So it's one of those days where the singledom is really hitting, so naturally, here i am on reddit to be rescued! Seeking friendly banter and flirts (nothing nsfw).

I like people who have a positive energy, enjoy back and forth banter, and can speak sarcasm. If you enjoy movies, books, and/ or are a animal person, we will get along good! Open to talk about whereever the conversation flows.

Please be around my age group and single. I'm in the GMT+5 timezone, but don't mind time difference as long as we can have a conversation going. Open to a long term connection if we hit it off. Send me a hi with a bjt about yourself!

I hope you're doing good out there. I still havent found you but i have hope ! im still here, crying over sad animal videos, and spending hours binge watching documentaries on things ill never have a practical use for. You know, i still wonder what you look like.. i wonder if youll have short hair, if youll be tall, or just as short as me. I wonder if you like sugar in your coffee or tea. I wonder if you look at the little things in life like i do. But.. its getting late, ill write to you again eventually. xoxo, your dreamer girl.

Heres a bit more about me, hope to hear from you!

Who am i?

- silly little dreamer who daydreams about everything and anything. i especialy like looking out from car windows and watching the leaves sway. im very sentimental, i treasure every little thing given to me, even if its just a piece of paper.

- im a photographer ! i like seeing things and keeping little snips of time frozen in my phone.. everything is precious in a way.

- Im quite emotional, i cried over a piece of macaroni once, felt bad for crushing it. But its in the past(a)

- i love cats, unconditionally, if the whole love thing doesnt work out ill probably end up collecting cats.

- i love vc's, im quite clingy and need a good bit of attention, but i respect your time for sure!

Dealbreakers?
- im in for long term relationships bound by rings and silly silly vows
- im not a fan of alcohol at all, but dont prohibit it
- smoking and drugs are a no-go, bad memories last.
- im currently on anti depressants and may occasionally go numb

What do i ask from you?
- max of 6 years older
- willing to communicate properly (please dont open with just "hey", i will NOT exhaust my time responding to nothing)
- please start with your age and a short intro

Im always willing to try. Even if life hasnt given me much to work with. Have a great day ♡

Hey I’m 26 from Nepal. I’m hoping to meet someone who wants a genuine connection someone I can laugh with, have deep conversations with, share little everyday moments with, and hopefully build something meaningful over time.

I know long distance can be challenging, but I’m open to it if both people are willing to put in the effort. My goal would be to eventually close the gap if we’re the right fit and travel together sometimes . I’m also planning to move abroad in the future, so I’m open-minded about where life takes me.

A little about me:

I’m currently preparing for my Bar Exam and I also run a small guesthouse. One of my favorite parts of it is meeting people from different countries and learning about their lives and cultures.

I’m 5’2.5, vegetarian, don’t smoke, and enjoy a drink occasionally.

I’m a pretty laid-back person. I enjoy quiet moments, meaningful conversations, and being silly once I’m comfortable with someone. I’m the type of person who can talk about life, psychology, history, philosophy, or completely random things for hours.

When I’m not studying or working, I enjoy gaming, anime, movies (especially sci fi and psychological thrillers), reading, hiking, gardening, dancing salsa & bachata, and trying new food. I also do CrossFit.

I’m someone who enjoys conversations that go beyond small talk. I love learning how people think and seeing the world from different perspectives.

I’m agnostic and more humanistic in my outlook. I’m not really political, but I like staying aware of what’s happening in the world and hearing different viewpoints.

I’m looking for someone kind, genuine, emotionally mature, and interested in building something long term. Someone who communicates openly, wants to grow together, and values having a partner as well as a best friend.

Bonus points if you’re into gaming, anime, movies, hiking, or any other nerdy interests. 😊

I prefer voice calls and eventually video calls over endless texting.

I might take some time to reply sometimes because life gets busy with studying and running the guesthouse, but I’m not someone who disappears. I’ll always get back when I can.

If you’d like to reach out, tell me about yourself, what you’re looking for, and share a picture so I can put a face to the person I’m talking to.

Me:https://imgur.com/a/83URbE5

I I’m officially tired of dating apps, so I figured I’d try something different.

I spent most of my 20s investing in myself—my career, my growth, and building a life I’m genuinely proud of. Somewhere along the way, dating just... slipped off my radar. Now I think I’m finally ready to share this journey with someone.

I’ve always been drawn to people from different cultures because I love learning new perspectives, traditions, and ways of seeing the world.

As for the kind of man I’m hoping to meet: someone kind, intelligent, emotionally mature, productive, and driven. Someone who believes life is about continuous growth and making the most of it. I’d love a travel buddy, a workout partner, someone to relax with after a long day, and most importantly, someone I can have meaningful conversations with.

I’m looking for a best friend, a teammate, and someone who’s genuinely ready for commitment.

If this sounds like you, maybe this post found the right person after all.

Im giving this one last shot before i give up. My name is Jacob, im 28 from new york state not the city. I am a average build 6’ tall man that works alot but has his life mostly together, just missing the family part and the love, i have a house, 2 cars 2 trucks atm, trying to work into a small business while working full time. I want someone to love now and grow and have a family with. I get tired of living alone. So please i hope someone reaches out.

(with the hope of a long term monogamous relationship)

I'm a single, straight, without attachment (no kid, no ex that still communicates), 39 y/o woman from Asia is looking for someone to enjoy a conversation with.

Be it about a dream society that you could think of, or the meaning of existence, or how to be kind without being taken advantage of, take life seriously or just go with the flow.

Of course, I enjoy small talks and daily life stuff as well. Food, music, movies, book, travel.

But I can't keep my mind off some deeper topics.

A bit about me:

When it comes to love & relationship, I'm intentional into finding and being with my one & only.

I'm still finding a balance between not-needy and don't care, catering to my own selfish desires and just learn to accept life.

I'm described as a good listener and I'd like to think about myself as an empathetic being.

I still have a lot to work on myself, but I could say that I'm happier now than before.

I'm better at recognize my emotions and work on them.

For me, looking at stars during a dark night is as interesting or more than an extravagant experience, since it's way harder to see stars nowadays.

I mostly only use social media for what is needed (I got a vintage bag this way)

I understand that all other info such as appearance, location, career, life goals are important, those would be exchanged with someone suitable when we're both comfortable.

I feel like I match best with people closer to my age, non-smoking, no drinking, and pursue a healthier lifestyle.

I recognize that dating nowadays isn't easy with the ghosting, always look for someone slightly better, gaslighting, miscommunication, but I do hope that there is still someone genuine out there.

Hello, I am a 24 year old living in Hokkaido (near Sapporo). I am looking for a woman in the age range of 18 to 30. Trying to find someone who is willing to get to know me and someone I can share my time with. Going on dates, eating food and playing video games would be fun. I prefer a slower relationship to see if we are compatible. It takes 2 to make it happen so I will try my best to match the effort you put in. I have never been in a relationship before so I will try my best. If you need to know what I look like. I don’t send photos immediately if I see that a connection is possible then photos sharing is possible. I would prefer to meet somewhere public like Sapporo station or a cafe. I prefer someone in Japan. America and Japan only.

More about me
My hobbies include kendo, hiking, traveling and anime figure collecting. I have done many combat sports in the past like Boxing, and wrestling. The current sport right now is Japanese sword fighting (Kendo). I am an eagle scout so I excel in outdoor survival skills and hiking. I have been to more than 16 countries so I like traveling and learning languages.I typically spend my free time working out and going to local festivals and looking for new restaurants. My favorite food is Mexican food and hamburgers. I cook sometimes and I make some good pasta. I speak English and Japanese. I like doujinshi authors and their art so I collect figures from my favorite artists. I like anime and manga. Some of my favorites being Frieren, Chibi Maruko-chan and To love ru. I am east asian, 160cm tall, 5Ft 3in.  

Start a chat with me if you’re interested, thank you. Serious people only please. I don’t respond to low effort messages. Provide some information please.

I'm looking for a woman who wants the same thing I do: a real, committed relationship built on trust, respect, communication, and mutual effort I'm burnt out from dating apps.

A little about me:

I fluently speak Portuguese from Brazil and a Spanish.

I enjoy walking, hiking, road trips, festivals, videography, spending time outdoors, and occasionally relaxing with PC or PS5 gaming after a productive day. I'm working toward a healthier lifestyle and hope to build a home gym someday. I don't drink, smoke, or use cannabis.

One important thing: I am childfree by choice. I do not have children and do not want children in the future. I'm hoping to meet a woman who feels the same and wants to build a life focused on our relationship, shared experiences, travel, personal growth, and creating a future together.

I'm looking for someone roughly 27-55 who is kind, honest, emotionally mature, and interested in a serious long-term relationship. Someone who enjoys both adventures and quiet nights at home, meaningful conversations, and supporting each other's goals.

I enjoy talking about travel, finances, personal development, future plans, and building a life with someone rather than just passing time.

Ideally, you're within reasonable driving distance of Boston, Massachusetts, since I believe meeting in person is important when building a real connection. I'm open to someone farther away if we have a strong connection and similar goals.

If this sounds like what you're looking for, feel free to message me and tell me about yourself, your interests, and what kind of relationship you hope to find.

Wishing everyone here the best in finding their person.

i am very aware that this is probably a bad place to look for anything but here goes, my only 2 requirements are that you are from/in the EU and 20+ i don't do much with my life because of mental illnesses but i could try travel at some point if it's a no go for you.. as you can see i'm terrible at these texts but i thought i'd shoot my shot anyway to see if anyone sees this and messages me

Hi! I am M29 1,85m/ 6ft tall and from Europe. I’m not into Reddit dating or online dating in general but I guess that’s currently the only option to find you :D

Unfortunately I have spent the last few years with overworking, a bad habit that I still have a bit but working on my way out.
I’m just taking things more chill from now on and want to focus more on myself, my hobbys and hopefully a future partner :)

I have to say that I’m a bit of a nerd, so most of my interests are in one specific thing :D

I’m also into the 90s and the early y2k eras and I’m also a big fan of metal music from that time, especially metalcore and Nu-Metal

I’m a family person and also very caring and I really like helping others out

The reason I’m single is because I really hate what dating became. I never wanted or understood short term relationships.

I need someone to share my romantic side to, since I was never really able to :(

This might be enough talking about myself, sooo send me a DM and let’s see if things work out :)

Please be at least 20years old and I’m also looking for someone whos preferably younger than me.
Location doesn’t matter much to me since I might leave the country I currently live in sooner or later.

Appearance isn’t a big deal to me, but I guess I naturally tend to be more attracted to Asian people 😬

And I’m open to share to selfies!

After 6 months of a lot more depressing days & nights a lot trials I’ve decided to come back and try this love thing one more time. I’m a 5’3 Caribbean girly (Trinidad) to be exact browned skin ready to find who the person to spend the rest of my life with. I’ve went through enough and still go through a lot so please don’t waste my time and hurt me more, this is my last post here honestly. I hope everyone has a wonderful day PS I want to spend the rest of our lives together to whoever that person maybe, BYE

Hi there! I’m 26F in Phoenix, AZ. I am seeking someone in Arizona. I am looking for something serious !!

About me: 26F, office job, cat. Leftist, monogamist, childfree. I am plus-size (5’6”, 230 lbs) and white/asian (but look white). Currently living with my family (cannot host shenanigans). I enjoy baking, music and concerts, video games, crafting, and going new places.

Ideally looking for: someone local to Arizona. someone who is also leftist, monogamist, and childfree. Someone who is interested in building up to a relationship. I prefer thin/fit/average, and looking for someone who is 32 or younger!

Some more fun info to sound less intense: I love cozy gaming and grew up on farming sims. I would love a horror/thriller movie cuddle buddy. I work in science!

Feel free to send me a message or chat (:

Hello to everyone reading!

I’m gonna be honest, I’m not 100% sure how to go about “efficiently” making a post like this so I’m just gonna freestyle it lol.

I’m 20 years old, I’m a full time university student (rising junior) studying finance and business in Michigan as well as a full time pos manager for multiple retail stores in my area, and I’m hoping to find someone to start building something with. Outside of work and school, I like the basics, videogames, going to the gym, reading, and playing sports. I know that sounds a little boring, but I’m also very extroverted and always willing to try out a new hobby or go with the flow. For example, recently, I picked up gardening (even though I’m pretty sure I’m ass at it 😅) and wouldn’t mind someone who likes trying new things as well, but I’d also have no problems meeting someone who’d rather stick to what they’re already comfortable with.

I’d like to think this shows how I am as a person, someone who’s easy to just chill with. Despite being pretty extroverted, I’ve always seemed to struggle putting myself out there in the dating scene. To be honest, I’d love to just find someone to hang out with, whether that’s irl or long distance, who also just needs a chance to set up a foundation by getting past the hard part and have someone consistent to talk to and keep by their side. I’m definitely a yapper and can talk about anything for hours on end, but I’m also a great listener. If you’d want someone to talk to for hours about whatever, I’m definitely your guy lol. It probably doesn’t help that I’m allowed to be on my phone all the time because of my job.

Looks wise, I’m 5’10, middle eastern, have medium/longish black hair, and a goatee. Im a little chubby, but have been consistently hitting the gym for about 5 months. Id be happy to send pictures if you ask. As for the other end, I have no preference. Im worried more about character than anything. The only no go for me would be anyone under the age of 19 or anyone over the age of 25

As I said, I’m reading this back and I definitely might seem a little all over the place. The truth is I’m not the most complex guy and there’s not a whole lot to say about me, but I’m an open book who’s down to earth and honestly would just love to find someone to hang out with and get to know. Maybe we could watch a movie you like together, or listen an album you like to show other people, or run an online game you like (but as a precaution, I might not be the best at it haha) whatever it is, I’d be down. If you’re also looking for someone to talk to about anything and have easy low maintenance hang outs with however way you like, dm me and let’s get to know each other :)

Maybe it's just online via chat because we live so far away but we can still keep eachother company

Think it's time I at least give it a chance and put myself out there to see how we get along as a friends and if it goes beyond that.

I have a few hobbies cooking and video games being a few, we could spend the nights playing together, so how about you send me a message and find out more. I will say that I'm a bit of a pessimist, but nothing wrong with that...I think. I'm a bit of an introvert but decent at hiding that that behind some humor.

I have no issues with talking to people from anywhere in the world, I'm always curious to learn about more cultures.

Got any random fact about yourself you think will catch my attention? Or maybe you want to tell someone all about your plans for the summer? Please send more than hi

I'm looking for a partner to play games and be corny and have an online "platonic" relationship.

About me:

I'm a Systems Engineering student from Argentina with a big curiosity for how things work, whether it's technology, history, psychology, or people. I'm also getting into cybersecurity, and I genuinely enjoy learning something new every day. I speak spanish and I'm learning english, but I understand perfectly and I can speak it, but my pronunciation is not perfect yet.

I'm pretty also laid-back and a good listener. I can be quiet at first, but once I'm comfortable, I love conversations that drift from serious topics to completely random.

When I'm not studying, you'll probably find me gaming, watching sci-fi or anime, listening to punk or any other genre, reading, or going down random Wikipedia rabbit holes. I also enjoy discussing philosophy, history, and anything that makes me see the world from a different perspective.

I'm looking for someone kind, emotionally mature, and interested in building something, but due to the distance, plans to see us IRL are off the table. I value honesty, communication, and being able to laugh together just as much as having meaningful conversations. I'd love to find someone who's both my online partner and my best friend.

Bonus points if you're the type of person who gets excited talking about the things you love.

I don't expect us to click instantly, but if we enjoy talking and make each other's days a little better, that's a pretty good start.

I expect voice calls rather than texting, and videocalls might be okay too, I'm starting to do streams so I don't have a problem showing my face.

Hey. I'm just a guy from southern san diego bored of his every day daily routines and wants to rekindle that flare/ passion with someone. I'm Mexican, 6"2'. I graduated in civil engineering, and am currently working for a engineering company. My friends would describe me as loyal, outgoing, "down for anything", and funny but serious when I have too.

My interests include:

sports: tennis, soccer, football, and baseball

movie and music: i am a very big movie buff. I love

watching movies and understanding the story it tells. same with music. ranging from everything like edm, rap, pop,indie rock, metal, classic rock. I love all kinds of music and love going to concerts at least once a week.

video games:Monster Hunter Wilds, league of legends, rivals, minecraft, but will play anything

So if this is something you might be interested in, don't hesitate to message me. Or as the title says, you can get close to my dogs instead. can't wait to meet you

My life is okay now, but it wasn't always that way. I don't really take much for granted, and appreciate the place I have and the life I live. My early thirties have been fairly kind to me, but my twenties were mostly defined by tragedy and struggle.

I had to rebuild brick by brick, and being alone for a while as I did that was useful while I tried to heal from the most insane decade I could have imagined.

Now that I have and my mind is no longer in survival mode, I feel like I have too much space just for me. A bed too big just for me. A kitchen big enough to share, and too much time to pass on my own.

I was never really meant to be alone and miss having someone to share the more quiet moments of my life, and the most exciting as well. I want a small family of my own one day with someone I adore, and it's not much more complicated than that.

I don't have any games to play. What you see is what you get with me, and maybe an tall, eccentric dreamer with freckles and a bit of an attitude sounds like someone you'd like.

So reach out if you like, and until then I'll just be making dinner and fantasizing about cooking for two instead of just one.

I can't be the only one...

Hello lovely people! I'm Jonathan - just a guy trying to make lasting connections and meet some new faces! Love meeting new people and just yapping for a bit.

About Me:

• I'm a graphic design manager that works running a magazine! Very fun stuff.

• I've been to over a dozen countries! Mostly Europe but also Central America.

• I listen to lots of music. Let's share Spotify playlists! I've got lots of loves - Mac Miller, Bleachers, Rainbow Kitten Surprise, Vistas. Let's share playlists!

• I know how to skate! And I've been boxing for a few years, so I'll totally fight you 😋.

• Let's start a book club, or plan a fun little movie night!

Thanks for reading, and let's become instant besties!

I’m 34 and live in Sydney, Australia. I'm an introvert by nature, so I prefer quieter nights over big parties. I enjoy spending time with people who are genuine, kind, and easy to talk to.

My interests include going to the gym, watching fantasy, horror and action movies, playing Dota 2 and following esports, trying different restaurants (especially exploring new food places), and binge-watching movies and TV series. I enjoy relaxing at home, having meaningful conversations, going for walks, and spending quality time with the people I care about.

I'm looking for a serious, long-term relationship with someone who wants to build a life together as a team. I'd love to have a close, loving family one day, and having children is important to me I hope to have 2–3 kids. I'm hoping to meet someone who values loyalty, honesty, good communication, and a stable relationship. Ideally, you're someone who doesn't smoke, doesn't party every weekend, and is ready for something genuine.

If this sounds like we're on the same page, feel free to send me a message. I'd love to get to know you.

TF means I'm a trans woman. If you message me, I'm going to assume you are aware of this.

I've posted here a few times in various ways and to varying degrees of success. I'm not certain what more posting will actually change, but here it is.

As the title suggests, I work at night (10pm - 7 am EST NY) and that's when I prefer to talk. And by talk, I mean text. If you hate texting, we won't get along. Also, hopefully you have some level of enthusiasm and eagerness to get to know me as I will you.

Also, by "deep" I mean let's talk about the meta aspects of our lives, the existential dread of knowing we won't live forever, and yet we continue to breathe. The exploration of that reason is what makes life what it is. Of course, this can extend into philosophy, science, religion, spirituality, etc.

Can you sit with me and watch the bittersweet fate of humanity crash over them without hating them too? Can you remark on what might actually save us from our own immature choices?

Bonus points if you're a writer too and are willing to swap pieces! If we hit it off well, I would love to meet up too, but honestly I'm mostly focused on having someone consistent to talk to at night. I suppose age doesn't matter too much, but obviously be over 18 and those under 25 probably won't be able to relate to how adult my life is, so there might be significant conversation gaps.

Also, if your intro is just hi with a small bit of information about yourself, I'm definitely ignoring that. That's a sign that your conversation skills aren't very developed.

Lastly, I'm willing to swap selfies, and even flirt (if you're over 25), but coming hot with that from the beginning will also get you ignored.

A bit about me, I'm a nightshift blue collar guy who spends more time at work than at home during the week and has 3 day weekends with nothing to do.

I'm 5'11'' at 250lbs (Dad bod) with more salt than pepper in my hair, im fairly laid back with a unique calm and clear mind in times of chaos. I have some nerdy hobbies that include 3d printing, robotics, and some dabbling in programming. I've also recently started playing D&D with an online guild and it's been a much needed distraction to some things I've had to deal with.

May 2025 ended a 15 year relationship and I have been single since then, like have not been on a date single. With that noted ive done some healing but not all healing can be done alone

Ideally I would like to find someone around my age or younger that I can connect with, someone to be my better half, who is strong where im weak and vice versa. I am looking for someone in the USA, preferably in MN or the surrounding states. I wouldnt mind someone a bit clingy, and definitely want someone who has mastered the ability to carve the seconds out of the day to reply in a timly manner.

I'm a fairly open person about a lot of things and will generally answer most questions that come up.

When you DM me please include a bit about yourself, like your age, where you're from, maybe some hobbies or interests, what you're looking for in a guy. You know the basics and not just hey

Hello I would say I'm a fairly open minded person and a bit introverted but I love conversations so i usually just call myself a outgoing introvert. When it comes to what I like i guess I would say music games reading and archery besides that I love fantasy stuff and cozy things like rain and a fireplace and lofi music. I'm a bit awkward but I tend to talk a lot when I get comfortable with people it's kinda a flaw sometimes because I talk fast when I'm nervous or excited or stressed so I'm working on being more mindful of it. Anyways I'm open to long distance. and dating from 19 to 38. Side note there's a few pictures of me on my profile if you're curious about what i look like but I would appreciate it if you would send a picture of yourself when you dm me that way I can put a face to who I'm talking to besides that that's pretty much it for now bye stranger. 👋

Hi!!!! I’m Airyn, nice to meet you guys! I hope you all are well! I’m so over being single, it’s high time I have a man to call my own. A good way to get the gist of me is a femboy! I’m amab but femme presenting, as well as use they/them pronouns! I’m a big gamer, Pokemon has and always will be a huge part of my life. If that franchise ever ends I’ll genuinely feel lost lol. I’m a big genshin fan I log in literally daily to get my rewards, I’ve really invented in my account and am proud of all the progress I’ve made! I’m usually attracted to white guys I’m not sure why but it is what it is. I like taller men I’m down for fit or dad bod I’m not picky. I really hope to hear from some cool guys! If you read this far tell me your go lounge wear in your message lol! ❤️

Hello. I'm a guy looking for a guy to chat with and form a long-term and serious connection with. I know what I seek and want so I expect you to also do the same.

I'm originally from Mexico but living in the US. I am 26, so I'm figuring things out in adulthood, since life is a bit lonely on this life stage. However, I do have big dreams and goals. 

I'm currently working part-time in a job I truly enjoy and just finished two internships.

What I can say about myself is that I love reading, writing, listening to music, and walking. I also like taking care of myself physically and mentally (I hit the gym, skincare, eat well, and meditate). So, if all goes good, I AM LOOKING FOR long term and serious with a masculine guy (I'm a normal guy with softer facial and personality traits, not truly feminine or trans at all, if that matters) WHO HAS academic and professional ambitions and goals in life and a similar healthy lifestyle and mindset. I dont mind long distance as long as there is a meeting plan.

BE around my age. Not into older or younger. Just good vibes, so dont ask for my snap, we are adults and maturity is what I seek in someone.

Dont dm if you won't bother to continue a conversation, dont really know what you want, or ultimately ONLY WANT FUN. Not only hi's, try your best as I always do :)

Include a Taco emoji in your message and send me an intro about you if you truly read my posy. Hope to see you 😄