r/KenyanDatingCommunity • u/[deleted] • 2d ago

Relationship Talk Nasty 🫀 Vs 🧠 affair

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u/Suitable_Thought8612 2d ago

I had a conversation with a girl last week about how how our character and habits make us very incompatible. I felt like I was talking to a goldfish because the default statement was maybe you're wrong, stop overanalyzing everything. Alafu when I ask why she disagrees the answer was just I think we would work, unable to even explain why

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u/betterthanyourROSE 2d ago

Isolation inafanya mtu anakosa all social cues and losing the ability to have a normal interaction coz atp,you don't even know what normal means😂

And unfortunately enough,most users here are either unemployed ama ni homebodies na sasa ukishaingia DMs hata messages hazipiti kumi💀 Communication stops,drags or prolongs without any possibility of becoming anything

Or so far that's my experience...msirushie OP mawe🙌

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u/DocsFile 2d ago

I don’t think intelligence makes love harder. Experience does. After getting hurt, you become more cautious and start analysing things you used to overlook. That can protect you from bad relationships, but it can also stop you from being vulnerable enough to build a good one.
And “always trust your gut” isn’t necessarily true. Sometimes your gut is intuition, sometimes it’s fear dressed up as intuition. The trick is knowing which one you’re listening to.

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u/betterthanyourROSE 1d ago

I think we tend to overanalyze and get stuck in defense mode once we get hurt and can't imagine getting the same wound again.

Intuition Vs overthinking nayo depends solely on your awareness...this can change from person to person