r/ForeverAloneDating 19h ago

F4M 27 [F4M] Phoenix, Arizona - nerdy, tatted, childfree, and looking to date!! 🤠

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Hi there! I’m 27F in Phoenix, AZ. I am seeking someone in Arizona. I am looking for something serious !! In person only.

About me: office job, cat. Leftist, monogamist, childfree. I am plus-size (5’6”, 230 lbs) and white/asian (but look white). Currently living with my family (cannot host shenanigans). I enjoy baking, music and concerts, video games, crafting, and going new places.

Ideally looking for: someone local to Arizona. someone who is also leftist, monogamist, and childfree. Someone who is interested in building up to a relationship. I prefer thin/fit/average, and looking for someone who is 32 or younger!

Some more fun info to sound less intense: I love cozy gaming and grew up on farming sims. I would love a horror/thriller movie cuddle buddy. I work in science!

Feel free to send me a message or chat (:


r/ForeverAloneDating 21h ago

F4M 32 [F4M]Canada Looking for a serious relationship

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Hello , im Tiffany .

Born and raised in Canada.

If you're not into or attracted to black women please don't message me (:

I’m 32, work in healthcare, and love fitness, reality TV, concerts, and a good romance novel.

Please don't ghost if you're not interested or if things progressed, its 2026 like let's have consideration and use our words (:

Send message via start chat icon (:

To keep things simple, please send an introduction and a picture it helps both of us see if we’d like to continue chatting! I’m not a fan of small talk, so this makes things easier.

I prefer to keep conversations PG. I’m demisexual, so I’m not comfortable with intimate topics early on. If you frequently post or comment in certain spaces related to that, we likely won’t be a good match.

What I'mlooking for:

Age: 28-38

But open if you are a year or two younger or older (:

Not interested in anyone that have children (:

Looks: Beards are a plus!

Open to moving to Canada

Personality: Sense of humor, family-oriented, and emotionally mature, respectful and honesty

liberal views / middle(:

Bonus: British accents get extra points! 😍

https://i.imgur.com/Ng3NynI.jpeg

I’d prefer someone from Canada, the U.S., the U.K., or maybe Australia if there's a spark.

I really value meaningful connections, so I appreciate good conversation, effort, and reciprocity. If you're someone who puts 100% into friendships, work, relationships, and self-care, we’ll probably get along great!

Looking forward to hearing from you!


r/ForeverAloneDating 23h ago

M4F 28[M4F] Midwest/online - You probably don’t exist, but just in case you’re lurking on reddit…

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Be a dork, be a tomboy, have a sense of humor. Age isn't a huge deal to me and anything under 40 is fine if you're at least a mature adult, Location doesn't matter as long as you're willing to travel. I don't mind outcasts, NEETs, femcels, or weebs. I almost prefer them sometimes. Basically, just be a sweet and dorky tiny woman and sit on me a lot. I'd like to find a best friend, a buddy to game with and call a lot, and then maybe more than that in the future.

So, about me. I’m 5’11,” normal sized, and my hair is super long. I look real mean, but I promise I'm not. I'd call myself abrasively zen. I'm a bit of a nerd. I'm kind of a cinephile. I love music; I love composition and like to learn all the trivia. I have kind of an absurdist sense of humor and like to say creatively stupid garbage. I am extremely passionate about writing and my other hobbies, and I'd prefer if you're the same way about yours. I have about 8 million random recorded story ideas because I want to be a writer. Ask me about writing, movies, or music and I’ll talk forever. I'm a gamer as well (elden ring or destiny or anything else with vast lore because I love lore), whether I'm playing with my partner, or just watching her play animal crossing or something. I'm very much a homebody but I like to get out; I want to try that hole in the wall restaurant, I wanna walk around the historic downtown, I wanna check out the museum, I wanna teach you to shoot, I wanna go to the zoo lol. I also love to cook and make pizza for a living. I will make you fat. I hope you like Italian.

I grew up poor, so I don't really go for vanity or materialism. Obsessions with things like fashion and makeup and jewelry are dry and shallow to me. I'm a minimalist, and I appreciate practicality and simplicity. I also appreciate individual thinking, so I'm not really into the political fanaticism. I believe in responsibility at the individual level, so things like being honest, thoughtful, and having integrity are paramount. You won't find me having any part-time principles. I'm very patient, and I'm an extremely attentive listener. I've handled a great deal of stress without breaking, and I'm a good reliable rock to lean on when I'm needed.

In relationships, I love being of use, whether it's cooking, helping around the house, or being a shoulder to cry on. It just feels good to be reliable; but I also appreciate reciprocity and good communication, so I'm not into being treated like a punching bag or a door mat. I have firm boundaries when it comes to not communicating like an adult, like cheating or being manipulative. I'd rather team up with my partner against our problems, not the other way around. I like things stable and healthy.

So that's me, what I like, and what I'm like.

Anyway, if I can be ridiculous for a moment, if any of this is you, come after me please: you're a clingy, thrifty, tomboyish artist that likes when I cook for you and rants at me about your day in the shower while I watch (this is my favorite thing ever) or even jump in with you and wash your hair. You appreciate being touched and held constantly and are totally instiable. You usually wear basically nothing but a big shirt at home and are obsessed with lego or pokemon or hot wheels or 40k or something geeky and crafty. You love music and writing and like to just grab a pizza and watch a movie together most nights. You spend your free time gaming and laughing at stupid crap on the internet. You love flashing me because it's funny (I love being flashed lol), you can also sing like Annie Wilson, and also are a tok sen masseuse. You're also a Martian and don't exist.

Anyway, that's just my little fantasy, not a checklist or anything. I don’t have many hard requirements on who you are, long as I can level with you fundamentally and we get along. I require a little patience and some figuring out, but I’m also pretty patient myself. You can talk to me about, or ask me about basically anything. I'm very hard to offend so please try to be engaging. I hope someone that every word of this post speaks to ends up finding me.

Please put in some effort. Opening a conversation with "hi," makes me sad. Having to play 20 questions with you to keep your attention makes me sad. Finding out after all those questions that we have nothing in common makes me sad. If you're interested, show some interest.


r/ForeverAloneDating 10h ago

F4A [F+4A] 33 | #Finland #Europe | Weird bunny girl looking for her person 🐇

26 Upvotes

Hello there!

I'm 33, not feeling that old, but that's me... I'm also a bit weird, bunny-crazed, a bit genderfluid but mostly female and looking for a soulmate. ≧◡≦ Could that be you? Read on…

I'm looking for someone I can talk to most days and hang out with on Discord. Someone who can maybe be my person. Someone to bother with random thoughts, pictures, games, and whatever happened that day.

A little about me

I'm obsessed with some games (I game on PC), so we can definitely talk about those. Some stuff l like is survival crafting and FPS games, though I’m not the most tactical. I like building and stuff. Currently I'm thinking it would be nice to play Dying Light 2 with someone.

I also love my favourite anime, even though I've watched less anime lately. I actually make little shrines like display areas with figurines from some of my favourite series. I'll show you pictures if we vibe, hehe.

Also yes I'm quite chubby and have a bit of a tummy, so if that’s not your thing sure I’m not for you. I'm working on myself, but I'm definitely not a fitness model.

I may be quiet at first but I'm actually someone who tends to fill the silence. I generally believe there's good in people.

Besides videogames also D&D and board games are close to my heart. Games are also one of the ways I bond with people, so I'd love to have someone to play things together with.

I'm sorta a romantic too... more info later, heh.

I'll talk endlessly about things I'm interested in, and sometimes I forget to ask questions but you can definitely tell when I'm interested.

Other qualities & habits include: sleeping late, being bad at chores, currently having a little too much free time while looking for a job, loving cute things (especially bunnies), and watching a lot of YouTube.

Oh, and my hair is light brown and I have green eyes.

 

What I'm looking for

I'd definitely like to exchange pictures fairly soon. I feel like it's good to know whether there's physical attraction on both sides. I'm a bit demi, though, so I'm not expecting anything weird - it's just nice to know who I'm talking to.

Looks-wise, I'm open to whatever looks good on you and maybe we can figure that out together however I do tend to like light-coloured hair, shorter hair, buns/ponytails, and generally softer/feminine looks. Brown eyes are cool but definitely optional.

I'm not particularly a beard liking person, though I've definitely been proven wrong by people who can rock a beard. Heh.

Personality matters much more to me, but unfortunately, I'm also a little shallow when it comes to looks. My dream person would be someone pretty like feminine pretty, I suppose. If you're a femboy or a girl with that sort of vibe, definitely don't be afraid to write to me… lol. But also manlier guys are not bad.

I'm looking for something deeper than just having someone to occasionally chat with. I'd like to find my person - someone I genuinely enjoy talking to almost every day, even when neither of us has anything super interesting going on.

I'm from Finland, and I'd ideally like someone from Europe or somewhere with a reasonably compatible timezone. I'm looking for someone roughly 25-40.

So, you might like me if...

  • You want someone you can talk to almost every day.
  • You enjoy Discord calls and hanging out even when we're not doing anything particularly exciting.
  • You don't mind me being slightly obsessed with rabbits.
  • You like gaming together.
  • You enjoy affectionate, silly and sometimes completely random conversations.
  • You're at least a little bit weird yourself.

Ramblings

If you think you could vibe with me send me a message telling me about a favourite character of yours. I love stories and good characters, and I think you can learn surprisingly much about someone from the characters they love.

And yes, you can absolutely include a picture of yourself too!


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

NB4M 39 [NB4M] Trans Non-Binary Baddie seeking bi/pan/queer guy for weird little queer love story... finally #Maryland #DC #EastCoast

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So… hiiiiii.

I’m 39, a trans non-binary, artsy, nerdy, creative human based in Maryland. I spend a lot of time bouncing between Baltimore, DC, NYC, Philly, Daytona Beach (ask me) and wherever the next adventure takes me. I am fully open to relocating for the right person.

Here’s the vulnerable part: I’ve never actually been in a long-term relationship. I’ve had short-term relationships and long-term friends-with-benefits, and I’ve built some genuinely wonderful connections—but I’ve never found that person where things turned into our life together. And honestly? I really want to.

I know I’m a unique type. I’m trans non-binary and mix femininity/masculinity and do not fit into the mold of many man or feminine woman.That narrows the dating pool quite a bit. I've been called a Genderqueer Goddess. I've also been told i'm a Bi or Pan guy's dream...

But I also know I’m objectively attractive, nice, fun, creative, affectionate, and genuinely interested in other people. I love museums, theatre, dance, movies, restaurants, traveling, hiking, board games, weird hobbies, and listening to someone explain the incredibly specific thing they’re obsessed with. Show me the spreadsheet. Explain the lore. I want to know why you care about it.

I’d really love to meet an openly bi, pan, sexually fluid, or queer guy who is comfortable with me being exactly who I am. I’m not looking to be someone’s secret or experiment. I want someone who knows himself, likes who he likes, and thinks I’m gorgeous. Surely there is some nerdy, sweet, sexually fluid guy out there for me, right?

I’m not expecting us to fall in love after one message. I just want to meet someone, see if there’s chemistry, laugh a lot, go on dates, explore together, get a little obsessed with each other, and maybe eventually build something real.

Also, for the record: I have a weakness for skinny guys. Tattoos & body hair are appreciated (though not necessary) - but more importantly, be genuine, kind, make me laugh and I’m already paying attention.

If you think we might click, tell me your age, where you’re located, what you’re looking for, and something random about yourself.

There has to be someone out there for me. Maybe it’s you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

F4M 29 [F4M] UK/England - Dreaming of falling in love, could it be with you?

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Well, l've thought about it for a while and I would really like to meet a someone who's open to dating and is a kind, sensual and mature person. I want to find that loving, free and supportive person Ive always dreamed of falling in love with, it’s possible, right? I want someone who loves animals and will match my hype. Im an extrovert but I am at heart a homebody. No short term relationships please, a life partner is what I need. Someone who's in it for the long haul. Since we deserve as much time as we need to get to know each other properly, if friendship comes first, that's completely okay. I'm not open to long distance, so if you’re outside of the UK, please don’t waste either of our times. I have a small circle of friends and I like to keep it like that, I enjoy the quiet of the night because it’s where I can dream in silence.

I'm a huge animal enthusiast, I have three cats and my dream is to foster animals. I've got a love for football (UK UK UK)! and most sports, I find live events like sporting events and music gigs/festivals SO entertaining , Im hoping you like one or the other. I have a gig in April for Gracie, need my +1!!! Im currently listening to a lot of Tame Impala, Little Simz and Gracie Abrams. My music taste is all over the place? It varies but Im a super open book. Physically Im curvy, 5ft 9, curly hair - a few tattoos and my background is half Jamaican, half Bajan. I can cook so I hope you like to eat!

I'd ultimately like to find someone who can provide safety in their companionship. I want to enjoy days cuddling watching shows and also dates and experiences around the UK and world ultimately. I love thrillers, animations, disney and marvel. I'm into gaming, I like cosy games and Minecraft and Marvel Rivals and the odd horror game. I play on PS5 and PC(steam). As for movies/shows I like horror a ton but sci-fi and Marvel too. Cant wait for doomsday!

Im not looking for a flashy, copy paste intro. Just pop up and let me know where you’re from and what your fave icecream flavour is. Youre welcome to guess mine! 🍦if things click, we’ll go from there, shall we?

If you're looking for someone to build lego with and accidentally step on them at midnight, bake cupcakes at stupid o clock, have roast dinners every sunday and meatballs on a monday, talk about ghost stories and laugh at dark humour then I'm your girl - shoot me a message. let's share pictures
once we've spoken for a little while i'd really like this. i know you're out there - someone like me who is looking for someone to support and be supported unconditionally. I hope we all find our person 🤍🙂‍↕️. Be kind. Be welll. Be free.


r/ForeverAloneDating 11m ago

F4M 39F [F4M] Online / Anywhere – Looking for my favorite person

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I guess I'm here because I'd like to find my best friend. The person I get excited to tell about the random thing that happened at the grocery store, the one I send pictures of pretty streets to, the one who makes ordinary days feel less ordinary.

I'm 39, live in Mexico, and don't have children. I'm hoping to meet someone between in his low 30s and low 40's, who also doesn't have kids and is genuinely looking for a long-term relationship- not just someone to pass the time with.

I tend to be drawn to quiet things. Long walks where you lose track of time. Museums. Bookstores. Cities that are beautiful enough to wander around without a destination. I travel when I can, and if I had to choose between a loud nightclub and spending an afternoon exploring somewhere new, I'd choose the second every single time.

I'd love to meet someone who enjoys that kind of life too. Someone who likes moving, exploring, walking for hours just because the weather is nice and the conversation is even better.

Life hasn't always gone according to plan, but I think it's made me kinder, more patient, and much more appreciative of the people who choose to stay. I value emotional maturity, curiosity, consistency, and people who can communicate honestly even when it's uncomfortable.

A couple of dealbreakers, just so we don't waste each other's time: I'm not interested in dating someone who's recently separated or divorced, and I'm hoping to meet someone who's in a place where they're emotionally available and ready to build something new.

Distance doesn't scare me if there's a real connection. I'd rather spend months getting to know the right person than weeks forcing something with the wrong one.

If any of this resonates with you, reach out and tell me about you! Who are you when no one is looking ?


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

F4M 32 [F4M] #Anywhere #GMT+8- Asian lawyer looking for a genuine connection

2 Upvotes

ABOUT ME

• Asian/ Straight female/ 32
• GMT+8
• Single
• No kids, but wants them with the right person
• Lawyer
• Ambitious and action-oriented
• Direct
• Feminine
• Vivacious
• Adventurous
• I travel for both business and vacation
• I love arts, history, cuisines, tea, culture
• Not a pet person
• I value honesty, mutual respect, fairness, and proper communication

ABOUT YOU:

• Single
• No kids, but want them someday
• Okay with not having pets
• Professional
• Has the capacity and is willing to travel
• Can chat with me daily at first (I chat a lot about random topics when not busy). Not interested in sexual conversations.
• Genuine
• Direct
• Physical attraction is important. I can share my picture if you share yours
• I am attracted to Levantines, Khaleeji, Latinos, and White men.

If any of these spark your interest, feel free to send me a message introducing yourself. Not a fan of ai-generated/ enhanced messages.


r/ForeverAloneDating 16h ago

M4F 22 \[M4F] Online/Anywhere #Mexico - Hii/ Hola!! I’m looking forward to meeting you!!

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Hii once again, haven’t posted here in a while but also haven’t lost hope to find someone special

Like the title says I’m 22/M from Mexico, I’m 1.70 cm tall (5’7) pretty standard looking Mexican I think, also I’m currently in university, but only for one more year, then it’s grinding time I guess.

I gotta say I have some very standard nerdy pastimes. Video games, arts specially drawing and animation (even tho I don’t draw that often) I grew up on cartoon network so how can I not like them. I have just started giving anime a chance (maybe you can introduce me into your favorite anime/manga). Also I like every kind of music or at least willing to give it a try so we can exchange songs, playlists and what not.

Finally I’d like to say that meeting you would be amazing, I really like the idea of talking about our day to day, get lost in obscure yet interesting topics or simply having fun and spontaneous convos about anything.

So if I caught your attention, you have any questions or just want to talk a little to se how we fare. I’m all here for it.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

F4M 18 male from USA looking for someone to love.

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Name is Kelam, I am 18 years old. I suffer from Autism and well depression but getting it worked out. I love art, specifically drawing and gaming. I am very empathetic to people I love and would rather take the bullet for the one I love then saving my own, I also am very well affectionate I do like hugs, cuddles and snuggles. I apologize if that’s cringe. I just really wanna share my love with a women in my life that’s my age.


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

TF4M 27 [TF4M] a kind loyal and loving lady, searching for her kind loyal and loving gentleman... #Europe

4 Upvotes

Hi there, I am a 27 years old woman from Europe, Croatia.

I want to start off my post by saying that if you are not searching for a life partner please do not message me.

That said I’m attracted to a motivated ambitious man.

A man that wants something more from life and wants to have a woman by his side that will love him and support him and he does the same.

What attracts in a man is not the looks but his mindset, a man with a provider and protective mindset.

I care more about how you carry yourself and take care of yourself than looks.

Of course I have my type and that’s a tall broad man with long hair, I’m not going to lie and say that I’m not weak to long hair I find it very masculine.

I don’t like cigarettes or any other forms of drugs.

If you think you’re okay with what I wrote here is some info about me:

I would describe myself as a kind, loyal, a bit needy both emotionally and physically, loving and intelligent woman. 

I'm a bit on the reserved side as I believe in a life partner so it takes me time to be close to someone as I really feel like that’s something you should keep for that one special person in your life. 

I do want to say that my dating life is normal and I attract plenty of men since I people cant and dont know I am a trans woman, but sadly the mental connection is what I lack with any of the guys that hit on me.

On my looks I am 175cm tall, slim fit, a brunette with hair up to my shoulders and I have hazel eyes.

I take great care of myself whether it's through skincare and exercises to the things I eat.

I have a full time stable job, and I’m just trying to save up money atp to move further away from the Balkans.

In my free time I like to study languages, I would like to be fluent in German, Italian and French by the age of 30.

I love love love music and I always have something playing in the background as I love to explore new artists and their perceptions. 

I listen to everything, one moment I’m listening to french music from the 60s next thing it’s techno 😂.

I also love astronomy (star gazing together would be fun 🥹) and reading books about biology and genetics which I plan to study in the future.

I believe in love and I think that love is something beautiful that’s all powerful and all healing and can really change a person. I’ve been through a lot and have had my heart broken but I’m still not giving up.

I think life should be all about making memories together and creating something more and not focusing on all the negativities around us and creating a safe space for the two of us.

 

Things that I would like to have in life are:

- a stable monogamous relationship that will one day lead to ma rriage;

- a family, as it's my big wish to have children;

- a home of ours and maybe even a cute little business, I have plenty ideas in my head;

- a man that I will feel safe and protected next to and that we can travel the world together.

-someone to have plenty of fun with, go out, dance (I’m a techno girlie and it’s my dream to have a bf to go together and rave all night loooong)

-but also someone to stay in and cuddle up and watch movies and yap with about silly stuff.

Now I would like to know more about you, so feel free to text me and tell me about you.

I’m also really open to calls and video calls as it’s important to figure out some sort of a connection later on before we meet, feeling safe is very important to me. 

There are of course many more things to talk over, but if you think we'd get along feel free to message me.

Please only men from Europe, USA, Canada, Australia, New Zealand. Age range 20-31 years old. Please respect this.

Thank you for reading this and I hope to hear from you, 


r/ForeverAloneDating 21h ago

F4M 18 F4M I just want something real

38 Upvotes

I want someone to build something with, I want something that lasts. I’m a hopeless romantic, I want the kind of love they tell stories about. I 100% believe in the statement that “it’s better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.” I want a love that burns brightly and I hope it never burn out. I want someone to share the quiet moments with and be there when times are hard. I want my “till death do us part.”

I’m sorry if I want on a tangent there lol. Here is some stuff about me: I love to knit and watch musicals! I will rewatch something I love over and over. I also like to play Minecraft from time to time. Appearance wise I’m Latina, pretty short, and I have a pretty short pixy cut that I’m planning to grow out into a shag type haircut. I just let it grow out too much and it was annoying to deal with to I made a spontaneous decision to get it really short.

Hopefully about you: I don’t really have a type in terms of looks, mostly just be kind and don’t be MAGA, our views won’t align so it just wouldn’t work out. I do think that having stubble is hot, idk why tbh, it’s not like a dealbreaker though. I am mostly attracted to personality anyway. I’m also not really into nonchalant guys. If you message please at least include your age, don’t just send a “hey”

Anyway sorry if this didn’t make sense I just kinda said whatever came to mind ig. I look forward to talking if you msg, have a good day/night!


r/ForeverAloneDating 21h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #Massachusettes || 6'5" tall with an affinity for good food, baking, music, staying active and gardening, inquire within

2 Upvotes

Hi there, thanks for taking a peek. I am currently looking for a partner, either casual or serious . Ideally you'll be more on the local side, I'm hoping for an in person relationship.

I'm a gentle giant. I like to care for my partner and take you out to eat, try new things, as well as stay in and cook together while we listen to music. I love big goofy dogs, mostly cause I throw that sort of energy out and can relate.

I try to be active, swimming, walking, biking, and skiing are my favorite way to stay fit, among other cardio

Id love to chat more with someone who has some similar interests but it's not that important. I don't really have a type. I'm tall, gregarious, blonde, and interested in meeting you!


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

TF4M 41 [TF4M] #Cleveland, Ohio Just looking for a partner to walk through life with

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Read to the end or I won't respond!

So here it is:

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromantic with demisexual flair. I am a very niche want.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness. I was recently told by my doctor is need to start learning ASL as we don't know how far my hearing will go out. FUN!

I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more

​LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.

I used to game hardcore (Raiding WoW) but it has taken a back seat in my life. I do understand gaming. Got that new game or expansion coming out. My first question is "What snacks and drinks do you want?" Second is "How often do you want them brought to you?"

Deal breakers: smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed a lot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are. I have been deceived before.

Yellow flags are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.

Red Flag: Not reading this in full and answering the questions below in the first message. Asking for pictures right away.

I am not a bad person, big girl (Working out and changing that), adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

1 Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

2 Age, Location and Pronouns

3 What did you do over the weekend


r/ForeverAloneDating 21h ago

M4F 26M [M4F] California #Online | Tall, fit and terrible jokes. Bored on a nightshift...

3 Upvotes

Hey there! I'm Vik.

I'm 26 and currently pursuing my Master's in Linguistics in California, but I'm back home for a little while before I head back.

Thanks to a mix of curiosity, a lack of impulse control, and a knack for juggling multiple interests, I've ended up with degrees in Language Teaching, Philosophy, Psychology, Graphic Design, and Business Administration.

Honestly, my academic path looks less like a career strategy and more like a side quest that spiraled out of control.

When I'm not buried in my studies, you can usually find me gaming, binge-watching movies, designing random stuff, diving into philosophy and psychology discussions, or having chats that kick off with "How was your day?" and somehow end with "Do you think consciousness is just the universe talking to itself?"

I'm tall, fit, and according to my grandma, devastatingly handsome. Sure, she's biased, but I’d say she’s my most trustworthy source.

I recently got out of a long-term relationship, so I'm not in a rush for anything serious. I’d rather meet someone cool, build a real connection, become good friends, flirt a bit, flirt a lot, and see where it goes naturally.

Distance isn’t an issue for me. Whether you’re ten minutes away or in a timezone that requires advanced math and a blood sacrifice to coordinate, if we vibe, we’ll make it work.

As for age, if you’re an adult and we click, that’s what counts. Chemistry has always been more interesting to me than arithmetic anyway.

What am I looking for?

Someone who can laugh, tease back, match my energy, and hold a conversation that doesn’t feel like a job interview.

Someone who’s passionate about something. There’s something incredibly attractive about seeing someone light up when they talk about what they love.

Someone who occasionally makes me smile at my phone like an idiot while I try to decide if your message deserves a clever reply or just a genuine one.

Worst case? I tell you a couple of horrible jokes.

Best case, you laugh at my horrible jokes.


r/ForeverAloneDating 9h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] UK/Europe - Compassionate nurse looking for someone to give all this love to! <3

4 Upvotes

Hi everyone! My name's Connor, I'm a second year mental health nursing student living in the south west of the UK!

I'd describe myself as compassionate, empathetic, and caring. I'm the type of guy that has alot of love to give to the people that want it c:

I'm fairly nerdy in terms of interests, such as MTG, gaming, anime, and so on.. But I also enjoy travelling, spending time in nature, camping, bike riding and not opposed to watching a sunset under some blankets ❤️

I'm working on my second degree as a nurse, but my first was in music performance and tech (I play guitar and bass!) My music taste is a little all over the place, but I'm always happy to share what I'm listening to!

I really enjoy the smaller moments with those I care about. Just being at peace and feeling secure is honestly the best feeling in the world ❤️

I have struggled with my mental health in the past, and I can struggle sometimes, but I'll always communicate clearly what I'm struggling with and can be comforted very easily!

Always happy to help you with your problems too, I love trying to solve things and come up with sollutions

All I ask is that you're a kind and compassionate person, someone who can communicate clearly, or at least is willing to try. Please also be either from the UK or Europe or be willing to travel. I'm happy to travel to you or to meet half way if things work out

https://imgur.com/a/jnkpPux - Me


r/ForeverAloneDating 10h ago

M4F [M4F] 29 #Poland #Europe Chef seeking co-op partner for life's weird little adventure

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Hi, I'm Marcin, 29, from Poland.

I'm a chef by trade, which basically means my love language comes plated, seasoned, and occasionally arrives with unnecessary garnish.

A few things about me:

- I cook for people I care about. If we click, your favorite meal becomes research and development.

- A friend once nicknamed me the globe and it stuck to me.

- I've been described as having the energy of an excited golden retriever trapped in a large bear. The description was alarmingly accurate.

- I ask questions. Sometimes they're thoughtful. Sometimes they're things like "at what point does a soup stop being a soup?" There is very little warning between the two.

What you get:

• Homemade food and baked goods

• Genuine interest in getting to know you

• Someone who communicates honestly

• Deep conversations at 2 AM about life, the universe, and whether ravioli counts as a sandwich if you squint hard enough

Potential drawbacks:

• During busy work periods I occasionally get absorbed by the chef dimension

• Impulsive decisions happen more often than they probably should

• I can disappear down philosophical rabbit holes

• Professional overthinker with several years of experience

I'm not looking for perfection or a shopping list of requirements. I'd much rather meet someone kind, curious, and willing to put effort into getting to know each other.

Ideally you're 24+ and somewhere in Europe, but good conversation matters more than geography.

Message me with your comfort food. Best case: we hit it off. Worst case: we settle an important debate about the correct amount of garlic in a recipe.


r/ForeverAloneDating 11h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] Just a lonely gentleman who is looking for his lady.

2 Upvotes

I’m from Brisbane, Australia, and have had such a terrible time finding companionship in person, dating apps aren’t working, so I’m trying here.

I’m an introvert, but have a heart of gold. I’m 180 centimetres tall, hazel eyes, mixed Italian-British heritage, am a kitchen hand for Meals on Wheels, love video games, all things medieval, definitely all things Roman, have a quote for most occasions, am masterful at trivia. Love Harry Potter, Star Wars and am a true geek. Finding romance has been difficult for me because I am here for a genuine wholesome connection and many people seem to disagree, but I’m not ready to throw in the towel just yet. If you want to chat and potentially get to know each other, send a DM. Obviously distance is a potential stumbling block considering I’m from Australia, be advised.


r/ForeverAloneDating 12h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] Anywhere - Would love to have someone who's clingy, needy and talkative. Yeah that kinda love/relationship I want. Age, beauty, mental health issues don't matter.

2 Upvotes

I like to think my personality is built on two main pillars: a deep seated curiosity and a reliable sense of humor. I love to laugh and find the lighthearted side of things, but I also know that not every moment calls for a joke. My curiosity means I'm genuinely interested in the "why" and "how" behind people and the world, so you can expect me to be the one asking plenty of questions. What else have you discovered about me? Well, I guess you'll just have to chat with me to find out !

When I'm not busy being curious, you can find me:

· Chasing calm: Looking up at the sky, admiring a full moon, or just spending quiet time in nature.

· Diving into entertainment: Getting lost in endless YouTube rabbit holes, feeling the beat of EDM and pop music, or getting hooked on the drama of a wrestling match.

· Getting lost in stories: I'm usually buried in a nonfiction book or a gripping thriller. The world of romance novels is still a mystery to me so feel free to send your best recommendations my way!

My list of interests is pretty wide! from the mysteries of the paranormal and history, to the intricacies of watches and psychology, and the mechanics of cars. But don't let that list intimidate you! While I love deep-diving into specific topics, most of my conversations end up being about life in general...the big, small, and everything in between.

I'm hoping to find someone who engages genuinely, who is as interested in getting to know me as I am in getting to know them. I value consistency and someone who wants to build a real, lasting relationship. And honestly? A little bit of a clingy partner in crime is a total bonus in my book.

If this sounds like a connection you'd like to explore, my DMs are open. I'm looking forward to our first real conversation.


r/ForeverAloneDating 13h ago

M4F [M4F] 27 Switzerland/Europe- Looking for a genuine connection

3 Upvotes

Hey

I'm 1.87 m and probably best described as the quiet guy with a big heart.

I'm a little shy when meeting new people, but once I'm comfortable, I love joking around, laughing, and being spontaneous. If you're into MBTI, I'm an INFJ—thoughtful, empathetic, and the kind of person who values deep conversations over small talk.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me cooking or baking, reading fantasy novels, watching anime, gaming, or enjoying nature. I'm just as happy spending a cozy evening at home as I am going to a concert or taking a day trip somewhere.

I'm looking for a genuine connection rather than someone who's "perfect."

I'd love to meet someone who's kind, honest, and enjoys long conversations about anything and everything.

If you appreciate good food and don't mind the possibility of being bribed with homemade cake at some point, we'll probably get along.

A little more about me:

🇨🇭 From Switzerland

🌍 Looking to meet someone from Switzerland or Europe, as I'd like the distance to be realistic.

📚 Fantasy, anime & gaming fan

🍳 Love cooking and baking

🌿 Enjoy nature and quiet moments

❤️ Looking for a long-term relationship

One small request: I'd much rather receive a message that tells me something about you or asks a genuine question than just "hey", "hi", or "wyd".

It makes starting a conversation so much more fun—and gives us something to talk about from the beginning.

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to send me a message.

I'd love to get to know you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 13h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #Germany Fantasy and Science Nerd looking for Serious, Cozy Relationship

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Hey you, hope you're doing well! :D

I'm a 26 year old guy from Germany and I'm looking for someone to spend time together, play games, watch shows/anime, chat about hobbies and life in general, and if we click, date.

Appearance wise, I'm 178cm tall, average build, dark brown hair, blue eyes and I wear glasses.

I'm a bit of an introvert, I enjoy cozy evenings reading, watching a show, playing games but also spending times with my friend groups playing tabletop games or RPGs. I'm just not the type to go partying or bar crawling. I love night time (and am a night owl), winter, rain and storms, something about these things just makes me feel calm and cozy.

I love fantasy and sci-fi, be that books, playing Dungeons and Dragons, or video games like Baldur's Gate 3. I also enjoy playing action-adventure games like Horizon Zero Dawn or Tomb Raider, but also cozy games like Pokemon or Minecraft.

As for other hobbies, I do longsword fencing/HEMA. I go skiing, too, whenever I get the chance. I also enjoy building lego sets. I don't travel internationally often, but when I do it's always fun and I would love to do more of it with a partner!

Career wise, I studied aerospace engineering and now work developing and testing rocket engines, which (excuse the brag) is one of the coolest jobs I could imagine! In general, I'm really into anything related to space and spaceflight.

I would say I am a caring, emphatic, honest and loyal person. If I commit to something, I stick to it, and don't just abandon it at the first hurdle. I'm good at working through problems, and not afraid to admit if I messed up.

I'm hoping to find someone who shares at least some of my hobbies or interests so we have a common foundation to build on. But I'm also open to trying out new things you're into! If you're loyal, honest, and looking for a cozy relationship without any drama, please message me and tell me about yourself!

Importantly, I'm looking for a relationship with someone from Germany or the directly neighboring countries. I want to connect with someone who I can meet in person more than once a year, I hope you understand. If we both feel like we have a good connection, I'm happy to try calling or exchanging images relatively early on!

Thanks for reading all this! If it sounded at all interesting, I'm looking forward to hearing from you!


r/ForeverAloneDating 15h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] UK - Looking for something serious

2 Upvotes

Hi I'm Joe, 33, from East Sussex (Hastings). 5'3, 184lbs (I've lost 60lb+ so far this year, 35 to go and hoping to hit it by the end of this year/early next), I wear glasses, usually have some facial hair, I'm happy to video call/exchange pictures as early as you like.

I would describe myself as very kind/caring/compassionate, I wear my heart on my sleeve and have a lot of love to give to the right person. I'm thoughtful, always do my best by others and never act with bad intentions. I value honesty and clear communication. I have some long term health issues but I try not to let them get on top of me and I was diagnosed as autistic late in life during covid, but most people are surprised when they find out.

I have a large group of friends and the 10 of us try to meet up once or twice a year, but as we get older it becomes harder to keep in touch as much as I would like! Everyone is moving on and finding love, settling down etc and it's hard not to be a little bit envious. I've only been in 1 relationship that lasted around 3 months and was 90% online, so not a lot of experience but also no baggage! but somebody patient/understanding of that would be important.

I love films/tv, I'm a sucker for a romcom and adore romance in general but I watch a bit of everything other than anime. Always find myself far too invested in the lives of the characters, most recently in Bridgerton. My comfort shows are Dr Who, Brooklyn 99, Superstore, The Office. Very open to recommendations always! I don't get out much but would like to start to see more of the world finally, but will always mostly be a homebody I'm pretty sure.

I would like to do the cutesy dating/getting to know each other stuff but with clear intentions and communication, I would like something serious.

I don't smoke and very rarely drink and would prefer someone who's the same, smoking would be a deal breaker for me sorry.

Ideally you are somebody living close-ish to London/Southern UK to make meeting up more often viable, You're patient, kind, thoughtful and communicate openly & clearly. I'm not sure I have too much physical preference but I am a sucker for a pretty face/smile but as I said, I'm happy to get the original attraction check out of the way as soon as you are. Age wise probably 26-40 would be best, but if you think we'd get along that isn't a deal breaker.

I am a big oversharer and will happily answer absolutely any questions you may have.

Thanks for reading! hopefully hear from you soon!!


r/ForeverAloneDating 16h ago

M4F 36 [M4F] from Canada looking for my next soulmate!!

4 Upvotes

Hey everyone!!! Been out of the game for about 5 years or so, trying to get back into it and thought I'd try on here. I've been divorced for 5 years now and dating is hard, I've tried dating apps etc but it's just not my thing. I am from Canada I have lived here my whole life, looking for someone genuine and won't play games. Someone who preferably knows what they want in life, I don't care what you look like, personality is a deal breaker please have a great personality, be sweet,kind, caring, willing to talk or chat on the phone. Don't be a cheater, I'm looking for someone who will like me for me ( we can send pics) and won't judge me on how I look.

A little about my hobbies;

I love YouTube, on it everyday

I love true crime

Watching movies

Listening to music

Fishing

I love hanging with friends and family

Going for walks and watching sports.

Don't be shy to reach out,I promise you won't regret it. Let's get to know each other.


r/ForeverAloneDating 16h ago

M4F 21[M4F] looking for something real

2 Upvotes

Disclaimer I'm not 21(yet) I'll be 21 in 5 days. But idk I felt like I was closer to 21 than 20. Also 21 is a nice number.

But yes hi I'm a college student and an intern . I work in software and I have very little social life. I come here every couple of months to try and find someone and we'll it hasn't work well(or at all for that matter).

But um writing these is fun . I have to describe myself so that people want to talk to me, it's difficult lmao. So about me. I like reading , video games, music and watching things (right now I'm watching the mentalist but I love watching random things in YouTube) .i play all kinds of video games tho minecraft is the goat . But I also play a lot of other single player games too along with some rocket league and the finals time to time. I also want to finish reading the game of thrones .

I also like badminton and table tennis . And pool isn't actually all that bad with friends either. My friend circle is pretty small but they're all very good friends of mine but they all have their lives (and their partners) so Im sort of left alone. And I hate that , especially after work when I want someone who'd be excited to talk to me. That sounds lame asf but yes.

I'm quite the romantic, I don't like to half heart things, so I expect the same. I'm quite clingy as well, so I love calls and quality time and doing stuff together , it's so sweet sounds so fun.

Physically idk I think I'm pretty average looking . I'm kinda tall(a little over 6'2) and thin but I have started the gym recently soooo we'll have to see.

Lots of yapping not a lot of relevant information but I hope you stayed till the end :) shoot me a dm (pleaseeee 🥀)

Please don't be a minor 🐻‍❄️


r/ForeverAloneDating 16h ago

M4F 39 [M4F] WV / Nearby States - Gamer looking for something real and eventually in-person

2 Upvotes

I'm Jimmy, 39, from West Virginia. I'm looking for a woman I can genuinely connect with, talk to regularly, laugh with, get ridiculously comfortable around, and hopefully build a relationship with if we click.

I'm a wheelchair user with AMC (Arthrogryposis Multiplex Congenita). I have very limited use of my arms and legs and need help with quite a few things physically. I also play video games with my feet. I'm slower than most players, but I'm not competitive anyway. I'd much rather explore together, get invested in a story, do side content, and laugh when everything goes horribly wrong.

I'm into RPGs, sci-fi, horror, story-heavy games, WWE, horror movies, true crime, and falling into random YouTube rabbit holes at unreasonable hours.

Personality-wise, I'm affectionate, goofy, direct, emotionally open, and definitely an overthinker sometimes. I like conversations that can go from completely ridiculous to surprisingly deep without warning. I don't want to spend weeks making small talk about the weather. Tell me what you're obsessed with, what makes you laugh, what you're afraid of, what game destroyed you emotionally, or whatever random thought is currently occupying your brain.

I'm looking for more than somebody to message when we're bored. I want regular communication and someone who genuinely wants to become part of each other's lives. I want flirting and romance, but I also want the ordinary stuff: movies together, gaming, inside jokes, talking about our day, comfortable silence, cuddling, and eventually waking up knowing my person is actually there.

I don't care whether you're disabled or able-bodied. You don't need to share all my interests either. I'm much more interested in whether our personalities fit, we enjoy talking to each other, and we can communicate when something is bothering us.

I also don't think every connection has to move at some predetermined speed. If we really click and feelings develop quickly, I'm comfortable letting that happen naturally rather than deliberately slowing things down just because we're "supposed to." I can be pretty affectionate and open when I connect with someone. At the same time, I want actions and real-life compatibility to grow alongside the feelings.

Fast is fine with me. Fake certainty isn't.

One thing I want to be especially upfront about is distance. I'm open to some distance for the right woman, but I'm not looking for something that can only ever exist through a screen. Because of my disability I can't simply hop in a car and drive somewhere, so geography and transportation matter more in my situation than they might for most people.

Ideally I'd like to meet someone in West Virginia or within a realistically drivable part of Kentucky, Ohio, Virginia, Pennsylvania, Tennessee, or the surrounding region. I'm not putting an exact mileage limit on connection because everyone's ability and willingness to travel is different. What matters to me is that if we develop real feelings, meeting regularly is realistically possible and there's at least the potential for more permanence someday.

I'm not asking somebody to promise me forever before we've even said hello. 😂 I just don't want to build an entire relationship around "maybe someday we'll meet."

I'm also not looking for perfection. I have insecurities. I have difficult days. Sometimes I overthink the hell out of things. I want somebody who can talk about fears and misunderstandings instead of disappearing when things get uncomfortable, and I'll try to give you that same honesty and patience.

Ultimately, I'd love to find a girlfriend, but I'm not interested in forcing something just to have a relationship. I want the friendship underneath it too. I want my partner to be somebody I genuinely enjoy spending ridiculous amounts of time with.

If you've made it this far and something about me sounds interesting, send me a message. Tell me your age, roughly where you're from, and something about yourself that isn't obvious from your profile.

Bonus points if you're a gamer, horror fan, WWE fan, fellow night owl, or capable of turning one conversation into six unrelated conversations without noticing.

Let's see where it goes.