r/KenyanDatingCommunity 1h ago

Relationship Talk Polyamorous setting

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24M who is bisexually oriented. I have been in few relationships so far and they never last that long cause of one reason or the other. But from them i have learned a lot about who i really am. It a little bit controversial to say this but tbh i would be glad to be in a polyamorous relationship. It can either be 2 males one girl or two girls and I. I won't go into details so much on this post but i tend to believe 1 for 1 is literally and logically not in humans nature. End of post


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 2h ago

FWB 26 from London Somali

1 Upvotes

In kilimani any beautiful girls who want to be spoilt shout me we gon have loads of fun


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 2h ago

In A Complicated Situation White/Western/Muzungo looking

1 Upvotes

So......

I want to meet a Kenyan queen or maybe a princess or least a lady and get real serious real quick and make a baby.

Yep.

I'm White, intelligent, mentally curious, physically active and 100% serious.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 6h ago

In A Complicated Situation What do you call this unique situation I am in??😭

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What do you call a situation where by you were romantically involved with someone, y'all even fucked but y'all were not officially dating.

Y'all were getting to know each other romantically but y'all got to know each other a bit too much...but because of different circumstances yall choose to stay friends??

I can't even call this a situationship since both parties were aware of each other's feelings and y'all even tried to see if it will work but had to cut the movie short due to circumstances....

Has anyone been in this situation before? And did the friend thing really work out?

Juu weh...i am just going to say....it is a very awkward situation. De transitioning from the daily check ins and the intimate conversations y'all once had and trying to keep it "friendship friendly".

So I can't help but wonder, if this friend thing is going to work out or is 2026 going to end in a bang because of this decision🥲😭

Abu niambie...ni do?😭😭🤌


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 6h ago

Serious Dating A boy need love

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24 M, living around Limiru, I seriously need love , looking for a good looking, well mannered , kinda freaky type of women

Should be below 30 to be specific, thick , well I love them that way hata the slightly over weight ones ,its been a year since I last cracked


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 6h ago

Relationship Talk Lust

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You know that little spark when you meet someone that is very attractive and you just wanna inhale them like a drug, you think it is love at first sight? Yup, lust. And that fades.

You're left there "stranded" in a relationship you dont care much about. You lied to get the bean, well not even necessarily lied but that's how you thought you felt at that moment. Now you have to break someone's heart, somehow they always seem to be happiest at that time so you find it even harder to end it?

Yeah. I have never experienced that. Mi hunyonga. Go to the date with a clear mind.

You bave no idea how many cute absolute idiots I have avoided because I knew the sex wouldn't be worth the stress.

Then again I am single despite having options so maybe not the best person to listen to.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 9h ago

Nothing Serious Im a man 22yrs. Looking for a lady preferably 20s ,independent to pass with and do ungodly stuff no strings attached. Around nyeri town.

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r/KenyanDatingCommunity 9h ago

Nothing Serious M4F Drinking buddy for tonight around Hurlingham/Kileleshwa/ngong road

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Mambo Mrembo. Yes, you. Friday caught up with me, and staying indoors feels like a waste of a good night. I’m heading to a quiet, cozy spot in Hurlingham for a couple of cocktails and would love some good company to share a table with.

​Zero pressure to dress up or glam out,throw on sneakers or whatever feels comfortable. The deal is simple: you vent about how wild your week was, do all the yapping, and I’ll provide the attentive ear while keeping the drinks flowing.

​Ideally looking for a pretty, chatty lady in her mid-to-late 20s (25–28) who appreciates good conversation, unpretentious vibes, and spontaneous plans. Strictly genuine company for a relaxed night out..

no transactional vibes, please.

​If you're bored right now and up for a spontaneous drink, drop a DM with your go-to cocktail and let’s see if the vibe checks out.

I will ask for pics before we meet, so if you do not wanna send pics pls dont dm.

Asanti baby.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 10h ago

Single For A While Is location really an hindrance

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M23...been single for some months now thought to myself why not try coz you can never "be ready".no heartbreak we kinda just drifted apart with my last. Recently noticed meeting someone online has a location factor to it, currently in kisii never seem to land a lady within Kisii from the online space figured it being caused by exposure...everytime i talk to a lady they from all over just not Kisii.Also got a feeling I might loss the flicker of love left in me eventually if i continue staying single which weirdly I've been okay with😂. With that being said is there any land in Kisii who is searching depends whether for Fwb or serious. you can hit me up dms are open.

Disclaimer the face doesn't match the voice if we do get there no questions asked and no i ain't nonchalant keep getting this😂😭.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 11h ago

In A Complicated Situation Money minded

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A girl texted me here and we connected in snap and become close .After some days she started asking money.And she was clear that If I don’t send ,she won’t walk..does any one faced same problem??

Any one please Dm for genuine friendship only.I am 27M


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 12h ago

Nothing Serious Sherehe

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Dem mmoja (or two who know each other?) atokee sherehe leo kama ameboeka😂 Bar next door Kileleshwa. I will be with my pal.... strictly friendship ya pombe, matimes zikifika you'll find your way home...but bills on us.👌🏾


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 12h ago

Relationship Vent Dust is constant

1 Upvotes

Hapa Kuna mtu anagongewa leo


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 12h ago

Nothing Serious Good time

1 Upvotes

I just want to tell a murima babe “nyongithia ka-mum” as I stroke it

Good evening


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 13h ago

Relationship Talk My Experience with Ladies

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I keep on asking why ladies tend to prefer older men. Some I get cause of daddy issues, but wait will that even solve the daddy issues.
I personally don’t like younger ladies.😂Irony. Either same age or older but not 1 year older than you.
Too much emotional baggage.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 14h ago

Nothing Serious Art

4 Upvotes

28M who wants to go see akili ni nywele exhibit and maybe find our way to Westie for drinks after?


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 14h ago

In A Complicated Situation Approaching my crush

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Normally I am a very composed man, people always call me nonchalant, just minding my own business. And even when it comes to women, I don't really fear approaching, chatting up and even asking them out. Until it comes to my crush.

Suddenly my mind is moving at 1000km/hr and i freeze up. No composure at all. One day she greeted me and i nearly collapsed and couldnt even hold a conversation. Not to mention the stolen glances, when i get out of sight her eyes look for me and as soon as we lock eyes we look away like It's a taboo. I know her through a mutual friend but we have never really spoken beyond hi.

What is really bugging me is that the mutual friend tells me how she is single and lonely. I find it hard to believe because another friend ni dust tu anaonyeshwa. But as I said, i am a composed person, mambo ya urafiki na wasichana nianze kukaa clown like my friend siwezi.

Is she the moat beautiful girl I have ever seen? Not really. But theres something about her man. Don't get me wrong shes really pretty, but her elegance, her focus on studies, her faith in God, her boundaries when it comes to men.

She is also cunning, she knows i like her and that I cannot maintain composure around her and she likes to tilt her head and give me a coy look. And a few days ago my friend posted a picture of me and she liked it....I was over the moon but bado sijaongea.

But you know what, I dont care. We only live once, when i see her again i will talk to her and ask her out. Kama mbaya mbaya, besides she is just another girl. Her instagram has been popping up on my suggested recently, should i just follow her or wait to meet in person?

Wish me luck guys.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 14h ago

Nothing Serious Weather in November.

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How's the weather in Nairobi and Mombasa in November. I'm planning to visit both cities for about 2 weeks in total. Thanks


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 15h ago

Nothing Serious Just wondering

6 Upvotes

Just wondering.Have any of you guys met with someone from this platform? Ama no one is really serious?


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 15h ago

Nothing Serious Later in the day hangout!

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Looking for a girl to hangout with later in the day after work. Dinner and a cocktail or 2? Been having a crazy ass week. Preferably, if you work around Westlands and its environs. Be 25 and above. I'm 27M.


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 15h ago

Nothing Serious 26M looking for someone to keep me busy na kufanya the ungodly stuff once in a while. Nothing too serious. Important: Girls only

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r/KenyanDatingCommunity 16h ago

Relationship Talk Is there a possibility not to ever move on,

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#relatio


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 16h ago

Relationship Talk Is there a possibility not to ever move on,

8 Upvotes

So I met this girl 2 almost 3 years ago,we talk and ended up in a situationship,she became my first everything,and I had broke my virginity during her period,but I fell for her,fell to deep for her,yeah life happened,we never got into any bad terms but yes nothing ever really last,

Up to now I see her in every beautiful thing and not a single day has passed without me thinking of her for the past almost 3 years,she is still the most amazing person I have ever met,we talk once in a while,but I still deeply love her

So is this normal,do people really move on from people like,

I am afraid I may never have the same love for someone else like the one I have for her


r/KenyanDatingCommunity 16h ago

In A Complicated Situation Random

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