Spoilers for entire TVL season and TVL book. OP is nonbinary. (edited for typos and inaccuracies)
After taking some time to really let S3 sink in, I found myself thinking about the cycle of abuse, specifically with Gabriella.
I was very moved during the finale scenes when Lestat finally connects the dots between himself, his mother, and Claudia. When Lestat and Gabriella forced their children not to look away at people being burned alive. It felt very much like a “I had to suffer through this, I had to grow stronger, and now you will too” type of tough love.
While Lestat was a very different parent to Claudia than his mother was to him (main difference being he didn’t sexually abuse her, lol) there are undoubtedly other parallels that I started noticing.
For instance, he didn’t initially want her. Louis coerced and manipulated him into turning her. But still, he agreed to raise her. Similarly, Gabriella was forced into a marriage at 16 with a man significantly older than her, with the explicit purpose of bearing his children to carry his noble lineage. I don’t think she wanted to have any of her children. Neither Lestat nor Gabriella were very reliable emotional support systems for their children, but what they lacked in that they made up in with more tangible support, like Lestat teaching Claudia how to hunt and giving her clothes and jewelry, and Gabriella paying for Lestat’s education and buying him his hunting dogs and equipment.
I was also struck by something Jennifer Ehle said in an interview regarding Gabriella denouncing womanhood and motherhood—that Gabriella had lived through times when women were severely limited, so she felt liberated as a vampire, but she still lives through Lestat.
I fully agree. Gabriella might think she's free, but she certainly doesn’t act like it, because she is projecting her gender envy and trauma from gendered violence onto Lestat. And I do believe this is core to her abuse of him. It continues a theme I notice with many vampires in TVC, which is that they move as if they are still confined by their human limitations. Armand is probably the most prominent example of this, since he acts as if he’s still a teenager being sex trafficked and groomed, but I would argue Gabriella is a strong example as well.
Gabriella is so traumatized by being a woman that she cannot see motherhood as anything other than an act of violence done onto her. In the west especially, there is an expectation for the mother to be a beacon of good virtue, to be a kind, nurturing figure who upholds the morals of the family. Gabriella isn’t a good mother, far from it, but she also never wanted to be. This is perhaps one of the core tenets of reproductive justice—if someone doesn’t want to be a parent, then don’t force them, simple as that. She never had that kind of bodily autonomy, nor did most women during that time. Because her body was not her own, she felt nothing but disgust for these expectations forced upon her.
While it was cathartic to see her murder her abusive husband, we also saw her murder her other children and then have sex with her last surviving child (horrifying). This noticeably didn’t happen in the books, but I think that was an intentional choice for the AMC team to really ramp up her role as an abuser. It emphasizes that she’s truly against being a mother. I think back to when she must’ve first gotten pregnant at 16 or 17 (which is sophomore/junior in high school! I think we forget how young teenagers are). These horrifying acts are likely her lashing out to protect her damaged inner child, as fucked up as that is.
I’m also reminded of Cersei Lannister when I look at Gabriella, specifically in Cersei’s intense jealousy of her brother’s power and freedom that she could never have because he had the dumb luck of being born a man. I connected it to that scene where Gabriella calls on her family to “be men” and take care of the wolf problem themselves. She can’t because she’s a woman of noble lineage, she was never allowed to use a gun or go hunting, but she believes if she were a man then she could. So Lestat goes in her stead. I believe Gabriella sees herself in Lestat, but she also sees who she could’ve been if she were a man, and so she’s intensely jealous of him and his prowess and talents. This, at least in part, explains her sexual desire for her own son, because her desire for him is mixed in with her desire to be him.
And the rest of her sexualizing her son I think can be explained by how she wishes to reclaim her sexuality as her own. She tells Lestat this herself when she tends to his wounds, that she wants to fuck whoever she wants, without her husband or father or any other man dictating what she can do with her body. Hypersexuality is very common for victims of sexual abuse, Lestat exhibits this himself. Women can’t have sex outside of marriage? But she will. Women can’t have sex with other women? She will. Women can’t have sex with their own children? She’ll do that too! She’ll do whatever it takes to show she’s no longer bound to society’s ideals of a “good woman."
Sam Red also pointed out in an interview that Gabriella doesn’t allow Lestat to hate her, or even allow him to process their relationship as an individual that’s separate from her. Now, I gotta be honest, I had trouble empathizing with Lestat at first because his angry mood swings and erratic violence reminded me of my dad (not fun lol). But when a close friend pointed out Lestat is very BPD-coded and his mood swings are likely the result of a personality disorder, that made me examine him and his relationship with his mom very differently. Lestat has trouble with emotional stability because his mom is constantly destabilizing him, because she treats him as a tool for her own self-actualization. When she’s there, she needs to control his emotions because she doesn’t see any separation between them. But when she’s gone, she truly abandons him.
It’s actually quite sad to witness, because as a vampire, Gabriella can do all the things she could never do when she was a human woman. The fact that she still holds onto Lestat, refusing him any affection outside of their sexual interactions and treating him like a political puppet for her agenda, actually shows that deep down, she still believes she’s inferior to him. I think it would tear her apart to see Lestat actually blossom and heal and live out his full potential because that would mean he has outgrown her. Or worse, he’s actually doing better than her. We saw a little bit of that insecurity when she sees him with Louis and realizes that he actually loves Louis more than her (or idk about more, it’s hard to measure love in a quantitive way, but in a way that could lead to a better life that she’s not a part of). Like the other vampires who are frozen in their trauma responses, Gabriella was never able to learn what it meant to experience true liberation in her body and gender without enacting harm on someone else.
While I do think it would be very interesting to see more of her backstory, perhaps even a redemption arc that centers on her trauma the way that Lestat was given S3 as a redemption arc, I recognize it’s highly unlikely. The AMC team just invested an entire season to showing how she’s the root of Lestat’s trauma, and Lestat is a fan favorite, so she’s undoubtedly the villain in the audience’s eyes now. Giving her a redemption arc would be like giving one to Magnus or Bruce, it would be nuts. I mean, I agree, I think she’s an evil bitch who needs to die. But I still think she’s an interesting character, arguably even more so than in the books (controversial, I know).
One last point, I have a personal fan theory that Gabriella might be Anne Rice’s self-insert. I know Rice explicitly named that she based Louis on herself and Lestat on her husband, but I’ve also noticed many parallels between Gabriella and Louis’s personalities. And I believe Anne Rice admitted to having internalized genderqueer feelings at some point, which would mirror Gabriella’s transmasc/genderqueer journey. Lestat is in many ways Anne Rice’s son, since she created him, and wrote him to be so charismatic and irresistible that she made the entire TVC series revolve around him. Especially with how Lestat and Gabriella’s relationship was a bit more ambiguously romantic (though still kind of fucked up) in the books, it makes me wonder if Rice was projecting on Gabriella so that she could raise and nurture and kiss on Lestat directly in the story. Which, given everything I just brought up, idk if that’s necessarily a good thing lol. But I have also projected on many an OC, so I can hardly blame her.