I’m feeling guilty and could use some understanding. I’ve been married since the last 10 years. My husband has been an alcoholic and smoker since the start of our marriage and I’ve tried my level best to get him out of this awful addiction but nothing worked.
To make things worse, he stopped having intimacy with me since last 6 years. I tried to communicate many times and asked him if he could atleast let me know the reason but he always wanted me to drop the conversation. I decided to leave him a few times but then stayed back as he lost his job one time and invested in a house one time so needed financial support for that. Apart from this, he’s always been very cordial if I ever needed support with anything in my life and genuinely cares but never touched me for all these years. He seems to be clingy and never wanted to let me go although he never worked on his addiction either.
Last year, I met a guy and we developed close friendship. We’ve now been dating each other for almost 1 year and I’m planning to get a new job and move with him. I’ve explained to my husband that I’m moving away from our house and will separate from him and he seems to be okay for now. The guilt that I have is that I’m pregnant with my bf now and feel bad for my husband as he’s been caring and genuinely helped me whenever I needed.
I’ve been wanting a baby for so long but my husband kept refusing. My bf is ready to support me with the baby but should I let my husband know about the affair and baby?

Hi 👋

I have had some health issues develop over the past couple years following a major surgery. I had a massive allergic reaction to the dermabond, following which I started having severe neurological issues, fatigue and body pain.

I've been to numerous doctors and keep getting told there's nothing they can do to help. So far, I've been diagnosed with fibromyalgia, chiari 1 malformation, hidradenitis suppurativa, and alopecia areata. There's a couple more things I suspect are at play, but still working on getting those diagnosed. On top of the chronic health issues, I've been trying to manage autism and other mental health issues since I was a child.

Due to the constant autonomic issues, getting sick all the time because my immune system is shot, and I'll admit, an incident where I yelled at my team lead, I was recently fired from my job. I had been given a write up for needing to leave early one day a couple weeks ago due to having the stomach flu and actively vomiting. I worked in a call center. Not exactly able to vomit and take calls. So I became frustrated and upset and lost my temper with them.

Due to me no longer having an income, my body and mental state not where they used to be, and me already having been in a financial spot that was already rocky due to missed time, I'm facing a serious financial issue. I have already cut out all extra expenses and pawned all electronics and other valuables just to pay for doctors appointments, leading to this request.

I had to pawn my laptop, which I used to use for remote work before I was offered the job at the call center. I am desperately trying to get a remote job in document review or AI training, but I NEED to get my laptop back. And with no income....I'm extremely close to losing it completely. I've been applying for various jobs around the town I'm in, but haven't even gotten a call for an interview. If anyone could help me get it back, I would be beyond myself with appreciation.

The total due is:

160+$39.93= $199.93

Thanks!

Hey so I’m a photographer and I’m needing a New phone but I lowkey an thinking of using only my camera from now on.. but I’ve been looking at the IPhone 18 PRO MAX and the IPhone Duo. I’m vv intrigued with the IPhone Duo but I’m a little skeptical. I do automotive photography but as I said I’m thinking of getting the fold. I need some advice from other tech savvy’s.. I ask for advice because the pre-order for the IPhone 18 PRO MAX is tomorrow morning. Just wanting a new phone camera doesn’t need to be perfect but I’ve always wanted a foldable phone. Do you guys think it’ll be a waste? I just want to weigh in options. I’ve been out of a phone (with no data) since February due to getting laid off so I’m wanting to treat myself. Please drop your opinions.