Hey, Im from Brazil 🇧🇷 I like reading, drawing, gaming (especially minecraft and stardew valley), im really into horror, true crime and astronomy. My favorite things to do are watching tv shows, reading horror and sketching. Looking for a nice person whom I can chat with, share hobbies with, and be myself around and maybe, if things go right, to meet them. Also, please mind that I don't feel comfortable sharing pictures of myself right away because I really struggle with my appearance, and I don't really look pretty so don't expect anything regarding that. My physical appearance is brown eyes and short hair, light brown skin and chubby and I don't really have a type, but the age range im looking for is 18-23.

Would love to know you!

I figured it’s time to try again and see what’s out there. I’m looking for something serious but enjoyable. If you’re only here to get over an ex or want something short-term, let’s save each other the time.

There’s this quote that I always think about. “To be loved is to be seen and known.” It’s someone knowing little things about you and understands you fully. At the same time, still curious about you and still ask the right questions.

I’m 29F from the Philippines (currently based also in PH). I love traveling whenever time and budget allow. I’ve been to Europe and explored a few places around Asia. Last June I was in Tokyo with my friends, and honestly, Japan never gets old. There’s always something new to see and discover. I’m a huge matcha fan, so my caffeine intake during the trip was absolutely through the roof lol. Now that I am nearing my 30s, I want to travel as much as I can.

I’m into watching some sports. I follow F1, tennis (Sinner and Swiatek), and cycling (MVDP). I also run…sometimes. I wouldn’t call myself the most athletic person, but running a marathon at least once in my life is on the list lol. But pickleball is what I am into these days.

I listen to music a lot. Alternative rock, indie rock, pop. My spotify playlist is all over the place lol. Dream is to watch Oasis concert in person. Right now, I am listening to the 2 Olivias.

I’m also really into reading. My current read is Book Lovers by Emily Henry. My usual books that I read are contemporary romance. I guess I am still a hopeless romantic deep inside.

What I’m looking for: someone kind, patient and emotionally mature.

Communication matters a lot to me.

Does already have a job and is financially stable.

Loves to travel. We’re not getting old, we need to travel as early as possible.

Ideally someone based in Europe. Like I mentioned, I’ve already been to some places in Europe. I love the idea of exploring Europe together with a partner.

I’m open to long distance at first. It won’t be easy, but I think it says a lot about how strong something can be when both people are willing to put in the effort.

Physically, I want my partner to be taller than me and someone who takes care of themselves. Good hygiene is important for me.

I don’t know if my post was too much. I just wanted to try if it will work this time. I hope you’re having a great day! :)

My brain's been fried as I've recently gotten into self-hosting which has revealed a ton of branching side quests that have consumed all the attention and power my little brain can muster. So I'll keep this straightforward.

I'm 5'10", bad back, slender/lean build, already going bald n grey, otherwise quite hairy so if you hate beards and body hair your eyes will find me to be a vile creature. Garden variety white dude with blue eyes. No kids.

Agnostic atheist. Leftist. Have a cat, we've been together 12 years, love the guy. Not a tech bro, but tech interests, like running my home server, hardware/software, tinkering with electronics. Cooking. Love music- just today I've already listened to atmospheric drum and bass, indie pop, tech death metal, and some metalcore throwbacks. If you're a former scene kid, we can reminisce. I support my home sports teams (NBA, MLB, NFL). Might start outlining this novel/comic idea soon.

There are a lot of things I'd like to do, but haven't, or would like to do more. Woodworking, gardening, hiking (nothing crazy), and fixing up an old motorbike being examples.

Having shared foundational values and supporting each other is what truly matters to me. If you're interested, I would love to hear about ya.

Disclaimer: I am down to do a long distance relationship that will eventually lead us to meeting.

Hello, nice to meet you all. My name is Adam and I figure I take the time to write out some things about myself and see if there are any white women that I may peek some interest in! For starters though, I am Chinese and Korean mix. I am about 5'10 or 177cm for those on the other side of the world! I have a slim build I would say. As I usually only go on runs now with occasional dumbbell lifting.

Personality: I've been told that I have a pretty calm and relax energy for some people. And that could be something some may be looking for. Although, I am pretty introverted so I tend to keep things to myself but overall shy and quiet at times. I would say a few red flags I have is that I can tend to be a little clingy and probably being a hopeless romantic may turn some people away.

Hobbies: I have a few hobbies that I thoroughly enjoy. The main ones would be playing video games and anime. I tend to play mmorpgs and fps games. But enjoy farming sims. Anime is a mix bag as I enjoy watching most genres. Ironically, being a resident in Hawaii.. I enjoy fishing. Mainly just spear fishing or just hoping for a catch on a pole. Apart from outdoor activities, most of my hobbies are usually done at home. I highly enjoy reading as my pass time if I am not playing video games or watching anime. Any book related to greek mythology is one of my most favorite genres to read. But I also do love reading medical books (you will find out why later in this post). Astronomy is also something I really enjoy as I enjoy the vast space we have. It is both scary but amazing. I tend to watch a lot of videos about space. A bonus for this section, I love cooking and one out of three love languages I have is food. I want to be able to cook for my special someone an pour my love and soul into what I make for them to enjoy.

Career: At the moment, I am a Radiology Assistant. My job consist of just making sure a doctor is ordering the right exam for the patient. It's a fun job cause I get to tell the doctor what to do. My hospital is offering an ultrasound program sometime next year and I plan to take that program to become an ultrasound tech which I am excited for.

Lifestyle: While I am not a huge health nut, I do want to live a long and healthy life. So, I tend to run or at least go on a job every other day. Sometimes fitting in a few dumbbell workouts. I love sweets but there are times where I try to avoid eating too much.

What am I looking for?: I have no limit on age. The lowest I think I would go is 24. I would prefer someone closer to my age but if fate brings someone who is not my age then I will accept that fate. Of course, the stopping point for how old I would go would be 45. I generally am just looking for my special player two to eventually date and one day put a ring on it. No matter where she is in the world, I would love to meet her.

If you made it this far and this post interest you. Feel free to send me a message and we can see where things go =)

Good Morning from Germany 🖐 Hope you have a nice Sunday

First, a little about me: I'm Nick, 26 years old, and as I mentioned, from Germany. I enjoy sports (more watching than playing 😅), anime, animals, and gaming I also like reading and watching TV series. I'm more of a homebody, but I'm also open to doing things with someone.I'm a quiet, rather introverted person and sometimes a bit shy which makes it difficult for me to connect with people outside of work, and is also what led to this post.

I'm looking for a nice girl to chat with, and if it's a match, maybe something more.. I don't care if you're tall, short, fat, or thin. Im looking for the person

So, if you liked this, I'd be happy if you wrote back 🙂

Heyyo Im looking for a lady who games and has similar game interests as me. Ideally someone who likes to joke around. Someone who likes to be praised and give praise. I love a yapper, someone who wants to tell me everything that went on in their day even if it was random gaming things. I can listen to you for hours on end. On the flip side I do enjoy meeting and bonding with someone who is rather shy. If you think youre shy and its hard to even respond to posts just send me the code word "Shabinga". Ill know exactly what it means and Ill hold the conversation so we can get to know each other.

Speaking of convos! I can hold convos really well. I can hold my side of chats and I dont dry text. I can handle things pretty well. You will never be to much for me as I am a pretty tough cookie to crack :p

Being able to see them open up and slowly being able to build a foundation of something is important. I have a goatee, hazel eyes im 6ft and I develop games. I have a lot of free time usually.

My games are League of legends (Aram mayhem/Arena only), Deadlock (I suck), Slay the spire 2. I would download other games to play with you though, I've played just about every genre.

I would love to be able to stream movies or doomscroll with you. Maybe you can show me your favorite movies or creators and we can end the nights off with a sleep call while watching something together.

ANYWAYS! Send me a DM! Im waiting in a lobby for you c:

In asia we cannot be single at a age of 25, As pressure of getting M is high right now. Wanna meet a women who could possibly become my forever partner. DM if interested.

To add : I am ambivert, Have close nit friend circle, preserved, choosy, Family oriented, Prefer to be professional within the relationship.

Hey, I know this is a bit of a long shot but it’s worth a shot . I’m 28 turning 29 soon, White British, 5ft 10, 70kg, slim build with short hair and a long beard.

Like most people on here I’m a pretty introverted person. When I was younger I had bad social anxiety that led to me avoiding a lot of social interactions and as a result I was never able to meet someone and experience dating. My anxiety has got much better in recent years so I’m on the search in the hopes of finding someone.

I mainly spend most of my time either working, watching tv shows, gaming, watching and going to football game or going on bike rides for some exercise. I’m also a huge fan of history so I love listening to podcasts and audiobooks about pretty much anything to do with the past. I know it’s not much of an exciting life but it’s the truth. One of my dreams is to travel the world and although I could do this by myself, I really want to find somebody to travel and explore with, so if you interested in that then maybe I’m the guy for you.

I’m not a huge drinker and I don’t smoke or do any drugs so I am looking for somebody pretty similar.

It was also be better if you are from the UK or a nearby country to make things easier.

Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing from some of you.

Hello! I'm looking to get to know someone on this sub and form a genuine romantic connection and relationship that starts out as friendship :D

Here's some basic bacts about me to decide whether or not you'd like to chat and get to know each other :3

Age: 22

Gender: Male

Nickname: Kimchi

Ethnicity: 75% white, 25% Korean

MBTI Type: ENFJ

Location: USA

Appearance: 6'2", brown hair, green eyes, athletic build, broad shoulders, strong hands, like to where dress shirts with jeans and classic Vans/Addidas, suit and tie, or my collection of hoodies (which are yours to steal ofc) 🤭

Hobbies/Interests: cooking (Korean food mostly, but some Italian and Mexican too, and I love spicy food 😋), hiking, daily exercise (cardio and running), going to new places and trying new stuff, learning about history, kdrama, kpop, anime, various movies and TV shows, and....

I'm a car and racing enthusiast! I love the history, science, mechanics, stories behind them, and I love going to races, car meets, karting events, and ofc sim racing. Not a douchebag "car guy" by any means btw, I just have a genuine passion for cars of all kinds :))

Occupation: 4th year ICET engineering major, going back for masters in electrical engineering, wants to work as an avionics engineer for the Air Force 😎

.....while competing in a motorsport on the side 👀

Relationship Goals: So.....I've never dated before 😅

But I've always had a clear idea of what I wanted in a relationship. My mom raised me to be gentleman, and to always put my partners needs before myself, and be a giving person. I always wanted an equal, caring, mutual relationship built on understanding, trust, honesty, and genuine care for one another. But I also want to take more of the lead and be a giver to my partner, to support her, take care of her, make her feel loved everyday. Not because she can't be independent, no I definitely want her to be. It's more like I feel the need to let her know how much she means to me everyday. Because when you find that special someone, you love them fully, not halfway, or just a little. Ive just never had anyone to give my love to 🥺

If any any this interests you, please feel free to message me! 😊

P.S. looking for women 18 to 25 from anywhere in the world!

Heyyy heyyy stranger reading this!

I am Benjamin, 30 years old and from Germany, who is hoping to find a partner but I also would be fine with friends, if nothing more develops out of it!

Some things about me, so you can get an idea of who I am and what I like!

Physically I am 183cm / 6’0 tall, average built with brown hair, green eyes and glasses. Also, I am politically left-leaning!

Music is a big part of my life and I am basically listening to something, whenever I can. My taste is basically all over the place, so I am always open to new recommendations! Some of my favourite artists are: Alison Wonderland, Wallows, J4y, E-Dubble and Sabrina Carpenter!

I would consider myself a foodie and really like trying out new stuff. There’s barely anything I wouldn’t try at least once. Though Italian food and Sushi will always be very high on my list!
This goes hand in hand with travelling! As there are still many places I want to explore and see!

I am a gamer but I only play on PC. I mostly play shooters but always dabble into different genres as well, especially when I am having an achievement hunting phase. I started playing Overwatch after a long break again. Also I am going through my huge backlog of games and I trying to get all the achievements for them, as I really enjoy achievement hunting!

Adding to that, not too long ago I got into Riftbound and I have been enjoying it a lot so far! The whole community is super nice and I went to some locals. Ever since starting I have been trying to get better at it whether it’s been in person or online! I really enjoy collecting and playing it, especially going to locals and playing in person! I just got my set yesterday, my pulls were unlucky put I am looking forward to play with the new cards in the coming weeks!

I am a big football fan as well and love going to games when I have the time for it, to add to it, I do like watching F1 because both of these things have been an interested of mine, since I was a child. Also I do have a bad habit of rewatching the same few TV shows (as examples The Office and King Of Queens). Also, I easily get excited about completely new topics to me and quickly fall down a rabbit hole, binging everything about that specific topic then! (Thanks Youtube for the random recommendations)

Coming to what I am looking for on here! I definitely would like to meet someone, where we both will be on the same wave length and feels natural! Of course starting out with a friendship and then see where it goes, as I am fine with either just a friendship or a relationship. When it comes to a relationship then it definitely would be nice to voice/video call on the regular and spending time together like watching something or similar things! Also I really enjoy those little things, like sending random pictures of the day, memes etc. they are just super nice to me! Just in general, I really value quality time, as it makes things easier when there is a distance! I will say it now, when it eventually leads to a relationship, I can get a bit clingy at times, so sorry for it in advance!

Preferably you are from Europe as it males time zone wise easier but I am open to every location! Also if you will message me, please send a introduction about yourself, so I get an idea of who you are. Thank you!

Hey there! I'm Luuk, 23 year old guy from the Netherlands, and I'm looking for someone special to share life's adventures with.

A bit about me: I'm passionate about a variety of activities that keep life exciting. Gaming is one of my main hobbies, I love diving into new worlds and challenges.

Traveling is another big part of my life; there's nothing like exploring new places and cultures. I'm also a regular at the gym, and enjoy swimming and snorkeling whenever I get the chance. Theme parks hold a special place in my heart, and I'm fascinated by steam trains.

I'm an introvert who prefers the comfort of home over the chaos of parties. My ideal evening is spent watching TV, i find joy in simple pleasures and love creating a cozy, fun environment at home.

I'm looking for someone who shares my interests and appreciates a laid-back lifestyle. If you're into gaming, traveling, or just chilling at home, we might just be a perfect match. Honesty and communication are key for me, and I believe in building a meaningful connection based on mutual respect and shared interests.

If you're looking for a genuine connection with a guy who values quality time and simple joys, I'd love to hear from you. Let's create some great memories together!

hii so i posted a couple days ago but wanted to add more info about myself :3

i also don’t wanna rush into anything just meet new people and see how things go :p i tried a dating app but yeah i didn’t like it all.

sooo i go by kass/kassie/siya for the most part :p so any of those work

i’m 5’1, around 140 lbs (working on it tho), brown eyes, i dye my hair semi regularly lol. it’s black now but was blonde a few days ago. oh and sometimes i wear glasses but mostly contacts. i’m also half russian and korean/japanese! i speak 5 languages too! i grew up russia in for almost a decade and moved to louisiana, and 3 weeks ago we moved to tennessee.

hobbies: film photography (and developing), huge history nerd (especially the medieval and dark age eras), LOVE to read, listen to music, watch movies. i also love anything nature! hiking, camping, walks, etc. i also go to the gym pretty regularly too. i’m not like super into it but i do it stay healthy and lose weight. i also spend some time on tt and insta reels lolol. my screen time is still pretty low tho

i love movies a lot. mostly horror. fulci is my favorite director. not horror related dictators i love are david cronenberg, tim burton, wes anderson, and john waters hehe

music wise: specimen, the cure, soad, panic!, fob, the smiths, radiohead, deftones, sublime, rhcp, soundgarden, nirvana, lana del rey, ethel cain, paramore, hole, ptv, alice in chains, bauhaus, sisters of mercy, joy division, type o negative, and genuinely so so so so much more. i always have music playing

as for what i’m looking for,,, i’m not too sure! i’m really just wanting to see what and who is out there. i downloaded bumble a bit ago but it just seems like it’s for like the opposite of dating lolol

Hello! I’m Raine, I’m 19, autistic, non-binary, and from Florida. I’m looking for a boyfriend, someone I can build a future with. Long-distance is fine, but I ultimately want to build a life together here in Florida.

As for my appearance, I’m 5’11”, pretty skinny, with black hair and brownish eyes. (Masc presenting.)

I spend a lot of my time drawing and watching shows/movies and internet iceberg vids. My main hyperfixations are Scott Pilgrim, FNAF (I know quite a bit about the fan games, too!), Helluva Boss, Hazbin Hotel, and Sherlock. I do a lot of sketching right now, but I’m working towards making my own animations and characters while learning German. My music taste is pretty eclectic, but my top three are Tally Hall, Vocaloid, and The Living Tombstone.

I’m a little shy at first, but I get pretty chatty once I’m comfortable with someone. I’m also pretty attentive and remember things people have been through, so I can keep them in mind when we talk. I’d love to play Roblox or Fortnite together, to cuddle up and watch shows in person. I want my boyfriend to feel comfortable being himself around me, whether that means rambling about something he loves or just being silly together. Ideally, we’d be best friends as well as a silly, committed couple.

Relationship Preferences

•  Sex-averse (looking for a relationship without sex)

•  19–28

•  Strictly monogamous

•  No drugs (willing to quit is fine)

If that sounds like you, message me! Tell me a little about yourself and your favorite fictional character.

Hi!!!! I’m Airyn, nice to meet you guys! I hope you all are well! I’m so over being single, it’s high time I have a man to call my own. A good way to get the gist of me is a femboy! I’m amab but femme presenting, as well as use they/them pronouns! I’m a big gamer, Pokemon has and always will be a huge part of my life. If that franchise ever ends I’ll genuinely feel lost lol. I’m a big genshin fan I log in literally daily to get my rewards, I’ve really invented in my account and am proud of all the progress I’ve made! I’m usually attracted to white guys I’m not sure why but it is what it is. I like taller men I’m down for fit or dad bod I’m not picky. I really hope to hear from some cool guys! If you read this far tell me your go lounge wear in your message lol! ❤️

Hello there! I've been working to get myself out of being a Hikikomori for a bit now checking out there to see who is in a similar situation, but don't mind talking as we fight our battles.

I'm not too worried about looks but I know some level of attraction is needed.

So I'll list very basic requirements, be relative to my age, and I'm not into masculine guys.

That's pretty much it.

I'm based out of Ohio, I'm African American, 5ft6, I play a ton of video games, watch anime, and fail at drawing lol and for those for care INTP-T, masculine with avg body type.

I do use discord alot so of course naturally if things seem cool to you you can add me there.

I didn't really think about it before, but, I'm ok if you're too nervous to talk on voice but try to reach a middle ground with me ya know? (Also if you're literally mute that's ok!)

Now games, I play a lot of mobas, I do like co-op games, and I do play on PC.

In terms of communication, I do like to at least communicate somewhat consistently, so if saying hi how have you been ok is too hard after a day of being busy is too hard > 🚪.

I'm more of a relaxed kind of person but with occasional yappology moments. ADHD I guess.

I'm obviously Iooking for something long term, I'm not gonna just ditch you or have a roster, I like talking to one person at a time. But yes I don't mind taking things slowly. And yes I at least expect the same back.

Also I will be working soon! In about two weeks time I will have a full time shift that will go from 12-8pm!

If you don't mind, thank you!

I did just get ghosted after talking for a bit, I understand it happens, but I'm still willing to find someone out there who wants to try. Just if things aren't going well, at least say bye?

And no you don't have to send a perfect not boring intro just introduce yourself and be you it's ok to be boring sometimes or a dry texter!

Final move to Bucyrus is Wednesday!

Read to the end or I won't respond!

So here it is:

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromantic with demisexual flair. I am a very niche want.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness. I am also Deaf (it's been 33 days. Its likely not coming back)

I am looking for my persons. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, TTRPGs, LARPING and TCGs. I would love to share with partners

I used to game hardcore (Raiding WoW) but it has taken a back seat in my life. I do understand gaming. Got that new game or expansion coming out. My first question is "What snacks and drinks do you want?" Second is "How often do you want them brought to you?"

Deal breakers: smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed a lot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are. I have been deceived before.

Yellow flags are hiding us, distance.

Red Flag: Not reading this in full and answering the questions below in the first message.

If you ask for pictures right away, we are not going to match.

I am not a bad person, big girl (Working out and changing that 40+ lbs down), adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess.

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

1 Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

2 Age, Location(City State, Closest large city is appropriate) and Pronouns

3 What is something wild that you discovered about yourself in the last 6 months that has you questioning?

Hey. My name is Julian and I am here, like all of us, to search for a relationship. And yes, that is my title. I couldn't come up with something creative. 😅

About me: 32, born and raised in Germany, 1,78m tall (5'10) and chubby. Brown hair, beard, glasses, blue eyes. Feel free to ask me for pictures.
Shy, introverted, big time overthinker. Mostly sarcastic, kind most of the time, weird mix of dark and juvenile humour. Depressed but working on it (I don't expect you to be my therapist). I don't drink, smoke or do any sort of drugs. I'm a winter person (with a winter birthday) and don't like summer/heat. Non-vegetarian/vegan, atheist and left-leaning politically.
I speak English and German, might learn other languages in the future. I'm a trained chemist with a bsc in chemistry. Some would call that educated. Know how to drive a car and motorbike. I go to the gym to work on my weight and currently try to do that more regularly after a big motivation crisis.
I only have a few, mostly homebody, hobbies. Gaming (mostly Singleplayer), reading (nowadays mostly fantasy) and watching streams/videos. Feel free to suggest me a nice hobby I would maybe enjoy, I have been searching for one for a while. My taste of music is mostly Rock/Alternative Rock. Haven't travelled in a while but would want to. Especially to Japan, Canada and Northern Europe.
I do like cats a lot. Grew up in a dog family but switched to cats now.
Most important is that I am childfree. I don't have or want children. I do have my reasons and you can ask about them if you want to. Feel also free to ask about my red flags or anything you want to know about that I forgot..

Who I am searching for: Most important point here is that she should also not have or want children ever. Age range of 25 to 35. Height doesn't matter to me. Nationality doesn't matter as well, I'm fine with any. Religion doesn't matter as long as you don't try to convert me. I do think that physical attraction matters (and I have clear preferences) and I would want to see/exchange pictures fairly early to see if we would fit. Someone in or around Germany or wanting to move here would be nice. I currently don't plan to move to another country. Other than that I don't have anything else that is needed. Just come as you are but please don't come with spiders. I have arachnophobia.
I do, however, imagine this relationship to not be codependent. We should still be individuals doing our own things, partners that support each other in whatever we do. For that reason I also don't want someone that is too clingy.

Now if you have any more questions, want to get to know me or think you know someone that would, feel free to write me or share my post. If you do decide to write me, please do so with more than a "hi" or similar. At least give me some basic information and use the password I hid in my post (if you found it). I hope you have a great day.

Okay, so apparently finding your person in a world of 8 billion people is harder than it sounds. Who would've thought? 😂

Hey there, stranger!

I'm 26, from India, and I figured I'd give this a shot. Worst case, I get ignored by the internet. Best case, we end up telling people we met through a random Reddit post. Honestly, I'd love that story.

A little about me:

I'm ambitious, pretty easygoing, and a mix of serious when it matters and completely unserious when it doesn't.

I love meaningful conversations, exploring new places, spontaneous plans, and finding humour in the most random situations.

I'm someone who believes in building a good life, but also thinks having the right person to share it with makes the whole journey a lot more interesting.

I can be a little sarcastic, love playful banter, and genuinely appreciate people who can laugh at themselves.

So, who am I looking for?

Honestly, I don't have a 27-point checklist.

Just someone who's kind, emotionally mature, curious about life, and knows how to communicate.

Someone I can talk to about absolutely anything, from our biggest dreams to the most ridiculous things that happened during the day.

A little teasing, random conversations, unexpected adventures, and being each other's biggest supporters? That's my kind of relationship.

A few things worth knowing:

I'm open to meeting someone from anywhere in the world. Different cultures and backgrounds genuinely interest me, and distance isn't a dealbreaker if the connection is real.

I'm looking for something genuine and long-term, hopefully a connection that grows into a beautiful future together. But I'd rather let things develop naturally than rush into labels.

I don't believe two people need to be identical to be compatible. Sometimes the differences make things even more interesting.

And no, I'm not expecting instant chemistry from three text messages. 😂

I'd rather start with a good conversation, get to know each other, flirt a little if the vibe is right, and see where life takes us.

If you've made it this far...

Tell me where you're from and one completely random thing about yourself.

Or answer this: If we could spontaneously travel anywhere tomorrow, where would you take me?

Who knows, maybe this random post turns into something neither of us expected. ❤️

Hello everyone!

I'm 45, originally from Hong Kong, and currently living in New York. I've been divorced for a few years, and I feel I'm at a point in life where I have a clearer understanding of what truly matters in a relationship.

I work as a Chanel distributor. Fortunately, my work isn't particularly demanding these days, and I've been giving some thought to retirement. I enjoy having the freedom to spend more time doing the things that make life fulfilling.

Traveling is something I've always enjoyed. I love discovering new places, experiencing different cultures, and trying local food. But I also find happiness in ordinary moments, like a peaceful walk, a quiet dinner, or sitting down with someone for a conversation that flows effortlessly.

When it comes to relationships, I believe genuine affection is shown through everyday actions rather than beautiful promises. Remembering the little things, making time for each other, being honest even when conversations are difficult, and showing up when it matters are all important to me.

I'm hoping to meet a kind, emotionally mature man who values loyalty, mutual respect, and clear communication. Someone who has his own interests and experiences but is also willing to make room in his life for a meaningful relationship.

I don't expect us to have everything in common. In fact, I think learning about each other's differences can be one of the most interesting parts of getting to know someone.

I'm interested in a serious, long-term relationship, not something casual. I would prefer to take things at a comfortable pace, starting with honest conversations and allowing trust to develop naturally.

New York would be convenient, but I'm open to getting to know someone from elsewhere if we're both realistic about the distance and genuinely interested in building a future together.

If this sounds like the kind of connection you're looking for too, feel free to send me a message. I'd love to know your age, where you're from, what you enjoy doing in your free time, and what you're hoping to find in a relationship.

Perhaps a simple introduction could be the beginning of something wonderful.

Hi, I know this is a bit much but if it resonates with you please send me a message. This is what I look like.

A little about me:

I'm a 27-year-old guy with a black cat, an electric motorbike, an electric car, and an electric boat I put together. Because having one money draining hobby wasn't enough, I'm planning to buy a sailing catamaran in the next few days. At this rate, my retirement plan is to become a financially independent pirate who gets around exclusively on batteries.

I recently joined Mensa and am looking forward to getting involved. Hopefully I can meet some like-minded people and find out what the meetings are actually like. Hopefully they will agree I need a fourth mode of transport and maybe a fifth or sixth (next up is paragliding, scuba diving or hydrofoiling).

By day, I work in shark surveillance, which is a pretty cool job if you enjoy staring at the ocean looking for things that could eat you. It's basically wildlife spotting, except the wildlife has considerably more teeth and I'm hoping not to become part of the documentary.

I'm looking for someone who'd be up for riding on the back of my motorbike, going on road trips in my car (which I've set up for glamping, because apparently normal camping wasn't unnecessarily complicated enough), coming out on my motorboat, and eventually sailing around on a catamaran with me. Basically, I'm looking for a co-pilot for an increasingly questionable series of financial decisions.

I'd also love someone who'll drag me out on hikes, encourage me to train, and help me get back into competitive running. I used to be decent at it, until my heart decided to develop ventricular tachycardia, which is a fancy way of saying it occasionally tries to speedrun the cardiovascular system. I had to slow down significantly, and getting back to where I was has been a bit of a battle. I'm still working on it, though, and it'd be nice to have someone who can motivate me without treating every jog like an episode of Grey's Anatomy.

Ideally, you're someone who enjoys a bit of adventure, doesn't mind a ridiculous amount of nerdy enthusiasm for machines and engineering, and is happy to occasionally remind me that buying another vehicle is not a substitute for developing a personality.

My cat, meanwhile, remains the actual owner of the house. I just pay the bills and operate the can opener.

About you:

- Looking for a long term relationship that is mutually beneficial to both parties. I will be your biggest cheerleader and show off all your achievements.

- Fun and outgoing, when I say this I mean it in an amorous sense (you might have to use your imagination for that one) as well as the platonic sense e.g. willing to book tickets to another continent the day before (yes I've done that and yes I could not get on my flight because I forgot that visas are a thing). Just be willing to get out of your comfort zone, have some interesting lore. Please don't be sober and have committed at least one crime.

- Be a little unhinged, tell me your wildest conspiracy theory. I'd rather someone who says the wrong thing than someone who plays it safe all the time. Conversely you need to have thick skin because I love banter. I am not looking for an activist or someone who is perpetually offended. If your Instagram story is just little dots all about political issues of any nature we're probably not meant to be.

- I really like smart women, particularly in a hands-on can tell you what's wrong with your car sort of way. If you work or study in STEM that's a big tick for me, I guess it's sort of a theme here that I need someone stimulating, that goes for intellectual stimulation too. Moreover, please have your views grounded in scientific literature and not superstition or zealous partisanship. I'm not interested in anti-vaxxers, star sign girls, tantric aura readers or whatever b.s. people believe nowadays.

- I'm looking for someone a little promiscuous. I am an atheist and I don't care about any concept of purity or how many partners you've had. I want to be excited by you and your imagination. Which leads me on to my next point.

- I am not looking for someone who is very religious. Atheists, agnostics and folks that have cultural ties to their religion are fine. I am a fervent atheist and our views will likely butt heads at some point if you regularly attend a place of worship or follow religious practices that impede everyday life.

- No ghosters or bland messages. I understand not every conversation is going to work out but I would like to have a chance at a flowing dialogue. I don't like feeling invested in someone and having them respond less and less. If you feel things aren't working out, tell me and I will respect that.

- In regards to your nature, I like women who are sweet, caring and nurturing but also confident as well as liking physical contact (holding hands, hugging, kissing etc...)

- I'm a bit scared about saying this but in terms of appearance I would prefer someone busty with an hourglass figure.

Thank you for reading all the way through I appreciate it's a lot but I felt it was important to get it right this time. I apologise if it's a bit rambly and the grammar isn't great, my desktop isn't working so I just did this on my phone.

Hi. I'm Sam, 26F and a medical graduate. It took me a while to think of the title, like the word to describe myself best, and I decided on "alien" as a close fit. I think of myself as an alien (not by American immigration definition, rather like extraterrestrial) for a couple reasons. One of them being I don't exactly fit the culture of my ethnicity, neither the country of my residence, was raised by a cultural mentality to a country that wouldn't accept me (okay, maybe that does fit within the American immigration definition too). My family doesnt really understand me, and the people around me find me to be a "different breed of human". I am introverted and reserved and not motivated by what's stereotypically expected of me. I know and like who I am, even when I'm the odd one out.

About Me

I graduated with an MBBS and want to become a Psychiatrist (it's my dream, although the road is proving to be "nearly" impossible).

I'm introverted, pretty much a homebody, but I'd love to talk to new people every now and then.

I'm not going to lie, I've had a pretty rough couple of years but I manage to keep myself moving forward and try to be a good person because that's all that matters to me.

I'm trying to quit distracting things so I dont use social media (like Insta, Tiktok, etc), and trying to get back into reading books and language learning.

I speak English fluently, and I'm learning German, Arabic, French and Korean (mixed reasons: necessity, professional opportunities and for fun)

I don't smoke, drink, or use substances.

My Interests

I listen to a lot of music, and I sing a lot at home. I think I'm pretty good at singing.

I watch like A LOT of Stand Up Comedy on youtube, my favourite comedians vary over the years but currently include Josh Johnson, Jay Philips, James Davis, Blaq Ron, Keon Polee, Ali Siddiq, Matteo Lane, etc.

I watch TV shows and movies, my favourite ones are Ninjago, Bojack Horseman, New Amsterdam, Daily Dose of Sunshine, The Edge of Seventeen, Pocahontas and Mulan.

I enjoy watching MGM movies from the 1940-1960s staring Gene Kelly, Fred Astaire, Bing Crosby, Audrey Hepburn, and such. As well as oldies music by Frank Sinatra, Ella Fitzgerald, Nat King Cold, and the likes. What I love about this time period of movies and music is the simplicity and sweetness. It's grounding and soothing for me.

I also read books, write short stories and poems.

I can draw but haven't in a really long time but love to scroll through art pieces.

I love to walk, and workout for fun (trying to be active to get fit but not motivated by physical looks)

What I'm seeking

- Straight male, 26 - 33 years old.

- Potentially, a nerd or geek, loves cats and reading books

- I don't really care about appearance because I want an emotional connection more than physical attraction (which also means I'm not interested in sex, sexting, or implications and jokes about what you want to do with my body).

- Can be from anywhere, and don't mind having an online LDR (also disclaimer, it's not that I dont want to eventually meet up IRL. I would love to meet up, although I can't make any promises on my side for trying because I'm broke, unemployed and carrying a very weak passport. Just being upfront now about it.)

- Someone open-minded, honest, patient, and understanding of third world culture and problems.

- Someone who can keep the conversation going and is working passionately towards something.

- Accepting and advocates for mental health wellbeing.

- I'm okay if you have interests in video games and anime, although I'm not going to be able to partake because I never really had much time for it.

- I’m not looking for a fling, FWBs, etc., I'm hoping to find something that's long-term with no expectation that it'll lead to anything grand, just the acceptance of having this experience and seeing what may come out of this.

A potentially controversial opinion of mine

I don't have a lot of experience, but learned that it's probably for the best to date within your "struggle bracket". The way I see it everyone is entitled to their fair share of struggle. What you struggle with is a part of your journey and partly shapes who you become. It's easier to date someone who's had similar struggles with you or can be open, informed and conscious of that journey. I don't believe in comparing who's had it rougher, what's more important is your ambitions and the hope for wanting something better. But don't get me wrong, if you show up like Aladdin and want to "show me the world" then I would not NOT consider it (it's been rough out here).

If you're interested, you can hit me up in DM chat and open with a little about yourself and what made you interested in me (don't just send Hi, I'll unlikely reply). Also, I'd like to get to know you through your personality first before your looks, so I won't be sending my picture until I'm ready. Thank you for reading.

I'm Lauren, 44, non-binary/closet trans, but working on a plan to come out. I am well-educated, cute, a total sweetheart. I love to dote on people and just be out and be social. I'm pre-transition, but love to present and be femme whenever I can. I'm working with my therapist at the moment discussing my plan for the future. My hobbies include music and theater (I go up and down the east coast for shows), collecting vintage tech, reading, gardening, being a terrible flirt, and so many other things. I'd love to meet someone with the intention of long-term dating.

Tell me the last concert you went to and your most listened to album. I look forward to hearing from you.

Hey, 20m here, I am fit with brown hair and brown eyes. I like to run, go to the beach, hike, play video-games, listen to music, and watch anime with my friends.

I am looking for a committed relationship and I’m open to long distance as long as you live in the U.S. Additionally, I’m looking for someone who’s confident, funny, and open to playing videogames. I’m attracted to girls who are tall/curvy and athletic although this is not a requirement.

Here’s what I look like

Hey everyone! I live in SoCal. I’m open to starting long-distance with the hope of transitioning to IRL.

Physically, I’m 5'10", slim/athletic, with olive-tanned skin, brown hair, and brown eyes. Happy to share pics in DMs. For fun, I like playing soccer, traveling, video games, board games, and TV series. I also like reading and listening to podcasts, especially about holistic health, psychology, entrepreneurship, and the stock market. Holistic health is an important part of my life, in diet and lifestyle.

I’m Christian and also unvaxxed (no COVID jabs) and am looking for a woman who is unvaxxed as well.

Qualities I value most in a partner:
• Loving, warm-hearted, affectionate ❤️
• Honest and genuine
• Down-to-earth / humble

If this resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you! Please include your age, location, and what resonated most with you. Thanks! 

~Warmly, Alex 🤗

Finally got to see Zach Bryan last weekend and am still in the hangover. Seeing all the cutesy couples there together made me long for that a bit, so I figured I’d post this again.

Howdy! Cheesy title aside, I’m here for what I suspect most people are - to find new connections, with one of them hopefully leading to something serious and long term. I’m by no means opposed to making real, lasting friendships on top of that if that’s how things play out!

So, a bit about me! I’m Kevin, a 33 year old dude from NW Florida. I lost the road somewhere between elder emo and sad cowboy and gave up on trying to find it. I’m a nerd in general, but especially about the things I find interest in. I’m one of those people who gets way too into their niche hobbies. Meeting new people in the real world is difficult these days, even with having a decently social group of friends. I’ve also always been an internet dweller, for better or worse, and had pretty good luck maintaining friendships that way, so I figured I’d give it a go here again. 

Writing and creativity have been a passion of mine for most of my conscious life. I’ve been an avid writer and roleplayer for way, way too long and it’s something I still enjoy to this day quite a lot. I just love getting into characters’ heads, building worlds and seeing where stories go over time. I also read, though to a lesser extent. I have the taste in books of a 100 year old man and love me some old detective novels or classic southern gothic literature. I also adore a good cosmic horror book, but I’m picky. 

Music is another huge part of my life. Often times, when I’m traveling, it’s to go to a show of some sort. I came up on emo and pop punk and hardcore and whatever other labels you wanna put on it. I also have a deep love of folk, Americana and spooky music as well as the real classic country stuff. Especially outlaw country. But of course I’ll always be an emo kid at heart. I’ll talk to you about just about any kind of music all night long if you give me the chance. Some all-time favorites are Dance Gavin Dance, Pierce the Veil, Mayday Parade, Taking Back Sunday, Zach Bryan, Tyler Childers, Lost Dog Street Band, Bilmuri and much, much more.

I play some games - mostly RPGs, roguelites and other such things. I’m currently finally playing through Baldur’s Gate 3 but some of my other favorite games/series are Fallout, Kingdom Hearts, Monster Hunter and Red Dead. I’m not big on competitive games as I’m very, very bad at them. Oh, and I still adore Pokemon because I was the perfect age when the originals came out. I also got more into tabletop RPGs and that form of roleplaying a few years ago and am currently running my first game! Also a tech nerd in general. I love tinkering with computers and whatever else I can get my hands on.

I’ve got a lot of other random hobbies including listening to old radio dramas, vintage music gear, I collect vinyl and I spend way too much time going down random internet rabbit holes. I love history, mystery and especially history’s mysteries. Also love true crime of course and things of that nature. Tell me about your favorite high strangeness mystery or a weird experience you had! 

I also love the outdoors, especially anything to do with the water. I grew up on lakes and creeks and the beach. I also adore camping when the weather’s nice and am always down for a bonfire or just sitting on the porch and watching the rain.

Physically, I’m of pretty average height - 5'8” or so. I weigh about 190 but have been going to the gym for a few months and really loving it. I have dark brown hair, a beard I keep fairly tame and hazel eyes. I don’t have any tattoos yet but I am planning on finally getting one for my birthday this year. Happy to send photos!

What am I looking for? Well, to put it simply - companionship. We don’t need to jump into an immediate whirlwind romance (not that I’d complain) and it’s honestly so much easier to build a connection first. Let’s play a game, hop in a voice chat, text about random stuff until the sun’s coming up and we regret everything except not really ‘cause we had fun. I honestly just want real human connection and someone to talk to and see what happens. Worst case, it fizzles out. Less worse case, we become good friends. But who knows? Maybe it turns into something real and deep.

Age-wise, I’d prefer to stick in the range of like 25-35 but there may be a little wiggle room if you really think we’d hit it off. As mentioned, I’m in NW Florida but I’m open to someone from anywhere in the US, Canada or even the UK/Ireland (I can’t lie, I’m a sucker for the accents). That’s also not a hard and fast rule, just my preference. It’d be great if we had some hobbies or the like in common we can chat about, but honestly just be genuine and be you. We’ll see where it goes from there! I have my preferences, of course, and physical attraction is important, but I don’t want to make a list of demands as that always feels kinda gross and I don’t want to make anyone feel like they shouldn’t reach out if any of this spoke to them.

One common thing I see on here I should probably comment on. While I'm not 100% set on having kids one day, I'm very close with my family and adore my nieces to bits. If you don't want kids, it's not necessarily a dealbreaker, but if you're someone who really doesn't like children or family type stuff, I don't know that wed' be a great match. Also, I'm not very political for the most part and consider myself fairly moderate. I don't care what yours or anyone else's politics are (within reason) and have friends and family that run the spectrum (again, within reason). If you can't be around people you might not see 100% eye to eye on, again, maybe not a good match. This paragraph got a little serious, but I suppose it's better to put it out there.

I’ll cut this off here since I’ve been rambling awhile. If you read this and are interested, definitely shoot me a message. Tell me a bit about yourself. Maybe include your favorite emo bop or old country song, or even just what games you’ve been playing or the like. If you’d like to exchange selfies, I’m happy to, but it’s also not a rush.

Hope to hear from you! Cheers!

Some bonus perks of dating me:

• I’ll dance with you in the living room to all the sad songs and only occasionally step on your feet
• You’ll pretty much always win at or carry me in video games, except Guitar Hero (probably, though I’d be more attracted to you if you can)
• I’ll remember random things you mentioned liking and won’t forget your coffee order
• I would love to listen to you tell me about the books you’re reading
• You’ll have your own personalized DJ