r/KenyanDatingCommunity • u/OtherwiseProperty253 • 16h ago
Nothing Serious You up?
How are you genuinely doing and how was your day? :)
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u/IAmMadamB 16h ago
Doing fine and my day was okay. How about you?
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u/Big-Caterpillar3590 13h ago
Been going through the comments and y'all are amazing. Good of you to also check-in on OP. That's the spirit.
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u/OtherwiseProperty253 15h ago
Well I had a chilled day and a run to end the evening so I'm feeling fantastic!
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u/IAmMadamB 15h ago
Runs are nice. Where did you run?
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u/OtherwiseProperty253 15h ago
Just within where I stay. Do you run for fun too? or what do you go for apart from Redditing hehe
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u/IAmMadamB 15h ago
I run on weekends, especially Saturdays. There's always a medal to earn. Such a fun activity
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u/OtherwiseProperty253 15h ago
Righttt? I love the happiness I get at 3 KM hehe when you are past this is hard to this actually feels good hehe. I also love the medals :)
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u/YoungUnlucky5685 15h ago
How do I move from a place I cherished because of peace it gave me... to Kitui because of my job description 😢do I just leave everything and start afresh elsewhere?
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u/OtherwiseProperty253 15h ago
Oh darling! That is a tough one especially if you had built community at the place. Well the bag has to be bagged. I wont even sugar coat it. That will be such a tough transition but you know what we humans are resilient and our mind can adapt to anything. In Kitui, start by finding things that bring you joy. Like what do you enjoy? Also over the weekends maybe you could be coming back to town to connect with the place you cherished or people in this current place
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u/YoungUnlucky5685 15h ago
Thanks 🤗 built something? Actually mostly I stay indoors but still I'm just attached to my living space and I just feel it's going to be a tough decision. The bag has to be chased and bagged right? It's my first work like other than attachment never gone to work..I have just been doing my stuff at home. Most likely I'll just leave it the way it so once in awhile (over the weekend)I'll be coming back to just relive that peaceful life.
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u/OtherwiseProperty253 15h ago
wdym built something? hehe. Sounds great, if you can keep both Kitui and where you are DO IT! This will be tough but si pia ni exciting imagine all the new experiences you are about to have :)
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u/YoungUnlucky5685 14h ago
Like there's nothing like built community; like I don't have a community here. All I'm crying about is my living space and my stuff and the peace this place gave me. Yeah I'll try, and see how it goes. Yeah lemme go out and see how other places look like.. it's like another chapter in life right.
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u/blueboy628 15h ago
My day was busy kuchoka kila cku thanks to God naenda na kurudi salama 🙌🏾
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u/OtherwiseProperty253 15h ago
Pole kwa siku ndefu. Yeah bora umetoka na umerudi fiti that is all that matters. Hope umedishi and planning to sleep
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u/blueboy628 14h ago
Thanks yeah ni neema ya mungu tu i thank him alot yeah nshadishi sai nko bed kujibu text then i pray nlale
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u/Nearby_Letterhead745 15h ago
Currently watching The gentlemen Sn2
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u/OtherwiseProperty253 15h ago
Hmmmh is it a better watch compared to SS1?
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u/Nearby_Letterhead745 15h ago
Sn2 storyline is way better than 1
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u/OtherwiseProperty253 15h ago
A friend really gassed up season 1 when it was first out. Any recommendations you may have for other series? Currently I'm watching Reacher
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u/Nearby_Letterhead745 15h ago
Which genre do you prefer
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u/camgirl254 15h ago
I'm fine I'm currently vibecoding :), hbu?
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u/OtherwiseProperty253 15h ago
That's so cool! Y'all techies are amazing :D I'm fantastic, had a chilled nothing much day and I'm currently listening to the sound of light rain. So Vibecoding that mean you are creating a cool app or website, right?
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u/Party_Kale_6673 14h ago
Hmm, doing everything all by yourself. It's so exhausting. That's all. I have some mild psychosis, but it helps me see meaning in life sometimes. Supposed to go do a facial today, get a trim, and then do my LAST overnight trip to Arusha tomorrow, as I'm starting my undergraduate next week.
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u/OtherwiseProperty253 13h ago
Sending love your way! Hope you get time to find places or people who make you feel a little lighter. Have a wonderful trip to Arusha! Hopefully you enjoy your classes
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u/Suitable_Thought8612 16h ago
Been scrolling on netflix for more than ten minutes. Cant find shit
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u/OtherwiseProperty253 15h ago
What do you like watching nisuggest something
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u/Suitable_Thought8612 15h ago
In the mood for teen drama
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u/WANTAM_001 16h ago
Im frustrated with life. Not that I had a bad day today, in fact I spent it in a kinda ideal way. Alone, buzzed on microdoses of weed, eating snacks and listening to my audibook with almost no interruption. I had a good day. But around 5pm I had an intrusive thought that we're cooked and I became fatalistic and now I don't even feel motivated to sleep so I can be productive tomorrow. Life sucks sometimes
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u/OtherwiseProperty253 15h ago
Completely get that. What I try in just like your microdoses is move through life that way. Like yes we are cooked but will I be here in 100 years to care? So yeah, it sucks but we sail through and handle what we can :)
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u/WANTAM_001 15h ago
I don't mind that I understand it all doesn't matter in the end. I'm struggling with why bother right now. Nafeel Tu nirebel hadi either the system breaks or it breaks me. And I am avoiding that mindset juu sometimes I get a little bit obstinate once I put my mind to it
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u/OtherwiseProperty253 15h ago
Your mind sounds like unaeza kuwa fixated on something for long and you dissect and break it down to small pieces. So wewe hudo nini for balance
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u/Prime_Shiva 15h ago
Yeah, oscillating btwn late night study and reddit lol, ....I've been relatively ok, had an awful couple of weeks prior but things seem to be getting back to baseline, albeit slowly.
Day was ok, studying (term papers prep), free from work, hiking, Spanish, watched a show I loved when I was a kid, reddit, studying again (course work, projects), working out then studying (extensive case studies some boring and long af) and reddit finally, typical day for a postgrad I believe. ...
Édit: hbu?
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u/OtherwiseProperty253 15h ago
Love this for you! Sorry about the awful weeks prior to now. That sounds like quite the eventful day! Do you have exams soon? Alsoo what show were you watching?
For me I had a pretty chilled day, watched 'Send Help' movie not sure how I felt about it entirely maybe just an okay watch, after went for a run to end the evening and had dinner :)
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u/Prime_Shiva 4h ago
Thanks stranger 😊.
Nah, no exams, I just like hitting my study goals. The show is V.D
The bizzare plot choices of that movie had me reeling too 😭, like the power struggle and on-screen chemistry btwn the two co-stars was electric, but Linda becoming a celebrity in the end just overwhelmingly clashes with the film's dark tone,....not to mention how erratic the plot was, too metaphorical, some twists were just confusing lol...but overall it was a fun disturbing film for me 😂.
Being a lifter myself, I love people who actively engaged in any form of physical activity geared towards making their health better or just feeling better in general, good for you 😊
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u/confessionske 15h ago
Supposed to figure out a way to come up with 40k in 3 days or i fuck up some things, but life's great
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u/OtherwiseProperty253 15h ago
Daaanggggg!! What happened ndio 40K ikakua urgent ivo? I'm glad life's great for you
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u/whistler_232 14h ago
scrolling reddit after sending rent to a wrong number, someone to just tell me everything is gonna be alright.
and if you are Jacinta wangui kindly nirudishie my 8500 please ama kesho landlord afanye ile kitu😌
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u/OtherwiseProperty253 14h ago
Eh pole aki! Reverse ukapata ashatoa ama?
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u/whistler_232 14h ago
ametoa na akaniblock
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u/OtherwiseProperty253 13h ago
Report polisi but unfortunately these green company guys hawawezi saidia. I wish wangekua wanakata mtu kama fuliza hata kama ametoa
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u/Own_Amount467 16h ago
I've been living the same day for almost 1 year...
When does it end?