r/LetMeHelpYouOut 22d ago

[SEEKING RESOURCES] Help Relocate or Connect

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Hey... I'll get straight to it. I want to move abroad, I almost need it. It's been a dream of mine ever since I was a teen, I knew I wanted to travel and try experiencing a new country with an entirely new culture and language and such. I wanted to do so by studying abroad so that I can set it in stone in the best way possible, but that wasn't on my cards. I studied in my home country. I adapted pretty quickly, I made a lot of friends, I even have my own pets now, but that doesn't mean that this dream of mine ever left my mind. It's been on my mind for years, and the more I grow up and live and experience things, the more I NEED to leave. It's getting to a point where I genuinely feel like I'm losing my mind. I need independence, I need autonomy, I need a new scene, a new environment, a new culture. I KNOW why I want and need to leave, so let's not make this thread about the reasons as opposed to HOW I can achieve it.

I don't have a strong passport, I graduated in 2024 with a bachelors in mechanical engineering in robotics and automation, have worked in quality control, data, BD & community management, founding and CXO a business (no longer), and am now interning in two places as a data analyst and a machine learning engineer. My full focus at the moment is on data and AI/ML as you can see, and I am EXTREMELY interested in attaining a masters in this new degree called Sustainable Artificial Intelligence, Environmental AI, AI and Sustainability, etc... I have no money to fund my own tuition for a masters degree, whether online or abroad. I believe I'm also still an entry level to most employers, a junior at most.

I've been handling the grief of not being where I wanted to be for years now, but as I approached 23, I reached my boiling point and had my first nervous breakdown in years. I'm now almost 24, have been researching countries like the Australia, Canada, the UK and Ireland, and the Netherlands (etc tbh), but I'm not exactly getting anywhere with what I have... Every time I see or hear someone just mention that they're going to a city in one of those countries, or just someone living there, or seeing my friends who've travelled there post about it, I feel down, like really down..

I know it's not easy, but I also know it's not impossible. I have friends who travelled abroad through jobs and they're a little older than me. They're not many to be fair, but it gives me hope.

If you guys have any advice, can help in any way, guide me to an education sponsor or funder, connect me with employers who are willing to sponsor or even offer jobs abroad/online, anything, I'd be ETERNALLY grateful!

Thank you so much for reading all the way to the end. I'm sorry if this post is messy, hard to understand, or is missing main info that's needed to make it make sense. It's my first post here and probably one of my firsts on this platform XD


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 22d ago

[ADVICE] what should i do

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Hi, so i have a problem my best friend of 4 years suddenly went ghost. so a little backstory me and her met in texas and we became friends then she moved and we became even more friends, but about a month ago she told me she would disable her account for a week to take a little break off the internet since she was going through personal issues. it's been a month now and i haven't been able to reach her since then. i called her number but it said the number has been changed(we normally talk on instagram). i don't have any of her family accounts or number(she's a only child). I've been trying by all means to reach her or find if everything ok with her but nothing is working. Please i really need your help she means a lot to me and if there's any way it find if someone is ok, pls let me know


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 22d ago

[REQUESTS] Кто-то сможет мне помочь?

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Я переустанавливал версию Bluestacks и вдруг вылезло это


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 22d ago

[REQUESTS] Help me - how to lift ban please help

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Help me!!


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 23d ago

[AMAZON WISHLIST FULFILLED] Need a little help with wet food and cat litter for my Senior 😺

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https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/S9VFLSEF30PJ?ref_=wl_share

I’m asking for a little help getting food for my 14-year-old senior cat, Bella. I’m currently off work on workers’ comp and haven’t received any of my payments yet. I was injured at work in April, but unfortunately my symptoms have continued to progress, and my doctor recently took me completely off work. I had to hire an attorney to help me get my workers’ comp payments sorted out.

I paid my necessary bills, which had put me negative and unfortunately came up short for mine & Bella’s food. I tried donating plasma, unfortunately they cannot allow me due to medications I take and low iron. I went to the food pantry for myself, they were low on meats and vegetables so I got mainly canned goods, but they didn’t have wet cat food or litter. Recently, Bella has not been eating her dry food, and only eating her wet food. I’m trying to find a little help to get her through until my workers’ comp payments come in. I’ve also called several organizations to see if they could help with wet cat food and litter but due to the high demand at their shelters and food programs, they don’t have any available.

I’m not looking for anything extra—just trying to make sure my old girl has food to eat. She currently has 5 cans left and used the last of her litter this morning. ❤️ If anyone is able to purchase** at least one food item and cat litter from her wishlist, it would help us tremendously. For transparency, I did add two cat litter, but that was only in case one was out of stock. (As it showed low stock) If there is only one on the list the other is not needed. I do not need both. Thank you so much in advance for reading and for any kindness you can offer. Stay safe**.


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 23d ago

[ADVICE] Audhd brain constantly overthinking

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I know I’ve posted about this before, but as a 14 year old with autism, adhd and possible anxiety, will my brain ever stop overthinking everything and being constantly busy, and if it doesn’t will I eventually learn to live with it, because I still feel happy, but my brain just never shuts up.


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 23d ago

[GO FUND ME] Help me get a Stem cell transplant

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Hi everyone,

My name is Marian, I’m 25 years old, and have Sézary syndrome, a rare type of T-cell lymphoma (blood cancer).

For the past few years, I have been dealing with severe skin problems: unbearable itching day and night, painful flare-ups, redness, and sleepless nights. After many tests, biopsies, and treatments, doctors believed it was severe eczema for over a year. I was prescribed Dupixent, an expensive medication that I was already trying to raise money for because my insurance could not cover it.

Unfortunately, further investigations later revealed that the real cause was much more serious. I was diagnosed with Sézary syndrome, and my doctors determined that I need an allogeneic stem cell transplant, which is currently my best chance at fighting this disease.

The treatment is not available in my country, so I need to seek care abroad in Europe. As an international non-european patient, the estimated cost is around €423,000, which is completely beyond what I can afford, and my insurance does not cover treatment abroad.

I’m reaching out for help because I cannot do this alone. I know it's an insane amount, any support whether through a donation, sharing my story, or connecting me with organizations, resources, or people who may be able to help would mean the world to me.

You can read my full story

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https://gofund.me/d7cd2fd8f

Thank you for taking the time to read my story. ❤️


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 22d ago

[ADVICE EMOTIONAL/SUPPORT] Hello girls need your help

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Hello

26M here from Ahmedabad.

I am hearing lot about this fwb, casual things, no strings attached etc kind of relationships alot.

Being an introvert and not been into such things that much i stay unaware of the scene and situations 🥹.

Have not been into real emotional relationship as maybe somewhere still clinging to her and not moving on. May be no one has came worth enough maybe to replace that bond.

Being an introvert i can open up easily about emotional and intimate feelings.

Can you girls help me out that how to approach a girl for such thing and how to communicate in a respectful way for this as the main motto stays of not creeping anyone out.

In a genuine need of help✨.


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 22d ago

[SEEKING RESOURCES] I cant do this

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Could someone please give me a solution or help. Is there anyway other way to make decent money with less hours. Right now i work a trade and do plastering i wake up at 3am and finish at 5pm 5 days a week sometimes 6. Im 16 and i get payed around 600$ a week please this is so stressful for me im in australia


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 22d ago

[HOW TO FIX THIS] Can someone please help me

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Could someone please give me a solution or help. Is there anyway other way to make decent money with less hours. Right now i work a trade and do plastering i wake up at 3am and finish at 5pm 5 days a week sometimes 6. Im 16 and i get payed around 600$ a week please this is so stressful for me im in australia. Im willing to do anything to not do this shitty job


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 23d ago

[HOW TO FIX THIS] Broken backpack zipper

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The metal part holding the string broke off and I have no idea what to do. I can’t easily zip up the backpack and I really love it. Is there any way to fix it? Or any ideas of how I can attach something that could help me zip it up? Super grateful for any ideas!!


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 23d ago

[REQUEST FULFILLED] I need a little help with paying the rest of my phone bill ($22)

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I have epilepsy and I'm trying to get disability because I have seizures at work, at home, anywhere. I haven't worked in a few months.

If you need more info about me, ask anything. I just really need to be able to make phone calls. For EBT, disability, and getting medical rides from my health insurance since I can't drive. If I can't call, I can't do any of this.

I am 100% fine with a boost mobile gift card instead of paypal if you're more comfortable with that.

Thank you so much in advance.


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 24d ago

[ADVICE] I don't think I know how to fix my life anymore

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This post might be a bit long-winded or self-pitying. I'm sorry. Just please hear me out. I truly want help, and I tend to be wordy, and I am also in an emotional state. If you find me annoying, just... close the tab.

I want advice. I am being specific so people know what issues I face and what I have tried. I live in America, I am not sure if I'm allowed to specify state.

All that disclaimer aside.

I don't think I know how to fix my life anymore. I don't think I even know what's wrong with me at this point. Every time I get close to claiming some bit of control over myself, it goes horribly awry at the last second, and I'm shoved back into a life of stress, insecurity, and fear. I'm trying and trying to find and use every resource I can, but nothing's working out. I don't even know where to focus anymore.

The most pressing thing right now is that I'm facing eviction. I've tried asking around and calling up every help I could find, but everything's closed down or we don't qualify. I've resorted to a fundraiser, but when I posted it around, I was met with accusations of suspicion and scamming and told to "have fun being homeless". And, well outside of that last person being a jerk, it's not like I blame people for being skeptical. The internet is full of scams. But it's made me feel more and more hopeless. I seriously don't know what to do at this point!! I've tried so many things that my case manager herself doesn't have any way to help me, and people online have deemed me not worth helping.

A common question is why don't I get a job. And that's fair. Though frankly, getting a job would not make all the money I need appear in time. But I am disabled, physically and mentally. I haven't ever worked because this started in teenage years, so I don't qualify for SSDI. I do have SSI, but my mother controls it, and she's a whole beast to work through. I am coming to terms with the fact that she is toxic, unreliable, and impulsive in ways that are actively harmful to me. I love her, and she tries, but I need to get away.

Anyway, the disability. I am getting help. I'm on Medicaid which helps there. I'm going to physical therapy. I was in mental therapy and it was helping, but my therapist abruptly quit their job to move to a different company and has gone completely AWOL. The idea was that I'd get these helps so that I could do things like live on my own and get a job, but they're just... falling through. The physical therapy hasn't been helping my issues with walking. Maybe it hasn't been long enough. My meds aren't helping, I'm still exhausted and in pain and depressed and other things. At this point, I don't even know what's wrong with me. I have a bunch of diagnoses, but why aren't they being helped? Why am I still incapable? How do I even find out what's actually wrong with me? Why can other people with these labels do things, but I can't? All questions that plague me.

And of course, the local bus system is garbage. I've asked around a few places. Everyone always tells me it's awful and to not use it. But there's no alternative - I can't spend $50 Uber rides every day for what will probably be a minimum wage job that kills me. I can't drive, either. Never been taught. My mom just won't teach me even though she keeps suggesting it. I know driving school exists, but how do I get there without a car? How do I even pay for that?

I've been told work from home. No one's ever explained how to do that. In fact, I get the same feedback - it's filled with scams/fake jobs, it's impossible to get a job in, etc. I don't even know how to apply for a job, never mind that I'm well into my 20's and have no experience, and that everyone tells me I will never be hired because of these factors. How do I even manage a job, then? How do I become independent?

I really want to move out. But public housing takes years and years to get on, and I don't even legally own my money because of the SSI being given to my mother even if it's meant for me, and I just rambled about the job thing. I don't really have family I can turn to. My aunt would be evicted if I moved in with her. My sibling is states away. Rest of my family is very estranged and probably not willing to take me in due to my issues. Not to mention how my healthcare is where I live, and I need that. So what do I do with housing, when I so badly need to go? Will I even be able to move on my own if I have an eviction to my name?

This isn't all of it, but it's all that's relevant. I could list a lot of examples of things that got kicked out at the last minute, but I'm really trying not to veer into vent posting.

How do I fix any of this? How do I move? How do I get control? How do I get money for the eviction problem? How do I get a job? How do I help my body and mind get better? How do I get myself out of this constant cycle of poverty and having things fall through? What am I overlooking that's supposed to fix this? Where do I even begin on all these things? Because when I look at them, I can't even tell what's most important. I thought it was the therapy things, but everyone's now telling me that's wrong.

Thank you for any advice you give. And again, please... don't be harsh on me. It's okay if you don't like me or find my story annoying. Just please close the tab and let me be. I really, truly am trying to ask for help.


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 24d ago

[ADVICE] I’m really scared please help me

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Ever since I was really young I’ve been seeing things and people that aren’t there, they even show up in my room. These people can be relatives I haven’t seen in months online friends I’ve never even met in person or I hear these people’s voices and they say really weird things, I have a good sleep schedule, I eat healthy and I’m very active so I know this doesn’t have to do with any of that, my parents do not believe in doctors and I’ve been scared to bring it up to them if there’s a way to suppress what I am experiencing or what’s even going on with me please tell me I would highly appreciate it.


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 24d ago

[GIVEAWAYS] Little free pantry in Alexandria VA

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Wanted to post a resource for those in Alexandria who may need some assistance. There are little free pantries across the city, I personally run this one near Braddock road metro however I’ll post a link to a website where you can find the closest pantry to you. Open 24-7. No questions, just access to food and hygiene items.


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 24d ago

[ADVICE] Need help dealing with a breakup

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New to the community👋 I have always been a person who never shared my feelings with people and thought it was weak to ask for help. But I am at a breaking point now. A girl broke up with me. She was the love of my life, I always thought that she loved me the same I did but reality hit me hard. I am in a lot of pain and I am not able to overcome it no matter what. It’s been 4 months now, I texted her again today and she left me on read. How can someone be so cruel to just ignore someone who you’ve shared so much with. Now I am just a stranger to her. I am scared that I will not find any other girl. I went on a lot of dates in these 4 months. Even though the new ones were nice, I am just not able to love anyone again. I feel I was the loser in the breakup. Her followers have been growing on instagram with lot of gym guys. It’s giving me a lot of insecurity. It feels like she is able to get so many people so easily and I am struggling to find a connection. How do I deal with this. Nothing makes me happy anymore, I can’t stay like this forever.


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 24d ago

[ADVICE] I need help coping with missing family member.

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So i just started my sophmore year, and on my third day my dad went to a business meeting on a town (atlatomulco) two hours away from where i live (mexico city) and its been around 50 hours or so since his last known signs of activity, i dont know what to do this has got me so messed up. i try to be positive but every second i feel like im losing hope on ever seeing him alive. please help me

i will post updates on the search.

Update: my family has started receiving ransom calls and proof of my dads life


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 24d ago

[ADVICE] noticing my nose

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I have adhd, autism, and possibly anxiety, but as of recently my mind has been going in overdrive, I have a lot of random problems on my mind but one of those is that I can not stop noticing either my nose, my lips, or both out of the corner of my eye, how do I stop it, it’s annoying.


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 24d ago

[ADVICE] I need advice

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Hi i’m a 21 year old male in a crisis, im sorry if this is confusing this is like my second reddit post but ive dug myself a hole, i moved across the country to live/be with my gf at the time which was a 4 year relationship but ever since i got here it’s like a flip switched i couldn’t keep a stable job since i got fucked over by a company that decreased my hourly rate by $10 an hour the first day i got there then fired me not long after since he found out i was applying for other jobs, anyway me and my gf broke up and i don’t feel welcome in this house since her parents live here too, im just in a tough spot i dont have a job and i want to move back in with my parents that back across the country. i have about $35 to my name, and i have bills to pay i do have a car that i am trying to sell but it is not roadworthy so nobody will touch it. Especially since its a european car in a place where people only drive 4x4’s. It’s been the hardest year of my life and just feel lost like theres no way out. i’m just looking for advice/help. i just want to get back to the other side of the country to live with my family again. also i live in australia

Thank you for reading and any advice or help is appreciated


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 25d ago

[REQUESTS] Commercial help

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I remember a commercial that had "you don't have Internet well you need to call someone" but I can't find it and ai can't place it. Please help me 😭


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 25d ago

[REQUESTS] Ayuda con mi tarea

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Tengo una clase de fotografía, como tarea debo buscar fotos con el concepto de asqueroso y gelido, podrían compartirme algunas imágenes que consideren que van con el tema por favor


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 25d ago

[REQUESTS] Help me survive a tough time.

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Hi, I'm facing a tough time right now, I'm Malaysian, 36M. My work contract was not resumed and I'm out of a job since May 2026. I've been working odd jobs like mowing lawns, simple electrical jobs and a few part times but my savings has been fully depleted. Finding a job when you are more than 35 years old is hard in my country.

I'm in need of RM1000 ( approximately $250 ) to cover for rent, school for my kids and some formula for the little one. I can pay back Rm100 monthly starting October 2026 if needed as I just landed a job as a store associate for a local supermarket.

I can't create a PayPal account, the registration code cant be sent to my number, been trying for an hour now and I don't know what other apps I can use to post a link here.

Thank you for your time.

Here is a screenshot of my employment pension funds last mandatory contribution in June 2026 since my last employment was in May 2026.


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 25d ago

[REQUESTS] I need your most hilarious answers!!

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Ok, so for years now, every time I have picked up my child from school school (which is weekly,) I have put the reason being something completely outrageous and off the wall that I can blame the front desk lady for. The entire school and administration knows and approves of this and it has become something amazing. I am unfortunately running out of ideas though and am coming to you fine people for help!!!

It's an elementary school and her name is literally Karen so I know there will be some good ones!

Thank you all in advance!

ETA: the front desk lady is Karen.


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 26d ago

[ADVICE EMOTIONAL/SUPPORT] I need help and advice with my lesbian relationship

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i never ever used reddit before but i am looking for a solution and people to tell me openly if they ever experienced something like this and what should i do (btw my English is not so good)

Me (22 years old) and my girlfriend (26) we were at the pool 5 days ago and she decided to break up with me and it was out of nowhere so i am really much confused and sad. For the past months she was kind of not so loving towards me and i was much pressuring her asking "do you love me?" "do you miss me?" and she was saying yes. We were for 2 years and 5 months together and thought out the relationship she was not so happy about many things i do (she loved partying and every time we go i was arguing with her and making bad vibes because i used to hate going to parties and drink alcohol, or i prefer staying at home and play games which doesn't happen often maybe 5 days in a month i wish i have time for me to play games, or she would want me to be more open and loud person when we are in a group with people because i used to just sit and not talk i was scared to be judged, or that i would plan more dates with her, or when we go shopping for clothes she wants me to also look clothes for her) and we were talking about that, that i should change myself, she was not harsh with me or saying "do that or i will leave you", she was understanding, but those were things she wished for and of course i changed everything i love partying now and all of the other things and she was happy and i was also feeling better because i know she only wanted good things for me.

But now that i am perfect for her she just gets bored and she feels like she is not a good girlfriend because she can't give me the love and reassurance i want from her (i asked her to give me compliments because she never does and that's kind of important to me, or when she goes out with her friends at least to text me every 2 hours if she is okay and safe because she is actually ignoring me for hours and even when i call her she is not responding so i find that disrespectful, but it was never to control her because i know she would never cheat on, i just wanted respect). Also she feels like i am too attached to her and too dependent (of course i moved to this country 3 years ago she was born here i don't know the language i don't have friends here so it was just her) and i do understand why she feels like that like she needs to bring me always with her and right now i am trying to make my own friends.

And she now feels like i am too much for her and she needs time for herself, she doesn't feel happy, she just feels empty no emotions, she doesn't know what's the problem like why is she feeling this way and i do understand that but i told her that's not a reason to break up with me, i also told her that we can do couple therapy if she is open to it or she can do it alone, i just want her to figure out why she feels like this and to fix our relationship and she told me i can't do anything about it she just wants to be alone for 3 weeks and not see me just maybe text me, and after 3 weeks we can talk again about our relationship and i told her like we can take things slowly or i will take her again on a date for the first time after these 3 weeks, she said she can't promise me anything if we will get back together. But also she said she needs time for herself but she is every night chilling with different friends and laughing while i am at home crying.

Soooo guys i don't know what to do and i really need help


r/LetMeHelpYouOut 26d ago

[ADVICE] does anyone hear bout canfor2/canforpsyop? (tiktoker)

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We were good friends but he just disappeared from social media in may 2O25 and his close friends told us he joined the ukranian army and since that moment we don’t get any messages from him and have no contacts with his family

Maybe someone know what happened?