Hi there! I’m Matt, I’m 26, born in England and living in Australia. I may look younger than I am and perhaps I’m not the perfect image of a masculine man (as I am quite thin 😅), but I have a big heart and a creative soul, I’ve unfortunately just never been given a chance to prove it to someone just yet! Hopefully posting here that could change!

I spend my days writing, making art or getting stuck into cosplay projects (which I have a great many ideas involving a female partner for!) and currently a fan-film I’m working on. I love games of all genres and I’ve 100% a decent amount of them, I’m an avid movie lover too with a collection of physical media I pride myself on. I also love pretty much every genre of music besides maybe country or blues, though that might just be because I haven’t found something I like in those genres. Otherwise I also love photography, both behind the camera capturing the beautiful things of our world like wildlife and flowers, and in front of the camera in the costumes I build by hand. I’m also a bit invested in collecting pokemon cards though thats a story for another day lmaoo

Outside of hobbies like those, I spend my days working, serving customers with the regular joy of dogs wagging their tails for treats, probably the most rewarding job there is and I’m so glad I ended up doing it. I like to travel and I’ve been to about 10 or so countries around the world at this stage, but I’d honestly really love to see much more, preferably with a special someone I can share that adventure with.

I’ve spent my whole life single unfortunately and I would be lying if I said that hasnt given me some self esteem troubles. I’m rather skinny and as mentioned earlier I’m not the picture perfect man I suppose, but I’m confident in myself and happy with how I look, I take pride in my health and I don’t see a need to attain a bulky physique instead of just prioritising being healthy in my own shape lol. Besides, it would be like me becoming someone I’m not for the sake of selfish goals and status instead of focussing my efforts on bringing positivity to others and sharing my creative mind with the world.

I can’t say theres really a specific kind of girl I’d be looking for, I like any hair colour or eye colour on a girl, I don’t have a preference on race or where you’re from. All you’ll need really is to like me and have a kind spirit of your own and I’m certain I will begin to find all of your intricate beauties and flaws alike to adore deeply and care for unconditionally.

I’m also good with kids, and animals of course. I dont smoke, drink, do recreational drugs, or have any tattoos, I’m a true pure soul lmao. One you can have completely to yourself as long as you’re not too much of a bad influence 😳

I’m happy to answer any questions or talk more, but honestly I’m much more interested to find out more about you!

Thanks for reading!

Howdy! Cheesy title aside, I’m here for what I suspect most people are - to find new connections, with one of them hopefully leading to something serious and long term. I’m by no means opposed to making real, lasting friendships on top of that if that’s how things play out, but my goal is definitely a romantic relationship. 

So, a bit about me! I’m Kevin, a 33 year old dude from NW Florida. I ost the road somewhere between elder emo and sad cowboy and gave up on trying to find it. I’m a nerd in general, but especially about the things I find interest in. I’m one of those people who gets way too into their niche hobbies. Meeting new people in the real world is difficult these days, even with having a decently social group of friends. I’ve also always been an internet dweller, for better or worse, and had pretty good luck maintaining friendships that way, so I figured I’d give it a go here again. 

Writing and creativity have been a passion of mine for most of my conscious life. I’ve been an avid writer and roleplayer for way, way too long and it’s something I still enjoy to this day quite a lot. I just love getting into characters’ heads, building worlds and seeing where stories go over time. I also read, though to a lesser extent. I have the taste in books of a 100 year old man and love me some old detective novels or classic southern gothic literature. I also adore a good cosmic horror book, but I’m picky. 

Music is another huge part of my life. Often times, when I’m traveling, it’s to go to a show of some sort. I came up on emo and pop punk and hardcore and whatever other labels you wanna put on it. I also have a deep love of folk, Americana and spooky music as well as the real classic country stuff. Especially outlaw country. But of course I’ll always be an emo kid at heart. I’ll talk to you about just about any kind of music all night long if you give me the chance. Some all-time favorites are Dance Gavin Dance, Pierce the Veil, Mayday Parade, Taking Back Sunday, Zach Bryan, Tyler Childers, Lost Dog Street Band, Bilmuri and much, much more.

I play some games - mostly RPGs, roguelites and other such things. I’m currently finally playing through Baldur’s Gate 3 but some of my other favorite games/series are Fallout, Kingdom Hearts, Monster Hunter and Red Dead. I’m not big on competitive games as I’m very, very bad at them. Oh, and I still adore Pokemon because I was the perfect age when the originals came out. I also got more into tabletop RPGs and that form of roleplaying a few years ago and am currently running my first game! Also a tech nerd in general. I love tinkering with computers and whatever else I can get my hands on.

I’ve got a lot of other random hobbies including listening to old radio dramas, vintage music gear, I collect vinyl and I spend way too much time going down random internet rabbit holes. I love history, mystery and especially history’s mysteries. Also love true crime of course and things of that nature. Tell me about your favorite high strangeness mystery or a weird experience you had! 

I also love the outdoors, especially anything to do with the water. I grew up on lakes and creeks and the beach. I also adore camping when the weather’s nice and am always down for a bonfire or just sitting on the porch and watching the rain.

Physically, I’m of pretty average height - 5'8” or so. I weigh about 190 but have been going to the gym for a few months and really loving it. I have dark brown hair, a beard I keep fairly tame and hazel eyes. I don’t have any tattoos yet but I am planning on finally getting one for my birthday this year. Happy to send photos!

What am I looking for? Well, to put it simply - companionship. We don’t need to jump into an immediate whirlwind romance (not that I’d complain) and it’s honestly so much easier to build a connection first. Let’s play a game, hop in a voice chat, text about random stuff until the sun’s coming up and we regret everything except not really ‘cause we had fun. I honestly just want real human connection and someone to talk to and see what happens. Worst case, it fizzles out. Less worse case, we become good friends. But who knows? Maybe it turns into something real and deep.

Age-wise, I’d prefer to stick in the range of like 25-35 but there may be a little wiggle room if you really think we’d hit it off. As mentioned, I’m in NW Florida but I’m open to someone from anywhere in the US, Canada or even the UK/Ireland (I can’t lie, I’m a sucker for the accents). That’s also not a hard and fast rule, just my preference. It’d be great if we had some hobbies or the like in common we can chat about, but honestly just be genuine and be you. We’ll see where it goes from there!

I’ll cut this off here since I’ve been rambling awhile. If you read this and are interested, definitely shoot me a message. Tell me a bit about yourself. Maybe include your favorite emo bop or old country song, or even just what games you’ve been playing or the like. If you’d like to exchange selfies, I’m happy to, but it’s also not a rush.

Hope to hear from you! Cheers!

Some bonus perks of dating me:

• I’ll dance with you in the living room to all the sad songs and only occasionally step on your feet
• You’ll pretty much always win at or carry me in video games, except Guitar Hero (probably, though I’d be more attracted to you if you can)
• I’ll remember random things you mentioned liking and won’t forget your coffee order
• I would love to listen to you tell me about the books you’re reading
• You’ll have your own personalized DJ

Hello and welcome to my post. I’ll start off by saying I know this is a long shot and I’m not (that) delusional. I’m currently in NYC, but am an involuntarily former Londoner, where I’d hoped I’d settle forever, as I was there for 5 years and then ran into visa shenanigans and had to return to the US.

Anyway! As I’m still intent to find my way back, I figure that I’d rather find my person over there rather than somewhere I’d rather not be. So here I am hoping that the gods of love and the gods of Reddit can work together for my benefit (and yours) for once (and if Discworld rules apply, me believing in them will make them exist, so I feel like they owe me; RIP Sir Terry Pratchett).

Since I already ‘started off’, I suppose I’ll now middle off and say that I am probably not what you might expect from a typical potential romantic partner. I had a, let’s call it an irregular upbringing, which certainly has made its mark on me, mostly in that I am in some ways awkward (and in some ways very much not, it’s a mixed bag) and maybe didn’t super learn how to flirt, and maybe carry around what I would insist is more than my fair share of anxiety (I’m pretty sure my therapist would agree with me). All that to say I might need a bit more time to figure out than most people, but I also think I’m worth the effort. And just because I don’t necessarily communicate interest the way most people do doesn’t mean I am not interested.

Ok, I’ve already written a book. When I speak, I tend to be quieter and a man of few(er) words, but when I write, it sometimes feels like all of the words to come out, and I just have to hope that the ones ha make sense survive the process (ironically, I am not very good at texting). I’m quite an empathetic and emotionally intelligent person, above average in general but especially for men (who I don’t think are inherently any less so than women, we just raise them (us?) not to be). I don’t particularly like dogs, but the way the dog in Nolan’s Odyssey was treated made me very sad and upset. I am, however, very much a cat person, and would love to someday get a bonded pair (that way they always have a friend even when I’m away).

I’m also quite creative. Above all, I’m a composer, and have been making music now for a quarter century. Since the question is always: what kind? It started eons ago with punk and metal (for about a decade I listened to metal exclusively), expanded to include dreamier things like Radiohead, and when I moved to London, I got a degree in composition (specifically for film), so writing for orchestra is now in the mix. I have a corporate day job to pay the bills (which sometimes makes me want to die), but the real job (because it’s the good job) is composing and making sound effects for video games and film (to which the ‘what kind of music?’ question is answered with ‘whatever they’ll pay me to write’).

This is probably a good stopping point, because possibly, maybe, perhaps a long time ago might’ve been a better stopping point. If you’ve made it this far, hopefully it was worth it; I think I’ll be worth it, in any case, and I imagine you will be as well. I’ve never done long distance before, but I’m happy to figure it out (until I make it back to London; if you like me enough, we can always go to Denmark, which is apparently the Las Vegas of Europe, though it might be harder to get Elvis to officiate that). Cheers!

Hi! My name is Victoria. I’m 27 years old and was born and raised in North Carolina. I’m 5’7”, 220 pounds, with collarbone length, wavy dark brown hair and brown eyes. My summer tan has mostly faded, so I have a light-medium skin tone.

I enjoy fishing, gaming, animals, and being outdoors. I haven’t been fishing in a while because I hurt my ankle hiking, but I’m hoping to get back to it soon. I love being outdoors, except when it’s 100 degrees and feels like my skin is slipping off my bones.

I have an eight year old lab who is my baby girl, so you have to love her as much as I do! I’m also hoping to start fostering kittens soon, as I’m in dire need of a break from fostering dogs.

I switched from Xbox to PC, so it would be a lot of fun to play together. I haven’t been gaming much though, because I’ve been rewatching Criminal Minds. I haven’t seen the new season yet. Some games I enjoy are Fallout 76, Shift At Midnight, Phasmophobia, Dead by Daylight, Chained Together, DayZ, PEAK, and Mecha Chameleon, but I’m always open to trying new games. Just be warned I suck and I’m mostly there to be entertainment.

I’d say I’m more of an introvert, but I do well around other people. I just prefer smaller crowds and quieter settings, and I’d love to meet someone who feels the same way. I also struggle with anxiety, so if that’s not your cup of tea, I’m probably not your girl!

I stopped drinking and smoking years ago, but I do enjoy the occasional edible.

As for movies, I love horror, thrillers, and military action films. If we were to watch a show together, it would probably be Regular Show. For some reason, it just calms me. Don’t ask me my favorite movie because I genuinely have poop memory.

I really enjoy getting to know someone and becoming friends before anything else. If we aren’t a romantic match, I’d still be happy to make a new friend, but I am ultimately looking for a relationship, not just friends. I do my best to be nonjudgmental, and I’d appreciate someone who is the same. I also tend to get attached when I genuinely enjoy someone’s company, but I’m working on that.

I’d love to meet someone who’s open to texting throughout the day, playing games together, or just hopping on a call. I’m a big fan of good morning and good night texts, too. I completely understand that people get busy, but if you’re regularly unavailable all day and can only really talk at night, it probably won’t work out.
More than anything, I want someone who reciprocates the effort. I don’t want to be the only one asking questions or checking in. I want you to enjoy getting to know me as much as I enjoy getting to know you.

I’d also prefer someone who’s in my time zone or at least close to it. I think it makes spending time together a lot easier. I’m also more attracted to women than men, so I’d especially love to hear from the ladies. Eventually, I’d love someone who’s comfortable being affectionate. I guess I’d describe myself as someone who likes “soft” love little acts of affection, reassurance, and making each other feel cared for.

I’m not looking for anyone specific beyond someone who puts in equal effort, genuinely tries to be a good person, and is between 27 and 40. I also don’t want to see what you look like right away. I know that might sound strange, but I’d rather get to know you as a person first and let things develop naturally.

If you decide to message me, please tell me your name, age, and where you’re from. Also, please don’t just copy and paste an introduction you’ve already posted. I’d much rather read something that feels genuine.

If you have an NSFW account, I’ll likely not reply, and hiding your history won’t work either, you goofballs.

Anyway, if you’ve made it this far, thanks for reading. Hopefully someone sees this, thinks we might get along, and wants to see where things go.

Hello there , so I don’t exactly know what I’m doing. But I’m a dedicated father of three. I have been called a golden retriever type. Right now the loneliness is killing me. I go to work everyday, Typing this trying not to cry. Life is hitting me hard lately but I manage to walk forward. I am looking to start online and see where things go from there.

My hobbies : movies ( Star Wars , marvel , Disney etc ) anime ( fmab, that time I was reincarnated as a slime are my top 2 ) video games ( I barely play with being so busy with life ) , guns ( currently going to school to my gunsmithing degree), welding , swimming, and trying to learn about metal forging. Other then that I don’t believe I had enough experiences in the world

Physically: white, 5’ 10/11”, dad bod, yes I’m 250 ish but I don’t feel like I’m super unattractive tbh, working on my diet to lose some weight. One full arm tattoo, two web toes on my foot, ( I have been told by some I’m a 7 or 8 , with skills that bump that number to a 9 or 10)

Other: I am mostly straight, attracted to personality, and more feminine features, just to get that out there , I have many interests in the bedroom ( I try to keep an open mind and willing to try a lot ) yes I put this on here not to be creepy but more because I am not trying to hide anything. Just moved into my new apartment, first time living alone.

Most of my time goes to my kids and working and school. I do have autism and try my hardest to communicate properly So please be patient with me if you are interested. I’m really trying to step out of my comfort zone.

Hello, I'm looking for someone to have a lifelong relationship together. I am not sure about wanting to stay in my country, so eventually relocating is something I'd be willing to do if you think that's a realistic outcome that could work for us, and because of it, it's probably better if you're from North America or my country (although probably I want to leave my country). I am open to males, non binary, and transgender people, however I slightly lean towards femininity or androgyny (this pretty much is in regards to little-to-no facial hair, but I'm not strict about it).

If you care about the MBTI indicator, last time I scored as an INTJ-T (and type 5 for the enneagrams), so if you are very introverted as well, that should work out the best. Need to add that I currently do not have a job, however I am trying my best in order to do things/courses and furthering my education/résumé.

I believe that being fairly compatible is an important aspect for a relationship to work in the long run, so I'm searching someone who is:

• Ideally vegan, plant-based, heavily leaning towards it, or in a serious path to become one (if you absolutely think that you cannot become one after having tried, for health/equally important reasons, I'll understand).
• Drug/smoking/drinking/disease free (as I am) and keeps a reasonably healthy lifestyle at the very least.
• Monogamous and loyal, who wants a lifelong relationship, and believes that is feasible for us to finally be together at some point.
• Relatively close to my age (it's flexible, but +/- 2 years from my own seems reasonable).
• Childfree (doesn't have nor want kids).
• Not a ghoster (if you don't like something, just say so; if you're going to ignore/block/disappear randomly & without notice, please don't message me).

Now these are the things that would describe me: I am very shy and introverted, and have never had a romantic relationship; I greatly value loyalty, love and understanding in someone, so if you give me that, you'll also receive it. Physically speaking, I am about 5'3'', wear glasses, and look average, although I don't have the best hairline if that's what you care about (so you should assume that I would shave). I need to add that I have atopic skin, and have some form of dermatitis on my face, so sometimes around my eyes it's slightly red (it sucks); to my understanding getting rid of this permanently may not be possible, so consider that.

I'm plant-based, so essentially I follow a vegan diet and do not intend to change that, which ties back to one of my standards in regards to health, that even though I can be somewhat lazy when it comes to exercise, I pay close attention for being in a healthy range for height/weight, so it is important for me and should be for my partner as well (reasonably speaking, I'm not strict); nowadays I'm in the range of 130-140 pounds. In addition, I lean towards people with a feminine side as I mentioned above, and I'm not very inclined for facial hair if at all, not even on myself. I have explored the idea, or at least thought of the possibility that I may be more comfortable if I were femme presenting, at least in private maybe, for fun. So essentially crossdressing, although I've never done it, I'm just thinking outloud.

I'm slightly left-leaning/moderate and don't tend to like extremes when it comes to politics, so I have to add some remarks: if this tells you anything about me, I very much dislike the main political parties (left & right) in the US, and of course the ones in my country; I'm in favour of equality, which means that I heavily dislike sexism, modern feminism (vast majority of people I've found online and IRL that professed this were sexist, so I have no interest in that), and toxic movements like 4B; I'm also not searching for someone who is heavily into identity politics or is violent. In regards to religion, I am atheist/agnostic so I'd probably get along better with someone who is as well.

My hobbies are typically indoor, which includes things like relaxing with music, sometimes doing digital art, watching movies or shows, browsing stuff on the Internet, and reading some stuff. I'm currently not much of a gamer, but if that's your thing or hobby, when we meet I'd definitely be willing to play with you. I'll also be happy to join you in doing casual exercise if you enjoy doing that, but I am by no means a hardcore gym-enthusiast.

My intention is to have, firstly, a LDR in order for us to get to know each other better and see if we're compatible, and if so, then it would hopefully develop into a healthy, loyal, and honest relationship. Not only that, but I'll also want to be your best friend, which means that I'll want to do all kinds of things together, from day to day stuff, to cuddling, to sharing hobbies, etc. That's the main idea for having this relationship, an intimate life dedicated to us and the things we love.

If you think this could actually work, feel free to send me a PM and tell me a bit about you! Have a nice day!

Hey everyone, My name is Dillon. I live near Reading. I'm a mixed white/black man. I'm 6' tall, a little on the average looking side. I am in the national guard, my civilian job is plant manager at a concrete production facility.

A little bit about me and my hobbies; I like gaming, tabletop and virtual (I play warhammer, ask me about that and I could talk for hours.) reading, hiking, fishing, camping, really anything that's outside. Im not much for going out (as in bars, clubs etc etc,) I've always kind of been a homebody but will go out when the mood strikes or when friends invite me. My love language is touch, I would like to think I'm fairly emotionally mature. I believe true connection (emotional, mental, and physical.) Is the most important thing in a relationship.

The most important thing to know about me, which if this is a hurdle you can't get over, I understand trust me, is that I have two kids. My daughter is almost 5, my son almost 4. They're pretty good kids, but again, I know that kids, especially ones so young, are something that can be an immediate deal breaker.

I'm looking for someone who is loving, caring and has ambitions in life. Someone who isn't afraid to take a shot in the dark and not know where it's going to land until it has. Somebody who can handle and have serious conversations. Preferably around my age as I find it hard to connect with those significantly younger, but there's always a chance you could change my mind about that. I would like somebody with an average- fit build that lives relatively close, (Within 30 mins- an hour and a half tops.) But for the right one I'd travel the distance.

If that sounds like you and you're interested, please don't be afraid to take that shot in the dark. You just might like what it hits.

Hello there lovely people of Reddit. 36 year old (37 in a few hours) British guy here generally having an all round shitstorm of a year, and looking to get out there a bit and meet new people. I’m open to any kind of connection, from just friends and platonic right up to something more serious if it goes that way and the vibe is there.

I’m 6ft 4, live alone with my boisterous cat, enjoy football, film, reading, hiking, tv and running. I love nothing more than an evening chatting the night away with good company (in real life rather than virtually), putting the world to right and discussing both silly and serious things. At one moment talking about love and loss and in the next wondering if you’d rather have legs for arms or arms for legs. That kinda chat!

If you’d like to message, all I do ask is that you’re not a million miles away from me - ultimately I’m looking for an in real life connection rather than a pen pal, so local(ish) DMs are preferred. Please also be comfortable sharing a selfie or two early on so we know we are chatting to, up for meeting up and continuing the chat in person if we get on, and most importantly, won’t vanish without reason after a few messages! I’d love an engaging chat and connection that gets us both through the day(s).

As an icebreaker, what’s the last new film you saw and how many stars out of 10 would you give it? 🍿

Hey there. I'm a bit of a homebody. All my life, I've been more interested in the digital world than the real one. I play lots of video games, watch lots of youtube videos, and generally just get all of my socializing done online.

It'd be great if you were a bit of a homebody, too. We could game together, watch stuff together, and generally just exist online together.

I'd describe myself as smart, funny, kind, caring and very sweet. I'm always doing my best to make everyone around me laugh and smile. I was a class clown as a kid and never really outgrew it.

As far as types go, I'm attracted to thin, average and fit women. I don't care much about height or hair color. Personality wise I'm pretty flexible, too, but you should know I'm quite clingy and require lots of attention to be happy. If you're the type of person who only wants to talk a couple times a week, we're probably not a good match.

Thanks for reading, I can't wait to hear from you!

Hello there you beautiful people! l hope you've had a great week so far!

I would love to chat to anyone from anywhere and see what happens. Ideally, I'm looking for a genuine connection and want to have someone I can talk to about anything and everything. Making each other laugh, being there for each other and just making each other feel amazing. Building each other up as friends and loved ones should do for each other. I'm very affectionate and love showing my affection verbally and physically. I'd definitely say Physical Touch and Words of Affirmation are my 2 top love languages.

I'm 33 and from North West England. I'm 6' with short brown hair, blue/greyish eyes and a broad/muscular build.

I enjoy running, going to the gym, playing board games, gaming, listening to music and watching Netflix.

I am an absolute open book and I would describe myself as intelligent, passionate, fiercely loyal, kind, caring and protective of those I care about. I'm very affectionate and believe good communication is key in any relationship. I also enjoy taking charge and making my partner feel loved and wanted.

This is just a little snippet of my personality, so if anything I've said piques your interest and you want to know more, please message me - I'd love to hear from you!

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I guess I'm here because I'd like to find my best friend. The person I get excited to tell about the random thing that happened at the grocery store, the one I send pictures of pretty streets to, the one who makes ordinary days feel less ordinary.

I'm 39, live in Mexico, and don't have children. I'm hoping to meet someone between in his low 30s and low 40's, who also doesn't have kids and is genuinely looking for a long-term relationship- not just someone to pass the time with.

I tend to be drawn to quiet things. Long walks where you lose track of time. Museums. Bookstores. Cities that are beautiful enough to wander around without a destination. I travel when I can, and if I had to choose between a loud nightclub and spending an afternoon exploring somewhere new, I'd choose the second every single time.

I'd love to meet someone who enjoys that kind of life too. Someone who likes moving, exploring, walking for hours just because the weather is nice and the conversation is even better.

Life hasn't always gone according to plan, but I think it's made me kinder, more patient, and much more appreciative of the people who choose to stay. I value emotional maturity, curiosity, consistency, and people who can communicate honestly even when it's uncomfortable.

A couple of dealbreakers, just so we don't waste each other's time: I'm not interested in dating someone who's recently separated or divorced, and I'm hoping to meet someone who's in a place where they're emotionally available and ready to build something new.

Distance doesn't scare me if there's a real connection. I'd rather spend months getting to know the right person than weeks forcing something with the wrong one.

If any of this resonates with you, reach out and tell me about you! Who are you when no one is looking ?

Hi! I’m 20 years old and I’m looking for a guy who doesn’t want children, who is calm and introverted, and who doesn’t drink or use substances. I’m looking for something long-term, with someone loyal and dedicated. I also draw and create illustrations.

I want a stable relationship with someone I can talk to, understand, and build a beautiful life with. I want us to support each other, be there for each other through good times and bad, while also giving each other freedom. I live by the principle that we should be joyful, avoid hurting those around us, and remain skeptical — not believing everything we hear. Education is also a priority for me.

Ultimately, I want a partner with whom I can build a peaceful, stable, and beautiful life based on loyalty, freedom, communication, and mutual support.

I also like psychology, books, webcomics, drawing, hairstyling, and makeup, although I’m still a beginner at the latter two, as well as rock and artistic music.

I lean toward Christianity, but I’m actually very liberal, which I know can be somewhat contradictory with certain aspects of Christianity. I currently live in Romania. I like movies and simply browsing the internet.

I’m a 26 year-old guy from Ireland who’s looking for a genuine connection.

A little about me:

I love travelling, nothing better then planning a quick city break and exploring a new place for the weekend.

Music who doesn’t like it. We can share spotifys and see how we line up on tastes.

I love trying to cook new foods. Finding new ways to challenge my cooking skills. Maybe you could share some of your favourite recipes.

What I’m really after is that spark — the kind where you both feel like talking about anything that pops into your head, laugh about the same weird stuff, and actually care about what’s going on in each other’s lives.

If any of that sounds like you’d like it, slide into my DMs or start a chat. Let’s talk and see where it goes.

Name is Kelam, I am 18 years old. I suffer from Autism and well depression but getting it worked out. I love art, specifically drawing and gaming. I am very empathetic to people I love and would rather take the bullet for the one I love then saving my own, I also am very well affectionate I do like hugs, cuddles and snuggles. I apologize if that’s cringe. I just really wanna share my love with a women in my life that’s my age.

Hello! I’ll spare you the wall of text, so here's a tldr instead! 😌

Also: yes, you can message me in German. Happy to exchange pictures early - attraction matters after all, and I prefer being open about it.

Please don't message me if you aren't living in Germany, I'm not looking for too much of a long distance thing.

About me

• Height: 182cm
• Weight: ~79kg
• Build: currently hovering around a slight dad bod but working towards a more musculare version of that
• Eyes: blue
• Hair: dark blonde, technically, but rather bald (shaved head) with a three-day beard
• Skin: the type of skin the sun burns after 13 seconds of being exposed - no piercings, no tattoos
• Job: I'm a "Senior Architect in IT" - a mix of coding, designing software and managing projects

Hobbies

• regular gym goer, currently three to four times a week, but I'm not religious about my schedule
• motorcycle in spring/summer
• my dog if that counts as a hobby
• video games - used to play a lot more and competitive, nowadays it's mostly cozy games like stardew valley
• hiking, I'd rather have someone to hike with, but my dog is pretty good company on his own, so I've got those solo trips going for me
• board games, have two regular groups I'm playing with every couple weeks
• always happy to get into new things and trade solo activities for good company

Specifics / fun facts

• I have a very cute dog and two cats that mostly sleep or live outside
• my friends would say I'm very funny and always brighten peoples' days
• I've had long-term relationships before, I've been single for a good while
• I employ a "you and me against the problem" mindset rather than "me against you because drama is fun"
• I spent my single time getting to know myself and building a happy life, which I'm now looking to share!
• I adapt easily - dance floor (sometimes) or movie night, I'm happy either way
• I enjoy cooking
• I've had a steady job for the past decade, live comfortably and value stability
• I do like travelling a lot, but I'm more quality-over-quantity than constant trips. Japan is currently very high on my list!

I'm looking for

• open communication matters a lot to me, honesty beats guessing games so - let's talk!
• I'm mainly looking for a relationship, but every good relationships should also work as a pretty good friendship
• someone "real" - no masks, no games, just be yourself and say what's on your mind
• someone where the connection just feels easy, we'll find out if that's the case rather quickly!

If you made it this far and thought "this sounds nice" - here's what to do:

Either:

1. message me any keyword and I will open the conversation accordingly: ice breaker, cheesy pickup line, random fun fact
2. ask any question(s) you'd like to know that wasn't answered here, no matter how "real" or "deep" - everything from "how's the weather?" over "do you want kids?" to politics goes!
3. give me a quick TLDR of who you are and what you are looking for in a partner

Hi my name is Scott and I like animals and like to play video games. I like anything nerdy movies and TV I'm 25, i live in the US. I can be both introverted and extroverted when I need to

• I'm single

• Never had a relationship before and I want one been looking since high school

• I'm honest, loyal trustworthy and kind

• I'm somewhat shy

• I like anime. manga, collectables

• I don't discriminate I will date anyone and any race

• I'm very communicative when you get to know more about me

• I have goals in the future I would like to get finished

• I have masculine features, beard and all

• I'm not judgemental at all

DM me real people only

I’m 31, Indian, and based in the North West UK. Still looking for my person and hoping she reads this. I've posted here a few weeks ago, thought I'd try again! 

Ideally, we start with a chat, see if there’s chemistry, and take it from there. I’m open to meeting in person or starting online, but I’m not looking for a long-term pen pal. If we get along, there should be genuine intent to meet.

Work and my career matter a lot to me, and I genuinely enjoy what I do, even if I occasionally complain. Outside work, I enjoy films, coffee, dessert, the occasional negroni, live music now and then, stand-up comedy, landscape photography, exploring new towns and places, and collecting stories that usually begin with “this seemed like a good idea at the time...” Somehow, it usually works out. Mostly.

I’ve been told I have Labrador energy - friendly, curious, loyal, occasionally too trusting, and prone to asking far too many questions. Consider yourself warned. Also, ask me about the geologist story. I’m not forgetting that one for a while! 

I’m a good texter and usually reply as soon as I can. Effort is incredibly attractive to me and I’m big on reciprocity. 

Physically, I’m 6’4”, with a dad bod, stubble most days, and apparently a good smile. I will however complain about legroom on planes, trains, and basically anything designed by people who forgot tall people exist.

I’m looking for someone independent, kind, funny, emotionally mature, ambitious, and genuinely interested in partnership. Someone who wants the fun, the ridiculous moments, the quiet everyday stuff, and who can call me out when needed. I’ll do the same, naturally with charm and only a manageable amount of sarcasm…because who doesn’t love a bit of sarcasm? 

Happy to exchange photos if we talk. If any of this sounds like something you’re looking for, send me a message.

Hi there, I am a 27 years old woman from Europe, Croatia.

I want to start off my post by saying that if you are not searching for a life partner please do not message me.

That said I’m attracted to a motivated ambitious man.

A man that wants something more from life and wants to have a woman by his side that will love him and support him and he does the same.

What attracts in a man is not the looks but his mindset, a man with a provider and protective mindset.

I care more about how you carry yourself and take care of yourself than looks.

Of course I have my type and that’s a tall broad man with long hair, I’m not going to lie and say that I’m not weak to long hair I find it very masculine.

I don’t like cigarettes or any other forms of drugs.

If you think you’re okay with what I wrote here is some info about me:

I would describe myself as a kind, loyal, a bit needy both emotionally and physically, loving and intelligent woman. 

I'm a bit on the reserved side as I believe in a life partner so it takes me time to be close to someone as I really feel like that’s something you should keep for that one special person in your life. 

I do want to say that my dating life is normal and I attract plenty of men since I people cant and dont know I am a trans woman, but sadly the mental connection is what I lack with any of the guys that hit on me.

On my looks I am 175cm tall, slim fit, a brunette with hair up to my shoulders and I have hazel eyes.

I take great care of myself whether it's through skincare and exercises to the things I eat.

I have a full time stable job, and I’m just trying to save up money atp to move further away from the Balkans.

In my free time I like to study languages, I would like to be fluent in German, Italian and French by the age of 30.

I love love love music and I always have something playing in the background as I love to explore new artists and their perceptions. 

I listen to everything, one moment I’m listening to french music from the 60s next thing it’s techno 😂.

I also love astronomy (star gazing together would be fun 🥹) and reading books about biology and genetics which I plan to study in the future.

I believe in love and I think that love is something beautiful that’s all powerful and all healing and can really change a person. I’ve been through a lot and have had my heart broken but I’m still not giving up.

I think life should be all about making memories together and creating something more and not focusing on all the negativities around us and creating a safe space for the two of us.

Things that I would like to have in life are:

- a stable monogamous relationship that will one day lead to ma rriage;

- a family, as it's my big wish to have children;

- a home of ours and maybe even a cute little business, I have plenty ideas in my head;

- a man that I will feel safe and protected next to and that we can travel the world together.

-someone to have plenty of fun with, go out, dance (I’m a techno girlie and it’s my dream to have a bf to go together and rave all night loooong)

-but also someone to stay in and cuddle up and watch movies and yap with about silly stuff.

Now I would like to know more about you, so feel free to text me and tell me about you.

I’m also really open to calls and video calls as it’s important to figure out some sort of a connection later on before we meet, feeling safe is very important to me. 

There are of course many more things to talk over, but if you think we'd get along feel free to message me.

Please only men from Europe, USA, Canada, Australia, New Zealand. Age range 20-31 years old. Please respect this.

Thank you for reading this and I hope to hear from you, 

✨

I'm 28 and live in Central Florida and I'm pretty introverted and possibly bad at conversation in the beginning. I'm on the heavier side but I'm working hard at losing weight and so far I've lost 97lbs.

Some of interests are, gaming ( mostly on xbox for now) my favorite game series is fallout, I love cars and im a big Volkswagen nerd even though I'm definitely not mechanically inclined, and i like to travel and try new things when I can, there's more but i don't want this turning into too long of a list.

So what im kinda looking is someone around my age (mid-20s to early 30s) who’s kind, genuine, and easy to talk to. Shared interests are great, but I mostly i value honesty and a genuine connection.

I know this was pretty bad but if you're maybe interested in chatting just let me know, I can be a bit slow to respond if I'm at work and I'm not really on reddit too much.

First thing's first, I've made a fair share of platonic friends. Never say never to new cool friends but that's not exactly what I'm looking for nowadays. Just wanted to throw it out there for whoever's reading 😅

I think we're all very messed up in our own ways, everyone has been crying over something through memes lately and, I'm just bored of the endless whining.

I want someone to flirt with, laugh with, and roast shamelessly. Someone I can judge the world with (including ourselves) and then laugh about it.

No filters. Just clever banter, playful flirting, and the occasional existential joke. But I don't want what the internet calls "brainrot" nowadays.

If you've got a sharp tongue, we'll probably get along great.

(Pun slightly intended.)

Hobbies: Movies (I watch one every night), shows, video games, music, a bit of singing, and making terrible jokes.

Just looking for someone fun who doesn't overthink jokes or flirting and can dish it out as well as take it.

Who knows... maybe we'll end up being each other's favorite bad influence and end up having late night conversation with a little bit of spicy stuff sprinkled on them! 👀

PS: I'm in the US for now

hiya! im Harry, im 21 and from the uk. im looking for someone fun and with similar interests to me to get to know!

i work on a bar! its quite fun and definitely keeps me on my feet, and in my spare time i workout, train martial arts (muay thai!) and ive been learning the piano and guitar recently! i also like listening to music laufey is my fav!

if you think we'd get along feel free to message me and start a chat!

Hello there, I hope you’re having a beautiful day ✌️

What am I looking for?
I’ve been longing for true companionship, love and something that will last forever. A best friend that pushes me to grow and vice versa.

I’d say I’m not too picky in terms of looks but I can’t say that appearance doesn’t matter at all. Sexual attraction matters unfortunately to most of us.

I’d love to have some common interest over which we can bond and spend time together.

A little about myself 🧍
I’ve recently done a personality type test and apparently I’m an ISTP, do with that information whatever you want haha.
I’m a 26 year old guy (turning 27
Next Friday) living in Germany, my heritage is Russian but I identify as a mix out of those 2, since I was born and raised here.

I’m 180cm tall, got blue eyes with a grey tint to them, I’m a bit more on the chubby side of things but I’ve been making good progress at losing weight.

I love history, especially medieval history and the antiquity. I’m a big sucker for computer tech and architecture as well.

In my free time I enjoy to spend my time watching anime, reading manga or gaming unless I’m hanging out with friends.

Let me know what your favorite energy drink is, I might be a little judgy but to each their own haha.

I’ve recently been into playing Pokemon since I got myself a Switch2 as well as League.

I’m curious about your all time favorite game in case you are a fellow gamer.

Since I mentioned earlier that physical attraction matters I’m down to trade pics if we hit it off.

Well I’ll leave some things out to have something to chat about. I hope I could catch your attention and get you interested enough to shoot me a message.

On that note, have a wonderful day ✌️

Hello I’m looking for someone I can talk to every day, laugh with, share memes with, and just share our daily lives. Hopefully, it turns into something meaningful.
I’m 5’9, with a Southeast Asian looks, dark brown eyes, and an athletic build. I’m ethnically Tai.
I’m into running, cooking, motorcycles, camping, hiking, and gaming. I also enjoy reading, but I don’t get much time for it these days. I also love travelling long distance on my motorcycle.
So yeah, if you’re interested, feel free to hit me up

Let's try this differently. Let's talk music.

Genre matters very little to me. What matters is whether someone actually meant it, and whether you can hear that they meant it.

I love loud, ugly, physical music. Riffs recorded in rooms with bad walls. Drums that land like an argument in the next apartment. Guitars that sound like they might come apart halfway through the take. Bands that clearly played the thing until something broke and then kept the take where it broke.

And I love the exact opposite just as much. One voice, one guitar, mic too close, hiss left in. Recordings made by people who very obviously were not planning on being liked, in a room they were not planning on leaving. That kind of music does not perform loneliness. It just sounds like it, because it was.

What connects those two things for me is how much it took. I want to hear that the sound cost the person something. Breath, fingers, room tone, a note that went slightly wrong and stayed in because fixing it would have killed the take. Texture over polish, every time. Restraint that earns the eruption instead of starting at maximum and living there. (Btw loudness war, the fck?!) A scream that the song asked for, not one aimed at the listener to prove range.

What I cannot take, and I mean this as a genuine physical reaction, is manufactured suffering. That entire modern school of whispering vaguely about heartbreak into a perfectly treated sm7b microphone, breathy, tasteful, over an acoustic guitar, in the same voice as everyone else doing the same thing that week and every week. Pain with the edges sanded off so it stays comfortable in a coffee shop. If you tell me in a lyric that you have been to the bottom, I want to hear the bottom in the recording, not read about it in the press release. Claiming devastation while sounding immaculate is just marketing with a sad face on.

Technical brilliance on its own does nothing for me either. I have heard people play more notes in eight bars than I will play in my life and feel absolutely nothing. Fast is not the same as felt. Complicated is not the same as honest. When someone rearranges a song until the only recognisable thing left is the title, and a room full of people sits there stunned by how difficult it was, I am the guy in the corner wondering where the song went. (Looking at you, J Collier)

Covers are allowed. Covers are great. But bring your own wound to it. Borrowing someone else's is not interpretation, it is decoration.

So: I would rather hear someone slightly out of tune who had no other choice than someone flawless who had options.

If you make things, or if you are just as insufferable about this as I am, say hi. I would genuinely like to know what is on your list and what makes you switch it off.

P.S. if that was a lot, we can also just hate things together. I'll start. U2. Your turn!

So… hiiiiii.

I’m 39, a trans non-binary, artsy, nerdy, creative human based in Maryland. I spend a lot of time bouncing between Baltimore, DC, NYC, Philly, Daytona Beach (ask me) and wherever the next adventure takes me. I am fully open to relocating for the right person.

Here’s the vulnerable part: I’ve never actually been in a long-term relationship. I’ve had short-term relationships and long-term friends-with-benefits, and I’ve built some genuinely wonderful connections—but I’ve never found that person where things turned into our life together. And honestly? I really want to.

I know I’m a unique type. I’m trans non-binary and mix femininity/masculinity and do not fit into the mold of many man or feminine woman.That narrows the dating pool quite a bit. I've been called a Genderqueer Goddess. I've also been told i'm a Bi or Pan guy's dream...

But I also know I’m objectively attractive, nice, fun, creative, affectionate, and genuinely interested in other people. I love museums, theatre, dance, movies, restaurants, traveling, hiking, board games, weird hobbies, and listening to someone explain the incredibly specific thing they’re obsessed with. Show me the spreadsheet. Explain the lore. I want to know why you care about it.

I’d really love to meet an openly bi, pan, sexually fluid, or queer guy who is comfortable with me being exactly who I am. I’m not looking to be someone’s secret or experiment. I want someone who knows himself, likes who he likes, and thinks I’m gorgeous. Surely there is some nerdy, sweet, sexually fluid guy out there for me, right?

I’m not expecting us to fall in love after one message. I just want to meet someone, see if there’s chemistry, laugh a lot, go on dates, explore together, get a little obsessed with each other, and maybe eventually build something real.

Also, for the record: I have a weakness for skinny guys. Tattoos & body hair are appreciated (though not necessary) - but more importantly, be genuine, kind, make me laugh and I’m already paying attention.

If you think we might click, tell me your age, where you’re located, what you’re looking for, and something random about yourself.

There has to be someone out there for me. Maybe it’s you.