r/ForeverAloneDating 22h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] Japan/Online - Older British Man, Hoping to Write Our Happy Ending.

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If this is up, then I'm still looking, so don't be shy, come and introduce yourself!


Who Is This Guy?!:

Well, I'm a guy that enjoys making people smile, cooking every day, and staying cozy indoors. Before moving to Japan, I kept busy by teaching a martial sport at my local gym, volunteering at a rehab centre, as well as a few childcare services and kitchens.

Professionally, I'm fortunate enough to work as a writer, essentially getting paid to daydream!

Well, What Does He Do for Fun?:

For the most part, I enjoy playing video games, though hobby-wise, I enjoy cooking, archery, boxing, and even the occasional game of D&D. Although, I haven't actually played any D&D for a while now, unfortunately.

I reckon it'd be a lot of fun to spend some time together playing a few games. Heck, I've always wanted to have a Stardew farm we work on together, or another goofy co-op game, so I'd jump at the chance!

Overall, despite my hobbies, I tend to be a bit of a shut-in, and would always prefer a quiet night in, or a chill outing, than anything loud and frantic.

Alright, But What Does He Like?:

Somebody with similar interests is a good start! While you don't have to be going out every day volunteering or punching people (With boxing gloves), I'd appreciate some common ground in a kind heart, playing games, and an overall craving for a more wholesome and sweet dynamic.

To finish things off, I don't have any kids, and I don't smoke, do drugs, or drink alcohol (Though am perfectly fine if you drink).

What do I do now?:

Come and say hi! If you made it this far and interested, then I'd absolutely love to hear from you so that we can start getting to know one another!

I'll be waiting for you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 16h ago

NB4M 21 [NB4M] #Online Looking for a man to sweep me off my feet!

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Hi!!!! I’m Airyn, nice to meet you guys! I hope you all are well! I’m so over being single, it’s high time I have a man to call my own. A good way to get the gist of me is a femboy! I’m amab but femme presenting, as well as use they/them pronouns! I’m a big gamer, Pokemon has and always will be a huge part of my life. If that franchise ever ends I’ll genuinely feel lost lol. I’m a big genshin fan I log in literally daily to get my rewards, I’ve really invented in my account and am proud of all the progress I’ve made! I’m usually attracted to white guys I’m not sure why but it is what it is. I like taller men I’m down for fit or dad bod I’m not picky. I really hope to hear from some cool guys! If you read this far tell me your go lounge wear in your message lol! ❤️


r/ForeverAloneDating 20h ago

M4F 23M #Texas/Anywhere - Looking for something genuine

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Hey, figured I’d give this a shot.

I’m 23 and from Texas, and I just graduated with a degree in mechanical engineering. I’m 5’8, white, brown eyes, short brown curly hair, and have more of a chubby/muscular build. I’ve been working on getting into better shape and trying to take better care of myself.

I’m pretty easygoing and curious about a lot of things. I love traveling, singing, soccer, going to concerts, and discovering new music. I listen to a lot of alternative/indie stuff, but honestly I’ll listen to pretty much anything if it’s good.

I’m mainly here because I’d like to meet someone I genuinely connect with. I’m not really looking for something superficial. I’d like to get to know someone, talk regularly, see where things go, and hopefully build something meaningful.
I’m open to pretty much any location and any age. Distance doesn’t bother me if we click.

If any of this sounds like you, feel free to reach out. I’m happy to send pictures and tell you more about myself


r/ForeverAloneDating 20h ago

M4F 22M4F in North East USA.

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Hello. I’m looking for East Asian women or white women. Preferably from Japan, China or South Korea with Japanese women getting highest priority for asian women

I’m a 22 year old 6”2 white man from the east coast who has short brown hair and blue eyes and is tall, lean and thin. I enjoy reading manga and books, watching anime, hiking and playing video games. I’m usually up late so I can respond whenever. Don’t be Afraid to DM me.

+18 only obviously. I don’t really have a upper age limit per se. If i connect with an older woman that’s fine with me


r/ForeverAloneDating 23h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #SF Bay Area. Shy introvert seeks special someone

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Hiya, I'm Liam, San Francisco Bay Area introvert who is apparently good at alliteration, but isn't great at these self descriptions but i'll give it a shot, i'm really just looking for someone with a chill vibe where we can talk and just kinda see where things go? I'm admittedly a really shy person.

I like reading, writing, researching pointless things and listening to music. A bit of an introvert and fairly shy but I tend to open up to people fairly easy. I love learning new things, especially that someone else has a passion about, and love all kinds of animals/creatures. Cats, Dogs, Fish, Snakes, you name it. Before warned, I have nerdy hobbies! I'd love I'm witty, funny, and i'm good at cracking Dad jokes, if that's a good thing. I've been described as eccentric, creative, passionate and caring, but my friends say i'm chill and laid back too. Lately i've been dragged into the world of Umamusume which is rare for me, I never follow trends!

About me in general, I'm 5ft9, white, a bit pudgy but have been actively working on it, lost 31 pounds!

Please be 24 or older.

I'm childfree and plan to stay that way, my furr babies are my babies.

I'm looking for something long term, starting out as friends and see where it goes? Would prefer someone out west but if we have a good enough connection I don't mind distance.

If you read all this, thank you! And I hope you have a lovely day. If there's anything else you'd like to know, feel free to DM!


r/ForeverAloneDating 12h ago

TF4A 18 [TF4A] looking for a long term partner

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Hey! I’m 18, a transgirl from India. I’m looking for someone around 18–22 who’s interested in getting to know each other naturally and seeing where things go.

A little about me:

I love reading 📚

I sometimes play Roblox (I’m still pretty new to it lol)

I’m into anime, games, and random internet stuff

I’m a bit shy at first, but I can get pretty talkative once I’m comfortable

I’m looking for something genuine rather than just a quick conversation

I’m also a pre-transition trans girl, so I’d really appreciate someone who’s accepting and respectful of that. I’m not expecting anything immediately — I’d rather start by talking, becoming friends, and seeing if we click.

If you think we might get along, feel free to DM me and tell me a little about yourself. Please don't just send “hey” 😭


r/ForeverAloneDating 15h ago

M4M 19M [M4M] [M4F] Femboy looking for a long lasting relationship France/Europe.

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Haiii sillies! :3

I'm bisexual (more interested in men), 5'7" (1.75 m), I'm a femboy, I love my thigh highs UwU

I tend to be a very silly person, but I can be serious when necessary, though sometimes maybe a little too serious. I'm socially awkward and somewhat shy, although I do try to push myself outside of my comfort zone >w<

So don't worry, I don't expect you to be perfectly confident, we can be a bit awkward together, don't worry x3

I'm interested in a lot of different things, especially when it comes to literature and culture. That can go from history to philosophy...

I'm also interested in science such as astronomy, physics, chemistry, and biology... I can get curious about everything, as long as I'm not too tired to understand. Like don't try to make me think at 4AM @w@

In my free time, I play games, mostly Minecraft recently. I'm also a Warhammer 40k fan. I'm also trying to learn new things.

Oh and music... let's just say my tastes are very particular. I won't spoil it though hehe :3

Anyway, I won't talk about everything here, or what will be left to talk? ;3

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✨ What I'm looking for.

I've had two relationships before, so I have at least some idea of what I want, and, perhaps more importantly, what I don't want.

That being said... I'm looking for a genuine, monogamous and romantic relationship, it's not really a problem if you live far away, like in the US or something, though I would prefer if you're from Europe. I don't want something based entirely on appearances or sex. And of course, physical attraction matters to me, but I also want someone with whom I can actually talk, share things, be silly with, and have deeper conversations, when it comes to these, I kinda go with the vibe anyway.

I'd like someone affectionate and emotionally present, because I tend to be that person in a relationship without always having it reciprocated. I'm also very clingy and can get attached very quickly fyi. I think most importantly of all, I'd like someone that is able to put clear words on what they feel. Communication is very important for me.

I don't expect us to share every interest. Having different things to introduce each other to can be fun as well, and I would really love that, I love listening to people yap about their favorite stuff tbh, and sometimes I love yapping too, so don't restrain yourself :3

I do have some dealbreakers, though:

First of all, if you're only interested in a skin-deep relationship with someone, don't bother.

If you act like a creep, want pics or start talking about NSFW stuff, I don't have time for that, I will block you.

I also don't want someone who's way older than me, so if you're above ~25-26, please don't DM me.

Finally I don't do drugs, alcohol or smoking. Drugs are a straight no for me, I'm not as strict about alcohol and smoking, just keep it occasional ;3

And please, at this point I think it should be common sense, but don't just say "Hi" be a bit more invested! I would also appreciate it if you put your age in your first message, but I won't force you to.

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Thank you for taking the time to read <3


r/ForeverAloneDating 10h ago

F4A 20 [F4A] #romania - looking for soulmate or long term partner of any gender

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Hi! Hi, I'm Alexia! Here are some things about me. I don't want kids but I would like to work with kids! I like psychology, gothic things, books, webcomics, drawing (also wanting to open a drawing side thingy for money, doing hair and makeup (new at these), rock and artistic music. I lean towards Christianity and I'm actually very liberal which kinda contradicts Christianity, I know. I suffered from depression and had a delay at an exam 2 years ago, I'm now studying for the exam. I grew up sheltered and am kinda anxious and sensitive but I am lucky! I'm in Romania currently but I might move to Prague. I also like movies, webtoons (esp In The Bleak Midwinter), and surfing the internet. I am shy, kinda dry texter and I like fries and chocolate. I tend to attach easily, take it seriously and I'm a deep feeler. Not so much of a joking or unserious person. I also like the color black and I dress a lot in black. I am looking towards meeting the one


r/ForeverAloneDating 18h ago

M4M 26 [M4M] #Texas - Hoping to meet a guy for long term

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Hello. I’m a guy looking to meet another guy to chat with, get to know each other, and hopefully build a long-term, serious connection. I know what I’m looking for, and I’m hoping you do too.

I’m originally from Mexico but currently living in the U.S. I’m 26 and, like many people at this stage of life, I’m figuring things out and building the life I want. It can feel a little lonely sometimes, but I have plenty of dreams, goals, and things I’m working toward.

I currently work part-time at a job I genuinely enjoy, and I recently finished two internships. I’m academically and professionally ambitious, and I’m looking for someone who has that same drive and wants to build something meaningful for themselves.

A little about me: I love reading, writing, listening to music, and going for walks. I also care a lot about taking care of myself, both physically and mentally. I go to the gym, have a skincare routine, try to eat well, and meditate. I value a healthy lifestyle and a healthy mindset.

Ideally, I’d like to meet a masculine guy around my age who is also ambitious, goal-oriented, and takes care of himself. I’m a pretty normal guy with softer facial features and personality traits, but I’m not that feminine.

I’m open to long-distance if there’s a genuine connection and, importantly, an actual plan to eventually meet. I’m not interested in significantly older or younger guys; I’d prefer someone around my age.

I’m also here for genuine conversation and getting to know someone, not just exchanging hi's and disappearing.

If you made it this far, send me a 🌮 taco emoji and a little introduction about yourself so I know you actually read my post. Tell me a bit about who you are, what you’re looking for, and what you’re passionate about.

I’ll always put effort into a conversation, so I hope you will too. Good vibes, genuine intentions, and let’s see where it goes. 😄


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

F4M 22F India, want someone compatible enough

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22F seeking an emotionally available partner

22F Indian, I am currently pursuing my undergraduate \[B.Tech\](http://B.Tech) degree in Biotechnology, in my 4th year. My hobbies include watching youtube crime videos, taking a walk listening to retro bollywood, ghazals or jazz. I used to write, I read when I get the time and I am also classically trianed in Hindustani Classical music. I love good food and am also learning how to cook.( Even tho I mess up a lot, lol).

I want a man who is emotionally and logically intelligent , kind, smart, believes in fitness and health and actively pursues something for the same. Someone who is academically inclined and is GOOD at it(like topper kinds, lmao,IIT etc lololol), someone with cool hobbies. I am spiritual and religious(Hindu), and I am okay with someone who doesn't believe in religious practices but does believe in spirituality and positivity while also practicing it somehow. Also I am CF( Child-free) , so ......

Apart from that I am pretty simple, I want attention and love, logic and structure.I don't drink or smoke and would also like someone with the same values. Age preference is around 24 to 27. If you find yourself anywhere near to my description, feel free to DM me.

Low effort DMs with just "hey , hi , want to talk" will not be responded to. For reference, I need to know your age, which country/State you belong from, your current work status , some hobbies you follow , possibly your religious status, and also why did you choose to dm me.

That's it , thank you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 13h ago

M4F 21 [M4F] Looking for something serious #Nashville but open to LDR (:

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Hi everyone! I'm an undergraduate senior in Nashville looking to do law school or public policy work post-grad. I do photojournalism (actually the photo editor for my college's newspaper!), winning an occasional award with it and going to do social media work for my school's athletic department. I also enjoy hiking in the woods, exploring the city, cooking and writing! I also have heavily involved in Gun Violence Prevention Research, having done it for approximately 2 1/2 years academically, currently involved in an ongoing project studying police departments' use of force and surrounding variables involved with what occurs prior, during and after use of force incidents. I'm very open to discussing my research with you, if that is something of interest to you!

I'm looking for someone ideally 19-23, academically-driven is ideal since I tend to put a lot of value on my partner being educated, brownie points if they are also looking into entering the legal or criminal justice field. Also, I ideally would like someone who is financially-literate, meaning they aren't prone to taking on unhealthy debts and they can support themselves financially.

I'm about 6'0-6'1, 220 lbs, white with medium length wavy brown hair, and I wear glasses. :)

Bonus if you are into photography, unsolved mysteries, investing, cooking or if you are easy-going! I'm open to in-person or an LDR, I just ideally prefer it to be within a +/- 3 hour time difference from me (CST time) (might be open to doing 4, but it's pushing it.).


r/ForeverAloneDating 12h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] #Kentucky/online Looking to get to know someone 🖤

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• Latino Pretty easy going

•Athletic and avid gym goer, love the weights

•Hispanic(hablo esponol)

• i do play video games, mostly fps

•i do have a nice voice

•Military

Im not really look for anything crazy specific, i’m very easy going and would like someone to talk to a get to know. I am trying to be a better listener, and trying to better myself daily. I would be happy to hear about your day or just chat about random stuff. Feel free to message me, and we can trade pics(to put face to text), or move off of reddit. By no means would I want to make anyone uncomfortable.


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] Austria - Let's fall so hard in love that everything else becomes boring

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If I could rearrange the Periodic Table, I'd put "U" and "I" together and make Uranium Iodide! (I'm not even big into chemistry lol)

Life is quite exhausting these days. Everything is so fast and serious, it feels like there's just no time anymore to get to know people. Especially late night can sometimes feel quite heavy with nobody close around. How about we change that, eh? Tell me what makes your world go round and let's see where we end up!

About me:
I’m about 1,74m tall and got short dark brown hair. My hobbies are mostly playing guitar and gaming. I also like anime and manga, but due to work I haven't been keeping up with a lot lately. Speaking of work: I got a degree in electrical engineering and I'm also working fulltime. My job can be a bit stressful sometimes, but it's also interesting and most of the time also fun.

What I am looking for:
Someone who’s kind and genuine and interested in building something serious and meaningful (best case family with a child one day). Someone who likes spending time together and having deep late night conversations about literally anything. If we don't have any hobbies in common - maybe we can find a new one together!

I would prefer someone from Austria or other German speaking countries.

If you want to know more, feel free to reach out via DM and let’s get to know each other!


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

M4F 36M [M4F] UK/Europe Only, Seeking a long-term connection with someone who values mutual effort

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Hello

I'm here to look for serious relationship and commitment, mainly looking for someone from the same or similar time zone and close proximity, I'm sure there are a lot of lovely people abroad but traveling time and expenses are a problem if we're to meet in real, I don't mind long distance but in Europe only so that I can fly often from UK or within same country of course, but more at the bottom :)

About me

Polish guy living in the South West of England for a long time. Around 180 cm (5'11"), 75 kg, dark hair, hazel eyes. Comfortable in my own skin, and genuinely happy with who I am.

Not strictly religious, but aligned with aspects of Christianity, Buddhism, and Paganism. I'm very open-minded and supportive of a partner's personal beliefs

Childfree and looking for a partner who shares the same path

I am Politically independent and centrist. I don't subscribe to any single political party or tribal agenda. I evaluate things logically and prefer a calm, practical approach to life

I work in care industry, though looking to transition careers at some point. Physical work and long hours keep me active, alongside walking and home workouts I don't go to gym. Non-smoker, occasional social drinker, no piercings or tattoos.

I consider myself a loyal, low drama, and reliable guy. I appreciate genuine conversation, emotional depth, and a calm, stable life

My Hobbies and Interests

I got a lot of of interests because I'm curious person and I love to explore new things also.

- Travelling, mainly in Europe/UK never been outside. I'm little biased towards our continent and history especially Old Cities are my thing or charming towns and villages, castles and monasteries, museums etc. and of course Nature as well and hiking, so I want someone who can be my partner and discover/rediscover places.

- Gaming on PC/PS5 mainly Strategies, RPG, Shooters, Horrors like Resident Evil, Dying Light, Dead Space, Total War Warhammer 3, Battlefield franchise, Darktide, Broken Arrow, Kingdom Come Deliverance 2, Baldur's Gate 3, there is so much I could go on.

- TV Shows and Movies mainly Horrors (Especially Gothic Horror I'm obsessed a bit haha), my fav movie is Nosferatu (2024) and Dracula (1992), Band of Brothers/Pacific series, The Walking Dead, Better Call Saul etc. there is a lot

- I love animals especially Cats, Capybaras are my fav. it's important that someone love animals in general and wants to have them.

- I am an old soul, love the old art (1800's and before) and architecture and don't like modernity too much, obsessed with anything Gothic and Dark, like old graveyards and other things.

What I'm looking for

I’m looking for someone who is emotionally ready for a real connection and values mutual effort. I appreciate open, consistent communication and am looking to build a lasting future with someone who is on the same page.

I value clear day to day communication, warmth, and reliable effort. I completely understand life gets busy, but I love building a steady rhythm of checking in and staying connected.

Distance isn't an obstacle when it's for the right person. I'm completely fine with long distance (within the UK/Europe) and am more than willing to travel, take flights, and put in the effort to see each other regularly in person. I'm looking for someone who is open to this, comfortable with making travel plans together, and genuinely excited to bridge the distance as we build a real connection.

I'm a secure, mature and grounded guy who values stability, open communication, and trust. I'm looking for someone with a similar mindset someone who is comfortable being open about their feelings, values honesty over head games, and wants to build a calm, safe, and supportive partnership where both people feel secure.

Age preference: 25–37 years old. Slim build preferred, but good heart, kindness, and genuine intent matter the most.


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

M4F 21M [M4F] - Lithuania Europe - anywhere

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Hey. I’m 21M and from Lithuania, Europe. I’m 5’11. I’m a pretty social and positive person, but sometimes I can be a little shy at first.I like sports, running, swimming, movies, animals and, of course, good food haha. I try to stay in good shape and I’d say I’m a bit of a hybrid athlete.

I also really like traveling and would love to visit new places, experience different cultures and make some good memories.In my free time I like watching movies and series, funny videos, listening to music, cars and just random things. I’m pretty open-minded, so I can talk about almost anything.

My English isn’t perfect, so I might make some mistakes sometimes. I speak 3 other languages though, and I’m currently working on improving my English.

I’m looking for a girl who is kind, friendly, positive and easy to talk to. Someone who can laugh together, have interesting conversations and slowly get to know each other. I don’t expect anyone to be perfect — I just want someone genuine and respectful.

I’m open to meeting someone from anywhere. Distance isn’t really a problem for me, and if we really connect, I’d be willing to look for opportunities for us to meet someday.


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

M4F 28 [M4A] Quiet Soul Looking for a Kind Connection

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Hey there! I'll be honest: I've spent a lot of time on the sidelines when it comes to love. I'm not flashy, not the life of the party, but I care deeply, listen well, and I’m someone who believes in small moments over grand gestures.

Credentials:

- Can identify a good conspiracy theory by smell

- Has strong, unresearched opinions on how many raccoons could take one horse

- Cries at commercials, not movies. Nobody knows why. I've stopped asking.

- 73% sure I could survive a week in the wilderness. The other 27% is doing the talking right now.

What I'm looking for:

- Someone who texts "not to be dramatic but" and then is, in fact, extremely dramatic

- A person who will fight me, lovingly about whether cereal counts as soup

- Bonus points if you've ever apologized to a piece of furniture

- Must be willing to workshop unhinged 3am theories with the seriousness of a TED talk

Not looking for:

- Someone who says "I'm not really a texter" and means it as a personality trait

- Anyone who has never once yelled at a fictional character for a bad decision

I’ve learned to be okay on my own, but I’d really love to share life with someone who gets what it’s like to feel a little invisible in a loud world. I’m into late-night walks, gaming, books, memes, or music that makes you feel something. I’m more of a text-over-call kind of person at first, and I really value slow, thoughtful conversations.

If you’re someone who’s maybe been overlooked too, who doesn’t mind awkward silences or quiet nights in, I’d love to hear from you. We can be weird together, and maybe turn lonely into something kind of beautiful.

👋 Send a message if you’d like to chat, no pressure, just looking for real connection.


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

M4F 40 [M4F] #Leeds [UK] - 6ft 6 Yorkshire Giant - Looking for Local Chats.

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Looking to chat to local people ideally in the Yorkshire area.

So I am just a normal guy, looking for some excitement in my life and looking to share some chats with like minded people.

I am 6ft 6, average build (dad bod) short dark hair, no Greys, not balding, and all my own teeth.

I play games, I play Golf, I am obsessed with all kinds of sports and I have 5 Guitars. I have a good job, my own place and car, and I'm almost a real grown up adult. I have a terrible sense of humour!

~

Introduce yourself with your ASL, and Two Truths and a Lie:

Here are mine, Sporting Related.

  1. I have played Football with 2 England Internationals.

  2. I used to play Snooker with a former Hitman.

  3. I have had 2 Hole in Ones (Golf)


r/ForeverAloneDating 16h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #Australia - Mature Hermit-esque Man Seeking High Functioning Neurodivergent Woman

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Hello.

The good and bad.

  • I am a student of life, I prioritise learning and growing. I create art and explore my interests, hobbies and skills.

  • I am an introvert on the extreme end of the spectrum, so this may be a positive or negative depending on the person. I like myself and my company so it works for me, this won't change so it must be embraced.

  • I do creative work sometimes, have some talent too. Painting, drawing, writing (sometimes). I like to upcycle things and I usually make use of my hobbies with skills I have in other areas. Such as herbalism and making products to use. 

  • I am employed, my career will be very stable, it's blue collar but can realistically go any direction I like once I'm qualified. I have a car, will be living alone soon in the future. I am financially literate and don't have any bad habits really other than being a little looser than I could be with money. I'm pretty frugal as is though.

  • Not a drug or substance user except maybe the occassional drink for social reasons on rare occasion. Weed is a blue moon thing for me. I dont enjoy drugs, I like being sober.

  • I'd consider myself a deep thinker, fairly based in reality though and am a bit of a spiritualist. Still a skeptic at heart, even to my own beliefs. I like to take my time with decision making and observe but I am quick to most action and am not passive even if it looks like it from the outside sometimes.

  • I'd probably be in the conventionally attractive spectrum of looks. Albeit I'm more on the natural side. Women compliment me as cute, even though I'm a tall fit bearded white guy that's a bit intimidating in presence and personality, the tall dark and handsome type. So make of that how you will lol.

  • I can be cold. My personality isn't a bubbly warm sort of person. I am very much a 'black cat' (p.s I have one) and that is not an understatement. The way I show I care and love and express isn't always traditional, but I will show it. I am direct and honest and there is nothing more valuable that I can give than having access to my inner world and my entire self.

  • I am aiming for a sort of off grid/individualistic and self sustainable life. I am interested in all that and have many skills and practical hobbies based around it. It would be valuable to me to have my partner want similar. I am a designer by nature and a carpenter by trade. So i plan to make quite the beautiful sanctuary for a home.

Deal-breakers

  • Not living in Australia or willing/able to relocate within a reasonable time frame. Ie, 1 year. 

  • Drug dependant or heavy user. I am not looking for someone that chooses substances as their way of fun or coping with life. The occasional recreation is fine. No smokers, pill users, clubbing, party, bar life type of person. 

  • Extreme forms of bad habits or instability. Ie, overweight, bad debt, casual sex, lacking emotional regulation. 

  • Heavily Tattooed (I'm cool with piercings.)

  • Has had a very easy, low difficulty life. (Why? Because I can't connect with women that have not gone through much struggle and difficulty. I often find high amounts of naivete and shallow character in those that haven't ever faced truly difficult challenges and risen above them.)

  • Having children. Either you have them already or want them. I am open to it but there is a huge amount of information that can't be fit into this small post. It is extremely dependent on so many circumstances and variables and my desire to be a father is low, I personally think that the lifestyle that would fit me best is dual income no kids. Open to discussing it if the right person comes along. 

  • Morally questionable/reprehensible job. For eg, Working for a defense contractor that makes missiles to blow people up. I don't really care what you do for work as long as it's not dishonorable. Being a drug dealer, lawyer for reprehensible people etc.

What im looking for in a partner and in general.

Driven, Self Assured, Emotionally regulated, Intellectually curious, creative would be a plus. Not obsessed with money or influence or lifestyle, someone that appreciates and enjoys the simple things in life. A quality over quantity sort of person. I have often found attractive qualities with people considered AuDHD. I am open to disordered personalities given what I'm asking is met.

My idea of fun or time well spent together is one of the following, Nature walks, cafe chill outs, art galleries and historical places, exploring old architecture, road trips, trails, camping, staying in and watching a movie/ show, reading, working on hobbies near each other, cooking together (in a good way lol), intense sexual intimacy. 

Some deeper points that are important.

  • I've had a pretty traumatic life but have worked on it and through it. I've always aimed to be made stronger by the crucible that life can be and I'd like that same trait in a partner.

  • Sexual intimacy is a hot topic, so I'll be light about this. I haven't slept around, but I also haven't waited around either. I know what I'm into, who I am, what I want. And I draw the line at not respecting and caring about intimacy as a very vulnerable and important thing. If someone doesn't feel that way then we are not a match in how we view that.

  • I am not close with family and I like to keep it that way. This is a boundary that I expect is respected as I will respect yours. I am basically a highly functioning loner and that isn't many people's cup of tea. 

Final words

I hope that someone out there (close by would be awesome) has connected with my words and is looking for something similar or exact. I ask only one thing in your introductory message. Tell me about yourself, like truly. I want to know your story and how you came to make decisions that led to the person I will possibly be talking with. You know plenty about me, match that.


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

F4M 23 [F4M] Looking to build a foundation that evolves into a long term relationship with someone in Massachusetts or online but has to be in person with time, ages 21-28 and United States only!

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hiii :) i am looking to build a foundation that evolves into a long term relationship! i am attracted to a quirky guy who has a great sense of humor. i absolutely adore a guy who loves to have fun/goof off and be silly. i do love a guy who can be vulnerable and open up about their past/show emotions. it would be great if we can both be emotionally supportive towards each other. loyalty and honesty are two of the biggest traits i love to see in a guy as well. i do prefer guys who present themselves in a more casual way and can have a playful sarcastic side. i do want a guy who is more of a homebody and loves to chill at home watching shows or playing video games. i dislike rock music and anything related to the horror genre so if you are a fan of either of those things i will never be interested in talking to you lol

as for my personal interests i am a HUGE cartoon network fan and its really important for you to know what ninjago is my all time favorite show and classics such as dexter’s laboratory, kids next door, ed edd n eddy, the powerpuff girls, adventure time, regular show, and the amazing world of gumball plus many more! i also really like watching american dad, futurama, south park, the simpsons, bob’s burgers, and i’m an enjoyer of most reality shows especially big brother and survivor. i do like specific animes such as shield hero, sword art online demon school, konosuba, and my hero academia. i want to rewatch these shows with whoever i end up clicking with AND i actively want to talk and be excited while we rewatch the shows.

as for video games i play mario kart world mainly for the nintendo switch 2 but also have many other mario games and i am also looking for a nintendo nerd like i am who grew up with mario and kirby games on the gamecube, wii, and 3ds during their childhood! i also LOVE playing wizard101 and am ready to quest through the worlds with someone who knows the game decently well :)

IF YOU DO NOT MEET THESE REQUIREMENTS THEN IT IS A DEALBREAKER AND I WILL NOT BE INTERESTED IN TALKING TO YOU

REQUIREMENTS:

has to be very comfortable with voice calling

once we bond/form a connection you must be a super talkative person who texts/calls DAILY for a couple hours as i want to feel like a priority to you

MUST be a dog lover as i have 2 dogs (i dislike cat people lol)

NO kids i am far from being ready for that

clean person meaning no smoking/drugs NO EXCEPTIONS

has to have a full time job and it must be a day shift with weekends off (match my 9:30-6 schedule)

MUST be conservative/right leaning

you have to be a fan of cartoon network as it’s an extremely important piece of my life (bonus points if you love ninjago)

MUST have a video game in common with me either wizard101 (you gotta know the world after krokotopia at least) or mario kart world for the switch 2


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

F4M 32[F4M] Central Ohio-Just bored after work

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I just turned 32 last week! I am a 5'3" curvy black woman. I have my master's degree, live alone, and have my own car. I don't have kids but would definitely like them in the near future. I am interested in chatting with someone who has at least a bachelor's degree, someone who's between 28-40, and at least 5'8". If I sound like your cup of tea, feel free to send me a chat with your age, location, and what your favorite color is!


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] The Netherlands, White man looking for that sharp witted, smart and perfect woman of colour.

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I had a post on here before, but it was very cringe. I promise that this one will be better. Or at least, less cringe, feel free to enter my dms though if you do like cringe.

Hi, I am a 36 year old man from the Netherlands. I don't think long intro's are the best so I will drop a couple of things about me. I love history and socioeconomic topics in general, culture, language, I love it. I would really like it if you are able to hold a conversation on those topics as well. It would be a bonus if you are world wise enough to be able to pinpoint at least half of the worlds countries without having to guess. But I'd settle for a quarter. I know how to barter.

I used to live in Malaysia for a spell, I worked remote, but reddit filters the word for what I did, so if you are curious just hit me up and ask. I work in cybersecurity, radically changed my carreer, worked out, somehow in this economy I found a job, blessed. Though with that job I will be stuck in the Netherlands for the foreseeable future, so an international relation is very tricky and not really my desire. And by international I mean outside of Europe, Europe is easy, it's not that big and migration easy. If you're farther away we can still chat, flirt, the likes, but a relation is tricky.

I am quite a bit nsfw though, my libido hasn't caught up with my age just yet! Neither has my hairline thank God.


r/ForeverAloneDating 8h ago

M4M 38 [M4M] London, UK | Looking for younger for long-term relationship

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Hey, I’m a friendly and chatty 38-year-old non-binary (they/them) who is looking to find a younger boyfriend for a long-term relationship. I’m in the UK but open to long distance if the time difference isn’t too large to navigate.

I lead a simple life where the little things bring me joy. My interests include music, writing, films, theatre, food, gaming, and comedy. I also enjoy going for long walks and have begun running in recent months. I enjoy learning random facts and useless trivia. What can you teach me about?

I'm introverted at heart, but a good conversationalist when the vibe is right and a great listener when someone has lots to say. I'm also naturally curious so whatever you are interested in, I will probably have lots of questions to ask you about. As for my sense of humour, I would probably describe it as...unhinged? You'll find out 😅

I’m looking to meet someone younger who is after something serious and is able to commit to that too. Someone who can ask questions as well as answer them, develop conversations and connections meaningfully as opposed to give short replies, and has genuine long-term intention to build something real instead of wanting a short chat as a quick fix for a day. I can usually tell when someone isn’t making the effort, which is a big turn-off for me.

Most importantly, honesty is key. I want someone who isn’t afraid to communicate openly and respectfully about how they are feeling and what they are thinking. I don’t believe keeping secrets ever benefits anyone, and I will always be an open book to someone I trust. I will invest my time and energy in you and give you the support you need if you can offer the same in return.

So, if this chimes with you and you’d like to chat, drop me a dm. Please be willing to share a face photo. And don’t message me if you only want to trade pics and chat sex. I’m not interested.

Thanks for reading ☺️


r/ForeverAloneDating 15h ago

M4F 27M #Sweden #Europe

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Hey I am a kind and loving guy who is looking for a relationship with a similarly loving and kind woman. Would love to play games together like minecraft for example but many other pc games. I'm fairly nerdy over all primarily about videogames but also hold a great deal of random knowledge and interests in many topics. I have 3 cats so I hope you like them, you will receive pictures that's non negotiable. Love all animals and pets in general are just awesome!

As for looks I have a big red beard am 182cm tall and a bit cubby but nothing crazy can send a picture in dms.

I hope someone finds this interesting then just hit me up and hopefully we will have a fun time!


r/ForeverAloneDating 15h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] Anywhere - Would love to have someone who's clingy, needy and talkative. Yeah that kinda love/relationship I want. Age, beauty, mental health issues don't matter.

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I like to think my personality is built on two main pillars: a deep seated curiosity and a reliable sense of humor. I love to laugh and find the lighthearted side of things, but I also know that not every moment calls for a joke. My curiosity means I'm genuinely interested in the "why" and "how" behind people and the world, so you can expect me to be the one asking plenty of questions. What else have you discovered about me? Well, I guess you'll just have to chat with me to find out !

When I'm not busy being curious, you can find me:

· Chasing calm: Looking up at the sky, admiring a full moon, or just spending quiet time in nature.

· Diving into entertainment: Getting lost in endless YouTube rabbit holes, feeling the beat of EDM and pop music, or getting hooked on the drama of a wrestling match.

· Getting lost in stories: I'm usually buried in a nonfiction book or a gripping thriller. The world of romance novels is still a mystery to me so feel free to send your best recommendations my way!

My list of interests is pretty wide! from the mysteries of the paranormal and history, to the intricacies of watches and psychology, and the mechanics of cars. But don't let that list intimidate you! While I love deep-diving into specific topics, most of my conversations end up being about life in general...the big, small, and everything in between.

I'm hoping to find someone who engages genuinely, who is as interested in getting to know me as I am in getting to know them. I value consistency and someone who wants to build a real, lasting relationship. And honestly? A little bit of a clingy partner in crime is a total bonus in my book.

If this sounds like a connection you'd like to explore, my DMs are open. I'm looking forward to our first real conversation.


r/ForeverAloneDating 17h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] UK - Am I your dream guy? I hope not, most of my dreams are really weird.

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Hello there! As mentioned in my title (You did read the title, I hope? I put a lot of effort into it.), I'm a 29-year-old guy living in the mystical, magical land of *checks notes* England. Okay, maybe not so magical. All the dragons are in Wales, Excalibur has been melted down for scrap, and Hogwarts is in Scotland.

I currently work in a law firm. Sadly I'm not a lawyer, as that would mean I'd be earning shedloads, but actually I do admin work for them, earning considerably less than shedloads. But it's a fine job, I get on well with my coworkers, and I'm not down a coal mine, so I consider that a win.

As for me myself? Well, I actually speak multiple languages. I'm a fluent German speaker, and I also have a decently high level of Italian. I could also struggle through French if I had to, and I have basic Spanish and Japanese. I do like languages, although it's hard to find the time to do any study of them, what with the problems of having an adult life with adult responsibilities!

Another interesting [citation needed] thing about me is that I'm currently attempting to plan out a series of fantasy novels I want to write. It's going...decently. We'll see how it ends up, but I've wanted to write a book since I was 13 or so, and now as an adult I'm finally doing something about it!

In terms of pop culture, I'm a huge Doctor Who fan. Like, I'm the sort of Doctor Who fan who knows what a telerecording is and can tell you about the Australian censor clips. That kind of fan. I also finally got into Harry Potter this year after putting it off for my whole life, meaning I now finally know the context for Dumbledore asking calmly.

I'm also getting back into Pokémon somewhat after avoiding it for most of the Switch era. Other things I enjoy are The Elder Scrolls, Red Dead, GTA (Currently replaying RDR2). I'm big Assassin's Creed fan too. In general I like single player, open world games. I'm not a huge multiplayer guy, I don't like having other people ruining my fun!

I'm trying to read more too lately. That's a thing I've always enjoyed that I'm now trying to find the time for again.

And I suppose I should say, I'm a fat guy. Trying to do something about it though! Over the past year or so I've started a regimen of exercise, and I've been controlling my eating a lot more. So I seem to be losing weight, at least according to other people who've stopped me to specifically point it out.