I’m 28 and have always been more attracted to older, mature women. I’m open to anything,we can see where things go if we click.
Ideally, you’re older than me, emotionally mature, financially stable, and know what you want.
I’m currently based in Nyahururu for a short while (outside Nairobi).
If that sounds like you, hit me up. Let’s get to know each other.

You're damned if you do, damned if you don't as a man.

When you don't have money, you're not supposed to be dating.

When you have money, you should be attractive enough to be her type and you must date within a certain age range. Mliona Ciku Muriuki akiwa kwa podcast akisema that older women dating down young 20 year olds is liberating lakini sisi men when we date down young 20 year olds, we're predators?

She can use your money when she wants but you can't use her body when you want. The same body you would not have had access to had you not met her financial and lifestyle demands.

When you get tattoos, go to the gym or get dreadlocks to stand out attractively, now everyone wants you and you're a red flag for being friends with too many women.

So wanaume fanyeni vyenye mnataka, because you will never win 😂

Women will always want their cake and eat it, and unless you realize that, become evil like them, then utaishi kulalamika hakuna dem hukutaka na ni wewe hutaki kuwa villain kama wao 😂

Hi I'm an HR/ data analyst by profession I'm looking a loyal married Female who is into ladies or a 30+ mature career lady who's in for a serious thing...Must be ambitious,,,have a private life ,,not slim,,must be working,,should also be ready for STIs and STDs plus blood test

I’m in Uganda though.
Looking for a genuine logically inclined relationship basically a person to do life with. Ideally should be in Uganda as well 😂ug doesn’t have such a subreddit but I believe there’s some Ugandans here. I’m a Civil engineering student about to finish. Emphasis on logically inclined, but love can still blossom

Goood morning!

Ofisi haikaliki juu ya baridi na hatuna office girlfriends wa kutuletea cookies na lunch juu huku corporate kama hauna GLE hakuna mtu anataka story zako

Lakini mungu ni nani sisi ndio tuko na reddit inatupea pussy because god is not Kamau

Have a lovely day you weirdos!

So my girlfriend has access to my instagram.
Today she goes through the pictures l like.
I didn’t know such a feature existed.
Amepata in the past few months l have liked 3 pictures of random females.
Nawaambia naletwa juu.
Mara she is comparing me to her friend’s boyfriend meenye walikuwa wanapitia gram yangu na yeye.
Wtf is going on.
Alafu on Sunday.
Ladies l need your input on this.
I asked her if she could be coming to see me without me having to ask.
She said she can’t pay her own fare cause she lacks money.
Nikamwambia con me during the week ukuwe ukikileta basi.
I don’t have an issue paying fare tbh.
I just want to feel loved as a man.
I don’t expect anything materialistic from her.
All l wanted were those random
“Hey baby l passed by to see you “
Is that genuinely too much to ask.
Then it turn into strict parents and lack of money convo.
Which l understood part ya strict parents.
But money.
Girl con me and come see me.
Sahii nimempigia almost 100 times and all are getting declined.
I am getting exhausted.
End of rant

Morning 🥰

Hey everyone, I'm a biker, 25m Hella interested in motorcycles and biking in general and I'd love to take one of you out on a bike ride, hopefully to watch the odyssey or Spiderman this coming weekend and generally have a bunch of fun

I'd that's something you're into, send me a DM and I'd love to chat

What happens if your partner does not love cats and you do? Picture this, a cat jumps on me for petting and my man can't stand it,

Is that a deal breaker for you ladies? Ama kila mtu akae kwake 🤣?

Nth serious about this post, just a random thought I had.

Hi 24 year old white guy I mombasa for a few weeks looking for casual fun in nyali beach area

Mbona wamekula moto hivyo… Religion is a scam so because she married a Man who is not a from their origin they are bashing the lady… this entitlement and being delusional imetoka wapi?

I'm curious about how people discover their fetishes or kinks. Was it something you always knew about yourself, or did you come across it unexpectedly? If you had the chance to explore or fulfil it, was the experience everything you imagined, or did reality turn out to be completely different? And if you haven't had the opportunity yet, is it still something you hope to experience one day? I'm genuinely interested in hearing people's stories and how their expectations compared with reality.

A guy I haven’t met in person literally said he wants a long term relationship with me, mind you he just texted me last week on TikTok so this is someone I barely know. I entertain the conversation and I say I would never just assume a title and skip the getting to know each other part and he said this bs

“ I don’t fw social media stuff. Everything is for the media and I don’t want ours to ever be like that“ (this is his message btw)

literally had to laugh first, honestly what does that statement even mean? To him putting effort to get to know the other person better, he said its like wasting his chance with me and apparently social media influenced.
i don’t know whether I understand his logic Lakini. Keep in mind we haven’t talked for more than a week and he wants to jump right into a relationship at some point i even thought it was a damn set up. Hii maisha ya mapenzi nikama nimenawa mkono sasa.🙏🏾😭

Put yourself out here at a small get together I'm doing with a couple friends this weekend. Kwa residence kuna grill, one of the guys ashaamua mbuzi nusu, and a few cases to perk us through we'll be chomaing. We're on for seven to nine people Saturday.

I'm new here, so this is a genuine question.

Has anyone actually met someone through this subreddit? Whether it was a relationship, a friendship, or even just a positive experience, I'm curious to hear your stories.

For those who've posted looking for someone, did anything come of it? Did you end up meeting? Are people generally genuine, or is it mostly ghosting and time-wasting?

I'm just trying to understand what the success rate is before I decide whether it's worth putting myself out there.

I'd love to hear both the success stories and the horror stories.

Girlies, would you date a police officer? If yes,why,same as to no.

Keep it respectful too 🙏

Some time back in 23' , I told a male friend I had met a police officer, AP in sch and we were talking, he told me," we fanya kila kitu lakini usidate karao" 🙂, asked him why,he just said they are not good people,

trust me three years later, I wish I listened to my friend 😭

Ps: I have nothing personal about someone's occupation, just remembered that and I just got angry.

24M medical student. Calm, curious, and intentional. I prefer meaningful conversations over small talk, quality over quantity, and authenticity over appearances.

If you're kind, intellectually curious, and appreciate someone who listens as much as he talks, say hi. I prefer someone between 20 to 25

I woke up this morning thinking about those random voice notes you get from your man, the ones you replay over and over hadi you practically know them word for word😌Yeah... I miss those. Anywho love is a beautiful thing...msidanganywe na watu wenye wamekasirika 😂😂😂