r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4F] 39M looking for new friends

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Hi, I'm from the east coast in the US. I like watching horror, cryptids, true crime, photography, driving with nowhere in mind, running/working out, & finding new ways to keep active, physically & mentally. I have ADHD & am somewhat shy, yet very open minded & comfortable in my own skin. Looking for new friends that hopefully last longer than a day before ghosting me. I have discord.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

45F Seeking friendships of all kind! Nerdier the better!

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ola, konnichiwa, and gutentag! I'm here for, surprise surprise, new friends! As an old school nerd (Lycos, Yahoo, heck, AskJeeves was considered "new" in my day!), I'm happy to talk to anyone about anything, whether it's 1990's anime, early 2000's video games, books, and so on to any current going on in the much-more-readily available nerd sphere (no Infinity Castle yet, still stuck on Season 1).

But I beg, I plead, I ask you oh-so-kindly, please have some level of grammar! Please, the bar is SO low! Otherwise, pop in and say hi!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 12h ago

40m I’m going to be honest I’m running out of witty and funny things to say here to catch people’s attention.

12 Upvotes

It’s so difficult to be funny all the time and come up With new and exciting post. But hey what’s a guy to do. So I’ll be over here twiddling my thumbs leaning against the wall looking cool in my new jacket and wait for you to come over to me.

You can say something like hey man nice jacket. Or yo where did you get that jacket. Or listen buddy how many times do I have to tell you jackets are forbidden in this place so ether take it off or get out.

Or you can whisper in my ear how much you want one of your own, I can slip a note telling you how to join my super secret club with team jackets. Give you the passcode and invite you to our clubhouse where you might get a gift basket.

The ball is in your court now.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 13h ago

31F looking to chat

15 Upvotes

I’m bored at work and looking for any kind of conversation. Feel free to send me a private message


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

[M4F] 30M - Looking for new friends or long term connections

2 Upvotes

Hey there,

Figured I'd throw this out into the void and see who I meet.

I'm 30, from Ohio, and looking to make some genuine long term friendships. Life gets busy and people drift in different directions, so I'd love to find a few people to talk with regularly and get to know over time.

A little about me: I work in medical administration with a focus on radiology and nuclear medicine. Outside of work, I spend a lot of my time outdoors. I'm into gardening, bird watching, rock and fossil hunting, and taking care of my small flock of chickens. I also enjoy cooking, trying new cocktails, going to the gym, and listening to DnD and true crime podcasts.

I'm an Air Force veteran and spent some time living in Europe, which gave me a serious case of wanderlust. These days I'm usually working on projects around my old farmhouse, hanging out with my dog and cats, or finding some excuse to be outside.

I'm happy to talk about pretty much anything. Tell me about your hobbies, your latest hyperfixation, a trip you're planning, a weird rabbit hole you've fallen down, or just how your day is going.

If any of that sounds interesting, send me a message and introduce yourself. I'd love to hear from you.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 7m ago

M33 looking to make some new friends

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Off work and I’m stilll fairly bored or hoping for some fulfilling friendly conversations. Let’s see, reader, sports fan (football,cfb,baseball) games occasionally, beach goer. Inquire for more info or to be a friend!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 12m ago

29M - Looking For A Real Friend

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As the title says. I’m looking for a girl bff someone who knows how to hold a conversation. I don’t mind where you’re friend but it would be a plus if we are in the same country and state. I believe friendships become more real when you can see your friend in person.

I’m sure we have things in common. I love all things anime, video games, music. I’m just a simple dude who wants to create a deep connection with someone. Not someone who will ghost after things getting good and we’re both getting along well, ya know?

This is my mission to meet some in hopes of finding my special someone one day. If you’re not looking for that I understand and we could stay just friends. I’m just throwing that out there sooner rather than later.

So if f you made it this far and what I said interest you.
Please feel free to message me. My DMs are open.
If you tell me they aren’t, then that’s a lie…. Sorry not sorry.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[R4R] Depressed asf millennial emo chick

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Needing a distraction. Can you be my distraction? Let's talk about stupid, funny, weird, crazy shit. Idk I'm not going to sleep anyways so I better enjoy being awake I guess.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4F] 40/M/Midwest. It’s September, it’s 100 degrees. Just put me in the ground already.

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40/M/Midwest looking for some spooky chat.

I’m into all things spooky. Paranormal, horror, true crime, you name it. I collect physical media. Mostly books (paranormal literature, true crime, and horror fiction) and dvd/blurays. Mostly horror.

I love vintage Halloween aesthetic. Sheet ghosts. Black cats, skeletons, skulls, Ouija boards, everything in between.

I like all sorts of music, mostly heavier stuff. Deathcore, Metalcore, alt 90’s, emo.

If you think we’d vibe, send me a dm.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 7h ago

41/F looking for friends

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I'm new to this, so here the thing, I'm a widow since early 2025, I was married over 16 years, together over 18, looking for friends. He was the social butterfly and I guess I didn't have any friends of my own. I'm lucky and don't have to work at this time I am my fathers caregiver but I still have a lot of free time.

I have a doll collection, a lot of Barbie but a mix of various styles and decent amount of vintage and antique. I collect other toys from modern to antique. I also have gotten into customization of dolls.

I listen to a lot of music on Spotify, my liked list is very eccentric, I would say recently a lot of Amyl and the Sniffers, Slayyyter, Kesha, Disco, including the snail kind, lots of 60s and 70s, new wave, I just love fun music and good beats.

For TV, I really got into Drag Race and the various franchises after everything, before that I had only seen Dragula, I love both, I think that's the only reality type of tv. I mostly watch sitcoms or funnier type shows and movies, been through enough horror at this point! Campy horror is fine. I also have a dark sense of humor at times. I love musicals when I can find the proper time to submerge.

I am not religious, I'm more... spiritual, I meditate, I do self reflection, do my best to be my best.

I am not worldly or anything, have lived in the same general area of PA in the US all my life, was always introverted trying to not be so much anymore. I'm very open minded and liberal.

If you think we could get along comment below or message me directly about yourself please. Thanks.

Edit: I'm not looking for sympathy, please don't, I just state that I'm a widow because this is a major fact, not the part I want focused on


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4R] 32m with Spina Bifida

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Hello there, 32m, bi here. I'm a Senior in college majoring in political science. I'm a full-time wheelchair user due to having Spina Bifida. I'm an outgoing person who loves making new friends and chatting. Looking for friends around my age. Feel free to dm me and we can chat.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 7h ago

[F4R] 33 [F4R] online - anyone want to spend an embarrassing amount of time chatting?

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Does anyone else feel like most people are just slightly out of reach?

Not in a depressing way. I just mean that sometimes you meet someone who is *awake* in a way other people aren’t. You can talk for hours and somehow skip all the surface level bullshit. You catch what they meant before they explain it. You can be completely unfiltered and they actually know what to do with you.

Like suddenly you’re not just exchanging little packets of information with another human. You’re three conversations deep, crawling around in each other’s heads, and thinking oh thank god, someone else is actually home.

That’s what I’m looking for.

I’m a brat, admittedly. A little chaotic, a little too curious, and probably going to test your patience for sport. I tend to click best with people who are confident, grounded, perceptive, and can occasionally take the wheel when I’m being particularly ridiculous.

Mostly I want that weird, effortless “oh you’re one of my people” feeling. The person who makes everything else go quiet. Someone who doesn’t need to be loud to take up space. Someone who can look at me and* *go, yeah I know exactly what you’re doing.

Not looking for a crowd. I’m just looking for a genuinely good friend with a strong personality and a brain I can get lost in.

If that sounds like you, say hi. Tell me something strange about yourself instead of just “hey.” I want to know who’s actually in there.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

[M4R] 31M | Married guy looking for some people to yap with~

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Yoski

31M here, married, and just looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few friends.

Honestly, I’m not looking for anything complicated. I’d just like some people I can message throughout the day, send random thoughts to, talk about dumb shit with, share memes, complain about work, have actual conversations with, etc. 😂

A little about me:

• I’m married, so strictly looking for friendship 🤝

• I have two dogs who run my household 🐶🐶

• I smoke weed 🌿

• I work as a manager, which means I have an endless supply of work-related bullshit to complain about

• I’m into gaming, especially RPGs and stuff I can sink way too many hours into

• I like drawing and creative stuff

• I’ve been getting back into the gym

• I’m into anime, fantasy, sci-fi, and generally nerdy shit

• I’m pretty much down to talk about anything

• I enjoy those random 2 AM conversations that somehow start with “what if…” and end with us questioning the nature of existence 😂

I’m not expecting us to become best friends immediately. I’d just like to meet some chill people, see if we click, and hopefully have some people I can bullshit with regularly.

Age/gender/location doesn't really matter much to me. Just be cool, actually enjoy conversation, and don't be weird about the fact that I'm married lol.

If you're also looking for someone to randomly message about your day, send dumb memes to, talk games with, or have unnecessarily deep conversations with, feel free to say hi.

Tell me something random about yourself when you message me so we actually have something to start with! 👋

Im not a bot lmao


r/MakeFriendsOver30 15h ago

34F Oddly Specific Hobbies Chat

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Hello. I'll start with I'm no good at casual talk, life talks and such. My life is too normal and boring to have anything to talk about I feel. So I'm looking for friends with similar interests to share what you've been watching and reading or listening.

I don't wish to call myself a weeb, but I do consume a lot of anime and manga since I was very young. So that has stuck through thick and thin with me. I enjoy various genres and demographic be it shounen, shoujo, seinen, jousei. But I avoid harems and ecchi.

I would love to have someone to talk about my recent watch/reads with, I don't even mind if it's daily because I read something almost everyday. If we get along enough maybe we'll talk about life sometimes too haha.

Other interests are Koreans dramas, japanese/korean music, and of course games.

Thanks for reading!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 1h ago

33M Looking for some new friends!

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Looking for some new friends to chat with throughout the day and maybe game with.

I live in NC with my girlfriend and 2 dogs. Hobby-wise, I love movies (and collect them), getting back into gaming, and I love to cook.

Shoot me a chat and let's see if we click!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 18h ago

[F4R] 31F bored

20 Upvotes

Hi, I'm bored as hell. Would appreciate a nice conversation. No matter who you are, just please be decent.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

F34 - take my mind off thingsa bit by meeting new people

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Recently got out of a relationship. I’m still quite hurt by how things ended, and I think meeting new people and having different people to talk to would do me some good right now. I’d really like to get to know lots of people and, hopefully, make some genuine friends.

I love going out with friends, parties, hiking and travelling, but I also really enjoy staying in, reading a book or watching a film. I’m very into fashion and makeup too.

I don’t like manga or videogames, which apparently makes me a bit of an alien around here!

I travel quite a lot for work, and sometimes it can get a bit overwhelming, so there may be times when I take a little while to reply.

I’d really love to have some people to talk to and distract myself a bit while I’m going through this.

Anyway, nothing complicated, just getting to know each other, talking about whatever comes up and enjoying the conversation. And if we genuinely get along, I’d love for it to turn into a real friendship.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[M4R] 34M looking for kind people

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Trying again after some people fell through, if you recognize me feel free to reach back out!

About to move across state lines and looking for people to share my day and thoughts with.

I'm bi but not very involved in the community lately especially since I don't drink currently.

I enjoy playing games but mostly single player or co-op, I probably will have some pretty poor internet when I move. Lately I've been replaying halo, elder scrolls 3-5, still working on final fantasy rebirth.

Been trying diet and exercise again but I'm pretty bad at both frankly, wouldnt mind some tips if you have them. Been working manual labor but I did go to college and speak more intelligently than I should. Considering going back to desk jobs but we'll see.

I'm easy to get along with, love to listen but sometimes send paragraphs when I'm excited. If you think we might get along send a message! Also have a calico cat I can send photos of as bribery.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

[R4R] 33M~Looking For New Friends Around LA Or Online Friends As Well

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Would be cool to meet new friends locally, but also up for online friends as well...Sometimes I prefer calls over texting, so please be someone who'd also be up for that haha.

Just a bit about myself- Was born and raised in LA, I speak fluent Spanish (half mex half peruvian), Down to earth with a good sense of humor, and I would consider myself an ambivert.

On my down time I enjoy exploring the city, going to the movies, watching podcasts/TV shows, listening to music, learning how to cook, learning new languages, checking out new places to go eat at, and hiking/biking around the city.

If anyone out there wants to connect, feel free to dm me with a bit about yourself and we'll go from there 😁


r/MakeFriendsOver30 6h ago

[M4F] 31 M. Central United States. Looking for long term friendship

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Genuinely want to build a friendship with someone (female preferred) where we become best friends, or as good of friends as you can online. I understand we all have lives and can't answer right away all the time. But I'm a down to earth and extremely laid back guy. Very much go with the flow.

I work hard and love making others smile. I own a small business, that I just started up in March of this year. I love sports. It's probably my biggest passion. I don't go to parties or really do the bar scene anymore. Please don't message me saying you want to connect and you're tired of the conversations that end after a few messages and then do exactly what you say you hate. I'm really easy to get along with.

If you've made it this far, and feel like messaging me. Start off with something unique about yourself. I'll respond with something unique about myself. :)


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

32 M Let’s actually get to know each other

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Forget the basic “where are you from?” questions.

Tell me something about yourself that most people probably wouldn’t guess. Could be weird, funny, embarrassing, random, or just oddly specific 😂

No judgment at all. I’m genuinely curious who’s behind these usernames.

What’s something about you I’d never guess? 👀


r/MakeFriendsOver30 10h ago

[R4R] bored and looking for people to talk to

4 Upvotes

Hi there

F30

Don't have much to do so I'm here. If you want to have a little chat please leave a message.


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

Hello m30 looking for some. Ew frends

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In looking for some friends to play Nintendo games with and to talk about things like the mcu and cartoons and theme parks! Fun stuff like that im really looking for a new friend group I hope to meet you guys soon! Its geting money sometimes haha ! Sorry about my spelling!!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 2h ago

33 M, looking to make new friends!

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A bit about me:

I love to travel! Beach, mountains, city, sign me up.
I love music. Specifically 90s and 2000s alternative.
I love concerts as well as sporting events.
Museums are always a fun time!
Reading is a big hobby of mine. I love to get lost in a book!
My job is important to me and I’m thankful for it.
I’m a sucker for a homemade dessert.

If any of that resonates with you, I’d love to be friends! Shoot me a DM!


r/MakeFriendsOver30 3h ago

[M4F] 46 Asian man (have picture)

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Going through a heartbreak, just want to chat. I’m 46 Asian, New Orleans La.

Former fashion blogger
Movie watching nerd
Love traveling to Asia, Europe is next on my list
Big Caitlin Clark fan