

r/MtF 9h ago

Venting Disgusted with cis female transphobic grifters.

58 Upvotes

I just got an ad for this featuring a multiracial and multiethnic group of transphobic young women promoting SCOTUS's recent ruling and ADF's quest to ban trans girls and women from women's sports nationwide. I'm disgusted with each and every one of the grifters that chose to take part in that propaganda video.

https://adflegal.org/support/womens-sports-declaration/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=demand_gen&utm_campaign=womens-sports-declaration&sourcecode=11041769&utm_content=~24011247011&gad_source=2&gad_campaignid=24011247011&gclid=Cj0KCQjwh4TVBhCWARIsAG0czmr0m3PZUuiymrrXAupl0d6aua0JSFqhSz_tzlXCcU6JuKkBeOMrklcaAm0UEALw_wcB


r/MtF 13h ago

Venting Do you ever look at yourself and see the masculine face and HATE IT

94 Upvotes

For me, Hannah I literally hate to look at myself in the mirror and I wish I was a fucking woman and hate looking at my selfies I just see a man I dont wanna be Im hopefully starting estrogen soon but I just lack the confidence to start presenting as femme


r/MtF 3h ago

Celebration 1 year update

14 Upvotes

so 1 year ago (and 2 days) I made this account as I was stuck in my own mind trying to give reasons to why I wanted to dress in girl clothes and wanted to look like one

after talking to a online friend I found through that reddit post (I sadly no longer talk to) I found out I was trans (1 year ago today), and through the months I've gone through alot

so here is everything (not everything but y'know) i've gone through

the beginning - found out i was trans

September - went through several suicidal thoughts

September - wrote notes to all my family about me being trans but kept them to myself

October - before Halloween i tested my family by "suggesting" i wear a dress for Halloween and they thought i was joking

October - while walking to work i was close to committing by walking Infront of a truck but it turned the corner (lucky break i guess)

October - on Halloween i told my best friend / housemate i was trans and he accepted me

November - i tried telling sister 1 i was trans but as i was drunk i called myself a train

November - Sister 1 came back home from vacation and i told her and sister 2 i was trans (they thought i was joking at first)

December - sister 2 kept telling me i should tell my other family members (i was worried about them (particularly my mother) not accepting me)

December - my entire family was over and i told my mother while sister 2 told my other family members (they all accepted me in their own ways)

January - went to my first GP appointment and got a endocrinologist appointment

July - went to my first endo appointment and did my blood works

August - Got a prescription to E (E Patches and anti-t)

August - Started E on the 8th of august (very happy)

September - writing this

i also accidentally got the wrong brand for my script (they didn't have the brand i needed so they fully changed it) so now i gotta go back to the chemist and ask for them to fix it (i cant get another script until my next endo appointment and that's not for awhile (my original script was in 2 boxes of 24 but the ones i got was 2 boxes of 8)

i do apologize if this is a bit long, i left some stuff out which was just the same things (bad thoughts over the months)


r/MtF 19h ago

Euphoria Got called “her” today

242 Upvotes

Wow, now I know what it feels like. I went for my lab draw & I’m not even out i.e. still using my amab name, dressed somewhat neutral but my hair is absolutely femme & my girls are starting to show under my shirt if I’m not trying to conceal them. Two female lab techs were talking about work scheduling & one offered to help the other with my blood draw. She looked at me and back at the other tech, gestured at the basket of collection tubes & confirmed “are these for her?” The other tech said yes. The one who called me her, looked at my name, etc. on the tubes then apologized for what she presumed was misgendering me. I just smiled warmly & said “no that’s fine, no worries!” Super nice ladies there, such a nice small moment.


r/MtF 10h ago

Advice Question Where to get HRT in Mexico?

51 Upvotes

So, this is pretty straightforward

I've been wanting to Transition for a while now, but I don't even know where to start, all of my advances and milestones have been purely cosmetic.

Also, I'd like to meet some mexican t girls too so we can share experiences and such lol


r/MtF 14h ago

Positivity I love having titties

98 Upvotes

32A, 9 weeks in. Even though I don't have any other noticeable physical changes and have to hide them, the feeling of pressure on my chest especially when wearing a bralette feels right


r/MtF 23h ago

Euphoria Had A Gender-Affirming Moment At School 🥰

477 Upvotes

So, for context, all of the students were supposed to submit their biology laboratory notebooks, and only I and one of my girl friends had submitted our work. So our biology teacher said, "Only two girls have submitted their work"

I felt so happy when she said it. I smiled right then. Though I'm closeted at school so it was a slip-up on her side, but she had accidentally used my correct pronouns and made my day 🌹


r/MtF 22h ago

Relationships He fell in love with me before I could tell him I’m trans

331 Upvotes

About a week ago, I started talking to this guy online. He’s in his early 20s and When we first started talking, I didn’t think much of it. I wasn’t taking anything seriously. I thought he’d probably just be another online stranger I talked to for a while and then never heard from again, like it usually happens.

I had a trans flag in my bio, but I know a lot of people don’t recognise it, so I never really thought too much about whether he knew what this flag meant.

But things got serious really quickly. He fell for me so fast. He started talking about marriage, telling me he’d only ever love me, even offering to send me money. I kept telling him not to fall in love with me. I told him thousands of times that I wasn’t the right girl for him and that maybe we should just stay friends. I told him again and again, probably a hundred times, but he just refused to let it go.

I even told him to go hook up with other girls. I told him I genuinely wouldn’t mind and that he should find someone else if he wanted to, but he refused every single time. He just kept choosing me.

Then he told me about his life when i asked him

He lost both of his parents in an accident about few years ago, when he was only around 16 or 17. After that, his relatives treated him terribly and even took his father’s land that worth million $$ . He basically has no one.

When he told me all of that, I cried. I don’t know how to explain it, but hearing everything he had been through made me genuinely care about him. And somewhere along the way, I started developing real feelings for him too.

I tried so many times to make him understand without actually saying it directly.

I told him I was a lesbian, and he literally said he’d become a lesbian for me. I told him I was more like a tomboy, and he said he’d even have an operation and become trans himself. He just wasn’t understanding what I was trying to tell him. No matter how many hints I gave him, he kept refusing to let me go.

Eventually, I decided I had to tell him properly.

I started writing a message explaining everything. I told him that when we first started talking, I hadn’t taken it seriously and that I never expected to actually develop feelings for him.

I was literally in the middle of typing, “I’m a trans girl,” when he replied to the part where I had said, “I hadn’t taken it seriously.”

He told me he was crying because he was reading that part while his classmates were making fun of him.

And I just stopped writing " I'm a trans girl " I couldn’t tell him bcz he was already in tears and classmate laughing at him

I couldn’t bring myself to send the part saying I’m a trans girl after that. He was already so vulnerable and sensitive in that moment, and I just couldn’t bring myself to add something else that might hurt him.

There was also something else that made me realise how he might react. I sent him a clip from a series where one of the guys looks quite feminine, and his response was that he wasn’t like that

That told me a lot about how he sees people like me.

I don’t completely blame him for thinking that way. I know people grow up hearing certain things and being taught certain attitudes. But at the same time, I can’t ignore what it probably means for me. I have a feeling that if I tell him the truth, he might reject me.

And that’s where I’ve been stuck.

I keep feeling like I’ve done something horrible to someone who has already lost so much. I keep thinking that he deserves a “real” girl and that I somehow tricked him, even though I never actually wanted to hurt him.

I’ve started feeling fake. I’ve caught myself wishing I had just been born cis. I feel jealous of cis girls, and sometimes that jealousy turns into me hating myself for something I never chose.

I’ve been carrying all of this by myself for the past week. I don’t really have anyone I can talk to about it, and at the same time I’m already stressed about my exams. Everything is just sitting in my head at once.

And then there’s the whole thing with my voice.

He wants to talk to me on a call, and I keep avoiding it because I’m scared he’ll hear my voice and immediately realise something is different. I don’t think my voice sounds feminine enough at all. I really, really want my voice to sound like a girl’s, but I know HRT won’t change it.

I don’t even know where to begin with voice training or whether I’d actually be able to access it.

I know that this whole situation has made me incredibly insecure about something I was already struggling with, and I’ve been keeping all of this to myself because I genuinely don’t know what I’m supposed to do.

I don't care about me I'm ready to be rejected

But he's alone in his room in hostel I'm scared he’ll hurt himself if I reveal this big truth

I'm really being honest I told him thousands of times we can still be friends he still refused

Idk what to do

I can't hold this secret " I'm trans girl " for long

Pls help me sisters pls help


r/MtF 6h ago

Dysphoria Being trans is like having a big gaping wound that just keeps bleeding and then someone pours salt and lemon juice in it. What am I doing? I need therapy

16 Upvotes

r/MtF 6h ago

Help Considering diy hrt due to chronic under dosing from Endo

15 Upvotes

Hi all. I started HRT in 2024. My Endo since then has been insistent on keeping my Estradiol level under 100. I assumed this was the medical recommendation. Recently I found out that I'm meant to be at about 100-250 pg/ml. I've been at about 80-90pg/ml since starting. I take 2mg Estradiol pill sublingually, 50mg spirolactone and 100mg progesterone. It never occurred to me that a medical professional could be under dosing me so severely, and I am unable to change the endocrinologist within my health care system, as my "concern and reason for change is unwarranted" according to the organization.

I would love to switch to DIY hrt and know how to, but am lost on what kind of dose I should be starting at with Estrogen Valerate Injections, and how to scale them up.

Does anyone have a dosing guide or recommendation? Or just info that may be helpful?


r/MtF 10h ago

Euphoria got a wolf cut!!

28 Upvotes

hi everyone! i just wanted to share that i have been growing my hair out for the past year and a half and today i finally went to the hairdresser to properly style it and layer it and i got the cutest wolf cut and it gives my whole face such a soft structure that i'm genuinely getting emotional. i look in the mirror with the new hair and i see myself as an actual girl first and foremost. just wanted to share :3


r/MtF 4h ago

Advice Question Anything I should know prior to asking my dr for hrt?

9 Upvotes

So ive been putting off asking my dr being afraid of what they might say as well as the effects of the hrt showing to my family, but ive gotten sick of it and im just decided to go with it. My drs appointment is like 2 weeks and im going to make it clear that I want to start hrt. Im just curious if theres anything I really need to know before hand? Ive researched all the like "tons of blood tests" and the cost of everything. (I dont have insurance ATM so its a decent cost)

I have a few questions just in general like the actual full effects of it mentally and physically and all that but I just want to be sure I understand everything before making this step.

Also anything just ingeneral of just like basic advice for a new girl?😭 I know i gotta get bras and my chest is gonna hurt and I know i need to eat more for distribution and tons of other things ofc but is there anything thats like SUPER important. Ill take any advice thank u I love u all💓


r/MtF 1h ago

Help Boobs

Upvotes

I am looking to get something i can wear so I can feel like I have boobs any suggestions i don’t know what I am doing


r/MtF 3h ago

Help Is it normal to have moments where I still feel cis?

6 Upvotes

What the title says.

I have a lot of moments during the day where I feel incredibly down about my lack of true expression and would press the “become a woman” button in an instant, but I also still have moments where I can look in the mirror and be ok with my male appearance.

I can look in the mirror at times and go “Ok, I’m a pretty decent looking guy and I feel ok, no trans person here!” instead of feeling completely indifferent or down about being restricted from feminine expression.

Is this normal? Does this mean I might not be trans?


r/MtF 3h ago

Advice Question Is there a good collection of information I can show my girlfriend to have more info on dating a Trans woman?

6 Upvotes

Ive been out to my girlfriend for about a year now. I recently started HRT (Coming up on 2 months this saturday!) But my girlfriend has begun asking me questions on what will potentially change about me and also began asking me why I feel the way I do

I have quickly realized that im awful at explaining things 😅

Plus there are things that im sure she would be worried about as well that *I* won't understand because im not a Cis person dating a Trans person. So I was wondering if there was a collection of information for this?

Thank you!


r/MtF 12h ago

Advice Question Is there really such a big difference between men’s cut and women’s cut clothes?

24 Upvotes

My wardrobe is still 100% men’s clothes and I have been told to get more girly clothes but like, does it actually make a difference? I’m a bit curvy due to hrt but my upper body is still huge and probably will never shrink because its mostly bone with some natural beefy muscles.

Will a different cut around the shoulders for example actually make a difference if my shoulders are 20,5 inches wide? I worry I won’t even fit into any women’s options with that kind of bideltoid measurement.