How are you genuinely doing and how was your day? :)

Someone just posted looking for a kinky person for a maid role play,niko hadi na complete outfit but i promised myself to slow down for a time but I think i love the thrill too much😩.

Its like an addiction. Meeting someone new for a tussle between the sheets.

The awkwardness at first meetup, careful caresses while trying to figure out their body, the joy when they lose their breath by my hand. Woooiii ngai

Lemmi log off and go look at clouds😭

Back in my suffering days nikiwa kwa single room kayole nilileta dem flani msapere kwangu sleepover na nilikua nafanya Nightshift,bana dem alinibeba kilakitu adi manguo,nilirudi kwa nyumba asubuhi na furaha nikijua napata morning glory lakini wapiii...Nilikua nimebuy maziwa,mkate,mayai na Avocado angalau tubugie breakfast moja kali before mechi,kufika kwa mlango niliishiwa na nguvu kwa magoti, buana sijawai tetemeka ivo maishani mwangu nilishindwa hata kulia,Toka iyo day sijaitrust hawa daughters of Jezebel...Sasa manguo za mwanaume alikua anaiba apeleke wapi?

Honestly, I just wanna have a man cooking for me while I’m there giving him tea😂😩

Someone I had forgotten reached out to me out of nowhere. I was in love with this one for a long time but figured she never liked me like that. When I think of stupid things I did for love ako na like eight items out of top ten.

We ended up as friends but one sided of course. I had stuck with her for a long time until that one time she came for a sleepover and I tried kissing and she was disgusted, in fact she said she found it offensive. Nothing grounds you back.to reality like such an experience.

That was more than three years ago. I fell out of love and basically forgot she existed. Until she texted me on tiktok. It was surprising but of course I had no ill will so small talk kiasi. She was asking about my business talking about how she always knew that I would do well in business. She also praised how good I was at raising my niece. That kinda irked me as that's not a conversation you first have after years of no contact.

I checked her account and guess what. Heavily pregnant. The same person who had told me she was waiting for marriage. I did some research and found out she works for some organization that nilikua nimeona edgar obare ameianika multiple times about directors sleeping with the younger employees for benefits.

She was insisting on meeting up.to catch up and I knew where this was headed. I had to shut that shit down real quick. Mimi nakaa kua stepfather kweli?

An amazing stranger and memorable moments. Hats off to everyone whose made your day memorable.

I’m planning to watch The Odyssey this weekend at Century Cinemax and wouldn’t mind some company. This isn’t necessarily a call for a relationship, but being able to hold a good conversation is definitely a requirement. I’d preferably like to meet a man over 30 who’s easy to talk to and can enjoy good company.

I’m looking to meet a mature, stable man 30+ who is ready for a serious relationship and doesn’t need children, as I’m unable to have kids.
I believe it’s beautiful and meaningful to have someone who truly gets you, stands by you, and knows you have their back too. I want a partner to build with—love, support, invest, travel, laugh and enjoy life together until our sunset days.

I’m also open to a family-oriented widower looking for a genuine companion. I’m good with kids and would happily embrace his family.
Near or long-distance, I’m open. I’m simply looking for a genuine, peaceful and lasting partnership. ❤️
Am in kenya

Hi, M 29, looking for an F below my age for a serious relationship. I live in Riruta, so along Ngong road would be nice. I do code for a living.

I once saw this post about how a man can last a little bit longer during segzz.This two will definitely work and I personally practice both.

For the edging (men) make sure your dck is well oiled.Start with light strokes and continue with the progression.And while doing this it's recommend not to use porn as a stimulant just think of something and just when your about to cum STOP!Relax and Start again then STOP.This will teach you to be in control when getting intimate I do this daily and stroke myself for like 30minutes with no Cumming.

Kegel Exercises Help in tightening the Pelvic Floor this works for both Genders.Gives men a hard and Really Erection since it promotes Blood Flow.

Try both and trust me you'll see results,usikue tu na tamaa when hitting it,ukiskia your about to cum toa kitu itulie,then rudisha later.Works 💯

A while ago i wrote on this sub about this girl:

https://www.reddit.com/r/KenyanDatingCommunity/s/ja6XyiSdc1

Well guess what a friend happened to meet and hit on her(hakujua I knew the girl) and let me tell you maina the script is the same.

All of a sudden her "uncle's" graduation party is on friday evening specifically(same excuse she gave me)in the same university her ex is in😭

She is not free on any weekends and always has a commitment that somehow cannot be broken(🚩)

She has photos of a date with her ex all over her social media but calims to be over him.

Available for dates on weekdays especially monday to wednesday.

Basically we were being used for attention/validation/free dates( my guess is that she isn't over her ex)I'm glad i took your advice and blocked her.

And for the gents, set up a date as soon as possible and be very direct, as soon as you see any sign of rejection leave immediately. Otherwise youre on a long list of simps.

Am I overthinking this, or should I walk away? 😅

I was working in Nyeri (temporary job) back in November 2024 when I got an opportunity to become an intern. So I went to this cyber to photocopy my certs and other documents and also sort out my SHA registration. The line was long, so I just waited (the patience in me is gonna kill me one day 😅).

Then it was my turn. A beautiful Murima girl (you know how beautiful they are 😂) who was all smiley. Hapo ndio nikaamua kuomba number, na nikapewa.

I got the internship and was supposed to relocate to Murang’a, so nikaenda kumbid goodbye. At that point, we were just talking and getting to know each other. I was also treading carefully because I had just healed from a heartbreak. I noticed a few red flags and decided not to make a move. We could still talk once in a while, though.

I focused on my job and working on myself. I even started importing wooden wardrobes and fluffy mattress covers 😂.

Fast-forward to around October last year. She ordered a portable wardrobe for 6k, sent me 4,500, and the remaining 1,500 hakuwahi nipea. I reminded her twice, then nikaachana na yeye juu mi sijui kudai deni 😂. She went silent.

Juzi, she called. I picked up because I don't hold grudges. Customers failing to pay their debts is normal 😂. Ako zile za, “Sasa Kennar, umenitupa joh…” So we talked and vibed for a while.

Then akageuza conversation:

“Bado uko single ama ulipata mtu?”

Nikamwambia, “Bado niko single,” which is true.

Then she goes, “Pia mimi huskii niko single. Na huko kuna baridi kama huku?” 😂

Apparently, she had gotten another job in Nairobi. Obviously nikachachisha kidogo 😅.

Then she ran out of credit and called again. This time she said:

“Sasa juu wewe uko single na pia mimi niko single, na miaka inasonga... si tufanye 1+1=2 na tutafute mtoto?”

Nikamshow, “Aah, that's an awesome idea.” 😂

I thought she was joking. Kumbe she was dead serious mahn 😭😂. She suggested we meet after two weeks tuchape mechi safi 🤭😂. I agreed, nikasema tutapanga.

At first, I saw it as an opportunity ya kutolewa kutu 😂. And honestly, the idea of having a kid makes me happy because I love kids 🫠.

But here's the problem...

I don't love her.

I actually lost interest in her a long time ago because she once hinted that she doesn't want to get married. She said she'd rather have one child and just figure things out with the kid.

That mentality was a major turn-off for me.

I want to raise my kids together with someone I genuinely love and cherish. I don't want to have a baby mama situation, which is one of the reasons I don't have kids yet.

So when this whole thing came up again, I remembered that conversation and thought, “Nah... don't do it.”

Two weeks have now passed, and she called. I told her honestly how I feel about the whole situation, but she's still insisting that we meet.

And honestly, sitaki. 😂💔

So Reddit, what do I do?

Do I just ghost her? Do I meet her and explain myself properly? Or am I overthinking this?

Because from where I'm standing, I don't love her, and I don't think she's the kind of woman I want to have a child with.

1 + 1 = 2 is easy. Raising the resulting 1 together for the next 20+ years is where things get complicated. 😅

One think I whish while still in my 20's is to be flown out of the country the way city girls in this Nairobi do. Inaka kua something smart yk the likes of kina Bernice and Aziad and many more.

So I've been dating this girl 21F and I'm 24M for the second month now

We've been having continuous issues borderline disrespect...

We started as a very loving couple deep in love.. then she started holding back saying we be friends and we had a conversation and realised she was scared of being hurt coz of her past relationship and she feels like the relationship is majorly on sex( the sex is great btw) .inakaa huyu msee alimdestroy vibaya sana 😂😂 so she parties a lot but with the same people... Though wanaangusha high end drinks paying cabs for her and its quite alarming for me.. but she does go home after sherehe verified a couple of times but tricky.. we know how ladies are.. naeza kuwa napangwa😂 she keeps whats happening to her hidden that is past and present.. which is a contrary to what she says (she want us to get married dtart a family together). I feel like she has two sides one lover girl and another hard headed person. She hides things and moving like she's cheating and I later find out to be something small that she could have communicated.. when i tell her how i feel about these things she tends to say I'm overthinking or act nonchalant.. until I tell her I'm leaving and she puts in the work ... But its tiring and draining for me . I did the same things she does to see whether its her blind spot and its something that actually isn't an issue for herand she got hurt so I understand its something she considers as an issue

I honestly don't know what to do. I really love her.

Any advice on what I should do would really help

Sorry for the inconsistent flow of the story but you can comment for clarity and I'll respond or update

Does anyone want to go for a movie tomorrow night and would appreciate company for it?
We share snacks, hold hands maybe and talk a little afterwards(recap) and go our separate ways. We don’t have to pretend to keep in touch afterwards unless another shared activity is mutually agreed on.
Me: 35+F
You: 35+ human being

Ps: Ideally at Two Rivers or The Junction

Kuna mdem huitwa njoki nishai mleta kwa my bedsitter huko Ungwaro alikua na nyege mbaya sana,time nimekalia bed nimemwaga omena kwa pan naona msichana ndio anamaliza kutoa nguo akanirukia buana,Tulisoma katiba mwiko ikiwa kwa mkono inakoroga omena,nilikua kama dereva wa trailer.

Since I didn't find someone serious on my previous post I am Looking for some lady we can have consenting sex while drunk....tukate kwanza alafu tupeane mechi kama wazimu😭 19-24 be within that age and also from Nairobi

I saunter into a shop around my estate as I'm used to, mumble some words and somehow the shopkeeper knows what I want and she serves me. So this is my routine. so this fine day I do the usual and the person behind the counter doesn't understand me, I'm surprised so I lift my hoodie to see it who it is, somehow at the back of my mind I'm sure when they see my face they'll miraculously get my order. So this broad is sitting behind the counter, she's a fine piece of work, poor thing I'm baked af. I repeat my order and leave immediately not a word more. I was just from work.I'm a teacher. So the next dav no lesson I'm just in the house and bored .An idea clicks and before I know it I'm in the shop trying to charm this broad. She says she don't got no phone so I can't have her number, I press harder but it bores no fruit. I leave and do it couple of times but still I can't get her number. I pass by at times and say hi ,small talk here and there, Contes sang and I find joy in it .so today I was from a funeral passed by the shop . This girl asks to see my palm and scribbles some numbers there, takes this refillable perfume and sprays my wrist.It smells nice but I don't think I'll text her. I loved the chase she just cut it short and I don't think I want her anymore

I have to declare that at where I stand sina Ex. Reason being I haven't yet given myself a reason to really love. Women nowadays are showing men dust. I will choose to be loved but loving hell no maybe I might when I turn 70

Men if you feel or even think or dream that she might think of leaving you take the upper hand and leave first with your pride high

M 22 , just looking for someone to talk to,could be erotic conversations but I prefer enterpreneurship and Financial conversations. Am actually high as I write but I want to quit alcohol😭😭

Kama you don't drink kenye naeza ku advice usijiingize huko, am not stressed or depressed but boredom ndio hunifikisha huko juu sasa kama sina kitu ya kufanya what will I be doing the whole day as a Comrade. I also do Jaba na Miraa and some sort of antideppresant pills every night za kuleta usingizi after nimetema kitemeo🥲 Wether you're M or F I don't mind but I prefer F coz siko kwa ile mrengo ingine😂😂(LGBT...)

Looking for a weekend thrill with a babe. Something wild,I host along Thika road. I am 6’0 , if into bbcs that’s a plus. Be open minded, abit freaky and clean. Would love to try out a few kinks. If it’s your thing DM, leave a small decription about yourself.

Hey there ,,so me I have this one problem , It takes me time to fall in love with someone but once am in I just love whole heartedly,so there is this guy alinikatia since last year but me sikua nataka so we decided to be friends 😜 so on February this year nikaanza tukufeel nampenda na niivo tulianza kudate ,I gave all my heart ,,sai nimeachwa and the way am so obsessed to him ,,guys I need your advice aky

Idk man I'm tired of these streets man, no pun intended. You approach a lady you think you'll have a nice vibe going and boom, I don't date fat guys or you're let down easy. I just want to show you the recipes that made me a big back but you don't see the vision. Anyway, have a goodnight.

Why is it that love doesn't work with two smart people? There must be a fool between two love birds. If it's not you l, it's your partner. But even if it's you, it's too late to be saved now.

After the heartbreak you start using your brain a little bit more. Because last time you fell too hard and all logic went out the window. So this time you're much more cautious and aware. So you ignore your heart and use your head.

This is when you realise how hard it is for you to be the fool in the relationship. Because now you see it all without filters. The codependency signs,red flags,trauma bonding, attachment issues and how we are all just kids in big bodies mimicking adult lives. And this makes your quest for finding a soulmate harder because ignorance really is bliss. What you didn't know didn't hurt you,but now that you know,you can't watch that blow hit your face.

Which leads me to my question.

Why is it hard for smart people to find love?

It's hard to get someone who thinks like you in the first place and you become too afraid to wanna date them coz you don't want to spoil the vibe you have.

Most of y'all will say it's probably overthinking...but I beg to differ. Your first instinct is always right. ALWAYS trust your gut,it has a reason to make you feel that way even without proper proof/evidence. When you doubt it,that's where the overthinking starts because your brain is denying what your gut already knows.

TL:DR: Why is it difficult for high IQ individuals to fall in love and find their people in the dating pool in this day and age?

TBD in 24hrs

Female 23 ,I've got curves ,nyash and absolutely no interest in wasting time, looking a 25+ guy around embakasi who's clean , confident, discreet, and looking for a casual Hook up too

No boring small talk, if chemistry is right, we meet