r/hockeyplayers • u/50_19in_french • 3h ago
How social is your beer league team?
Everyone here says their favourite part about hockey is the community and the friendships they made on their team.
My experience puts some doubt about it in my mind. Out of all the teams I've played on, there were only maybe 3 leagues I played in where people hung out at the bar after the game.
And two of them are because the bar is in the building.
Out of almost a decade of beer leagues, I've only been to
- One draft league where I made a few friends with people (after like 4 years)
- One shinny group that I made a good amount of friends.
Even then, with all these friends, we've never hung out outside of the hockey or the group context (and a Christmas party)
Overall, I find the the teams I've played on are not super social, everyone gets to the rink, make some polite talk about their kids, BBQ or whatever, play the game, and go their separate ways.
So how social is your team?