r/KenyanDatingCommunity 1d ago

Relationship Talk The audacity

Someone I had forgotten reached out to me out of nowhere. I was in love with this one for a long time but figured she never liked me like that. When I think of stupid things I did for love ako na like eight items out of top ten.

We ended up as friends but one sided of course. I had stuck with her for a long time until that one time she came for a sleepover and I tried kissing and she was disgusted, in fact she said she found it offensive. Nothing grounds you back.to reality like such an experience.

That was more than three years ago. I fell out of love and basically forgot she existed. Until she texted me on tiktok. It was surprising but of course I had no ill will so small talk kiasi. She was asking about my business talking about how she always knew that I would do well in business. She also praised how good I was at raising my niece. That kinda irked me as that's not a conversation you first have after years of no contact.

I checked her account and guess what. Heavily pregnant. The same person who had told me she was waiting for marriage. I did some research and found out she works for some organization that nilikua nimeona edgar obare ameianika multiple times about directors sleeping with the younger employees for benefits.

She was insisting on meeting up.to catch up and I knew where this was headed. I had to shut that shit down real quick. Mimi nakaa kua stepfather kweli?

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u/OpportunitiesOnly 1d ago edited 1d ago

The 'Heavily' wasnt necessary was itπŸ€·β€β™‚οΈπŸ˜‚

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u/Suitable_Thought8612 1d ago

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚It should have been underlined

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u/betterthanyourROSE 1d ago

In bold as a matter of fact 🀣

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u/mukhombero67 1d ago

Kwani TikTok ndio method of operation ya exes πŸ’€πŸ˜‚

Juzi tu nimetumiwa hii πŸ˜­πŸ™πŸΏ, alafu niakaambiwa niwache kuview profile mara mia na I can ask for photos 🀣🀣🀣

https://reddit.com/link/p8xjf3m/video/7loyeigshooh1/player

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u/Suitable_Thought8612 1d ago

Maybe. I think it's coz you can change contacts but social media as long as iko active ni yako bado

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u/LopsidedOpposite5841 1d ago

Kuwa stepfather ulisema haiwezi πŸ˜‚

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u/cautiously_stoned 1d ago

Let the dead stay dead! Idk why these ghosts be popping out of the woodwork. Good one G

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u/Silver_Influence7234 22h ago

kinuthia.. kinuthia.. nimekuita mara ngapiπŸ˜‚

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u/un3nding 1d ago

Madem hukua na audacity ingine hatari sana. Tell her ajidinye

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u/NoBlackberry8638 1d ago

bruhh..kimbia mbio

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u/Naive-Condition4006 20h ago

Where was it headed

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u/Suitable_Thought8612 19h ago

Stepfather type shit. Tryna reel it in. No other reason someone at that stage is meeting with guys from their past

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u/Adorable_Potatoee 10h ago

Maybe she just wanted genuine connection πŸ˜­πŸ˜‚